Stupid shit you've done after a breakup

[Thaeos]

What's the stupidest shit you've done?

I just came out of a 3+ year relationship where I thought we were gonna get married and she ended up cheating and then wanting to come back but just fucking me over again, been dragged out over the last month or so.

We all know the best thing to do is just cut off all contact and move on for both parties but sometimes people do some stupid things.

I punched a hole in a door and made a website saying everything that she had done.

So what stupid shit have you done?

[neels]

made a website saying everything that she had done.
link?

I need a good laugh

[EJK]

What I'd done? If I had two lives, I'd purged one.

[Genie]

hey mate...that is not stupid and if it makes you feel better...so what. She cheated on you, that hurts, deep.

Punching holes in door...that is pent up frustration coming out...normal. Plus last time I looked MItre Mega is selling doors!

What have I done???? Can't really think of a breakup. Though after my husband was politely asked to leave I did embark on a rather naughty (but way fun) fling with a younger man.

[Cayman911]

pretty much same happened to me, except she was that stupid and thick to come and say after she cheated " well atleast im being honest and telling you" .

what the shit?

[Houseman]

As the saying goes:

Women...if they didn't have c**ts we'd throw rocks at them.

[Genie]

Men...if they didnt' have c**ks we wouldn't need them.

[Gone Burger]

Just come out of a 7 year relationship myself.

Stupidest thing I have done after the break up? Not finding a way to move out of the place we own together. Still living under the same roof til it sells and it's near impossible to do and keep it civil. Even harder to cope with than actually breaking up.

[neels]

Men...if they didnt' have c**ks we wouldn't need them.
Funny

I have been reliably informed that there are perfectly good substitutes, and if it wasn't for reproduction you wouldn't need men at all :shit:

[Thaeos]

Can't imagine continuing to live with someone afterwards. Depends on who ended it I guess. As for the site well I took it down, almost all the comments left on it were anti-me and having something like that up is just gonna make it harder to start moving on I reckon.

[scumdog]

I punched a hole in a door and made a website saying everything that she had done.

So what stupid shit have you done?

Pretty young eh??

[Genie]

Putting the dirty laundry out for public veiwing can backfire.

Best thing to do, hold your head up high and find someone worthy of your goodness.

[phill-k]

What's the stupidest shit you've done?



made a website saying everything that she had done.

So what stupid shit have you done?

send pic's to this site, he specialises in your sort of issues. Updated every Thursday nite. :lol:

www.orsm.net

[Genie]

haha...nice...just went there.

[rustic101]

What's the stupidest shit you've done?

.....taking the first seven years to get on with my life...The next seven have been great so far and getting better :)

[Korumba]

Some guy started a thread like this last year...what ever happened with that one... was funny as.

[Thaeos]

Pretty young eh??

Ha I guess so, whole thing's been a learning experience I'll say that much.

[Gone Burger]

Ha I guess so, whole thing's been a learning experience I'll say that much.

Yes it sure is isn't it? Still, good to learn these things at a young age I reckon. o.K - that's me trying to put a positive spin on it all. I'll give up while I am ahead!

[Oakie]

Stupidest thing? Allowing the hurt to make me hold back in future relationships. The invocation is to ... "Love like you've never been hurt". Sorry. Can't do it.

[Owl]

Hmmm, perhaps not fighting to save a relationship! Took her to the airport, gave her a hug and kiss....................The end.

Great chick, but there were things she needed to do (OE) and I wasn't part of that.

Plus I probably wouldn't be in my current happy place if things had been different.

[Blackshear]

Hurt myself so bad I ended up calling an ambulance on myself.
Lolstupid.

[Forest]

Here's a true story to make you laugh.

About a month after I broke up with a girlfriend (from a two year relationship) she phoned me in tears.

Her: "I'm in a really bad position and I need you to loan me $10,000.
Me: "Oh shit. That sounds bad. What's the problem babe?"
Her: "I can't tell you. But if you still have any feelings for me, you'll know you can trust me. I'll pay it back."
Me: "No worries. I'll transfer the money tonight, so you should see it in your account tomorrow morning. "

After three months I gave her a call and asked her about getting some repayments for the "loan"

Her: "What do you mean? You know my situation. I can't pay it back!"
Me: #@$!

[GOONR]

Just come out of a 7 year relationship myself.

Stupidest thing I have done after the break up? Not finding a way to move out of the place we own together. Still living under the same roof til it sells and it's near impossible to do and keep it civil. Even harder to cope with than actually breaking up.

Shit Katiepie that don't sound like a picnic to me. I would go mental in that situation.

