Build a bridge and… Harden the fuck up!

[DMCD]

What's your recipe for getting over shit?

Mine is Guns N' Roses on repeat for the next day and a half and a bottle or 2 of Chimay Blue. :beer:

[kiwifruit]

Is it really "hardening the fuck up" when one must use a drug to escape reality?
:dodge:

[Stirts]

What's your recipe for getting over shit?

Mine is Guns N' Roses on repeat for the next day and a half and a bottle or 2 of Chimay Blue. :beer:

This is farken great (http://wickedsensations.co.uk/shop/images/N4908-Anal_Joy_Gel.jpg) for getting over shit.

Seriously though......
The beach, preferably one that has an enormous swell!! :love:

[DMCD]

Is it really "hardening the fuck up" when one must use a drug to escape reality?
:dodge:

2 bottles of beer over 1.5 days? Not really using a drug to "escape reality" that wouldn't even get you tipsy, the Chimay is used because I like it, kinda like ice-cream or cake.

[yungatart]

That Chimay is beautiful beer...provided you are using the correct Chimay glass of course!

[Subike]

I just drink a cup of concrete

[Maha]

Im with Stirts, take off to the beach for the weekend, no computer no TV no radio turn the cell phone off have a few beers and basically recharge for another cunt week.

[Foxzee]

CHOCOLATE....lot's and lot's of the milky white stuff...yumi:banana:

[SMOKEU]

Chimay is fucking brilliant; don't make the mistake of serving it cold. Cellar temperature is ideal.

[Headbanger]

I'm always hard.

Any hardening up from my current level would result in a statue like state.

[DMCD]

That Chimay is beautiful beer...provided you are using the correct Chimay glass of course!

of course!

[Trudes]

Half a block of chocolate, half a bottle of Bourbon, some loud music... preferably either this (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LWCjLgF9uds) or this (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jz25P4IQMUw&feature=related) and a root/masti. What more could you need??:laugh:

[DMCD]

Half a block of chocolate, half a bottle of Bourbon, some loud music... preferably either this (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LWCjLgF9uds) or this (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jz25P4IQMUw&feature=related) and a root/masti. What more could you need??:laugh:

Oh nice choice of songs!

[Trudes]

Oh nice choice of songs!

Must be listened to until your ears bleed!!!! This (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RUNYUwQgSIg&feature=related) is a good version of one of my favs too!

[DMCD]

Must be listened to until your ears bleed!!!! This (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RUNYUwQgSIg&feature=related) is a good version of one of my favs too!

Thats one of the only non GnR songs on my HTFU playlist!! :2thumbsup

[NC]

Drugs and Booze

Oh and lots of rooties

[EJK]

Just imagine this whenever the hard time hits you. Will this "tough time" be remembered in 5 years and still make you go "Aaah fuck!"?
If not, what I'm trying to say is, everything you recieved (the bad the good and the ugly) will be long forgotten when time passes by.
Don't hardened the fuck up, just get over it! No one in this world (including you) will not even care about it in the future. Well unless it's a divorce, murder, or about your child of an ex-girlfriend.

:whistle:

And try to do anything you like within the legal limit. Play video games alot, drink, ride motorcycle, cook, eat, etc... Have fun! :sunny:
Go to a strip bar if you HAVE TO :msn-wink:

[bikemike]

Chimay Bleu is good, but I prefer the Forbidden Fruit or the Orval.

Anyway, whatever happened to getting the bike out to clear the cobwebs/baggage, ah yes, that was in my angry youth!

[peasea]

What's your recipe for getting over shit?

Mine is Guns N' Roses on repeat for the next day and a half and a bottle or 2 of Chimay Blue. :beer:

I just watch where I'm treading....

[peasea]

Chimay Bleu is good, but I prefer the Forbidden Fruit or the Orval.

Anyway, whatever happened to getting the bike out to clear the cobwebs/baggage, ah yes, that was in my angry youth!

Did that this arvo, 2.00pm knock, checked the PO Box, out to Upper Moutere, over through Dovedale to Tapawera, out via Belgrove, feel heaps better.


Now, where's the best place to troll on kb? I'm itching for a giggle.

Patrick!!! Where are you? Come out, come out, wherever you are!:whistle:

[neels]

I find that if I don't give a fuck in the first place then I don't need to harden the fuck up later.

Shit happens.

Ignore it.

[peasea]

I'm always hard.

Any hardening up from my current level would result in a statue like state.

A statue of............Mini Me?

