Need Advice

[Wellyman]

Hey guys.
I have a major problem. I have had enoungh of life and i'm getting really stressed and fustrated alot and yea my life sucks. I'm thinking about taking the day off work tomrrow and maybe going somewhere to free my thoughts etc. any advice or anything is welcome because i feel really depressed at the moment.
Thanks

[Two Smoker]

Hey guys.
I have a major problem. I have had enoungh of life and i'm getting really stressed and fustrated alot and yea my life sucks. I'm thinking about taking the day off work tomrrow and maybe going somewhere to free my thoughts etc. any advice or anything is welcome because i feel really depressed at the moment.
Thanks

Sounds like you need a road bike mate :niceone: How about you shoot up to woodhill tomorrow???

Otherwise you will have to wait a while before i can take you for a blat on my gixxer...

[StoneChucker]

Hey guys.
I have a major problem. I have had enoungh of life and i'm getting really stressed and fustrated alot and yea my life sucks. I'm thinking about taking the day off work tomrrow and maybe going somewhere to free my thoughts etc. any advice or anything is welcome because i feel really depressed at the moment.
Thanks
Are you serious? Or is there a bike related meaning I'm missing? I'd need a reply to that before I set into a full blown reply :no:

[John]

Hey guys.
I have a major problem. I have had enoungh of life and i'm getting really stressed and fustrated alot and yea my life sucks. I'm thinking about taking the day off work tomrrow and maybe going somewhere to free my thoughts etc. any advice or anything is welcome because i feel really depressed at the moment.
Thanks
Go for an all day ride forget anything and everything it always works for me :)...

[Quasievil]

Hey guys.
I have a major problem. I have had enoungh of life and i'm getting really stressed and fustrated alot and yea my life sucks. I'm thinking about taking the day off work tomrrow and maybe going somewhere to free my thoughts etc. any advice or anything is welcome because i feel really depressed at the moment.
Thanks

Sorry that its all shit at the moment for you buddy, trust me it never stays bad for long. Come on down to Hammy and have a cup of tea with ole quasi !! Im packing this weekend for a move next week but your welcome to come and hang for a few hours if you want

[Wellyman]

It's not really bike related. but in bike terms i'm stuffed coz i haven't got enough money to fix it becuase i don't have enough money.

[StoneChucker]

It's not really bike related. but in bike terms i'm stuffed coz i haven't got enough money to fix it becuase i don't have enough money.
Oh dear. Mate, what I read into the first post was unthinkable, and I hope you weren't implying what I think you were. I don't mean to say you were, but what I thought of seems to be a taboo topic. Noone ever talks about it, people are hesitant to mention in. But I've had enough.

Suicide is the most unfortunate end to a life. When people feel that there is no other solution, it is only because they haven't spoken to someone about it. However, I know that people don't always want to talk to someone when they're feeling that low. I think it's important for people in need to know that there are people who want to listen.

Even when it seems like things couldn't be worse, they always could be, I can guarantee it. One just needs to stick it out for fortunes to change. I hope EVERYONE on KB knows there are hundreds of ears willing to listen, and help should anyone ever need it.

[Wellyman]

I think the bike may have to go i'm not sure. my money supplies have disapeard so i can't afford to ride very much or at all anymore. so putting the bike up for sale might happen.

[StoneChucker]

I think the bike may have to go i'm not sure. my money supplies have disapeard so i can't afford to ride very much or at all anymore. so putting the bike up for sale might happen.
Well, if that's what's neccessary at the moment then I guess you'll have to. In future, if you still want a bike, you'll be able to get another when the time is right. If you can, maybe stick the money somewhere and add to it when you can. After a while you might have a little stash, enough to buy another bike.

Or if you need to distribute the money from the bike elsewhere, like I said, you can get another bike when the times right. Maybe a break from having something you can't use will be good? You should have some extra cash to do other things with, pay some bills, buy neccessities, visit hookers - whatever you need or want.:) Don't stress too much.

