HELP! Flat mate missing

[Big Dan]

My flat mate is missing and hasn't been seen by me since 9:30pm Thursday 12th November. I'm very worried for his safety. His name is Perry F McCarney he is 48 and about 5 feet 7 . He has gone missing from our home in Fairlands ave in Waterview.

If you could spread the word of this to anyone and keep mentioning the name to anyone that you know

I am very concerned for him

Thank you everyone

Dan

[sparkles]

have you called the cops?

[jaymzw]

How long does someone need to be missing before the police will be interested?
Sounds serious? Obviously you have tried mobile #'s etc?

[Big Dan]

have you called the cops?

Yes i have and i did this last night

Had the cops here last night and tonight for an hour each night


How long does someone need to be missing before the police will be interested?
Sounds serious? Obviously you have tried mobile #'s etc?

normally i think 48hours (could be wrong)

It is rather Serious

he has left cell home and cash cards also

[ready4whatever]

Any idea where he went to? or just came home and he was gone with no trace?

[Big Dan]

Any idea where he went to? or just came home and he was gone with no trace?

Parts on the case i can't say but i'm spectulating that he could be in some park somewhere (needle in a hay stack thing)

I went to bed at 9:30pm last thursday and that is the last i saw of him

[marty]

is this him ?

http://www.helium.com/users/292378/show_articles

[Big Dan]

is this him ?

http://www.helium.com/users/292378/show_articles

Yes it is him

Do you know him personally?

[paddy]

My flat mate is missing and hasn't been seen by me since 9:30pm Thursday 12th November. I'm very worried for his safety. His name is Perry F McCarney he is 48 and about 5 feet 7 . He has gone missing from our home in Fairlands ave in Waterview. Dan

It sounds like you have done everything you can in getting the police involved. Is this out of character for him?

Let me know if there is anything that I can do. I don't know what - but even if you just need to chat. I was the relatively new rider talking with Mr Goff at Colemans (just so you can put a face to the name).

Patrick

[Big Dan]

Well the police found him alive in Heron park nearby and he's in a mental clinic now



But what shocks me and angers me is after speaking to the mental clinic they said he'll be home by the weekend. Now this is his third attempt at doing this. I have no faith in the mental health system if all they do is basically patch and dispatch. I was amazed he was home after 3 days of his second attempt.

Who agrees with me that the mental health system needs a shake up if this is what happens

your thoughts please

[scumdog]

Well the police found him alive in Heron park nearby and he's in a mental clinic now



But what shocks me and angers me is after speaking to the mental clinic they said he'll be home by the weekend. Now this is his third attempt at doing this. I have no faith in the mental health system if all they do is basically patch and dispatch. I was amazed he was home after 3 days of his second attempt.

Who agrees with me that the mental health system needs a shake up if this is what happens

your thoughts please

Pfft!

Often when we take a patient to EPS and drop them off?

They just about beat us back to the Riviera of the South.

Mad to sane in .05 of a second.

[Patrick]

Pfft!

Often when we take a patient to EPS and drop them off?

They just about beat us back to the Riviera of the South.

Mad to sane in .05 of a second.

Or the other one... Bear in mind, "he" and "she" are referred to here jointly......

"He's not mad, he is bad..."

Which interpreted, means,

"We have no beds availalbe, so he is your problem..."

[paddy]

Who agrees with me that the mental health system needs a shake up if this is what happens

your thoughts please

Hey Dan,

I've just responded to you via PM (actually two because apparently there is a length limit). Hopefully it gives you a little more information. I was reluctant to post here as it doesn't seem fair to Perry to engage in that sort of discussion on an open forum. Having said that, you are welcome to re-post, forward, or share with others what I wrote if you want to. I'll leave that up to you (but consider yourself to have my permission as per the site rules).

Cheers,
P.

[JimO]

sleep with 1 eye open , wouldnt be the first time someone was axed to death by a mentally unstable flatmate

[Jizah]

sleep with 1 eye open , wouldnt be the first time someone was axed to death by a mentally unstable flatmate

Hahaha that's a terrible thing to say.