[PrincessBandit]

Seriously though......
preferably one that has an enormous swell!! :love:


CHOCOLATE....lot's and lot's of the milky white stuff...yumi:banana:

OMG OMG you guys are really testing my ability to be good and behave myself and not be a dirty naughty girlie.....down! down!

(sorry David, I'm sure you could without reading that)

[retro asian]

Mine is Guns N' Roses on repeat for the next day and a half

Or you could just listen to THE ROCK on the radio... :lol:

[DMNTD]

What's your recipe for getting over shit?

Ummm,...I ride my bike :whistle:

[Laxi]

Ummm,...I ride my bike :whistle:

bling sent;)

[Big Dave]

Dunno - I never get soft.

[Wonko]

Some S.O.A.D or Ramstien on mp3 player and go for a ride and start screaming out the lyrics. You get really strange looks when stopped at trafic lights. Really strange.

[SixPackBack]

I wind up the unwary on KB..........The resulting peace of mind is zen like:innocent:

[Headbanger]

I kill kittens.

The gift of their suffering is serenity.

[MadDuck]

Ummm,...I ride my bike :whistle:

I go for a ride and wave at all the Sportsbike riders....bloody entertaining :lol:

[neels]

S.O.A.D
Oh yes.

Also very good angry driving music.

[DMNTD]

I go for a ride and wave at all the Sportsbike riders....bloody entertaining :lol:

Heh...yeah same but I'm usually passing them :buggerd:

[Fatt Max]

Have a thrash on the geetar, drink some piss with the missus, watch the wee man at play and if all else fails, the 3i step Aikido Jo Kata.....

I do like the beach bit as well though, ticks all the boxes

I wont mention good, hard, naughty sex because that's rude.....

[Molly]

I think you just need to ask yourself: 'What would Clint Eastwood do?'

Then do that. :cool:

[DMCD]

I think you just need to ask yourself: 'What would Clint Eastwood do?'

Then do that. :cool:

Best one yet!

[White trash]

I usually slap the missus a couple of times and make the kids fight 'till they bleed.

Makes me feel heaps better.

[Foxzee]

OMG OMG you guys are really testing my ability to be good and behave myself and not be a dirty naughty girlie.....down! down!

(sorry David, I'm sure you could without reading that)

Skirts and I should have just said SEX then Princess.....

Hmmm wonder what would happen if you crossed Analjoy with chocolate......:2thumbsup

[Usarka]

I open a fresh roll of duct tape and take another hamster from the cage.....

[Genie]

Oh don't get over...get revenge!!!!!

Then have a bourban to celebrate

[scissorhands]

The real trick for me is never to let the fuckers get to you, stay cool, which is way harder than it sounds.

When I'm in my good place I can usually shake it off as a product of a fucked up society, and think of the poor souls in the 3rd world enduring REAL suffering..... that perpective tends to shrink the impact of my melodramas.

[Stirts]

Hmmm wonder what would happen if you crossed Analjoy with chocolate......:2thumbsup

http://flisted.files.wordpress.com/2009/01/f-listed-sexpert-qa-chocolate-starfish-g-spot-hump-wednesdays-interracial-dating-squirting-anal-sex-bum-blowjob-etiquette.jpg

[one fast tl1ooo]

http://images-2.redbubble.net/img/art/size:large/view:main/3177627-3-harden-the-f-k-up.jpg

[Foxzee]

http://flisted.files.wordpress.com/2009/01/f-listed-sexpert-qa-chocolate-starfish-g-spot-hump-wednesdays-interracial-dating-squirting-anal-sex-bum-blowjob-etiquette.jpg

You'd have to make sure you got the angle right....LOL:lol:

[nudemetalz]

I listen to The Doors or Pink Floyd rather loudly on the stereo, then do some fast drumming on my drums followed by a ride on the Guzzi.
This is called "Nudey's Remedy"...to be sold in bottled form in the near future... :lol:

[crazyhorse]

drink..................drink................and maybe drink some more :drinknsin

[Genie]

Personally, I think the term - Harden the fuck up - is overrated and over used. Who really wants to be hard, there's far too much hardness in this world already, people need to start caring little more.

[StoneY]

Personally, I think the term - Harden the fuck up - is overrated and over used. Who really wants to be hard, there's far too much hardness in this world already, people need to start caring little more.

Are you a pom perchance?


:lol:

[Genie]

Cheeky!!

Kiwi chick - I think. Don't know - adopted.

Really, who wants to be hard.
Ok, we don't want to be hurt by the actions of others, don't be. We are all human, we all fuck it up, but harden up against the world, that's just wrong.

