How long should I wait between girlfriends?

[Gareth123]

Broke up with my girlfriend on Thursday. Is there a rule in regards to a stand down period? Or is it like horse riding...you fall off and get straight back on?

BTW I did the dumping, was not the dumpee.

[ac3_snow]

mate thurday was a while ago sounds like you'v already been wasting valuable time

[allycatz]

Do you need a girlfriend or need sex? Dont get a girlfriend cos you cant stand your own company or it will be a recipe for disaster. Just cruise along and see what happens

[steve_t]

Depends on the reason for your break up and whether your ex is devastated by the breakup and of course whether or not you care about how she feels about it

[SpankMe]

Wait?!. You should have your next one BEFORE you dump your previous one.

[GOONR]

If you broke up with her on the Thursday you should have had the next one lined up on the Tuesday before..

[McJim]

Its' not so much about whether you should wait or not. If you meet the right girl go for it whether you dumped the last one 5 seconds ago or 5 years ago.

[FJRider]

Or is it like horse riding...you fall off and get straight back on?



But you didn't "fall off" ... you jumped ... different "rules" apply ...

do you want back on the same horse, another "particular" horse ... or ANY horse ... ???

[Gareth123]

Do you need a girlfriend or need sex? Dont get a girlfriend cos you cant stand your own company or it will be a recipe for disaster. Just cruise along and see what happens

Yeah probably only sex at this point...Don't want to pay for a hooker though


But you didn't "fall off" ... you jumped ... different "rules" apply ...

do you want back on the same horse, another "particular" horse ... or ANY horse ... ???

Um...just a smarter, better looking horse who doesn't say dumb shit all the time eg "I went cos I couldn't see round the bus and didn't know the car was coming!" (She almost got T boned at an intersection.


Depends on the reason for your break up and whether your ex is devastated by the breakup and of course whether or not you care about how she feels about it

I didn't love her anymore, had started treating her really badly. Never cheated though. And yes she was cut up pretty bad, yes I do care. Which is why I'd keep it a secret from her.

[Gareth123]

Its' not so much about whether you should wait or not. If you meet the right girl go for it whether you dumped the last one 5 seconds ago or 5 years ago.

Wise words there, just can't seem to find the rep button...

[rapid van cleef]

i cant believe this thread exists!

[allycatz]

i cant believe this thread exists!

Hey he just wants help finding a new 'ride' okay???

[Gareth123]

i cant believe this thread exists!

Why? Everything has to exist somewhere. If not here on KB then where else could it exist?

This is the perfect place for it:)

[Mikkel]

Yep, KB has most definitely proven itself to be the best place to ask for advice in regards to relationships...

Depending upon your personal preference, I am sure someone, somewhere, would have extracted a morally acceptable answer from some obscure religious pretext already.

[FJRider]

Um...just a smarter, better looking horse who doesn't say dumb shit all the time eg "I went cos I couldn't see round the bus and didn't know the car was coming!" (She almost got T boned at an intersection.)



and guys (ie: YOU) never say dumb shit ... ??

will smarter horses want to let you ride them ... ???

save your money and get a bigger better bike ...

[peasea]

Broke up with my girlfriend on Thursday. Is there a rule in regards to a stand down period?

Yes, fifteen minutes.

[FJRider]

I am sure someone, somewhere, would have extracted a morally acceptable answer from some obscure religious pretext already.

or ... extracted it from the contents of a bottle ... this is KB ... MORALS ... ???

[Gareth123]

and guys (ie: YOU) never say dumb shit ... ??

will smarter horses want to let you ride them ... ???

save your money and get a bigger better bike ...

Yes I say dumb shit occassionally, but she was cronic for it!

Yes, smarter horses will let me ride them, aslong as they think they're in control:p

Yeah but good sex is almost as much fun as riding!:p

[Brian d marge]

Birds can smell the pheromones on ya , you stop getting a shag. a few day , hours even and those pheromones will wear off ....

ya wont get a leg over for a month of Sundays

Make sure of a dead cert before getting shot of the last one

If they get all pissy , go out side to the garage, get the old push-bike from the corner of the garage , hand it to em and using the barest minimum of words , explain to the young lady how to use it and in which direction to go

Stephen

[marty]

But you didn't "fall off" ... you jumped ... different "rules" apply ...

do you want back on the same horse, another "particular" horse ... or ANY horse ... ???

maybe he's actually after a stallion rather than a mare......

