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Maximus
3rd May 2005, 15:23
Thankyou to evryone who pm-ed me and offered there condolences. For those of you who dont know, my sister passed away on Friday arvo (our time) Kelly was only 22 when she ended her own life, whilst on a working visa in the UK.
I have not been a member of this site for long, but was overwhelmed by the supportive emails I have received from many many people - you know who you are! I would just like to say what an awesome bunch of people you ALL are and I am glad that I joined this forum. With the tragic circumstances that surrond this site at the moment, the best thing you can all do is stick together - Mates are for life, no matter where they reside.

Once again thankyou.

bugjuice
3rd May 2005, 15:43
my god, that's terrible news. really isn't happy times at the moment.
Thoughts go out to you and your family at this time. I'd offer words of encouragement and hope, but. I just don't know. speachless again.
very very sorry for your loss.

onearmedbandit
3rd May 2005, 15:45
Shit mate, so sorry to hear that. Stay strong bro'. I don't know/can't say anything else, but I feel for you and your family.

Storm
3rd May 2005, 15:48
Sorry to hear about that mate. Hope you are all doing ok with it all

Ghost Lemur
3rd May 2005, 16:06
We're certainly here for you Maximus.

My ex's sister did the same thing a couple of months ago and being still close to her parents (sons' grandparents) it was really tragic seeing the after effects. Particular that it had on her father. Also saw the hell they put themselves and each other through for a short while after the fact over what they could or couldn't have done to prevent it.

Hope your parents are holding up ok. Burying a child is every parents worse nightmare.

Remember celerbrate life. It's all too brief and sometimes we forget where our priorities should lie, and dwell on the little things.

Biff
3rd May 2005, 16:10
This is the place to let of steam mate. You're surrounded by people that are prepared to listen yet you retain a degree of anonymity and privacy.

We're listening bud. Whenever you need us jus holler.

scumdog
3rd May 2005, 16:11
GUTTED.

So sorry to hear that news, my condolences.

Ixion
3rd May 2005, 16:12
Very sorry to hear that mate. Never good at this sort of thing so just a virtual squeeze of teh shoulder, eh

bear
3rd May 2005, 16:15
Sorry to hear that mate. All the best.

wari
3rd May 2005, 16:33
:(

SAd to hearr that ... take carre .

enigma51
3rd May 2005, 16:37
Are mate sad to hear its some sad times in the Kiwi biker comunity.

MSTRS
3rd May 2005, 17:02
Ah crap....sorry to hear that, Maximus. *feels helpless*

Joni
3rd May 2005, 17:06
Really sorry to hear about your loss...
Take care!
:)

soundbeltfarm
3rd May 2005, 17:09
crikey.
so sorry for your loss bro
condolences to you and your family and close friends.

karl

Paul in NZ
3rd May 2005, 17:15
Ah hell.... Sorry to hear that Maximus... Not good at all.. Let me know if I can do anything eh!

Condolences to the family.... Thats a damn tough one..

Cheers

justsomeguy
3rd May 2005, 17:16
:no: :no: :no:


try to stay strong


:no: :no: :no:

Sniper
3rd May 2005, 18:34
Maximus, Im sorry to hear that mate. Its not a great day when one finds out these things but I hope it makes it that tiny bit more bearable once you know how many people are here to support and listen to you in any time of need

Stu

Holy Roller
3rd May 2005, 18:46
Prayers are for you at this time. Such a loss is never easy to carry. There is plenty of strength to lean on here at KB.
Gordon

StoneChucker
3rd May 2005, 19:09
I was deeply saddened when I heard of this (yesterday on another thread), and I'm even more upset over the circumstances. I hope you and your family is doing ok. As has been said, if there's anything we can do, or if you want to talk about anything, please let us know - We are all here for you.

And that goes for everyone. I like to think that if we needed to, we could raise any topic on KB that was troubling us. I am happy to discuss anything, should it ease someone's concerns/troubles, however slightly.

The circumstances surrounding this tragic death are all too common, infact I think NZ has one of the higest rates in the world. Please speak out should you feel so inclined, really, what harm could talking to someone first really do at that point.

At the moment, there is alot of sadness on KB (and therefore life in general). Together with other troubles people have as part of everyday life the times ahead seem like they could be extra tough. We need to be strong, stick together and keep the bigger picture in mind.

In sincere sadness,
David.

crashe
3rd May 2005, 21:36
Maximus, please accept my deepest condolances to you and your family.

Always remember the good times that you all shared with your sister.

John
3rd May 2005, 21:47
Just sending my support your way - keep safe we are all in deep morning at the moment

Ms Piggy
3rd May 2005, 21:59
Hey Maximus,
I am truly sorry about the loss you and your loved ones have had.

Regards Cathy

riffer
3rd May 2005, 23:06
Not much more I can add Maximus. Kia Kaha buddy.

The Tazman
3rd May 2005, 23:17
Really sorry to hear this Maximus. I just don't know what to say. As the others have said we are here for you. I truely hope you and your family get through this time together and can have as good a life as possible. As I have said in other posts I am not the best with words so I hope that sort of makes sence.

Take care

Gary

Maximus
4th May 2005, 07:31
Thanks again everyone!
I cant believe what an awesome bunch of people you are, you have all been so supportive with everything else that happened and you don't even know me! :niceone: Makes me proud to be a kiwi biker member!

Thankyou to all those who have offered to take me for a ride arouund ch/ch, and seeing as im new here i'll take you up on those offers when I get back. For now I am headed up North to be with my family when my sister is returned home. I will still be active on this site though - thank god for technology and internet or id be more insane than usual rite now!

My thoughts are with everyone who will be attending Flyins funeral and his family and friends. My friends, please all look after yourselves and stick together - you dont know what your missing, until its gone.

Peace be with you all, and once again thanks!

sels1
4th May 2005, 08:16
My condolences Maximus
A young man (same age as Flyin) who was at school with my kids took his life here last week. It seems so hard to comprehend. But we have to accept it, be thankful for the time we/they had, and make the best of the time we have to come.