RIP Tony (ynot slow) and funeral details

[86GSXR]

Rest In Peace Tony, it was an honour and a pleasure to know you. Very peacefully earlier today in Wanganui. You will be missed.

Funeral details: In case anyone who'd like to attend Tony (ynot slow's) funeral but may have missed the details here they are.

11am this Saturday 12th May, St Josephs Church, Victoria St, Hawera.

All welcome

[Newbi]

RIP Tony, I didn't know you long, but in that short time you made an impact. You will be missed by many xoxox

[dogsnbikes]

You said your hang around until today guess we should of been clearer about times:laugh:

You are an inspiration to many and now your soul rides free mate,:bye:

[yungatart]

Rest in Peace Tony. You sure deserve to.
Sadly missed

[martybabe]

Can't find words through the sorrow and tears, goodbye my friend x

[Edbear]

What everyone has said +1 :no:

[Katman]

Even though I never met him it was a pleasure to do a ride in his honour.

Condolences to those who knew him well.

[Paul in NZ]

Even though I never met him it was a pleasure to do a ride in his honour.

Condolences to those who knew him well.


Same here. He carried his burdens well. He has my respect for that alone.

[MadDuck]

It was an honour to have known Tony. Your strength of character was inspiring.
RIP......

[ducatilover]

RIP mate, my thoughts, cups of tea and oatcakes to all involved.

[willytheekid]

RIP...Ride In Paradise Tony :bye:

thoughts go out to his family and friends

[Fatt Max]

RIP Tony, an honour to have known you,
One of life's true gentlemen
Go well bud

[merv]

RIP Tony, say hello to the other bikers we know up there won't ya.

[mashman]

from what I read he seemed like a great fella. My sincere condolences to his family and friends.

[PrincessBandit]

Although I never met Tony I read with interest the threads by him and about him, and wish I'd been able to participate in the cancer ride a while back. Even knowing this was immenent it's still immensely sad.
My thoughts and prayers are with his family and many friends who are grieving at this time.

[Quasi]

RIP Tony - riding free and easy now.

[cowboyz]

RIP. real geniune guy. It was coming bt still a real shame.

[SuperSonic]

RIP Tony :bye:, may the highways always be in your favour now.

[Mom]

The time went too fast. Sweet peace to you Tony. Thanks for being you.

[Maha]

Tony, your courage and grit has been, and always will be, an inspiration.
Rest easy and ride hard my friend.

[Oblivion]

Outstanding guy with a big heart. RIP Tony, You deserve it.

[Pussy]

RIP, Tony. I will always have immense respect for your attitude and your courage.

[Owl]

RIP Tony. You were a real genuine nice guy and certainly deserved a better hand than the sucky one you were dealt.

[The Singing Chef]

I hardly knew you mate but from what I did know, you were an awesome person. You coped amazingly well through what you had to go through and came off as a strong man who unfortunately went too soon.

Life was tough but you still seemed so positive, were still able to have a laugh and get your skinny ass into the pool for a swim :laugh:

You are at peace now and you are now riding on the same clouds as Simoncelli and other friends and family. You will be missed by many and remembered by them as well. You showed courage to the very end may you rest in peace.

Ride into the sunset,
These wheels move your soul,
Ready to do battle,
Like a soldier in a war,

I remember,
When there were blue skies,
Before the dawn,

I would like to tell you,
That you are never alone.

Memories you left behind,
Legacys that will carry on,
It's been said you can capture 1 million words in a picture,
Can you leave some behind,

I remember,
When there were blue skies,
Before the dawn,

I would like to tell you,
That you are never alone.

Can you look back,
and tell me that you had fun?
Can you tell me you made mistakes,
you learnt and laughed, and cried and loved.

and learnt the meaning of
life.

Because you are a fighter,
You won't give up,
I know it looks hard right now,
but what do doctors know?

So stand up,
Shout it to the world,
Tell us your stories,
About your little girl.

The roads youv'e ridden,
The times youv'e binned,
The beautiful moments,
Where your screaming through the woods,

All I will say to you,
Is that we all care for you,
No matter what you go through,
We will be there for you,

Don't worry about the future,
It's still so far away,
Just live life to the fullest,
Forget about the world,

Just ride until your tyres run,
straight into the rim,
Twist that thottle back,
take one more last grin.

So hold,
your head up high,
The clouds may be rolling in,
But there is sunlight behind that darkness,
Waiting to be let in.

(Song I wrote for him awhile back.)

Rest in Peace mate. :bye:

[banditrider]

Ride on Tony, you'll be missed in the Manawatu threads and on the rides.