[LBD]

Wait?!. You should have your next one BEFORE you dump your previous one.


If you broke up with her on the Thursday you should have had the next one lined up on the Tuesday before..

Thats the truth of it, they usually over lap and when the first finds out about the second...problems are quickly over.


Yes I say dumb shit occassionally, !:p

I usually say dumb shit, only occasionally do I put my brain in gear before releasing tongue


Birds can smell the pheromones on ya , you stop getting a shag. a few day , hours even and those pheromones will wear off ....

ya wont get a leg over for a month of Sundays

Pheromones? ....BO more like it, soap, hot shower and deodorant......And a shave....only the prudent business man shave in the morning, the lover shaves at night after a good shower....

[Trudes]

Giddy up ;)

[kiwifruit]

A few years

[CookMySock]

I didn't love her anymore, had started treating her really badly. Never cheated though. And yes she was cut up pretty bad, yes I do care. Which is why I'd keep it a secret from her.Exactly the same thing will happen again, unless you find someone who is mean to you - then you will respect them. If you really did care, you wouldn't be nasty to people who love you.

Steve

[crazyhorse]

and guys (ie: YOU) never say dumb shit ... ??

will smarter horses want to let you ride them ... ???

save your money and get a bigger better bike ...

what he said.............
The bike won't say dumb shit
The bike will let you ride whenever you want
The bike won't answer you back
ANd the bike will let you go anywhere you want

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

[shafty]

The best way to get over one Girl is to get under another one...

[Murray]

I didnt know Honda riders had girlfriends??? arrggghhhh what am I saying??

[sinfull]

Pheromones? only the prudent business man shave in the morning, the lover shaves at night after a good shower.... Damn so thats where i've gone wrong all these years, i thought the dirty filthy biker thing was what the girls like, only showering after sex, never shaving till it got itchy or the helmet strap started pluckin it out, only changing out of the regies to let the cowshit from that last stock truck dry a little !

[crazyhorse]

The best way to get over one Girl is to get under another one...

Who said she'd wanna be ontop????? :killingme

[Genie]

Wait?!. You should have your next one BEFORE you dump your previous one.

Yes for some this is how they work....or have one waiting in the wings :whistle:

It's your life do what you want and what feels right for you.:chase:

[peasea]

....or have one waiting in the wings

"Waiting in the wings...."???

Oh yes............

[Nasty]

Problem is that smarter horses are just that horses ... and if you are comparing woman to horses .. you are not smart anyway.

How bloody stupid you are to make a statement like that. you want sex pay for it ... you want a relationship .. try growing up first.

[crazyhorse]

"Waiting in the wings...."???

Oh yes............

Sounds the same as....... Have one llined up on the Tuesday, dump the current one on Thursday and ............carry on business as per usual :yes:

[peasea]

Problem is that smarter horses are just that horses ... and if you are comparing woman to horses ...

You have to admit, some are right nags.

[Goblin]

Damn so thats where i've gone wrong all these years, i thought the dirty filthy biker thing was what the girls like, only showering after sex, never shaving till it got itchy or the helmet strap started pluckin it out, only changing out of the regies to let the cowshit from that last stock truck dry a little !Sheesh! You must have them banging your door down, you great big romatic hunk o manliness!:love::blip:

[Iggy]

Problem is that smarter horses are just that horses ... and if you are comparing woman to horses .. you are not smart anyway.

How bloody stupid you are to make a statement like that. you want sex pay for it ... you want a relationship .. try growing up first.

OUCH!!!..............................what she said buddy, better chose your words carefully next time:innocent:

[Smifffy]

what he said.............
The bike won't say dumb shit
The bike will let you ride whenever you want
The bike won't answer you back
ANd the bike will let you go anywhere you want

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl:


The bike will be cheaper in the long run...

[sidecar bob]

Yeah probably only sex at this point...Don't want to pay for a hooker though









Believe me chap, a hooker is the cheapest sex you will ever get. If you marry one the price goes up by over 1000 percent.
Id say most of them would be a good shag too seeing as thats their job, so no wasting money on drinks to either not score or get a hopeless shag.

[Ronin]

So your ex is heartbroken and alone? Got her number?

