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normajeane
23rd June 2009, 19:15
Every now and then in life there is a full stop.
I mean for a 35yr old female with a life partner and two childs, suffering from the big 'c', spending the last year having 50 chemotherapies, radiotherapy, several operations, becoming paralysed with the tumour invading the spine, trying to survive to be with your children, then STOP!
THAT'S IT!. Adios amigo. NO MORE!:angry2:
FULL STOP!:crybaby:
Well that was what greeted someone today.
I had to deal with this at work today.
Sure you pessimists, she is no longer suffering. BUT what a thing to happen to a family.
Just venting:crazy::argh:
The red wine helps me, I'm having a couple for the brave wee girl:bye:
NDORFN
23rd June 2009, 19:19
That's pretty heavy. Chin up.
normajeane
23rd June 2009, 19:24
Yep all in a days work.
No worries man. By next time I go to work things will be different (AND NOT JUST FOR ME).
One day at a time.....
YellowDog
23rd June 2009, 19:26
My wife works in the medical profession too.
Best not to dwell on some of the unfortunate shit that happens to people.
Take it easy on the red wine.
normajeane
23rd June 2009, 19:47
Take it easy on the red wine.
Not so bad when I share it with me mate.
steve_t
23rd June 2009, 19:51
That's really shit eh? 35?!! Any religious folk want to try and convince me of a higher benevolent being? Lost a brilliant mate to cancer a few years ago... made me reconsider my thoughts on Karma also...
normajeane
23rd June 2009, 20:03
That's really shit eh? 35?!! Any religious folk want to try and convince me of a higher benevolent being? Lost a brilliant mate to cancer a few years ago... made me reconsider my thoughts on Karma also...
Sounds hard when your mate has waited so long in the 'wings' and finally you have the perfect family when things go awry. Even though she smoked, the environment she worked in - Cadbury cocoa room (without mask) - didn't help. Always coughing up brown stuff after work.
So young, so much to live for.
Why not one of us old cronies or some shithead!!
Every now and then in life there is a full stop.
I mean for a 35yr old female with a life partner and two childs, suffering from the big 'c', spending the last year having 50 chemotherapies, radiotherapy, several operations, becoming paralysed with the tumour invading the spine, trying to survive to be with your children, then STOP!
THAT'S IT!. Adios amigo. NO MORE!:angry2:
FULL STOP!:crybaby:
Well that was what greeted someone today.
I had to deal with this at work today.
Sure you pessimists, she is no longer suffering. BUT what a thing to happen to a family.
Just venting:crazy::argh:
The red wine helps me, I'm having a couple for the brave wee girl:bye:
Wish I had seen this earlier! I would have had a few more than I did to support you. Sucks eh? She should have had more time. Fucks nose :blip: why this shit happens in life. Hug the one you are with, make sure you get one back!
Kia Kaha!
peasea
23rd June 2009, 20:24
That's pretty heavy. Chin up.
Quite right, 'bottoms up' might help more though. I think I'd be having more than a quiet one.
Quite right, 'bottoms up' might help more though.
OH, now there is a thought :blip:
About the best sleeping tablet there is, or so I am told :o
normajeane
23rd June 2009, 20:36
Quite right, 'bottoms up' might help more though. I think I'd be having more than a quiet one.
Well we will sea peasea! It is always a nice thought though! I will see how the udder haf tinks...... Going down...
oldrider
23rd June 2009, 20:39
Vent away CB vent away, let it all hang out, life can be bloody tough for some, bloody tough!
Sorry, one can only sympathise and offer emotional support and hope time eases the pain for all concerned! :yes: John.
normajeane
23rd June 2009, 20:40
Vent away CB vent away, let it all hang out, life can be bloody tough for some, bloody tough!
Sorry, one can only sympathise and offer emotional support and hope time eases the pain for all concerned! :yes: John.
Tanks friend. Sniff, you are a brick!
ynot slow
23rd June 2009, 21:58
Happens most days eh.A young guy in Wellington is having chemo started Monday,wants to grow up and enjoy life,his story was amazing in the Dom.Determined to try all cures and kick the shit out of the cancer,was a little worried about effects,but reading between the lines he figured 6 months is a short time in life.
I'm a stubborn bugger at times,but not sure how I would feel if told this is all we can do for you.
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