[Gone Burger]

Hurt myself so bad I ended up calling an ambulance on myself.
Lolstupid.

Oh dear - yes not the cleverest thing to do. But it's crazy what break ups can cause us to do! It's hard to see all the positives from it all especially at the time, but it is a great feeling when you finally stop thinking about the ex partner, and start planning your life all over again.

[Gone Burger]

Shit Katiepie that don't sound like a picnic to me. I would go mental in that situation.

Nope - no picnic at all. And yes - going very very mental indeed. Stupid stupid thing to do - would never recommend it to anyone.

[The Stranger]

Here's a true story to make you laugh.

About a month after I broke up with a girlfriend (from a two year relationship) she phoned me in tears.

Her: "I'm in a really bad position and I need you to loan me $10,000.
Me: "Oh shit. That sounds bad. What's the problem babe?"
Her: "I can't tell you. But if you still have any feelings for me, you'll know you can trust me. I'll pay it back."
Me: "No worries. I'll transfer the money tonight, so you should see it in your account tomorrow morning. "

After three months I gave her a call and asked her about getting some repayments for the "loan"

Her: "What do you mean? You know my situation. I can't pay it back!"
Me: #@$!

We have a winner!

[Gone Burger]

Here's a true story to make you laugh.

About a month after I broke up with a girlfriend (from a two year relationship) she phoned me in tears.

Her: "I'm in a really bad position and I need you to loan me $10,000.
Me: "Oh shit. That sounds bad. What's the problem babe?"
Her: "I can't tell you. But if you still have any feelings for me, you'll know you can trust me. I'll pay it back."
Me: "No worries. I'll transfer the money tonight, so you should see it in your account tomorrow morning. "

After three months I gave her a call and asked her about getting some repayments for the "loan"

Her: "What do you mean? You know my situation. I can't pay it back!"
Me: #@$!

BUGGA! Yep - pretty stupid. Easy to say that now though, as at the time I'm sure it was a "sensible" thing to do.

[neels]

Actually, most of the stupid shit I've done has happened before, and led to, the breakup.

When I was young and stupid of course.

Now I'm older and stupid.

[Blackshear]

Oh dear - yes not the cleverest thing to do. But it's crazy what break ups can cause us to do! It's hard to see all the positives from it all especially at the time, but it is a great feeling when you finally stop thinking about the ex partner, and start planning your life all over again.

I was young (and to be honest, just cracked 20), I didn't care about consequences obviously, but yet I am still here, MAKING LOTS OF NOISE AND... LOTS OF NOISE

[motor_mayhem]

I just came out of a 3+ year relationship


Just come out of a 7 year relationship myself.

Perfect timing? Interests in common such as motorcycles? If it works out, I get an invite to all the parties and free beer perhaps?

[Gone Burger]

but yet I am still here, MAKING LOTS OF NOISE AND... LOTS OF NOISE

Good shit - that's all I can say!!

[Foxzee]

Sorry to hear wot's happened...but but but there is life after wot seems death row...

My husband and I spilt after 13 years...and yes hard going ....can't offer advice you just have to live life how you want to live...party..love ya mates....have fun...

Time will take you to your soulmate.....

[Fatt Max]

I broke up with a girl many years ago and did something really reallystupid. I'm not proud of what I did and I expect to be judged and juried over it. I am happy to admit my sins on KB because of my respect for you lovely people.

So, what did I do......?

Something unbearable and unforgivable......

I let her keep my collection of take away curry menus...I had over 200 of the fecking things from all over the country, some even had food stains on them....and I let her keep them.......that was stupid shit, that collection took years and added many KG's to my usual slim and athletic frame......

I'm not proud of what I did, and I sorry if this has caused any grief to you all.....

Ah fuck it, she was a fat old slapper anyways.....

[Pussy]

I broke up with a girl many years ago and did something really reallystupid. I'm not proud of what I did and I expect to be judged and juried over it. I am happy to admit my sins on KB because of my respect for you lovely people.

So, what did I do......?

Something unbearable and unforgivable......

I let her keep my collection of take away curry menus...I had over 200 of the fecking things from all over the country, some even had food stains on them....and I let her keep them.......that was stupid shit, that collection took years and added many KG's to my usual slim and athletic frame......

I'm not proud of what I did, and I sorry if this has caused any grief to you all.....

Ah fuck it, she was a fat old slapper anyways.....
I wouldn't have publicly admitted to such a STUPID thing like that, if I were you, FM.
I hope you feel suitably ashamed.
I hope you skulled a few pies as penance.....