[Genie]

So your ex is heartbroken and alone? Got her number?

I was waiting for this question to pop up....took a while.

of course his has her number but whether you can have it remains to be seen..

[Dave Lobster]

what he said.............
The bike won't say dumb shit
The bike will let you ride whenever you want
The bike won't answer you back
ANd the bike will let you go anywhere you want

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

Bike doesn't depreciate as fast either.

[crazyhorse]

Bike doesn't depreciate as fast either.

Oooooh! Here's a guy that won't live long.............. :nono:

[Love my Bonnie]

This is very insightful.

The more I know about men, the more I love my bike!!!

[Dave Lobster]

Oooooh! Here's a guy that won't live long.............. :nono:

Nobody reads yesterday's paper.. ;)

[Maha]

Wait?!. You should have your next one BEFORE you dump your previous one.

True, why throw in a Job if you dont have a new job to go to?

[crazyhorse]

Oooooh! Here's a guy that won't live long.............. :nono:

Inactual fact, bikes depreciate alot quicker than people do. In about 30 years, a bike is a vintage. At 30, a woman is just reaching her peak, whilst a guy had his at 18! :rofl:

[sidecar bob]

Inactual fact, bikes depreciate alot quicker than people do. In about 30 years, a bike is a vintage. At 30, a woman is just reaching her peak, whilst a guy had his at 18! :rofl:

Which would help to explain the whole cougar movement.

[Edbear]

Inactual fact, bikes depreciate alot quicker than people do. In about 30 years, a bike is a vintage. At 30, a woman is just reaching her peak, whilst a guy had his at 18! :rofl:

My wife would say that 50+ is the new 18... I can't help it if I lust after her body, it's her fault for having one that's lustful... :)

[Foxzee]

[QUOTE=Mikkel;1129621525]Yep, KB has most definitely proven itself to be the best place to ask for advice in regards to relationships...QUOTE]

LOL and that's why we get all these break up threads...........:lol:

[allycatz]

You have to admit, some are right nags.

And some men are hung like donkeys......but prefer to just make an ass of themselves....

[Gareth51]

Wait?!. You should have your next one BEFORE you dump your previous one.

I remember those days,just make sure the new one is working properly first...

[Maha]

Inactual fact, bikes depreciate alot quicker than people do. In about 30 years, a bike is a vintage. At 30, a woman is just reaching her peak, whilst a guy had his at 18! :rofl:

At 30? so they start to fall off from there?
Does a woman really have a peak? a Zenith if you will?
Surely that must be one of the great unknowens of mankind?
I remember being 18, I was just starting my assent, I am currently at Base Camp at 47.

[ynot slow]

I remember being 18, I was just starting my assent, I am currently at Base Camp at 47.

Hope you're not like the other mountaineers,i.e you clean the rubbish after the climb,remember take it into the bush you need to take it out with you.

[cmoore]

do woman still honestly believe men "peak" at 18???......mind you that would fit with their everything is our fault mentality....personally i think experiance is more valuable then pnumatics....

[Maha]

Hope you're not like the other mountaineers,i.e you clean the rubbish after the climb,remember take it into the bush you need to take it out with you.

Anything I put into a bush Tony I will generally take out when I am finished.....:confused:

[Foxzee]

Anything I put into a bush Tony I will generally take out when I am finished.....:confused:

So you leave nothing behind at all!!!!!!!.........:eek5: LOL

[Maha]

So you leave nothing behind at all!!!!!!!.........:eek5: LOL

Maybeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.....Maybe not.......:rolleyes:

[White trash]

If you're as lucky as me, you can roll off one and the other's lying next to you raring to go. That's good fun.

[Love my Bonnie]

OMG
It gets worse!!

[allycatz]

If you're as lucky as me, you can roll off one and the other's lying next to you raring to go. That's good fun.

So you really are 'between' girlfriends then? Thats just plain greedy lol!

[mynameis]

Broke up with my girlfriend on Thursday. Is there a rule in regards to a stand down period? Or is it like horse riding...you fall off and get straight back on?

BTW I did the dumping, was not the dumpee.

Mate are you a silly little mongrel?
Have you lost your mind?
Is this a question to ask?
Do you need a roundhouse kick across your face?

You should be out there humping as many girls as you can, you're single now !! :lol: :lol: :lol:

It's ok you don't have to reply you can thank me later. :clap:

[Qkkid]

:bleh:How blind do you want the man to be:eek:

[fire eyes]

Maybe just a little bit of time between to make sure you know exactly what you want in a partner. I don't personally believe in any set time frame but a little breathing space wouldn't hurt. You could try and focus on other things take your mind off the need for a girlfriend.

If it's just sex your after, safe sex bro .. watch a porno and use your hand, no one gets hurt in the process .. not unless you go a bit overboard.

Good luck!

[Gareth123]

Someone said grow up fast. 2 years I was in that relationship and most of it was really good. The last 6 months weren't. Tried working it out, just didn't happen. Besides I can't help compare women to horses, my ex and I both ride them. Didn't mean to offend.

I did go and ask the hottest chick at work out for coffee today. She was busy today. Not sure she realised I was asking her out though. I think she thought I just wanted to catch up. DAMN! Have to use some better moves next time. Maybe some Barry White over the intercom!

[Genie]

If you're as lucky as me, you can roll off one and the other's lying next to you raring to go. That's good fun.

oh and you can wake up now.......

[Pussy]

Na.... Clarence Carter!! :) Far more romantic than Barry White!!

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[Foxzee]

If you're as lucky as me, you can roll off one and the other's lying next to you raring to go. That's good fun.

So the little one rolled over then they both left right.....LOL:laugh::laugh:

[Gareth123]

So the little one rolled over then they both left right.....LOL:laugh::laugh:

Nah, he just woke up

[Foxzee]

Na.... Clarence Carter!! :) Far more romantic than Barry White!!

Well at least she'll know that he can stroke it after that!!!!! most important quality........:laugh::laugh:

[Skyryder]

Yes there is a waiting period........................it's as long as it takes to get the next one<_<


Skyryder

[Hopeful Bastard]

and guys (ie: YOU) never say dumb shit ... ??

will smarter horses want to let you ride them ... ???

save your money and get a bigger better bike ...

Im sorry.. But this has been the standout of the whole thread.. This person knows what they are talking bout!:jerry::first:

:2thumbsup

[Foxzee]

Im sorry.. But this has been the standout of the whole thread.. This person knows what they are talking bout!:jerry::first:

:2thumbsup

NOOOOOOOOOOOOO...don't listen to him...we have just got ya back on the right rails.......:bleh::bleh::bleh:

[Maha]

If it's just sex your after, safe sex bro .. watch a porno and use your hand, no one gets hurt in the process .. not unless you go a bit overboard.

Good luck!

Use your hand?
What about watermelon in summer or warm apple pie in winter?

[McJim]

Use your hand?
What about watermelon in summer or warm apple pie in winter?

A warm pice of liver folded into a pint glass is best....:eek:

[Foxzee]

Use your hand?
What about watermelon in summer or warm apple pie in winter?

What about the pip's or are they part of your foreplay....LOL:bleh::bleh:

[crazyhorse]

At 30? so they start to fall off from there?
Does a woman really have a peak? a Zenith if you will?
Surely that must be one of the great unknowens of mankind?
I remember being 18, I was just starting my assent, I am currently at Base Camp at 47.

Now that is an interesting way of putting it LOL

[crazyhorse]

My wife would say that 50+ is the new 18... I can't help it if I lust after her body, it's her fault for having one that's lustful... :)

Well, I'm not there yet, but sure hope so, that'll give me something to look forward to................

[Foxzee]

A warm pice of liver folded into a pint glass is best....:eek:

Well you coming from the deep south and all we can be thankful that you didn't say live sheep..................LOL:laugh::bleh:

[Edbear]

Well, I'm not there yet, but sure hope so, that'll give me something to look forward to................

Yeah, I'm starting to think the 50's may not be so bad after all. We ain't young and skinny anymore but we're not in too bad a shape, well, I do need to reduce my keg to something slightly smaller...:rolleyes:

But I remember a time when I thought 50 was one foot in the grave but actually now we're both in our 50's we're finding a new life together which in all honesty is kinda nice...

Now where was the topic again...?:msn-wink: Oh, that's right, well after 32 years of marriage I'm probably not the right person to ask... :laugh:

[Hitcher]

The answer to the question: "How long between girlfriends?" is clearly a function of time and place. There may be times when an interval of a few seconds may be in order, and others when a longer gap is necessary/appropriate.