Thanks for introducing me to some of your favourite country...

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[bogan]

RIP Tony, I did not know you well, but well enough to know you were a top bloke, ride free.

[MSTRS]

Tony - a top bloke.
I'll miss him and his quiet humour.

Never a good time to say goodbye, mate - I guess you were finally ready.
RIP.

[Nova.]

RIP, Tony.

[blue rider]

The time went too fast. Sweet peace to you Tony. Thanks for being you.

could not say it better.

gone to soon

RiP

[Foghorn]

RIP Tony,

It was a pleasure to meet and ride with you.

You are in a better place now, enjoy the roads up there.....

[tri boy]

I only met Tony once or twice, and seemed like a top bloke.
Respect to his family and loved ones.

[blackdog]

No more pain. Will miss you round here Tony.

[Gone Burger]

RIP Tony. Thoughts are with his family and friends as you all grieve over this loss. From the beautiful words said from those who knew him well, a great loss at that. Can't even begine to imagine the battle you were battling - full respect from afar for the love you have earned from so many.

Ride free

[The Singing Chef]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V1bFr2SWP1I

[chanceyy]

Ride in Peace Tony, a genuine fighter who fought the battles but lost the war xox

[86GSXR]

Thanks for the wonderful tributes folks, Tony will be stoked :yes:

Here's the funeral details for anyone who may wish to attend

11am this Saturday 12th May, St Josephs Church, Victoria St, Hawera.

All welcome :)

[Mom]

Looks like we will see a few of you on Saturday. Ride safe those that travel.

[yod]

Cheers and beers Tony...

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Ciao for now...

[shafty]

RIP YNOTSLOW, very sad to hear you have left us, a Pleasure knowing you, sharing a road and a beer. You are one Good Guy and I really admire your guts and positivity Mate. Sincere sympathies to your awesome Daughters I didn't have the pleasure to meet but whom I know you were immensely proud of; Deepest sympathy to Family and friends - Tony always spoke fondly of you, Shafty

[86GSXR]

Cheers and beers Tony...

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Ciao for now...

Shit - that night got messy! :facepalm:

[martybabe]

In the land I come from 'Tara' is an affectionate form of good bye. This beautiful piece of music is called Tara (Goodbye) and I dedicate it to Tony. Tara a bit me mucka

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[dogsnbikes]

In the land I come from 'Tara' is an affectionate form of good bye. This beautiful piece of music is called Tara (Goodbye) and I dedicate it to Tony. Tara a bit me mucka


You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to martybabe again.

Very fitting Mate

[86GSXR]

In case anyone who'd like to attend Tony (ynot slow's) funeral but may have missed the details here they are.

11am this Saturday 12th May, St Josephs Church, Victoria St, Hawera.

All welcome

[Nasty]

Tony ... your inspiration will always be missed ..

your support and encouragement.

RIP .. a gentleman is lost today .. but will not be forgotten.

[cowboyz]

Shit - that night got messy! :facepalm:

for some........... damn good days back then.

I dont remember when I met Tony. He is one of those guys that has just always been around. I can say without a doubt that for all his stories that started and morphed into some irrelevant side tracked other story you had to like the guy. And it is outstanding the outright courage and determination that he showed on a day to day basis facing a unfair and vicious diease that has taken so many. It was a few weeks ago where we thought he would lose the fight but in true Tony fashion he stuck his finger up and did a big Fuck you to cancer and waited till he was good and ready.

I would say rest in peace but quite frankly, I cant see Tony staying quiet long enough for anyone up there to have any peace now............


All said and done, I can imagine Tony sitting up there right now going... Oh well, .. cant complain.. could be worse....

RIP to a real trooper.

[Mom]

I would say rest in peace but quite frankly, I cant see Tony staying quiet long enough for anyone up there to have any peace now............

Little shit told me if I harrassed him too much on the phone he would simply hang up in my ear, that just a couple of days ago :lol:

[Maha]

In case anyone who'd like to attend Tony (ynot slow's) funeral but may have missed the details here they are.

11am this Saturday 12th May, St Josephs Church, Victoria St, Hawera.

All welcome

Thanks Al, we are riding down tomorrow, staying in the area and coming home on Sunday.
Must bring my Port and have wee tot for Tony.

[MSTRS]

... Oh well, .. cant complain.. could be worse...

Tony to a T.
We all have to go to his funeral because "It'd be rude not to".

[martybabe]

for some........... damn good days back then.

I dont remember when I met Tony. He is one of those guys that has just always been around. I can say without a doubt that for all his stories that started and morphed into some irrelevant side tracked other story you had to like the guy. And it is outstanding the outright courage and determination that he showed on a day to day basis facing a unfair and vicious diease that has taken so many. It was a few weeks ago where we thought he would lose the fight but in true Tony fashion he stuck his finger up and did a big Fuck you to cancer and waited till he was good and ready.

I would say rest in peace but quite frankly, I cant see Tony staying quiet long enough for anyone up there to have any peace now............


All said and done, I can imagine Tony sitting up there right now going... Oh well, .. cant complain.. could be worse....

RIP to a real trooper.

Excellent, Tony summed up perfectly in a few sentences. :apint:

[Meanie]

Couldnt have said it any better than you have cowboyz except to add we are all a little better off for knowing him
RIP our friend

[Boob Johnson]

Holy crap! Was only chatting him a few months ago! Rest in peace Tony! Condolences to his good lady & the rest of the family. Twas a pleasure to know you Tony. You were always a friendly, happy fella with nothing but a nice word to say. My best memories of Tony was at my backpackers lodge, had a bunch of KB'ers staying during a rally, later in the evening after many an ale or two, his good lady picked up a large inflatable ball & drop kicked it across the lounge, it bounced off the wall & took out an entire table of empties, the place went deafly silent as everyone looked at me for my reaction. I just casually looked over & calmly said "well I aint cleaning it up!" :laugh:




I would say rest in peace but quite frankly, I cant see Tony staying quiet long enough for anyone up there to have any peace now............
So true, Tony to a tee lol

[tnarg]

Meet Tony on the Newbie ride up North seemed like a top bloke with an awesome sense of humour. I'm sure he will be missed. RIP

[chanceyy]

Holy crap! Was only chatting him a few months ago! Rest in peace Tony! Condolences to his good lady & the rest of the family. Twas a pleasure to know you Tony. You were always a friendly, happy fella with nothing but a nice word to say. My best memories of Tony was at my backpackers lodge, had a bunch of KB'ers staying during a rally, later in the evening after many an ale or two, his good lady picked up a large inflatable ball & drop kicked it across the lounge, it bounced off the wall & took out an entire table of empties, the place went deafly silent as everyone looked at me for my reaction. I just casually looked over & calmly said "well I aint cleaning it up!" :laugh:



that was a great nite and funny as !!!!!

ps - the errrrr "lady" was no longer his !! as of last yr ;)

[Meanie]

We are leaving Ashhurst petrol station at 8.30 and heading to meet up with Dogs and Mel in Wanganui if anyone is considering riding through to the funeral tomorrow and want company

[Mom]

We are leaving Ashhurst petrol station at 8.30 and heading to meet up with Dogs and Mel in Wanganui if anyone is considering riding through to the funeral tomorrow and want company

Looking forward to seeing you both in the morning. Ride safe!

[KiwiKat]

We can't make it to the funeral but will have Tony in our thoughts. Always enjoyed riding and hanging out with him at cafe stops. Ride safe tomorrow those who are heading there.

[pritch]

Damn! I just found the thread too late, the funeral is taking place as I write.

My thoughts are with Tony and his family, while everybody knew this day was coming that won't make it any easier. I don't think I'll watch either of those video clips for a while yet if that's OK?

[Pussy]

Damn! I just found the thread too late, the funeral is taking place as I write.

My thoughts are with Tony and his family, while everybody knew this day was coming that won't make it any easier. I don't think I'll watch either of those video clips for a while yet if that's OK?

It was a nice send off for Tony, Ron.

[yungatart]

It was a nice send off for Tony, Ron.

It was indeed!
Good to catch up with folk who we haven't seen in ages too. Funerals are great for that!

Tony's sense of humour and knack of having the last word was in full swing yesterday...Mom bore the brunt of it, but it is her story, so I will let her tell it.:laugh:

[martybabe]

It was indeed!
Good to catch up with folk who we haven't seen in ages too. Funerals are great for that!


Yes a fitting send off for an extraordinary man.

Lovely to see you guys again albeit briefly, you'll never know how much I needed that hug.

A day of deep reflection for me and many others.I've had a quick scan through the numerous messages full of sympathy, empathy, support and positivity he sent for the bride and me in his final weeks, you'd have thought the man wasn't going through any trials of his own.

One of the most selfless cheeky little scoundrels I've ever had the pleasure to know. Love ya Tone, tata mate x

[MSTRS]

One of the most selfless cheeky little scoundrels I've ever had the pleasure to know.

And that is all that is/was ever needed to be said. Nothing else goes further in honouring that delightful man.

[dogsnbikes]

Certainly a Good turn out.......and great too see all those faces.