[Milts]

Stupid act after a break up? Binned my bike. Well, not the direct result, but my mood at the time was definitely a contributing factor. Pretty childish too.

Shit sux man, I hope you worked out all the anger you needed to on the door...

[cc rider]

Just come out of a 7 year relationship myself.

Stupidest thing I have done after the break up? Not finding a way to move out of the place we own together. Still living under the same roof til it sells and it's near impossible to do and keep it civil. Even harder to cope with than actually breaking up.That is a shame katie girl. I know it must be very stressful hun :hug:

Am 6mths out of a 21yr relationship. My choice to leave. Very scarey decision. To be fair to both of us I should have done it years ago. Had some arse try real hard to cause us trouble for his own little game. But it's only made us stick together on the important things.
I'm still living in the same house until I leave. We've sorted what we need to between us. No arguements, no bitterness, some tears. I guess we've been friends for so long it stops us doing stupid stuff to each other.

I just got back from 2mths in NZ looking for a place in this world where I can be me & feel safe. Thanks to cave weta for taking me in & the great friends I have from here (KB) I know I'm not such a f*#kup after all. (Insert large smile :D )


I was young (and to be honest, just cracked 20), I didn't care about consequences obviously, but yet I am still here, MAKING LOTS OF NOISE AND... LOTS OF NOISEDearest, age does not protect us from lack of wisdom. Feelings can not be defined by logic, nor explained with reason.
I'm just grateful that you are here to make NOISE too, lovely one :love:
Is a very brave thing to tell.

[howdamnhard]

That is a shame katie girl. I know it must be very stressful hun :hug:

Am 6mths out of a 21yr relationship. My choice to leave. Very scarey decision. To be fair to both of us I should have done it years ago. Had some arse try real hard to cause us trouble for his own little game. But it's only made us stick together on the important things.
I'm still living in the same house until I leave. We've sorted what we need to between us. No arguements, no bitterness, some tears. I guess we've been friends for so long it stops us doing stupid stuff to each other.

I just got back from 2mths in NZ looking for a place in this world where I can be me & feel safe. Thanks to cave weta for taking me in & the great friends I have from here (KB) I know I'm not such a f*#kup after all. (Insert large smile :D )

No you are not a fuckup now empty your in tray you knob,ha,ha.

[cc rider]

No you are not a fuckup now empty your in tray you knob,ha,ha.Gosh thanks hun... yeah, I thought my mail might be full... again :o

[Eyegasm]

To those that have had bad break-ups, Sorry.

Be glad though that it didn't include children.

The hardest break-ups of all are where you have kids together.
I have a deep disrespect for the mother of my child (so much shit happened you could write a Quadrilogy)
but I have to be civil towards her when picking my boy up (he lives with her)

That has to be the worst thing ever, having a lot of bad thoughts and feelings re-surface when picking up or seeing your
Son or daughter. Maybe it's just me, I don't know.

[CookMySock]

When the shit hits the fan and you feel like everything is lost, there are three critical things to remember ;

1. Tomorrow, you will still be living your life, unless you do something really stupid and dangerous.

2. One year later, you will still be living your life, unless you do something really stupid and dangerous.

2. Fifteen years later, you will still be living your life, unless you do something really stupid and dangerous.

Take a break from giving a fuck so much. Someone else can for a while, but just watch the really stupid and dangerous crap, or your mum will cry.


Steve

[Taz]

I've never had a break up :cry:

[Foxzee]

I've never had a break up :cry:

That's it...I've had enough...I just can't take it anymore...WE ARE OVER!!:girlfight:

There feel better now...hehehe:lol:

[mashman]

To those that have had bad break-ups, Sorry.

Be glad though that it didn't include children.

The hardest break-ups of all are where you have kids together.
I have a deep disrespect for the mother of my child (so much shit happened you could write a Quadrilogy)
but I have to be civil towards her when picking my boy up (he lives with her)

That has to be the worst thing ever, having a lot of bad thoughts and feelings re-surface when picking up or seeing your
Son or daughter. Maybe it's just me, I don't know.

I remember that one well... I didn't do anything stupid, as my boy was involved... but got to the school playground one morning (he was 7), saw my boys teacher and thought I better explain to her and find out how my son was taking it... She got 5 words into, well we've noticed a difference and I broke down in the middle of a packed playground... that was the thing that steeled my resolve to have more access... that way I could keep an eye on him... in some ways it drove the perfect wedge between me and my ex and I moved on to my now wife some days after the playground incident (shame it wasn't my sons mates mum, grrrrrrrrr) :)...