[crazyhorse]

Yeah, I'm starting to think the 50's may not be so bad after all. We ain't young and skinny anymore but we're not in too bad a shape, well, I do need to reduce my keg to something slightly smaller...:rolleyes:

But I remember a time when I thought 50 was one foot in the grave but actually now we're both in our 50's we're finding a new life together which in all honesty is kinda nice...

Now where was the topic again...?:msn-wink: Oh, that's right, well after 32 years of marriage I'm probably not the right person to ask... :laugh:

Well, Congratulations - that's a milestone in its own right :niceone:

[marty]

Believe me chap, a hooker is the cheapest sex you will ever get. If you marry one the price goes up by over 1000 percent.
Id say most of them would be a good shag too seeing as thats their job, so no wasting money on drinks to either not score or get a hopeless shag.

Yup - if it flys, fucks or floats, it's cheaper in the long run to hire it :>)

[SMOKEU]

Fuck having a GF ay. Females are too much trouble. Just fuck em and leave em.

[Cr1MiNaL]

no thats what chicks do. crusing alongs' not going to get you anywhere. Know what you want - and go for it. The sky is the limit.

[howdamnhard]

Hey he just wants help finding a new 'ride' okay???

He,he so true.

[Gareth51]

I remember being 18, I was just starting my assent, I am currently at Base Camp at 47.

Your the man

[EJK]

Aysap</10char>

[huff3r]

So then how long does one wait before they make a move on someone whos just been dumped? :bleh:

Surely KB has a rule on that too? Or are they fair game the second their heart has been crushed? (especially if by a fellow KB member?) :lol:

Careful how you answer, or the masses will be after all your ex's! :jerry:

[huff3r]

So then how long does one wait before they make a move on someone whos just been dumped? :bleh:

Surely KB has a rule on that too? Or are they fair game the second their heart has been crushed? (especially if by a fellow KB member?) :lol:

Careful how you answer, or the masses will be after all your ex's! :jerry:

You should be making the moves on her BEFORE she gets dumped!

Sorry, just had to beat everyone to that answer :bleh:

[LBD]

My wife would say that 50+ is the new 18... I can't help it if I lust after her body, it's her fault for having one that's lustful... :)


She reads your posts huh?

[Edbear]

She reads your posts huh?

Not usually, she just knows she's been a sex object since we were young and nothing much has changed over the years....

[Love my Bonnie]

Lucky Girl!!!

[BoristheBiter]

Broke up with my girlfriend on Thursday. Is there a rule in regards to a stand down period? Or is it like horse riding...you fall off and get straight back on?

BTW I did the dumping, was not the dumpee.

You should of had one lined up before you dumped the other.

[MIXONE]

If you use viagra you don't have to wait very long at all...

[_Shrek_]

Inactual fact, bikes depreciate alot quicker than people do. In about 30 years, a bike is a vintage. At 30, a woman is just reaching her peak, whilst a guy had his at 18! :rofl:

Ms Shrek would disagree with this me thinks :laugh:


I can't help it if I lust after her body, it's her fault for having one that's lustful... :)

so there is others out there as well, I feel better now :rolleyes:

[Edbear]

Ms Shrek would disagree with this me thinks :laugh:



so there is others out there as well, I feel better now :rolleyes:

Yeah, she complains but the complaints don't really sound that sincere, if you know what I mean... After complimenting her once, I said, "You don't believe a word of it do you?" She said, "NO!" I said, "But you don't want me to stop do you?" She said, in that way only a woman can... "Nooo..."

[Gareth123]

Turns out the hottest chick at work is seeing someone. Guess I'll have to find the next hottest chick at work. This is where it starts to get hard. So many choices! I love working with a big team of people!

[Dave Lobster]

Turns out the hottest chick at work is seeing someone. Guess I'll have to find the next hottest chick at work. This is where it starts to get hard. So many choices! I love working with a big team of people!

Don't be such a defeatest. She might be up for being made airtight. If you don't ask, you'll never find out. ;)

[Dave Lobster]

Fucking PEBCAK again.

[Gareth123]

Don't be such a defeatest. She might be up for being made airtight. If you don't ask, you'll never find out. ;)

I'm ever the optimist. She's currently "sort of seeing someone at the moment."