[paddy]

sleep with 1 eye open , wouldnt be the first time someone was axed to death by a mentally unstable flatmate

When was that?

[Ronin]

Well the police found him alive in Heron park nearby and he's in a mental clinic now



But what shocks me and angers me is after speaking to the mental clinic they said he'll be home by the weekend. Now this is his third attempt at doing this. I have no faith in the mental health system if all they do is basically patch and dispatch. I was amazed he was home after 3 days of his second attempt.

Who agrees with me that the mental health system needs a shake up if this is what happens

your thoughts please

Mate all I can say is that I hope one day Perry understands the help you are giving him. It took literally decades for my Uncle to end up in a place where he is happy, safe, well balanced, respected and cared for. If it were not for the efforts of My late Grandmother (maysherestinpeace) then he I suspect would just another sad statistic. Shortly before his Mum died, my uncle took the chance to quietly thank the members of his family that had fought for sooo long to get him the help he so desperately needed.

Ask for help mate, I know in the past your flatmate has been the subject of mockery and derision on at least one forum that he was on.
Im sure there are some KBer's that can point you in the right direction.

Just don't try to do it all on your own.

[Big Dan]

Hahaha that's a terrible thing to say.

+1

I've already lost alot of sleep over this and now you tell me to sleep with one eye open oh deary me although sleep deprivation is my middle name lol anyway off to bed yawn yawn






must remember to take eye patch off and lock up all doors and windows











ahhh save me lol good night all and thanks

[JimO]

When was that?

about 10 years ago in the nth island somewhere probably auckland

[jrandom]

Why on earth would you choose to live with a nutjob?

Goodness knows most 'sane' flatmates are bad enough.

[paddy]

about 10 years ago in the nth island somewhere probably auckland

"Probably" Auckland. Why of course..... Lol.

[paddy]

Why on earth would you choose to live with a nutjob?

One thing I've come to realise in life is that we are all varying degrees of "nutty".


Goodness knows most 'sane' flatmates are bad enough.

One thing I've come to realise in life is that we are all varying degrees of "nutty".

[Big Dan]

Why on earth would you choose to live with a nutjob?

Goodness knows most 'sane' flatmates are bad enough.

Ive been living in the house for 5 years and he moved in 2 years ago


One thing I've come to realise in life is that we are all varying degrees of "nutty".



One thing I've come to realise in life is that we are all varying degrees of "nutty".

I agree, Over the 1/4 of the population are nutty for living in auckland

[Patrick]

about 10 years ago in the nth island somewhere probably auckland

West Auckland.

[paddy]

West Auckland.

Ahhh...there you go. West. Now I'm not surprised. :-)

[scumdog]

Ahhh...there you go. West. Now I'm not surprised. :-)

They do move around.

Be afraid - very afraid...

[kwaka_crasher]

A nutfuck who is also a blogger. What are the odds... :rolleyes:

[Forest]

When was that?

It happened about ten years ago in Auckland.

Malcom Beggs was axed to death by his flatmate Lachlan Jones.

There should be more info on the web. Suggest you search through the online archives at www.nzherald.co.nz

[LBD]

One thing I've come to realise in life is that we are all varying degrees of "nutty".

One thing I've come to realise in life is that we are all varying degrees of "nutty".

I don't mind being utterly nutty....just glad I am not stupid.
And being a nutter helps me survive in this mad mad MAD world

A sign of the times....once we used LSD to make the world look weird, and now we use Prozac to make the world look real...

And on the subject...have sympathy on the poor Tasmanian's...they can never decide on anything....always in two minds about every thing...

[Tepara]

OK, this is a long shot. This is obviously an old thread, but Perry is my brother. I live in Wales and he was in touch with me on and off by email. The last one I received was in January, though I have sent him several since which he hasn't responded to. His birthday was 3rd March and the card I sent was returned - Not At This Address. His phone is disconnected.

I'm desperately worried about his safety. If there is anyone on this forum who still knows him or is in contact with him, please ask him to contact me - dee.mc@live.co.uk

[oldrider]

Where are bogan husaberg and TDL when some one really needs their intelligent logical wisdom? :whistle: