job offer

[NotaGoth]

Okay...

I took my cage to the vehicle testing station on Friday for a WOF, was sitting there flicking through a magazine when a guy standing by the counter being served turned around and said "I'm sure I know you, you have a face people remember." (yeah dude I'm hid its why I'm remembered) He would have been about in his mid or late 40's then again these days its hard to tell how old people are. Anyway, I didn't recognize him, and it was left at that.

Well curiousity got the better of me and I thought he may have been a fishermen off one of the boats a friend of mine from the UK worked with. Hell he looked like the guy, so I approached him and asked if he owned a boat and had anything to do with the tournaments etc etc that are held here in the Bay of Islands. Well, my bad that wasn't the case.

We got talking and he started asking where I worked etc etc. I wouldn't tell him. He then asked me if I work in massage parlour, then laughed a little.

Next thing you know he's going on about his wife whos just been in a major car accident, how shes almost lost her foot, strangely he didn't seem to be at all upset. Told me he runs his own business and told me how his wife may "need a hand" doing office work.

I thought "ok well this is my number" (gave him celly number) and told him to give me a call.. After giving him the number he then says.. "how old are you..?" "i'm 18" "ok thats sweet.." "oh are you busy.. would you like to come have a coffee with me?" I declined, and went on my merry way.

I recieved a call at about 10pm last night from the guy, I mean.. who calls someone that late to discuss a job? God even friends of the family have respect, and know not to call that late..

something about the "massage parlour" joke kind of got to me, then after the call he didn't get "straight to the point" bout the office work, gut instinct tells me to stay away and that something smells "fishy" (it ain't Fish) Or is my mind wandering too much and I could actually lose out on a decent job opportunity cause my gut instincts telling me the wrong things? Should I just ignore the next phone call and not answer? :blink:

[Str8 Jacket]

If there could be a decent job in for you then go for it! Just be aware of your instincts, be completely honest with him about the kind of work you are and are not prepared to do and take it form there... If he turns out to be a wanker leave it at that. At least you'll have something to laugh about in years to come.

[Karma]

Ignore it... probably has some kinda fetish problem or something.

Maybe he cut his wifes foot off... apparently amputees are sexy to some people.

[Ixion]

I'd call someone at 10pm about a job.

Does he, perhaps, run/own the massage parlour. Perfectly possible to work in a massage parlour in a clerical (or cleaning etc) capacity without having to "put it out".

Lots of people who run their own businesses are so busy during the day actually DOING business, that they have to spend all evening doing all the shit the gubberinment demands to do as well. So they don't actually finish until late.

And if he runs a massage parlour, I guess that would be a late hours type business.

As Ms Str8_jacket suggested, find out what's entailed, just make it absolutely explicitly clear what you are and are not prepared to do.

[Biff]

If he asks for a meet - meet in a public place during the day. Preferably with a friend.

[NotaGoth]

Str8 Jacket I am well aware of "gut instincts" usually they don't let me down, if they do mum usually picks up something and warns me. Usually ends up being for a good reason. Sadly she isn't here right now to do that.

[NotaGoth]

Ignore it... probably has some kinda fetish problem or something.

Maybe he cut his wifes foot off... apparently amputees are sexy to some people.

:O maybe he was eye'n me up to cut my hand off!!!! lol


:mellow:

[NotaGoth]

I'd call someone at 10pm about a job.

Does he, perhaps, run/own the massage parlour. Perfectly possible to work in a massage parlour in a clerical (or cleaning etc) capacity without having to "put it out".

Lots of people who run their own businesses are so busy during the day actually DOING business, that they have to spend all evening doing all the shit the gubberinment demands to do as well. So they don't actually finish until late.

And if he runs a massage parlour, I guess that would be a late hours type business.

As Ms Str8_jacket suggested, find out what's entailed, just make it absolutely explicitly clear what you are and are not prepared to do.

Thing is I stupidly never asked him what sort of "business" he runs, I should have done that but I had a blonde moment. All I know is it was office work. Its only the "do you work in a massage parlour" joke that kind of got me. I mean would you randomly ask someone you've just met something like that? I dunno I'm prolly worried over nothing anyway.

[Lias]

I dunno about massage parlours but I'm sure we can make you famous in err movies :grouphug:

I'm sure MDU and BJ will help out *grin*

[NotaGoth]

If he asks for a meet - meet in a public place during the day. Preferably with a friend.