Getting over stuff, building the bridge.......easy. Let your anger go and your love flow. Whether the love be for yourself or towards another.

I find that bourban and loud music help.

[Genestho]

Depends on the situation....

Music (loud and lots of it!) focus on a goal, and exercise, so that's the mental and physical taken care of, Natural Endorphins, there's nothing better....Sun Surf and Sand works a treat too. Controlled adrenalin can certainly come in handy!

Also - realising that your situation isn't the worst that can happen, what ever it is, there is ALWAYS someone worse off than you.;)

[avgas]

hmmmm I find to build a bridge I actually have to go soft.
- TooL (soft stuff), Chess the musical, Ben Harper...
- Smirnoff Blue
- Swing set in the local park

however if I have to harden up:
- Offspring, Chevelle, Metallica (Whiskey in the Jar!), Breaking Benjamin...
- Coke, V, Red-Bull...
- Throw something with wheels around (including cars)
- Biggest Punching bag I can find

[Genestho]

hmmmm I find to build a bridge I actually have to go soft.
- TooL (soft stuff), Chess the musical, Ben Harper...
- Smirnoff Blue
- Swing set in the local park

however if I have to harden up:
- Offspring, Chevelle, Metallica (Whiskey in the Jar!), Breaking Benjamin...
- Coke, V, Red-Bull...
- Throw something with wheels around (including cars)
- Biggest Punching bag I can find

Oh good points, Soft/Bridge building vs HTFU! Top Post is Getting Over something I guess...

Rage against the machine, old school Metallica, White Zombie, old school Shihad = HTFU Music. Something with Bass/RAAAAAARRRR

And to be fair the boxing bag is handy as!
Now I just have to find somewhere to hang it, where it doesn't crack the ceiling plaster....

Swings make me giggle (that funny feeling in the belly), does not fit into bridge building nor HTFU moments..

OOO OOO AND, old cracked plates/cups ...And that old stuffed videoplayer/Computer/chair, good for biffing and then sledging into teeny weeny pieces, done with safety approved goggles and gloves - of course :D

[candor]

Expell those who don't deserve you from consciousness and strive for zen like compassion for idiots. My new ansaph message reflects the new policy "you have not reached dial a whipping girl, goodbye".

[davebullet]

Go for a long run, a session at the gym, or some time with my cat (he never has any troubles).

[peasea]

Getting over stuff, building the bridge.......easy. Let your anger go and your love flow. Whether the love be for yourself or towards another.

What a bunch of soppy shit.

None of that crap is gonna help you in a road rage incident or bar-room brawl. Try telling a p'd-up psychopath to feel the love when he's sleep deprived for four days and thinks you're a three-headed monster after his Matchbox toy collection.

Tree hugging (which is what you're suggesting) often doesn't fucking work!

Slap the toddlers on the bum I say! Put them on the naughty step.

My two kids did a bit of the old self defence training, which I reckon is far more useful in the real world than trying to save a whale that will never return the favour. There are some harsh realities that need to be confronted/addressed in life and a cup of HTFU is occasionally required. Sure, you don't (shouldn't) have to beat the crap out of everyone but sometimes a punch is worth a thousand words.

I've diffused a heap of punchups at parties over the years and had (for a long time) a reputation for being good at breaking things up without too much aggro through diplomacy, but once in a while some twat just had it coming and human genes simply sort it out the primitive way. (Hopefully without weapons.)

Humans will always bash each other and to have some sort of ability to deal with that is just as important as putting two and two together.

[sinfull]

CHOCOLATE....lot's and lot's of the milky white stuff...yumi:banana:
Think i came !

Cheeky!!

Kiwi chick - I think. Don't know - adopted.

Really, who wants to be hard.
Ok, we don't want to be hurt by the actions of others, don't be. We are all human, we all fuck it up, but harden up against the world, that's just wrong.

Getting over stuff, building the bridge.......easy. Let your anger go and your love flow. Whether the love be for yourself or towards another.

I find that bourban and loud music help. Fucking hippy found bourbon !!! I can help you ! I have lots !


What a bunch of soppy shit.

None of that crap is gonna help you in a road rage incident or bar-room brawl. Try telling a p'd-up psychopath to feel the love when he's sleep deprived for four days and thinks you're a three-headed monster after his Matchbox toy collection.

Tree hugging (which is what you're suggesting) often doesn't fucking work!

Slap the toddlers on the bum I say! Put them on the naughty step.

My two kids did a bit of the old self defence training, which I reckon is far more useful in the real world than trying to save a whale that will never return the favour. There are some harsh realities that need to be confronted/addressed in life and a cup of HTFU is occasionally required. Sure, you don't (shouldn't) have to beat the crap out of everyone but sometimes a punch is worth a thousand words.

