How do you deal with deaf idiots? (Self anointed leader)

[EJK]

Theres this woman who thinks she is the bomb. She thinks she created the heaven and the universe and everything in it. Shes definitely not attractive either (get my drift?). Most of all, she anoints herself as a leader and tries to do shit by herself. Oh and did I mention she doesn't listen to the people whos under her "supreme authority"?

Sounds like a few KB members but since shes not on KB, I'd like some advice to deal with this woman. Any psychologist here on KB?

Symptoms I found:

Loneliness: Seeks attention. Strongly urge her opinions to gain attention.
Arrogance: Thinks she has the nessesary experience. God-knows-what she knows.
Quarrelsomeness: Whenever her opinions are clashed with other's, she'd butcher the whole world to bring out all the evidence from her experience story which I doubt it's existence and it's depth.
Narrow Minded: To her just a gossip, article read, small reading etc is everything. e.g. Because she had a flatmate who did a business, she thinks she knows all the principals of business. Shes not even a business student nor had experience of any sort of work.



Last time she told me
"I know because I had more experience than you" and that pissed me off quite a bit. What made her the decision that she knows more than I? What kind of a judgement is that? What made her think shes lived my life and think shes better than I?

I'm not unhappy (nice word :)) because I'm jealouse. It's one of those unwise (a.k.a male-cattle-feces) hearings that drives me into malfunction.


Cheers.

[Mully]

I'd like some advice to deal with this woman.

Smack a Ho.

(I'll put up the demotivational poster later if I remember - it's on the PC at home)

[CookMySock]

So whats the problem exactly?

Steve

[Skyryder]

She is ither getting too much cock or not enough. Females who show such symptoms as you have described fail to respond to reasnonabe arguemt.

Have whip round the office and by her a dildo. She'll either 'self medicate' or be so embarresed she will resign.

PS Give to her anomyously other wise you may get a PG thrown at you. Some stud mags might be the shot too.




Skyyrder

[AllanB]

From your description I've pictured her as per the picture below. I personally don't have a issue with her ...........

[Maha]

I gots me a Phd in Psychology, my advice is to start fucking with her mind, they bloody hate that shit.

[EJK]

So whats the problem exactly?

Steve

I'd like to stop seeing my poor friends being demotivated by her.


From your description I've pictured her as per the picture below. I personally don't have a issue with her ...........

Haha. Reimagine. Here are some more inputs to adjust:
Fat
Glasses
Short hair
And mentally weird.

:msn-wink:

She is ither getting too much cock or not enough. Females who show such symptoms as you have described fail to respond to reasnonabe arguemt.

Skyyrder

I'm preety sure she is not the "too much cock" type but a "way too few type".

Re: Fail to reasonable arguement

True. Good notice (that happened once). Did you study psychology?





Remember this is not on workplace. It's on social events.

[CookMySock]

I'd like to stop seeing my poor friends being demotivated by her.Often you have no say in what someone does, just as they have no say in what you do. Why can't you just head off elsewhere so you are not in her space? (and she is not in your face..)

All you will do is start a war pitting your wits against hers.

Steve

[sinfull]

I'd like to stop seeing my poor friends being demotivated by her.



Haha. Reimagine. Here are some more inputs to adjust:
Fat
Glasses
Short hair
And mentally weird.



I'm preety sure she is not the "too much cock" type but a "way too few type".

Re: Fail to reasonable arguement

True. Good notice. Do you study psychology?





Remember this is not on workplae. It's on social events. Get her in the bedroom and see how strong ya are then !!
If ya can fuck with her head while she's lying in bed, run with it !
If she gets ya naked and fucks ya silly leave a mark on her tit !

Iether way ya win !

[EJK]

I gots me a Phd in Psychology, my advice is to start fucking with her mind, they bloody hate that shit.

I'm working on that. That's not too hard to do but last time when I did it she started crying and shit.

Saying maybe easy, but saying it in a nice way isn't so :(


Before you guys ask me "Why do you want to say things nicely?". Well it's not because I like her (oh hell no!), but it's that I'm trying to be a good guy. I don't really want to try to hurt people. Finding truce.



Get her in the bedroom and see how strong ya are then !!
If ya can fuck with her head while she's lying in bed, run with it !
If she gets ya naked and fucks ya silly leave a mark on her tit !

Iether way ya win !

Haha I think she needs more therapy than sex. :msn-wink:

[slofox]

I got an MA in Psychology (I really do).

I reckon its just lack of self esteem and she's projecting all that aggression as a compensatory mechanism...

OR she might have "boss bitch" syndrome - happens to quite a few (but not all) first born daughters...I was married to one such

Treatment? Kick her up the arse. Hard as you can. Be worth the jail time for the satisfaction you'd get...

[MSTRS]

Ewwww!!!
EJK is trying to get into Helen's pants...

[AllanB]

Ewwww!!!
EJK is trying to get into Helen's pants...

I was going to replace the microphone with a penis, but heck you get the picture .........

[EJK]

Geez everybody thinks that I'm attracted to her :lol:
But really consciously and subconsciously, I do not have a thing for her.

[Tank]

All you will do is start a war pitting your wits against hers.

I did that with you - it was like having a battle with an unarmed person. In my opinion ;) ;)


this is called humour before I get infracted.

[paturoa]

Have you tried the ignore / pretend she doesn't exist approach?

Edit: maybe she's a dominatrix ... ask her.

[peasea]

Theres this woman who thinks she is the bomb. She thinks she created the heaven and the universe and everything in it. Shes definitely not attractive either (get my drift?). Most of all, she anoints herself as a leader and tries to do shit by herself. Oh and did I mention she doesn't listen to the people whos under her "supreme authority"?


Aha, you've met my ex.

[slofox]

Aha, you've met my ex.

If she ain't yours, she's prolly mine...

[Indiana_Jones]

Theres this woman who thinks she is the bomb. She thinks she created the heaven and the universe and everything in it. Shes definitely not attractive either (get my drift?). Most of all, she anoints herself as a leader and tries to do shit by herself. Oh and did I mention she doesn't listen to the people whos under her "supreme authority"?

Sounds like a few KB members but since shes not on KB, I'd like some advice to deal with this woman. Any psychologist here on KB?



You work with Helen Clark?

Yea, I know I wasn't the frist to think that lol

-Indy

[SlowHand]

You know Dean's mom?

[Dean]

You know Dean's mom?
haha very funny.

[LBD]

EJK...."Canis Majoris" Being somewhat ignorant of things stellar, I looked it up and I think I found the root cause of your problem....You consider your self to be the brightest of all those around you, and you cannot accept another trying to steal some of your "StarLight"

And with an effective temperature if some 3000K....I would say you are quite hot headed as well....

Either you tangle with this Black hole you are struggling with and run the risk of being swallowed whole never to emit another sparkle of star light....or give up and move on forgetting and avoiding any other interaction with this bain of your life.

[Hans]

Theres this woman who thinks she is the bomb. She thinks she created the heaven and the universe and everything in it. Shes definitely not attractive either (get my drift?). Most of all, she anoints herself as a leader and tries to do shit by herself. Oh and did I mention she doesn't listen to the people whos under her "supreme authority"?

Sounds like a few KB members but since shes not on KB, I'd like some advice to deal with this woman. Any psychologist here on KB?

Symptoms I found:

Loneliness: Seeks attention. Strongly urge her opinions to gain attention.
Arrogance: Thinks she has the nessesary experience. God-knows-what she knows.
Quarrelsomeness: Whenever her opinions are clashed with other's, she'd butcher the whole world to bring out all the evidence from her experience story which I doubt it's existence and it's depth.
Narrow Minded: To her just a gossip, article read, small reading etc is everything. e.g. Because she had a flatmate who did a business, she thinks she knows all the principals of business. Shes not even a business student nor had experience of any sort of work.



Last time she told me and that pissed me off quite a bit. What made her the decision that she knows more than I? What kind of a judgement is that? What made her think shes lived my life and think shes better than I?

I'm not unhappy (nice word :)) because I'm jealouse. It's one of those unwise (a.k.a male-cattle-feces) hearings that drives me into malfunction.


Cheers.

Divorce is your friend.

[Toaster]

She sounds delusional with rather warped visions of grandeur.

I can't stand people who think they are subject matter experts when they clearly are not. A dumb fool is one who thinks they know it all but to the rest of the world come across as a complete knob. A "wise" fool is one who knows their limitations and seek advice or shuts the heck up.

[CookMySock]

I can't stand people who think they are subject matter experts when they clearly are not. A dumb fool is one who thinks they know it all but to the rest of the world come across as a complete knob. A "wise" fool is one who knows their limitations and seek advice or shuts the heck up.Nah a wise fool is one who accepts he can't control other people, and realises, despite his increasingly deteriorating emotional state, that it doesn't actually effect them. Anything else is the whole basis of violence.

You can't make anyone do anything.

Steve

[Mully]

You know Dean's mom?

FUCK!!

I wish I'd thought of that.

[98tls]

I got an MA in Psychology (I really do).

I reckon its just lack of self esteem and she's projecting all that aggression as a compensatory mechanism...

OR she might have "boss bitch" syndrome - happens to quite a few (but not all) first born daughters...I was married to one such

Treatment? Kick her up the arse. Hard as you can. Be worth the jail time for the satisfaction you'd get...
Avoid the jail time and simply give her the donkey punch whilst shagging her arse.She will do 1 of 2 things,enjoy it to the point that you have a shag on the side forever or simply at first feel revulsion for you but a few months later send you an email thanking you for sorting out her shit.

[EJK]

EJK...."Canis Majoris" Being somewhat ignorant of things stellar, I looked it up and I think I found the root cause of your problem....You consider your self to be the brightest of all those around you, and you cannot accept another trying to steal some of your "StarLight"

And with an effective temperature if some 3000K....I would say you are quite hot headed as well....

Either you tangle with this Black hole you are struggling with and run the risk of being swallowed whole never to emit another sparkle of star light....or give up and move on forgetting and avoiding any other interaction with this bain of your life.

Good observation however semi correct. You may judge me as a "big star" however I do not try to act as one nor find people to orb around me. Good observation that I maybe losing my "starlight", however I've not intentionally seeked attention since High School.
Hot headed? Yeah maybe. With this ignorant lady who thinks I orb around her, yes. Other than that, I never encountered physical violence since the age of 4.

I find amusing on big things e.g. VY Canis Majoris, Tzar Bomba, Olympus Mons etc. You can say I'm ambitious. However that does not mean I'm selfish.

Good observation LBD.

P.s. I never entitled myself as a Canis Majoris. It's just a message.



Divorce is your friend.

I'm not married yo!

[Big Dave]

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noun
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[Pixie]

Theres this woman who thinks she is the bomb. She thinks she created the heaven and the universe and everything in it. Shes definitely not attractive either (get my drift?). Most of all, she anoints herself as a leader and tries to do shit by herself. Oh and did I mention she doesn't listen to the people whos under her "supreme authority"?

Sounds like a few KB members but since shes not on KB, I'd like some advice to deal with this woman. Any psychologist here on KB?

Symptoms I found:

Loneliness: Seeks attention. Strongly urge her opinions to gain attention.
Arrogance: Thinks she has the nessesary experience. God-knows-what she knows.
Quarrelsomeness: Whenever her opinions are clashed with other's, she'd butcher the whole world to bring out all the evidence from her experience story which I doubt it's existence and it's depth.
Narrow Minded: To her just a gossip, article read, small reading etc is everything. e.g. Because she had a flatmate who did a business, she thinks she knows all the principals of business. Shes not even a business student nor had experience of any sort of work.



Last time she told me and that pissed me off quite a bit. What made her the decision that she knows more than I? What kind of a judgement is that? What made her think shes lived my life and think shes better than I?

I'm not unhappy (nice word :)) because I'm jealouse. It's one of those unwise (a.k.a male-cattle-feces) hearings that drives me into malfunction.


Cheers.

Maybe she's seen some of your writings

[EJK]

Enlighten me?

[oldrider]

Theres this woman who thinks she is the bomb. She thinks she created the heaven and the universe and everything in it. Shes definitely not attractive either (get my drift?). Most of all, she anoints herself as a leader and tries to do shit by herself. Oh and did I mention she doesn't listen to the people whos under her "supreme authority"?

Sounds like a few KB members but since shes not on KB, I'd like some advice to deal with this woman. Any psychologist here on KB?

Symptoms I found:

Loneliness: Seeks attention. Strongly urge her opinions to gain attention.
Arrogance: Thinks she has the nessesary experience. God-knows-what she knows.
Quarrelsomeness: Whenever her opinions are clashed with other's, she'd butcher the whole world to bring out all the evidence from her experience story which I doubt it's existence and it's depth.
Narrow Minded: To her just a gossip, article read, small reading etc is everything. e.g. Because she had a flatmate who did a business, she thinks she knows all the principals of business. Shes not even a business student nor had experience of any sort of work.



Last time she told me and that pissed me off quite a bit. What made her the decision that she knows more than I? What kind of a judgement is that? What made her think shes lived my life and think shes better than I?

I'm not unhappy (nice word :)) because I'm jealouse. It's one of those unwise (a.k.a male-cattle-feces) hearings that drives me into malfunction.


Cheers.

I am not going to read this whole thread but you sound like you want some opinions or help!

Take a look in the mirror, the guy you see in there is the only person in this world that "you" have total control over!

The way you see, feel, react etc to this woman (or any other person) is entirely up to you, if she bothers you, it is because "you" allow her to!

Simple answer to this is just take back control and move on, there are millions of people out there and if you were dead they would just carry on without you!

Crazy isn't it, it's all in your own head how you perceive other people! Think about it! :shifty:

[Mikkel]

You need to tell your mother to go bother your dad when you have friends over :yes:

:devil2:


Geez everybody thinks that I'm attracted to her :lol:
But really consciously and subconsciously, I do not have a thing for her.

Indeed, that would be what Freud refers to as the Oedipus complex (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oedipus_complex).


Jokes aside, just walk away. No one needs self-absorbed psychic vampires (people who drain your energy because they are unhappy with themselves) in their lives. Some people are just broken and even if it were your job, there wouldn't be any chance of "saving" them.

[CookMySock]

If you really feel compelled to do something (why???) you might take her aside and tell her how frustrated you feel. She will proceed to argue with you for sure :killingme so don't expect her to hear you fully, but hey you might feel better. I can think of countless things to do that might make me feel better, rather than discussing my feelings with some loudmouth.

Steve