Sorry should've added this bit in.

[Gareth123]

fucking pebcak again.

pebcak? Wtf?

[McJim]

Well you coming from the deep south and all we can be thankful that you didn't say live sheep..................LOL:laugh::bleh:

Do I look Welsh?

[McJim]

Turns out the hottest chick at work is seeing someone. Guess I'll have to find the next hottest chick at work. This is where it starts to get hard. So many choices! I love working with a big team of people!

Look outside of work. Never shit on your own doorstep. If it all goes pear shaped you will still have to work with her and put up with all the future "he's shit in bed", "he has a samll dick AND a small wallet" comments. I dated a girl I worked with. I got married and we're still together 10 years later (o'course that's coz I'm very good in bed and have a massive knob!:rofl:)

[Foxzee]

Do I look Welsh?

Maybe just a toad in a hole?....lol

[Maha]

Or Toad The Wet Sprocket.

[GOONR]

Look outside of work. Never shit on your own doorstep. If it all goes pear shaped you will still have to work with her and put up with all the future "he's shit in bed", "he has a samll dick AND a small wallet" comments. I dated a girl I worked with. I got married and we're still together 10 years later (o'course that's coz I'm very good in bed and have a massive knob!:rofl:)

I take it by the omission (and the fact your a Scott), you have a small wallet? :msn-wink:

[Naki Rat]

pebcak? Wtf?

PEBCAK (http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=pebcak) Google is your friend.

[Naki Rat]

The answer to the question: "How long between girlfriends?" is clearly a function of time and place. There may be times when an interval of a few seconds may be in order, and others when a longer gap is necessary/appropriate.

And it depends whether the past GF is known by next girlfriend. Tupping her best friend can get complicated :confused:

[Gareth123]

PEBCAK - Problem exists between chair and keyboard.

I'm flattered you think I only have one problem? Awwww shucks!:hug:

Kinda describes this whole forum doesn't it?

And I have started looking further a field than work, a girl I know wants to lick strawberry jam off me!

[Foxzee]

a girl I know wants to lick strawberry jam off me!

FFS! strawberry jam....she will spend more time getting the seeds outta her teeth than licking!:clap:

[Gareth123]

FFS! strawberry jam....she will spend more time getting the seeds outta her teeth than licking!:clap:

Depends what strawberry dam you use. I'm sure I can find a seedless variety.

[YellowDog]

Broke up with my girlfriend on Thursday. Is there a rule in regards to a stand down period? Or is it like horse riding...you fall off and get straight back on?

BTW I did the dumping, was not the dumpee.

How long does it take you to have a shower?

[Foxzee]

Depends what strawberry dam you use. I'm sure I can find a seedless variety.

Go with the chocolate topping...the one that goes hard in seconds...

It might beat you to it.................LOL:woohoo:

[P38]

Why wait................?

[StoneY]

Why wait................?

Indeed...time for fishing!

[NighthawkNZ]

Broke up with my girlfriend on Thursday. Is there a rule in regards to a stand down period? Or is it like horse riding...you fall off and get straight back on?

BTW I did the dumping, was not the dumpee.

you dumped her... wait 30 seconds... date new girl friend

[Genie]

Gareth 123....got a new one yet?

[Big Dan]

Ok here is a sensible relpy and told from some experience

Firstly I'd wait a while before getting on the "horse" so to speak

If you started seeing someone new and kept it secret it will just end in disaster, you may lose them both .

I know i was dumped last yeah from my fiancee and remained friends and what i thought was us trying to work things out and maybe getting back together but in hindsight i was wrong as it turned out she had been seeing someone else for a few months and kept it from me and when i found out i was devastated bigtime.

If you do indeed care about her as you say you do you'd be honest with her and if you find someone else be honest with her cause lies always come out. Honesty is the Key

Honesty = Earns respect

[Genie]

Ok here is a sensible relpy and told from some experience

Firstly I'd wait a while before getting on the "horse" so to speak

If you started seeing someone new and kept it secret it will just end in disaster, you may lose them both .

I know i was dumped last yeah from my fiancee and remained friends and what i thought was us trying to work things out and maybe getting back together but in hindsight i was wrong as it turned out she had been seeing someone else for a few months and kept it from me and when i found out i was devastated bigtime.