I've diffused a heap of punchups at parties over the years and had (for a long time) a reputation for being good at breaking things up without too much aggro through diplomacy, but once in a while some twat just had it coming and human genes simply sort it out the primitive way. (Hopefully without weapons.)

Humans will always bash each other and to have some sort of ability to deal with that is just as important as putting two and two together. Khama will bite your arse ! I hope it will be in time for your children to learn from this ! Go swim with the dolphin ! Popo or whatever his name is, will take your board, break your nose and make you swim to shore (Paybacks in reality would be a fine thing)

[peasea]

Think i came !
Fucking hippy found bourbon !!! I can help you ! I have lots !

Khama will bite your arse ! I hope it will be in time for your children to learn from this ! Go swim with the dolphin !

It's ok, I have a hard arse.

My kids are fine; they are well adjusted and capable young women.

If recent news reports are accurate, dolphins are too aggressive to swim with. I'll just soak in the tub.

[sinfull]

well adjusted .

capable
Oxymoron springs to mind Peasea ! Would you rather your girls come and stay with me and my 30 deviant friends or swim with the dolphin !
I have no idea how sick my friends are, but the mischeivious dophin aint died on us !

[peasea]

Oxymoron springs to mind Peasea ! Would you rather your girls come and stay with me and my 30 deviant friends or swim with the dolphin !
I have no idea how sick my friends are, but the mischeivious dophin aint died on us !

Have you put that bottle down yet?:whistle:

[Genie]

What a bunch of soppy shit.

None of that crap is gonna help you in a road rage incident or bar-room brawl. Try telling a p'd-up psychopath to feel the love when he's sleep deprived for four days and thinks you're a three-headed monster after his Matchbox toy collection.

Tree hugging (which is what you're suggesting) often doesn't fucking work!

Slap the toddlers on the bum I say! Put them on the naughty step.

My two kids did a bit of the old self defence training, which I reckon is far more useful in the real world than trying to save a whale that will never return the favour. There are some harsh realities that need to be confronted/addressed in life and a cup of HTFU is occasionally required. Sure, you don't (shouldn't) have to beat the crap out of everyone but sometimes a punch is worth a thousand words.

I've diffused a heap of punchups at parties over the years and had (for a long time) a reputation for being good at breaking things up without too much aggro through diplomacy, but once in a while some twat just had it coming and human genes simply sort it out the primitive way. (Hopefully without weapons.)

Humans will always bash each other and to have some sort of ability to deal with that is just as important as putting two and two together.


You raise some very valid points there. Sometimes the punch/slap/bash seems to be all that's left to sort some fuckers out. I've been known to do that on many occassions. But, I'm over that, it makes the world more voilent and I'm sick and tired of reading of another person killed just because someone couldn't get over something. Re: recent events in Nelson.

I'm no tree hugger, far from it, though I am becoming rather soppy of late. I believe I'm a better person for it too!

I won't be harden up, I'll soften up thank you very much.

[sinfull]

Have you put that bottle down yet?:whistle: Awww will you please not whistle so loud !

[peasea]

Re: recent events in Nelson.

Agreed. Violence is not always the best option, but it IS human nature unfortunately. Nothing wrong with tender moments, I quite like a few here and there.

Tender steaks are great too.

[DarkLord]

3 steps

1. Trace it - find out the full extent of what is bothering you and where it is rooted. Often external circumstances are not the problem but merely reflect what is happening inside our own hearts.

2. Face it - stare the unknown in the face, shine a light into the darkness, be open about what is really happening, don't be afraid to share with people you trust.

3. Replace it - replace the dark with the light, replace lies with truth.

Works for me and has taken me a long way over the years.

[avgas]

I hugged a tree once........bloody hurt.
Next time I hug a pine I am wearing clothes.

[StoneY]

I hugged a tree once........bloody hurt.
Next time I hug a pine I am wearing clothes.

My brother headbutted one once, courtesay of the broken brake cable on my old XR200....still has the bark shaped scars on his forehead (no helmet hahahaha, tree still lost!)

[Brownbikerbabe]

All this talk of Chimay...oh lovely memories of hanging with my Belgium posse (mostly older folks) playing boules last june! *sigh*....lots of beer...Duval is great too! Duval makes me fall down.:eek5:

Getting over shit...chocolate and sweets! Lots!!!

[Genie]

drinking vodka and dancing!

[gatch]

I just beat my dick like it owes me money.