Will drag some big mean looking bloke along thats for sure lol

[Smorg]

Yeah sounds pretty suss to me man. I wouldn't be calling at 10pm to talk to you about a job. Definately alterior motives involved, keep yourself safe and watch out for this dodgy cunt:done:

[DemonWolf]

Why not ring him back now.. and ask what sort of business he's in.... hopefully you may get his wife... and she'll no doubt set ya straight.

Just a thought

[duckman]

It's difficult to judge the situation over the net as so much gut instinct is derived from things like: the way he spoke, nervous desposition, shifty eyes, dress sense, spoken manner e.t.c.

But,

The way you've worded the conversation makes me think it sounds dodge.

Just be careful, he already has your cell number. Don't give him anymore information until you know what he wants.

Paul.

[NotaGoth]

Sounds dodgy to me. I would ignore it.
Unless it is the receptionest at a massage parlour then hook up the brothers with a KB discount aye?

Those muscles are pretty sore after a ride up that far north.


sounds a bit that way to me too..

KB discount, hmmm I could get you someone for free.. He would love to rub you down and relax those sore tight muscles.. Oh and his boobs are bigger than mine so thats a score :D

I'll give him your number.

[Ixion]

Thing is I stupidly never asked him what sort of "business" he runs, I should have done that but I had a blonde moment. All I know is it was office work. Its only the "do you work in a massage parlour" joke that kind of got me. I mean would you randomly ask someone you've just met something like that? I dunno I'm prolly worried over nothing anyway.


Well, you might if you worked in that business.

[NotaGoth]

I dunno about massage parlours but I'm sure we can make you famous in err movies :grouphug:

I'm sure MDU and BJ will help out *grin*


Is it the sort of movie where I get to run MDU and BJ over with a bulldozer? Cause if so, then I'm in!

[judgeshock]

I might be missing something here but in your public profile in here you have a link to i like porn? that doesnt seem to work. Is it possible hes seen you on there when it was working?:blank:

[WRT]

Def take a guy along if you do meet him, your boyfriend if you have one, or get a mate (preferably big and tough looking!) to pretend if you are single. If he thinks you are unavailable then it'll help put the brakes on any funny ideas he may have running round inside his head. But firstly, if you are intending to go ahead with it, when he calls make sure you find out what the business is (get the name so you can ask around about it) and what the hours are that the job would entail, as well as a job description.

Just be professional about the job offer and he will be able to see thats all you are interested in.

[Lias]

Is it the sort of movie where I get to run MDU and BJ over with a bulldozer? Cause if so, then I'm in!
If you can find a bulldozer, I'm sure I can find some guys to go err pursuade those two to lie down in front of it :-)

[Smorg]

sounds a bit that way to me too..

KB discount, hmmm I could get you someone for free.. He would love to rub you down and relax those sore tight muscles.. Oh and his boobs are bigger than mine so thats a score :D

I'll give him your number.


Is he the strong silent type? :blink:

[NotaGoth]

It's difficult to judge the situation over the net as so much gut instinct is derived from things like: the way he spoke, nervous desposition, shifty eyes, dress sense, spoken manner e.t.c.

But,

The way you've worded the conversation makes me think it sounds dodge.

Just be careful, he already has your cell number. Don't give him anymore information until you know what he wants.

Paul.

He kept asking where I live and where I work, its why I only gave him a celly number because I'm on prepay not contract so I thought he'd have to have some decent contacts if he really wanted to behave like a nutter.

[Karma]

:O maybe he was eye'n me up to cut my hand off!!!! lol


:mellow:

Then you'd have to wonder what he'd be doing with it...

:tugger:

[NotaGoth]

I might be missing something here but in your public profile in here you have a link to i like porn? that doesnt seem to work. Is it possible hes seen you on there when it was working?:blank:


Not possible, because that link is an absolutely fake one to get people like you excited over.. umm "nothing" :shake: And secondly I wouldn't post pictures like that of myself anywhere LOL

[NotaGoth]

Def take a guy along if you do meet him, your boyfriend if you have one, or get a mate (preferably big and tough looking!) to pretend if you are single. If he thinks you are unavailable then it'll help put the brakes on any funny ideas he may have running round inside his head. But firstly, if you are intending to go ahead with it, when he calls make sure you find out what the business is (get the name so you can ask around about it) and what the hours are that the job would entail, as well as a job description.