If you do indeed care about her as you say you do you'd be honest with her and if you find someone else be honest with her cause lies always come out. Honesty is the Key

Honesty = Earns respect


Well said. sorry you had this experience but I see you have learnt so much from it. You are right, honesty in all things is the key.

[Brian d marge]

I honestly pity the geezer who is shagging my wife then

Stephen

[Genie]

do you feel better now? Honesty sets you free.

[Gareth123]

Ok here is a sensible relpy and told from some experience

Firstly I'd wait a while before getting on the "horse" so to speak

If you started seeing someone new and kept it secret it will just end in disaster, you may lose them both .

I know i was dumped last yeah from my fiancee and remained friends and what i thought was us trying to work things out and maybe getting back together but in hindsight i was wrong as it turned out she had been seeing someone else for a few months and kept it from me and when i found out i was devastated bigtime.

If you do indeed care about her as you say you do you'd be honest with her and if you find someone else be honest with her cause lies always come out. Honesty is the Key

Honesty = Earns respect

I agree with what you say. Where do you stand on casual hook ups? Nothing serious just a fun shag?

[Stirts]

Where do you stand on casual hook ups? Nothing serious just a fun shag?

Not sure if Big Dan swings that way. But hey, you won't know unless you ask!!! :clap:

[kiwifruit]

just a fun shag?

is often bad for one's state of mind

[crazyhorse]

Ok here is a sensible relpy and told from some experience

Firstly I'd wait a while before getting on the "horse" so to speak

If you started seeing someone new and kept it secret it will just end in disaster, you may lose them both .

I know i was dumped last yeah from my fiancee and remained friends and what i thought was us trying to work things out and maybe getting back together but in hindsight i was wrong as it turned out she had been seeing someone else for a few months and kept it from me and when i found out i was devastated bigtime.

If you do indeed care about her as you say you do you'd be honest with her and if you find someone else be honest with her cause lies always come out. Honesty is the Key

Honesty = Earns respect

Honesty is always important - however, maybe she led you to believe it wasn't really completely over....... so maybe at the breakup stage, the truth should be told - its either over, or its not - so its best to find out at this point in time. If its over, then say its over and let him/her know that its time to move on.

Feelings will always be there - you both shared something in order to have had a relationship, and the last person to get over it, is generally the last one to find someone else.

Glad its worked out for you in the end Big Dan :hug: and good luck with everyone else and relationships ...... there are no rules, just follow your heart and tell it as it is

[Gareth123]

My ex is getting shitty because I "ignore" her when I'm down at riding.

I said hi, asked her how her day was. Asked how her horses were going.

Still get told I'm ignoring her. She was standing over to the side with a horse owner talking about the owners new horse. Apparently I was supposed to go over there, interrupt them, all because she wanted to have a talk with me. How am I supposed to know that?!? I can't win.

She wanted to remain friends, I said we could try but it would be hard to start with and a bit weird.

I seem to be the one jumping through hoops to try and keep the friendship going but I'm really close to throwing in the towel.

Should I keep trying or just call it quits. I don't want to stop riding there as I get my rides at a really good rate but I think I might have to disappear for a couple of months.

Any advice?

[Pussy]

Any advice?

Just be civil and friendly, without going out of your way for contact

[Gareth123]

Just be civil and friendly, without going out of your way for contact

Thats what I am doing. I think I'll just carry on doing it and let the chips fall however.

[Genie]

From my limited experience....remaining friends doesn't work. Time to move one and yes, be civil. It's over, move on and be happy. Make new friends. The world is full of interesting people.

[gatch]

Broke up with my girlfriend on Thursday. Is there a rule in regards to a stand down period? Or is it like horse riding...you fall off and get straight back on?

BTW I did the dumping, was not the dumpee.

If you find someone who you want to spend time with and are comfortable doing so, go for it, but if you are going to get a fuck friend, then for christ sakes don't base a relationship on it, it doesn't work eh. All in all you have to do what makes you happy.


I'm ever the optimist. She's currently "sort of seeing someone at the moment."

Sorry should've added this bit in.

This sounds like shes making excuses, shes not keen lol.


Thats what I am doing. I think I'll just carry on doing it and let the chips fall however.

Yeah man, if you go out of your way to stay friendly, you will either end up back together witout even realising it, alternatively the next girl you meet will think you still have feelings for her.