[aprilia_RS250]

My 3.5 year gf broke up with me on a Friday. I went out to celebrate with mates, was too pissed, met a girl and ended up at her place. Woke up, huge hangover went to find a bathroom to take a shit and I manage to stumble on my ex in the kitchen, I only had a towel draped around me. She goes what are you doing here, crying starts... you know the whole chick drama thing. Seems she had slept over at a mates, the other flatmate of the girl I met, 'cos she was too distraught by our break up.

[Eyegasm]

When the shit hits the fan and you feel like everything is lost, there are three critical things to remember ;

1. Tomorrow, you will still be living your life, unless you do something really stupid and dangerous.

2. One year later, you will still be living your life, unless you do something really stupid and dangerous.

2. Fifteen years later, you will still be living your life, unless you do something really stupid and dangerous.

Take a break from giving a fuck so much. Someone else can for a while, but just watch the really stupid and dangerous crap, or your mum will cry.


Steve

Come on Steve, count with me now...

1, 2, 3...

Yes I am being a douche and thank you for the red bling!
May I have another?

[Gone Burger]

My 3.5 year gf broke up with me on a Friday. I went out to celebrate with mates, was too pissed, met a girl and ended up at her place. Woke up, huge hangover went to find a bathroom to take a shit and I manage to stumble on my ex in the kitchen, I only had a towel draped around me. She goes what are you doing here, crying starts... you know the whole chick drama thing. Seems she had slept over at a mates, the other flatmate of the girl I met, 'cos she was too distraught by our break up.

Wowie - Whoops! You'll be paying for that one for a while I imagine. Pretty funny situation actually, but it will cause all sorts of additional drama now. Good luck mate ;)

[Bald Eagle]

My 3.5 year gf broke up with me on a Friday. I went out to celebrate with mates, was too pissed, met a girl and ended up at her place. Woke up, huge hangover went to find a bathroom to take a shit and I manage to stumble on my ex in the kitchen, I only had a towel draped around me. She goes what are you doing here, crying starts... you know the whole chick drama thing. Seems she had slept over at a mates, the other flatmate of the girl I met, 'cos she was too distraught by our break up.

That 6 degrees of separation really sucks. Should have gone out of town or at least more than a mile down the road.

[Grubber]

To those that have had bad break-ups, Sorry.

Be glad though that it didn't include children.

The hardest break-ups of all are where you have kids together.
I have a deep disrespect for the mother of my child (so much shit happened you could write a Quadrilogy)
but I have to be civil towards her when picking my boy up (he lives with her)

That has to be the worst thing ever, having a lot of bad thoughts and feelings re-surface when picking up or seeing your
Son or daughter. Maybe it's just me, I don't know.

It's not!!!!

[AllanB]

What you should have done after she cheated on you is go out and have some vigorous gay loving - you'd appreciate her a lot more afterwards and forgive her for her past indiscretion! It occurs to me that after the man-love you may actually have some issues with walking back to her so ensure you allow some $ for a taxi ......

Personally I strongly recommend that you just go out and buy a new motorcycle - you'll feel a lot better.


I'll be here all day offering good, solid advice .........

[Gone Burger]

Personally I strongly recommend that you just go out and buy a new motorcycle - you'll feel a lot better.
I'll be here all day offering good, solid advice .........

Oh my goodness - how could I have forgotten that - that's also exactly what I did. A brand spanking new one that I couldn't afford but just had to have. Brilliant therapy alright - can highly recommend doing just that.

[cc rider]

My 3.5 year gf broke up with me on a Friday. I went out to celebrate with mates, was too pissed, met a girl and ended up at her place. Woke up, huge hangover went to find a bathroom to take a shit and I manage to stumble on my ex in the kitchen, I only had a towel draped around me. She goes what are you doing here, crying starts... you know the whole chick drama thing. Seems she had slept over at a mates, the other flatmate of the girl I met, 'cos she was too distraught by our break up.Oh God! Is it just me or did everyone have a lil chuckle when reading that. You are young aren't you? Please tell me you are.
With that kind of 6deg I think we'll be hearing from you again.

Clarify for me... did you stumble over her, wearing a towel & that's how she recognized you? :blink:

[wysper]

Oh God! Is it just me or did everyone have a lil chuckle when reading that. You are young aren't you? Please tell me you are.
With that kind of 6deg I think we'll be hearing from you again.

Clarify for me... did you stumble over her, wearing a towel & that's how she recognized you? :blink:

I thought it was pretty dodgy going out with a 3.5yo actually p/t

[aprilia_RS250]

Oh God! Is it just me or did everyone have a lil chuckle when reading that. You are young aren't you? Please tell me you are.
With that kind of 6deg I think we'll be hearing from you again.