Just be professional about the job offer and he will be able to see thats all you are interested in.

Will do that, thanks :)

[NotaGoth]

If you can find a bulldozer, I'm sure I can find some guys to go err pursuade those two to lie down in front of it :-)

Well I can definately get my hands on a bulldozer, there is no doubt about it.... So how about those guys who can persuade those two to lie down in front of it.. hmm... LOL

[judgeshock]

Not possible, because that link is an absolutely fake one to get people like you excited over.. umm "nothing" :shake: And secondly I wouldn't post pictures like that of myself anywhere LOL

Jeepers i wish i really did get excited that easily.:lol:

[NotaGoth]

Jeepers i wish i really did get excited that easily.:lol:


Darn, I'll have to put up a valid link.. *doh*

[ManDownUnder]

Sounds really dodgy... from what you describe.

The massage parlour comment was a test - was the concept of one etc acceptable to you ... then he pushed it a bit further and got your details and verified you are "of legal age"...

Good move on giving out a celly number rather than land line. Feel free to have him stop calling you at any time. If you feel uncomfrtoable tell him so. But before you do that, get some of HIS contact details. Home number, work number, email address - whatever. If it heads downhill either now or int the future you need to be able to find him and hand him over to the authorities.

Now is the time to do that.

Have someone you trust be your "boyfriend", and have them ring him about the job. Have them prepared to ask some pretty specific questions and see if the job is really there. Pay rate, hours of work, how many people work there, name of company, what they do, annual turnover etc.

I'll help if you want... PM me - let me know.

Also - if you ring him, use 0172 (I think it is) in front of his number - it blocks your caller ID stuff so he can't capture that info. On the flip side - you CAN capture his info on your phone (if you haven't already).

Keep a diary of when he calls too, and if you ask him to stop, note that also. Anything beyond that becomes harrassment and the cops and Telecom take that very seriously.

Good luck
MDU

[Colapop]

A couple of queries,
How many potential employers have approached you without any indication that you were looking for work?
How many guys (in general, of any age) have asked you if you work in a massage parlour?
Without meaning to be offensive, do you think he got the idea that you may have been a massage parlour worker from any indication you might have given him? It's a fairly out there question to ask someone you don't know well.

How about a different slant on things,
Could it be possible he's been into a massage parlour (they're legal now) and thought he'd seen you and was offering you a job to 'save' you? ie. get you out of that despicable industry so to speak.

Bottom line is that if anything at all makes you uncomfortable about this guy then you can afford to be patient - that's what the social welfare benefit system is for. And before anyone gets up in arms about dole bludgers etc. I would far rather see a young woman given choices than feel she has to do something (a job) that makes her uncomfortable. The job market is fairly bouyant at the moment so I'm sure that option would be short term.

[ManDownUnder]

How many guys (in general, of any age) have asked you if you work in a massage parlour?

I'd rank that one as a "trial close" in sales parlance... sometimes you have to go for gold to see what the next objection is - or see if there are any at all.

If not, then you're in.

I'll bet he's tried that on a number of people and it's worked just once or twice - enough to make it worth his while.

Could be wrong of course- I might be slighting a pervectly normal guy - who rings about a job offer at 10pm... ?!?!?

[heavenly.talker]

Hmmm

This kind of got my alert goosebumps up!

Never do business with someone that makes you feel uneasy (physically or ethically).

It will come back and bite you in the bum some how.

Keep asking questions until you are satisfied that it is legit! If you get to this stage then ask for everything to be written down on paper.
Good luck and let us know how it all pans out :-)

[NotaGoth]

An indication being me sitting in there in the corner reading a mag minding my own business?Thats like stopping someone on the street and asking them if they work as a stripper just because you find them good looking?

No guy has ever asked me if I work in a massage parlour. So this will be the first.

I was there for a WOF, not sitting there looking pretty seeing if I could grab anyones attention, then again I'm female so blokes do have a right to "approach me" and ask if I work in a place like that, right? (wrong) Its actually insulting in a way.

next time I'll just jump in his car and go for coffee hey. Its not like I haven;t sat back and thought that it could have been a possible no harm intended job offer. Sadly certain things indicate other wise.

At the moment I have a job, have had the same job for the past 4 years, but would like to seek different career paths in hopes of going further than what I can if I stay working where I do. I think if the guy was genuinely offering me a job, he should have gone a different way about it. Like maybe, minus the "massage parlour" crack. Least that way I wouldn't have had to wonder :doh:




A couple of queries,
How many potential employers have approached you without any indication that you were looking for work?
How many guys (in general, of any age) have asked you if you work in a massage parlour?
Without meaning to be offensive, do you think he got the idea that you may have been a massage parlour worker from any indication you might have given him? It's a fairly out there question to ask someone you don't know well.

How about a different slant on things,
Could it be possible he's been into a massage parlour (they're legal now) and thought he'd seen you and was offering you a job to 'save' you? ie. get you out of that despicable industry so to speak.

Bottom line is that if anything at all makes you uncomfortable about this guy then you can afford to be patient - that's what the social welfare benefit system is for. And before anyone gets up in arms about dole bludgers etc. I would far rather see a young woman given choices than feel she has to do something (a job) that makes her uncomfortable. The job market is fairly bouyant at the moment so I'm sure that option would be short term.

[SARGE]

Kittie....



run.. dont walk.. this guy is up to something devious

1) the massage parlor comment..
2) the coffee invite
3) the call at 10 pm ( thats beyond normal civilized hours)

might just be the fact that i trust no-one to begin with..


its not paranoia is someone IS out to get you..


if you are looking to get a new job.. grab your CV and cold call if you need to... this guy sounds dodgy as hell

[Rhino]

Also - if you ring him, use 0172 (I think it is) in front of his number - it blocks your caller ID stuff so he can't capture that info. On the flip side - you CAN capture his info on your phone (if you haven't already).

Keep a diary of when he calls too, and if you ask him to stop, note that also. Anything beyond that becomes harrassment and the cops and Telecom take that very seriously.

Good luck
MDU
Hi Kittie,

Firstly, if you do ring this guy, the number to use is 0197 if calling from Telecom. If you use Vodafone, dial #31# before the number. This will withold your Caller ID from him. Secondly, if you complain to Telecom about him harrassing you with calls, note that Telecom will demand that you agree to press charges before they will put a trace on, or supply Calling Party Records to you.

Thirty Seven years in the Telecommunications Industry eventually has some use.

[NotaGoth]

Hi Kittie,

Firstly, if you do ring this guy, the number to use is 0197 if calling from Telecom. If you use Vodafone, dial #31# before the number. This will withold your Caller ID from him. Secondly, if you complain to Telecom about him harrassing you with calls, note that Telecom will demand that you agree to press charges before they will put a trace on, or supply Calling Party Records to you.

Thirty Seven years in the Telecommunications Industry eventually has some use.


thankyou Rhino, I doubt it would boil down to anything like that happening and me having to take any of those steps, but I'll make a note of that :)

[John]

hey dont need to talk about me puplicly, i mean fuck i just called for abit of lovin now this??? crazy.

[NotaGoth]

hey dont need to talk about me puplicly, i mean fuck i just called for abit of lovin now this??? crazy.


*rollZ* eyes.. look out cause i'll get that tall blonde guy who was fondling cucumbers in the NW to molest you :shake:

[John]

*rollZ* eyes.. look out cause i'll get that tall blonde guy who was fondling cucumbers in the NW to molest you :shake:
I:VE HAD HIM YEA THATS RIGHT I"VE HAD HIM

You know whats funny, when chicks come in, goto buy ONLY a small cucumber, then see the large wrapped ones, and their eyes light up fuck I love it.

On that note, how yOUUU doin?

[NotaGoth]

I:VE HAD HIM YEA THATS RIGHT I"VE HAD HIM

You know whats funny, when chicks come in, goto buy ONLY a small cucumber, then see the large wrapped ones, and their eyes light up fuck I love it.

On that note, how yOUUU doin?


:blink: does he stareee at you in that same lovinggggg way that he stared at mee..? kind of... horrified... umm.. confused........ err.. afraid............. god I don't know.. dAMMIT does he raise his brow at you too?

damn i didn't see those ones..

[SixPackBack]

sounds like u ride the cucumber pooftah

[John]

sounds like u ride the cucumber pooftah
no, but your dad does.

[madboy]

Girl - run. Aside from the cucumber mental pictures, everything else about this thread sounds wrong. Forget the job, not interested, no way no how. I can't see how this can have a happy ending if it starts like this.

[John]

I am sure kitty is educated enough to know that she should promptly ignore the sex deprived foot fetish fellow....