Bottom line is, woman are fucked, beat off/buy hookers and be happy. Spend the excess coin on drugs, bikes and video games.

[jellywrestler]

when i was younger 15minutes was enough, now its around an hour, or anough time for another two jugs

[steve_t]

My ex is getting shitty because I "ignore" her when I'm down at riding.

I said hi, asked her how her day was. Asked how her horses were going.

Still get told I'm ignoring her. She was standing over to the side with a horse owner talking about the owners new horse. Apparently I was supposed to go over there, interrupt them, all because she wanted to have a talk with me. How am I supposed to know that?!? I can't win.

She wanted to remain friends, I said we could try but it would be hard to start with and a bit weird.

I seem to be the one jumping through hoops to try and keep the friendship going but I'm really close to throwing in the towel.

Should I keep trying or just call it quits. I don't want to stop riding there as I get my rides at a really good rate but I think I might have to disappear for a couple of months.

Any advice?

So you ignored her and she had a tanty to get your attention? Hahaha... predictable much?! Ignore her more. She'll be wanting u back before u know it. Whether that's what you want is up to you.
Don't stop riding there just cos she's there! She'll think you're pathetic. Just be a man. I reckon she'll soon realise the little boy she's "sort of seeing" is a chump

[JimO]

My ex is getting shitty because I "ignore" her when I'm down at riding.

I said hi, asked her how her day was. Asked how her horses were going.

Still get told I'm ignoring her. She was standing over to the side with a horse owner talking about the owners new horse. Apparently I was supposed to go over there, interrupt them, all because she wanted to have a talk with me. How am I supposed to know that?!? I can't win.

She wanted to remain friends, I said we could try but it would be hard to start with and a bit weird.

I seem to be the one jumping through hoops to try and keep the friendship going but I'm really close to throwing in the towel.

Should I keep trying or just call it quits. I don't want to stop riding there as I get my rides at a really good rate but I think I might have to disappear for a couple of months.

Any advice?


tell her to get fucked

[GOONR]

tell her to get fucked

... by someone else?

Carry on your horse riding, keep it civil and stuff but don't bend over backwards to keep her happy. Do ya own thing.

[Gareth123]

So you ignored her and she had a tanty to get your attention? Hahaha... predictable much?! Ignore her more. She'll be wanting u back before u know it. Whether that's what you want is up to you.
Don't stop riding there just cos she's there! She'll think you're pathetic. Just be a man. I reckon she'll soon realise the little boy she's "sort of seeing" is a chump

The girl who is "sort of seeing" someone is the girl I want to go out with LOL. My ex threw the tanty. Yes she wants me back. I'm not going back.

[Mr Merde]

As long as the skin on the palm of your hands is intact.

[Herman Jelmet]

My Girlfriend reckons,, for women, and I quote " the quickest way to get over one, is to get under another" Now I'm not saying you should turn gay or anythin ,, but,, hEY-- theres a thought!
Broke up with my girlfriend on Thursday. Is there a rule in regards to a stand down period? Or is it like horse riding...you fall off and get straight back on?

BTW I did the dumping, was not the dumpee.

[Genie]

The girl who is "sort of seeing" someone is the girl I want to go out with LOL. My ex threw the tanty. Yes she wants me back. I'm not going back.

One should always move in a forward motion....going back, Nah - waste of time.
I always crash in reverse.
Hell man, you got one life, make it count (in the words of Jack - Titanic)

[Gareth123]

Yip totally agree. Thats why I'm off for drinks with a fine looking lass tonight.

[Genie]

Good fella, hav eyourself some fun ....dont' forget the CD's if the chance presents itself.

[Gareth123]

better stop by the supermarket on the way out then. Not planning anything like that tonight. Thats for tomorrow:)

[Genie]

Good on you....always be prepared.....and the spontaneous ones are always the best!!!!

what's on the menu tomorrow?

[Pixie]

How long should I wait between girlfriends?

It's up to you.
But it would be polite to wash your penis before you move on to the next one.

[kwaka_crasher]

PEBCAK - Problem exists between chair and keyboard.

PICNIC - Problem In Chair, Not In Computer... :bleh:

[Gareth123]

PICNIC - Problem In Chair, Not In Computer... :bleh:

Story of my life!