We had the honor of catching up with Tony 20ks from Wanganui and let him lead us back into Wanganui....well guess it was about time he led a ride:msn-wink:

[Mom]

We are home safe and sound :sunny: Though I have to say the weather was total and absolute shite for most of the way back. My gear leaked :shit: and I was wetter than a wet thing swiming at the bottom of the ocean by Awakino.


As far as that little shit Tony goes, I reckon he got the last laugh yesterday. The park light was left on my bike while it was parked at the church, should have been ok but...

I had my heated grips on :facepalm: and as a result the battery was flat as a turd when we went to leave. A quick push start did the trick, I hopped on and uttered the imortal words "bet I stall it now" and promptly selected first without using the clucth :weird: Then 2 failed further attempts to crash start it resulted in Millie being abandoned at the church while we went for a drink with the family at the club in town and so I could find the phone number for roadside assist.

Standing at the bar I asked for a phone book or perhaps some jumper leads. Tonys father was standing next to me and he turned around and said, "Tony told me to put leads in my car today, because he knew you would do something stupid and would need them" if you please. Much mirth and halarity at my expense (Maha was a teeny, tiny bit dark for a little while when I stalled a 2nd time after getting her started off the leads) :Doh:

Lovely day to say goodbye to a lovely man. Our world is a little bit poorer for Tony not being in it, but wonderful memories of him and his journey to sustain us and remind us of how we should all aspire to the same Tonyness that we all loved. Rest in glorious peace lovely man.

Thanks for the hugs too you guys, much needed to get through.

[Maha]

Tremedous feeling to be there.
Not overly keen on the whole full reqium mass thing but, its what Tony wanted.
I had words to say and wanted to say those words so badly.
I sought the chance to ask 'Father Ted' during the Communion bit...asked him if I could have a couple of minutes, because I wanted to speak.
He said..''the family has already decided how the service was to run, so no.''
Bit gutted by that, but never mind, thems the rules.

Anyway...what I wanted to say was...


Tony

We first met you at that party in deepest Manawatu (Aokautere)
Since that party, we have had the pleasure of your company on a few more occasions.
None more so that that recent trip to Cape Reianga.
The courage and strength that you have shown has been unbelievable.
Add to that your caring nature and determination, admirable traits indeed my friend.
You can talk the paint off an old tin fence Tony, and that’s the very essence of who you are.
It has been such a pleasure (for a lot of people) to have you around in recent times.
Back in March, there was a Cancer Society Ride Relay from Wellington to Auckland, with your name all over it.
It did not surprised me one bit, the willingness of those that have known you for however long (be it years or be it months) have offered up their time and commitment for this weekend.
We (your friends) are the ones that have had our lives enriched by the mere fact that you have been a part of it.
Your family has much to be proud of, I can say that with absolute certainty.
Our next Northland Ride will be in your honour Tony.
Love to you and your family at this time and forever more.

Thank you.

[Maha]

Big thanks to Marty the Lion Tamer and Mrs MLT for allowing us occupy a bedroom for two nights...:sleep:

Janet and John, love seeing you guys and thanks for the jump and bump outside the Church...:shifty:
So cool to briefly catch up with the Manawatu lads and bikers chicks..hope to see ya's later in the year :eek:
And the Naki lads also..:niceone:

Tony's daughter writing on the side of the Coffin.
Tony's brother to right carrying the Coffin..With good friend Ivan behind him.
John, Al and Barry on the left...

I wrote a couple of things on the lid...that James fulla from Ashtown told me to write 'Holdens Rule'...which I did.
Tony was Ford fan.

[martybabe]

Tony

We first met you at that party in deepest Manawatu.............
Thank you.[/CENTER]

Lovely words.




Janet and John, love seeing you guys and thanks for the jump and bump outside the Church...:shifty:
.

Hay, I only got a hug, bloomin swingers!:bleh:


Always welcome at the ranch Momaha x

[swbarnett]

Condolences to family and friends of Tony at this sad time. Our thoughts are with you all.

Irene and I didn't know Tony that well (we met him for the first time on the Cape trip late last year) but it seemed clear that the world was a better place with him in it.

[86GSXR]

It's really hitting me now, that we'll never see his posts appear, here or on FB, never get any more of those outrageous, hilarious text jokes, never get word to meet for a coffee or a request for a bed for the night.

Tony was staying with me on the 22nd of December last year. He left for his hospital appointment in good faith to discuss his options with his surgeon. He really thought there'd be no problem.

He rang me to come get him later that evening. I walked into the bar where he was and he placed a bourbon down in front of me and said "Well, good news. No chemo, no radiation. It's terminal".