[SixPackBack]

I:VE HAD HIM YEA THATS RIGHT I"VE HAD HIM

You know whats funny, when chicks come in, goto buy ONLY a small cucumber, then see the large wrapped ones, and their eyes light up fuck I love it.

On that note, how yOUUU doin?

Bbbbbbaaaaahhhhh......I got room for the butternut pumpkin after lovin with you Johny boy

[John]

Bbbbbbaaaaahhhhh......I got room for the butternut pumpkin after lovin with you Johny boy
is that all :( I was hoping I could shove a crate of bananas up there and smuggle them through the fruit boarders of africa and make millions of dollars, maybe you need another working over you dirty dagged bitch eh?

[SixPackBack]

fuck sheep as well pooftah

[John]

fuck sheep as well pooftah
says the guy on the yellow triumpth....

But then again, I dont mind sharing baaaaaaaarrrbraaaa you know how it is, share and share a like, I will crack open a 12 pack and let you have your way with her after I'm finished, you know, gotta work the bitch into the mood... give her a trim... and such.

[NotaGoth]

:blink: *stickZ* the trolls back in their cribs.. :bash:

[John]

ohhhh, do it again :D

[NotaGoth]

ohhhh, do it again :D

i think you need a cold shower Johnny boy :spudguita

[John]

IT JUST DOESNT HELP THE SITUATION ARRRRRRRGHHHH

I need supression, BARRRBRRAAAAAA I NEEEDDD DYOUUUUU

[Virago]

Do you have the guy's name, and/or the name of the business?

A search of the Companies Web-site might give you some background info on the situation.

[Dafe]

Definately Dodgy! When a guy is taking massage parlours during an introduction to oneself, you don't need any other hints to know that it's time to depart, you call this your gut feeling. Others may call it bloody obvious!

[Biff]

Will drag some big mean looking bloke

I can do a good impression of Yoda.
"Help you I will"

[Virago]

I can do a good impression of Yoda.
"Help you I will"
Are the rumours true about the size of your "light sabre"?

[Biff]

Are the rumours true about the size of your "light sabre"?

Yes. It does glow in the dark.

[Motoracer]

An indication being me sitting in there in the corner reading a mag minding my own business?Thats like stopping someone on the street and asking them if they work as a stripper just because you find them good looking?

No guy has ever asked me if I work in a massage parlour. So this will be the first.

I was there for a WOF, not sitting there looking pretty seeing if I could grab anyones attention, then again I'm female so blokes do have a right to "approach me" and ask if I work in a place like that, right? (wrong) Its actually insulting in a way.

next time I'll just jump in his car and go for coffee hey. Its not like I haven;t sat back and thought that it could have been a possible no harm intended job offer. Sadly certain things indicate other wise.

At the moment I have a job, have had the same job for the past 4 years, but would like to seek different career paths in hopes of going further than what I can if I stay working where I do. I think if the guy was genuinely offering me a job, he should have gone a different way about it. Like maybe, minus the "massage parlour" crack. Least that way I wouldn't have had to wonder :doh:

You are a very smart girl and I'd say you are dead right, in this post. Trust your instincts.

Above all, wait till your mum gets back before making a move.. Not long to go now. You can always stall and tell the guy it can't happen till then for some other reason. Discuss this with your mum 1st.

Love, Sudeep.

[Sniper]

If he asks for a meet - meet in a public place during the day. Preferably with a friend.
Thats not how you wanted to meet me...... :lol:

[Colapop]

An indication being me sitting in there in the corner reading a mag minding my own business?Thats like stopping someone on the street and asking them if they work as a stripper just because you find them good looking?

No guy has ever asked me if I work in a massage parlour. So this will be the first.

I was there for a WOF, not sitting there looking pretty seeing if I could grab anyones attention, then again I'm female so blokes do have a right to "approach me" and ask if I work in a place like that, right? (wrong) Its actually insulting in a way.

next time I'll just jump in his car and go for coffee hey. Its not like I haven;t sat back and thought that it could have been a possible no harm intended job offer. Sadly certain things indicate other wise.