Clarify for me... did you stumble over her, wearing a towel & that's how she recognized you? :blink:

I'm mid 20s. I don't believe in 6 deg seperation. More like 2 or 3 applies in NZ.

[SMOKEU]

I don't want to say anything too incriminating here....

[Genie]

I'm mid 20s. I don't believe in 6 deg seperation. More like 2 or 3 applies in NZ.

mids 20's....ahhh....i remember them - JUST. GO and have some fun.

Hey you live in Auckland...it ain't that big.

I just loved your story. Must say you could have asked the old to cum with the new

[Laava]

What you should have done after she cheated on you is go out and have some vigorous gay loving - you'd appreciate her a lot more afterwards and forgive her for her past indiscretion! It occurs to me that after the man-love you may actually have some issues with walking back to her so ensure you allow some $ for a taxi ......

Personally I strongly recommend that you just go out and buy a new motorcycle - you'll feel a lot better.


I'll be here all day offering good, solid advice .........

Some of your advice is good!

[Mom]

Come on Steve, count with me now...

1, 2, 3...

Yes I am being a douche and thank you for the red bling!
May I have another?

Actually I think the title of this thread is wrong, I am off to start one that is titled

Stupid Shit You Wish You Had Done After A Breakup :D

[Genie]

Actually I think the title of this thread is wrong, I am off to start one that is titled

Stupid Shit You Wish You Had Done After A Breakup :D

Oh yes please do

[Genie]

Men...if they didnt' have c**ks we wouldn't need them.

Can someone please inform me as to what a "jack rabbit' is??????

[duckonin]

Can someone please inform me as to what a "jack rabbit' is??????

Yep it is just that a 'jack rabbit' (wiki it)

[phill-k]

send pic's to this site, he specialises in your sort of issues. Updated every Thursday nite. :lol:

www.orsm.net

Oh shit (can I say that) just got red bling for this website link from a guy who steals broadband and time from his boss but has the conscience not to look at a little bit of tittee when he does ya fucken tosser don't click on links then, better still stop stealing from your employer, and yeah thats something that really gets up my nose.

[Blinkwing]

Got out of my first serious relationship (4yrs) this January and downed enough alcohol for a small country in the first few weeks.

Got into a relationship recently that was probably not a good idea (batshit insane woman) and after I crashed my bike twice in the same weekend, I dumped her the week after because it just wasn't worth living with a distrustful soulless bitch.

[SS90]

Got out of my first serious relationship (4yrs) this January and downed enough alcohol for a small country in the first few weeks.

Got into a relationship recently that was probably not a good idea (batshit insane woman) and after I crashed my bike twice in the same weekend, I dumped her the week after because it just wasn't worth living with a distrustful soulless bitch.

You know, it sounds a bit soft, but I recon if you get out of a "long termer" (by that I mean more than a year and living together), the smartest thing to do is steer clear of any sort of relationship for 12 months.

It really teaches you to rely on your own company more, and that is something that most humans don't do well.

[Thaeos]

You know, it sounds a bit soft, but I recon if you get out of a "long termer" (by that I mean more than a year and living together), the smartest thing to do is steer clear of any sort of relationship for 12 months.

It really teaches you to rely on your own company more, and that is something that most humans don't do well.

Probably also something that most humans don't WANT to do. Everyone wants companionship and sometimes the first thing that comes along will do, especially if you've just been kicked out of a serious long-term relationship.

[SS90]

Probably also something that most humans don't WANT to do. Everyone wants companionship and sometimes the first thing that comes along will do, especially if you've just been kicked out of a serious long-term relationship.

Yea, that's right, but, you know, the only way to assert your individuality is by being an individual.

To be "individual", most people dye their hair, or wear black.........(JUST LIKE EVERYBODY ELSE).......... stand your ground man, and be who you want to be....no matter how hard it gets.

I have been where you are now, and I have to tell you, it never gets easier, life is about lessons, and always remember that there is always someone who has had it harder than you.

That's what I learned!

[The Stranger]

Got out of my first serious relationship (4yrs) this January and downed enough alcohol for a small country in the first few weeks.

Got into a relationship recently that was probably not a good idea (batshit insane woman) and after I crashed my bike twice in the same weekend, I dumped her the week after because it just wasn't worth living with a distrustful soulless bitch.

Call me naive, but what does crashing your bike twice on the same weekend have to do with your relationship? Does it make women not trust you?

[Genie]

I think what he means is the lovely lady got so into his head he couldn't concentrate on riding???

[Love my Bonnie]

I always say "the best way to get over a man is to get under another"