I was shocked and so was he. He hadn't expected that. Through the shock he was busy making plans for his bucket list, some of which he achieved, some of which he didn't.

We went home and talked, and listened to music.

Early the next morning I walked into the lounge where his bed was.

He was awake and the first thing he said was "Well, it wasn't a dream".

One of the songs we played that night was this one, Tony wanted it at his funeral and it was.

Goodbye old friend, you will be missed for a very long time.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=keIvA2wSPZc

[cowboyz]

mate, Tony knew the score and played the hand he was given with pride and style. I dont think (and for the life of me I cant figure out why because if anyone had a right to no one would begrudged tony taking some time for himself but it wasnt his thing). So no feeling sorry for Tony. He is an inspiration in how to live selflessly.

[Maha]

It's really hitting me now, that we'll never see his posts appear, here or on FB, never get any more of those outrageous, hilarious text jokes, never get word to meet for a coffee or a request for a bed for the night.

Tony was staying with me on the 22nd of December last year. He left for his hospital appointment in good faith to discuss his options with his surgeon. He really thought there'd be no problem.

He rang me to come get him later that evening. I walked into the bar where he was and he placed a bourbon down in front of me and said "Well, good news. No chemo, no radiation. It's terminal".

I was shocked and so was he. He hadn't expected that. Through the shock he was busy making plans for his bucket list, some of which he achieved, some of which he didn't.

We went home and talked, and listened to music.

Early the next morning I walked into the lounge where his bed was.

He was awake and the first thing he said was "Well, it wasn't a dream".

One of the songs we played that night was this one, Tony wanted it at his funeral and it was.

Goodbye old friend, you will be missed for a very long time.



Pity this couldn't have been read out also, for Tony's family and friends to hear.
Personally, I would not have been anywhere else on Saturday, but there, for that sweet man.
Awesome words there Al...:niceone:

[dogsnbikes]

Great Service today and was fitting to see 2 race horses in the cemetry after the service considering Tony's passion for them...After the service we went too the Rutland for a drink and lunch,lots of laughs especially with father Ted at the Helm....

[86GSXR]

Lovely service, very cool day :yes:

Here's some pics including a couple of classic Tony jokes :laugh:

[caseye]

Had the pleasure and privilage of meeting Tony twice in the last couple of years.Got the full story from him the first time we meet. No punches pulled no strings jerked, he told it like it was.
We caught up again this year.Same story but now there was to be no happy ending.
Tony and I sat there surveying the talent and casting naspursitions on the parentage of some of those around us, generally having fun and keeping each other company.
My friend I was unable to attend your party and had I known of your funeral last Saturday I'd not have been able to make it either.
You already know why I'm sure so no explanations here.
here is for you mate.
Ride forever my friend enjoy the company and always be you, as you always did down here.
Caseye.

[Owl]

Hell, that year has gone way too quick.

RIP Tony

[Mom]

Indeed it has. Hard to believe a year has gone by. We were talking about him last night. I have his pic on my office wall. RIP Tony, gone far too soon.

[MSTRS]

Indeed it has. Hard to believe a year has gone by. We were talking about him last night. I have his pic on my office wall. RIP Tony, gone far too soon.

+1. Except - in this house we often talk about him. Gone but not forgotten.

[Maha]

I think Anne will have her pillion pegs down for Tony this year on the trip to the Cape.....''ya know''
I can still hear him say ''How can you not be in awe of this place'' as he lay there on his bed looking out over Cable bay..RIP Bud.

[yungatart]

We met Tony at a Manawatu party, he came to our place as a boarder a few weeks later. His sense of humour and his outlook on life meant that it wasn't long before he became a friend, and then part of the family.
I miss you heaps Tony....

[Mom]

I miss you heaps Tony....

I have him at work with me, and quite often just take a moment and remember. Today was actually quite hard.



Love you.

[caseye]

One things for sure, Tony's OK wherever he is.
Just hope those of us left to remember him are all OK too.
Ride safe you lot.

[Maha]

:drinknsin Good onya mate, that is all.

[caseye]

If I may borrow an expression Mom, my pegs will be down this year too.

[Mom]

If I may borrow an expression Mom, my pegs will be down this year too.

Yeah, he was one of the good ones for sure. He loved that Cape trip.

[Maha]

Talk about you often buddy, I have said it before and I'll say it again..your courage and grit has been, and always will be, an inspiration.

RIP my friend.

[caseye]

Well he's had 3 years of peace and quiet.
Not forgotten, remembered fondly, but remembered.