At the moment I have a job, have had the same job for the past 4 years, but would like to seek different career paths in hopes of going further than what I can if I stay working where I do. I think if the guy was genuinely offering me a job, he should have gone a different way about it. Like maybe, minus the "massage parlour" crack. Least that way I wouldn't have had to wonder :doh:

Thanks for being candid. I have one last question can you please tell me the guys name and where he works? I would like to 'visit' with him.:mad: :mad:

You are totally right to be offended and a huge rep goes to you for airing your concerns about about this (and I use the term loosely) person.
There are plenty of jobs for someone who has a proven record of employment (4 years is forever for some young people) and it speaks volumes to potential employers.:niceone:

[SARGE]

Thanks for being candid. I have one last question can you please tell me the guys name and where he works? I would like to 'visit' with him.:mad: :mad:



roll by and pick me up too Cola..we can play "tennis" with him..TL rider lives up that way too and he's not a small person either.. im sure he would enjoy a quick match..:stoogie:

[ManDownUnder]

roll by and pick me up too Cola..we can play "tennis" with him..TL rider lives up that way too and he's not a small person either.. im sure he would enjoy a quick match..:stoogie:

OI calm down guys... ... you left me out...

[ManDownUnder]

Hey Kitty,

Flick me your CV and I'll help clean it up (if you want) and stick a post on here saying what you ARE looking for.

Type of job, money, location and anything else important to ya... who knows what might come of it?
MDU

[SARGE]

OI calm down guys... ... you left me out...



oooooo... doubles tennis... TL and i against you two.. that'll be a giggle...:bash:

[Swoop]

next time I'll just jump in his car and go for coffee hey. Its not like I haven;t sat back and thought that it could have been a possible no harm intended job offer.

Kittie, you are pretty smart by all of your comments and posts, but please NEVER hop in someones car if you get this type of impression. Arrange to meet somewhere - in public - (cafe?) where you will be able to leave by yourself if needed.
This guy could be genuine, but WHY would any normal person mention these things in a casual meeting??? Does not make sense.

Go with your instincts.

[Swoop]

oooooo... doubles tennis... TL and i against you two.. that'll be a giggle...:bash:

Queensbury rules of tennis??:blip:

[SARGE]

Queensbury rules of tennis??:blip:


hell no.. there will be no "saving by the bell"

[ManDownUnder]

hell no.. there will be no "saving by the bell"

I tend to go for the "back of the head" shot while serving so best I play with myself

[Swoop]

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

[Colapop]

What's all this tennis talk? I was just thinking of going round there a hitting him ... a lot.

[SARGE]

What's all this tennis talk? I was just thinking of going round there a hitting him ... a lot.


yea.. you hit him to me.. i hit him to TL Rider...TL hits him to MDU...

[Colapop]

yea.. you hit him to me.. i hit him to TL Rider...TL hits him to MDU...

What? We have to take turns?

[SARGE]

What? We have to take turns?



its only fair man.. dont want to get a Traveling or a double Dribble penalty


unless you want to attach each limb to the 4 bikes and roll off the clutches...:doh:

[avgas]

Sounds a bit dodgey, but your not an ugly girl - so i can see how he could get confused.
Ring him back and just get straight to the point over the phone first - or like the others say, meet him up for lunch.

[ManDownUnder]

yea.. you hit him to me.. i hit him to TL Rider...TL hits him to MDU...

I say we just head slam the fucker into the post holding the net up and head off for a beer or three...

edit - i just re-read that... I sounds all tough (where's the chest puffy out smiley...)

[Colapop]

I'm a mild mannered man and totally refute any suggestion my alter ego might have made about any suggestion of violence.
We should talk about things - can't we all just get along?

[Ixion]

roll by and pick me up too Cola..we can play "tennis" with him..TL rider lives up that way too and he's not a small person either.. im sure he would enjoy a quick match..:stoogie:

Umm. Maybe I missed something? What's the guy actually done? Apart from ask one question that might be of doubtful taste (but also might be genuinely explained) - and make a phone call at a time that some people (though not me) think is too late in the evening . None of which sounds like a valid reason for beating the shit out of someone.

[Str8 Jacket]

Umm. Maybe I missed something? What's the guy actually done? Apart from ask one question that might be of doubtful taste (but also might be genuinely explained) - and make a phone call at a time that some people (though not me) think is too late in the evening . None of which sounds like a valid reason for beating the shit out of someone.

Yeah gonna have to agree here. I really think you have to give the guy the benefit of the doubt. Yes he may own a massage parlour or something similar that doesnt necessarily make him a bad person. It sounds to me like Kitty hasn't even talked to him about what kind of "offer" he is making etc. Dont be too quick to judge anyone, think of how people that don't know you see or hear you and what they may think about you....

