" He's just not that into you" Oprah [Archive]

cowpoos

13th December 2005, 20:14

ok ,Ive been overhearing this program on 3 tonite, with oprah & some guy, talking about how to know if a guy likes a girl or something, from what ive heard,were all fucked, & all our wifes & girlfriends a gonna leave in search of that mythical perfect guy:weird: .Ive allready had a dirty look from the wife,saying "youve spent all nite on that cpu,Your just not into me.":doh:

maybe you should go and watch it and see what it's atually about rather than spout off some bullshit....dork

froggyfrenchman

13th December 2005, 20:17

Imgettn the dirty looks from the missis. Aparently theres no such thing as too busy... what biut me workn 16hr days to put you through school???

cowpoos

13th December 2005, 20:19

I THINK ITS ALL BULLSHIT , EVERY SITUATION IS DIFFERENT , AND THAT FUCKER IS JUST TRYING TO SELL A BOOK.

but yes...I believe winja has a good point here...

TwoSeven

13th December 2005, 20:19

I thought it was pretty accurate. But he is suggesting that if your not going to get what you want, you should dump the person and move on. While thats ok, I would suggest turning it into a friendship and moving on. I think some people are going to take whats said literally and dump their partners when probably all they needed to do was talk to each other.

Waylander

13th December 2005, 20:22

WINJA

13th December 2005, 20:22

maybe you should go and watch it and see what it's atually about rather than spout off some bullshit....dork
ITS BULLSHIT , YOU DONT HAVE TO WATCH MUCH OF IT TO KNOW THAT ,
GUYS DONT KNOW WHAT THEY WANT , GUYS ARE LIKE THIS "DEERRRRR IM A GUY , WHERE CAN I PUT MY COCK " , " IS THAT CHICK LOOKIN AT ME ,CAN I PUT MY COCK IN THAT".
YOU DONT NEED AN EXPERT TO TELL YOU WHEN SOMEONES NOT INTERESTED .

maddog007

13th December 2005, 20:24

maybe you should go and watch it and see what it's atually about rather than spout off some bullshit....dork

Sorry but im just not that into oprah......oh shit......:stupid:

cowpoos

13th December 2005, 20:24

Imgettn the dirty looks from the missis. Aparently theres no such thing as too busy... what biut me workn 16hr days to put you through school???

and spend 6hrs a day on the puter...instead of rubbing her feet and cooking her dinner...!!!!! :doh: :doh: :doh: :doh:

WINJA

13th December 2005, 20:29

maybe you should go and watch it and see what it's atually about rather than spout off some bullshit....dork
OF COURSE IM RIGHT , SUMMERS HERE NOW PAINT MY ROOF

WINJA

13th December 2005, 20:33

THIS GUY IS A FOOL , HE JUST SAID THE GUY HAS TO ASK THE WOMAN OUT , THATS NOT RIGHT , HE SHOULD COME TO NZ AND SEE WHAT KIWI CHICKS ARE LIKE , THERES A 50/50 CHANCE IN NZ THAT THE CHICK WILL ASK YOU OUT FIRST

Skyryder

13th December 2005, 20:34

ITS BULLSHIT , YOU DONT HAVE TO WATCH MUCH OF IT TO KNOW THAT ,
GUYS DONT KNOW WHAT THEY WANT , GUYS ARE LIKE THIS "DEERRRRR IM A GUY , WHERE CAN I PUT MY COCK " , " IS THAT CHICK LOOKIN AT ME ,CAN I PUT MY COCK IN THAT".
YOU DONT NEED AN EXPERT TO TELL YOU WHEN SOMEONES NOT INTERESTED .

I had a simple rule when hitting on chicks before I was married: are they hitting on me too? You don't have to be a rocket scientist to figure the right answer to that question. Trouble with a lot of guys they think they have only to start a conversation and the lady is going to down trou at the first opportunity.

Skyryder

cowpoos

13th December 2005, 20:37

SUMMERS HERE NOW PAINT MY ROOF

oh my god :zzzz: ....you still seem to think that quote you ripped off from a joke is funny....are you sure you don't ride a yamaha?

Waylander

13th December 2005, 20:39

oh my god :zzzz: ....you still seem to think that quote you ripped off from a joke is funny....are you sure you don't ride a yamaha?
OI!! What's wrong with Yamahas?:eyepoke:

Lias

13th December 2005, 20:39

What I want to know, is why did you unchain your bitches form the kitchen to let them watch tv in teh first place?

