SMOKEU
24th January 2012, 22:27
I've recently moved into a new house and I absolutely love it. The area is great and it has a fantastic huge deck for entertaining...
Only problem is that the deck is right next to my neighbours spa pool. We were having a BBQ recently, and we were winding down having our last drink before heading in doors when we heard huffing and puffing, from the neighbours. We looked over and he and his wife were having sex in the spa. We are no prudes (lets get that straight) and I assumed that he didn't know we were out there and waited for them to realise and stop. But it continued on until we had to move indoors.
Hoping this was a one off occasion - we didn't think too much of it. Well tried not to anyway - they aren't no oil paintings...)
We couldn't have been more wrong.
5 times now while cooking in the kitchen (our window looks over into the neighbours ) I have been confronted with our neighbours "going at it" on their dining room table. One particular occasion he looked over at me and gave me the thumbs up.
I now cook with the blinds down.
The deck doesn't get much use either - as I can't bear running the risk of having my book group witnessing this behaviour.
I dont know what to do - and it is one of those situations where I don't feel that comfortable confronting them about it. We are not talking about an over an grown fruit tree here.....
His wife seems rather conservative and we have had a few awkward situations in the supermarket.
HELP ME - Does anyone else have problems with exhibitionist neightbours?
http://www.trademe.co.nz/Community/MessageBoard/Messages.aspx?id=938974&topic=5
Only problem is that the deck is right next to my neighbours spa pool. We were having a BBQ recently, and we were winding down having our last drink before heading in doors when we heard huffing and puffing, from the neighbours. We looked over and he and his wife were having sex in the spa. We are no prudes (lets get that straight) and I assumed that he didn't know we were out there and waited for them to realise and stop. But it continued on until we had to move indoors.
Hoping this was a one off occasion - we didn't think too much of it. Well tried not to anyway - they aren't no oil paintings...)
We couldn't have been more wrong.
5 times now while cooking in the kitchen (our window looks over into the neighbours ) I have been confronted with our neighbours "going at it" on their dining room table. One particular occasion he looked over at me and gave me the thumbs up.
I now cook with the blinds down.
The deck doesn't get much use either - as I can't bear running the risk of having my book group witnessing this behaviour.
I dont know what to do - and it is one of those situations where I don't feel that comfortable confronting them about it. We are not talking about an over an grown fruit tree here.....
His wife seems rather conservative and we have had a few awkward situations in the supermarket.
HELP ME - Does anyone else have problems with exhibitionist neightbours?
http://www.trademe.co.nz/Community/MessageBoard/Messages.aspx?id=938974&topic=5