[NotaGoth]

The guy hasn't done anything wrong. He could be completely genuine in this job offer. I do understand that. But after I recieved three phone calls, where my celly was left to ring and ring, in the space of 10 mins I don't think I should ignore the alarm bells that are going off in my head, and my gut instinct.

Thankyou for all the comments, its been appreciated.



*kittie*

[Colapop]

Umm. Maybe I missed something? What's the guy actually done? Apart from ask one question that might be of doubtful taste (but also might be genuinely explained) - and make a phone call at a time that some people (though not me) think is too late in the evening . None of which sounds like a valid reason for beating the shit out of someone.

Wrong one KBer and you wrong them all.

And as you well know Mr Ixion not even one tousandth of one thousandth of threats posted here has been acted upon. Does that mean that expressing the sentiment of righting a wrong is an invalid sentiment?

[Karma]

The guy hasn't done anything wrong. He could be completely genuine in this job offer. I do understand that. But after I recieved three phone calls, where my celly was left to ring and ring, in the space of 10 mins I don't think I should ignore the alarm bells that are going off in my head, and my gut instinct.

Thankyou for all the comments, its been appreciated.



*kittie*

Sounds like the guy is probably desparate and / or lonely.

I've been out a few times on the beers and thought 'hey... let's give that girl a call I met the other day see if she fancies some drinks :blip: '

If I were sober (ie confined by societys moralistic attitudes) then I never woulda called.

[SARGE]

Yeah gonna have to agree here. I really think you have to give the guy the benefit of the doubt. Yes he may own a massage parlour or something similar that doesnt necessarily make him a bad person. It sounds to me like Kitty hasn't even talked to him about what kind of "offer" he is making etc. Dont be too quick to judge anyone, think of how people that don't know you see or hear you and what they may think about you....


well the way i look at it.. you ladies are all our "little Sisters" and if anyone does anything to any one of you it WILL get ugly real fast.. no questions asked

we protect our own

[Lou Girardin]

well the way i look at it.. you ladies are all our "little Sisters" and if anyone does anything to any one of you it WILL get ugly real fast.. no questions asked

we protect our own

If they are all our little sisters, some posts have been very incestuous.
(You all know who you are)

And there's no way that I'm related to a Pisces.

[MrMelon]

Yeah gonna have to agree here. I really think you have to give the guy the benefit of the doubt. Yes he may own a massage parlour or something similar that doesnt necessarily make him a bad person. It sounds to me like Kitty hasn't even talked to him about what kind of "offer" he is making etc. Dont be too quick to judge anyone, think of how people that don't know you see or hear you and what they may think about you....

How YOU doin, little sister? :blip::blip::buggerd:

[SARGE]

If they are all our little sisters, some posts have been very incestuous.
(You all know who you are)


gotta keep it in the family man...



And there's no way that I'm related to a Pisces.


im sure Fish can take care of himself :doh:

[Colapop]

....we protect our own

yup

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[Lou Girardin]

gotta keep it in the family man...


How come you're called Dallas when you sound like you come from the Applachians?:whistle:

[SARGE]

How come you're called Dallas when you sound like you come from the Applachians?:whistle:


GGG-father was one of the first settlers of Texas.. family name


does Dallas sound like a male stripper???:shake:

[Str8 Jacket]

How YOU doin, little sister? :blip::blip::buggerd:

umm, thats BIG sister to you...... :yeah: :yeah:

[raster]

My Mum'n'Law would set him straight for you!!!

[Bartman10]

We got talking and he started asking where I worked etc etc. I wouldn't tell him. He then asked me if I work in massage parlour, then laughed a little.



It could be a lot worse! Maybe he wants to sign you up to AMWAY! :blink:

[Swoop]

It could be a lot worse! Maybe he wants to sign you up to AMWAY! :blink:

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl:
scamway... the quasi-legal Piramid game!!!
:buggerd:

[Colapop]

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl:
scamway... the quasi-legal Piramid game!!!
:buggerd:

Now, now there's no need for that. If you'll give me a few hours I demonstrate how the system works and how YOU TOO can be a millionare in a few short weeks, just sign here........:hitcher:

[raster]

Now, now there's no need for that. If you'll give me a few hours I demonstrate how the system works and how YOU TOO can be a millionare in a few short weeks, just sign here........:hitcher:

Don't forget to get the cheque book out and sign that too:2thumbsup .