[Teflon]

Hey guys.
I have a major problem. I have had enoungh of life and i'm getting really stressed and fustrated alot and yea my life sucks. I'm thinking about taking the day off work tomrrow and maybe going somewhere to free my thoughts etc. any advice or anything is welcome because i feel really depressed at the moment.
Thanks

Go see your GP dude.

Look for a herbal product which helps with stress.

[Firefight]

Hey guys.
I have a major problem. I have had enoungh of life and i'm getting really stressed and fustrated alot and yea my life sucks. I'm thinking about taking the day off work tomrrow and maybe going somewhere to free my thoughts etc. any advice or anything is welcome because i feel really depressed at the moment.
Thanks


hey Dan, just seen this thread, call me anytime 021 304 310, am out on ride today, will check phone from time to time.


Dave

[Riff Raff]

Hey guys.
I have a major problem. I have had enoungh of life and i'm getting really stressed and fustrated alot and yea my life sucks. I'm thinking about taking the day off work tomrrow and maybe going somewhere to free my thoughts etc. any advice or anything is welcome because i feel really depressed at the moment.
Thanks
Hey Dan - there's nothing worse than the feeling when everything is getting you down - and if you don't tackle it now it just gets worse. I have had times when it all seemed to be getting too much. The good thing is that you recognise this and are asking for help. I have special places that I like to go to when I'm feeling really down, and I often find a couple of hours alone in those places will help me to look at things from a different perspective. But other times you need someone to talk to, who will listen and give advice if you want it. I often find that when talking a problem out a solution presents itself to you.
I am available all day today if you want someone to talk to. I can even take you to one of my special places if you want. I'll PM you my number - please don't hesitate to call.

[Skyryder]

I think the bike may have to go i'm not sure. my money supplies have disapeard so i can't afford to ride very much or at all anymore. so putting the bike up for sale might happen.

All things in life are temporary.

This is no different.

Skyryder

[Ixion]

Mate I am probably the most unqualified person in the world to offer any advice on this subject.

But I have had a lot of experience of life's suckage. And there have been times when it all seemed to hard and too much .

One thing that's worked for me at such times is just , each day, finding one reason to hang around till tomorrow (or some future day). Just saying "Hey I guess I want to hang around for X's birthday" or "I want to see who wins the game tomorrow". There always seemed to be something coming up that I didn't want to miss or not know the result of. And so one day led to another , until things didn't suck so badly. Or, I got used to them sucking.

Most shit in life does go away , mate, if you give it time. Also, if you give in, the shit's won. I never wanted that, to let the bastards get the better of me. Sometimes its better to get angry than to get down.

Money's not really the biggest thing in life. I know, I've never had any!

If you're skint, and have to sell your bike, well, yeah , that's a bummer. But you've got a job, so if you wait a bit you'll be able to get another one. And maybe a better one .

And I'm sure that there's plenty of people that care about you. And would be sad and hurt if anything happened to you.

And lots of folk on this site that would care also. If you need someone to empty the shit on, there's a couple of people below , and I've PM'd you my contact details. Don't bottle pain up, let it loose . It's like having a crap. If you bottle it up, sooner or later you're going to burst. You need to open up and let the shit that's hurting get out.

Just hang in there. Sometimes it seems that you're stuck in a black hole and no way to climb out, but, truely, if you just hang on it does get better.

[Motoracer]

Best thing to do is talk to a mate about your problems. That usually eases the stress. Dave is a great mate to talk to, otherwise I have sent you a PM and I'd be more than happy to help you man.

[Motu]

Just do one thing,then another thing,and another,plod plod.Life's an uphill battle for me too,I'll never be able to sit back and relax and say - look what I've achieved in life,my like is a total cock up from start to finish,success is not the end result.I'm shifting this weekend,it seems an impossible task,but it has to be done - later today I have to do something and I don't know how I can do it...it may be impossible,there are not enough people to help me,it's possibly a recipie for disaster - but I'm going to do it,I have to do it - just one step at a time....

And you can't sell your bike - I haven't had a ride on it yet,ill let you know when it's time to sell....

[Wellyman]

Thank you everybody for you support! I'm feeling alot better today and ended up going to work and having a good laugh so i'm in a better mood.
Many thanks and best wishes,
Dan