WINJA

13th December 2005, 20:40

oh my god :zzzz: ....you still seem to think that quote you ripped off from a joke is funny....are you sure you don't ride a yamaha?
I DIDNT RIP THAT QUOTE OFF , IT CAME ABOUT CAUSE MY ROOF NEEDS PAINTING , CAN YOU SHOW ME WHERE YOU THINK I RIPPED IT FROM?

flash

13th December 2005, 20:41

from the little glimpes i saw, i thought it was pretty much on the dot.
i mainly only txt back girls that i either like or is a good mate, i wouldnt waste my txts leading someone on...

maddog007

13th December 2005, 20:42

What I want to know, is why did you unchain your bitches form the kitchen to let them watch tv in teh first place?

:shit: :eek: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

maddog007

13th December 2005, 20:45

from the little glimpes i saw, i thought it was pretty much on the dot.
...

admit it youve been glued to it

maddog007

13th December 2005, 20:49

i mainly only txt back girls that i either like or is a good mate, i wouldnt waste my txts leading someone on...

Text flurting/dating is stupid IMO,if you or her really liked the other i think its worth a phone call at least.otherwise its just a big tease.

avgas

13th December 2005, 20:56

www.kiwibiker.co.nz ?????
Oh no hang on, im allready here...... what happened you guys? i thought a pop/bad link had sent me to the womens day website. I suggest you go out, and hug your bike and say your sorry for ignoring it and watching oprah

cowpoos

13th December 2005, 20:59

I DIDNT RIP THAT QUOTE OFF , IT CAME ABOUT CAUSE MY ROOF NEEDS PAINTING , CAN YOU SHOW ME WHERE YOU THINK I RIPPED IT FROM?

A man was in a bar when a great looking woman walked in dressed to kill. He couldn't keep his eyes off her. She finally turned and said, "If you like what you see, come and talk to me".

The embarrassed gentleman finally walked over and admitted that she was the hottest thing he has seen in a long time.

The woman said "Well thank you. If you want anything, just ask. No matter how strange or kinky, I will do it for $100.00. Only one thing, you have to say what you want me to do in three words"

The man thought for a second and then said, "Paint My Roof"

how do you like those apples!!!!!!!!!!! :laugh:

Waylander

13th December 2005, 21:02

That was posted in a thread just for winja a few weeks ago.

WINJA

13th December 2005, 21:04

A man was in a bar when a great looking woman walked in dressed to kill. He couldn't keep his eyes off her. She finally turned and said, "If you like what you see, come and talk to me".

The embarrassed gentleman finally walked over and admitted that she was the hottest thing he has seen in a long time.

The woman said "Well thank you. If you want anything, just ask. No matter how strange or kinky, I will do it for $100.00. Only one thing, you have to say what you want me to do in three words"

The man thought for a second and then said, "Paint My Roof"

how do you like those apples!!!!!!!!!!! :laugh:
THATS A GOOD JOKE , BUT SERIOUSLY I ONLY STARTED SAYING PAINT MY ROOF AFTER I BOUGHT MY RUN DOWN SHACK IN THE WAIKATO .
OK IS MY OTHER GOOD QOUTE STOLEN , TO CRAZY STEVE WHO I ACCUSED OF BEING A SLOW RIDER ,"YOUR THE ONLY GUY I KNOW WHO COMES BACK FROM A RIDE WITH INSECTS STUCK TO THE BACK OF YOUR HELMET"

WINJA

13th December 2005, 21:06

That was posted in a thread just for winja a few weeks ago.
DID I REPLY ? I REALLY DONT REMEMBER IT . I HAD PAINT MY ROOF AS A SIG SINCE FEB 05

SixPackBack

13th December 2005, 21:08

from the little glimpes i saw, i thought it was pretty much on the dot.
i mainly only txt back girls that i either like or is a good mate, i wouldnt waste my txts leading someone on...
Bullshit your still a virgin cock clutcher

Waylander

13th December 2005, 21:09

DID I REPLY ? I REALLY DONT REMEMBER IT . I HAD PAINT MY ROOF AS A SIG SINCE FEB 05
Not sure, didn't really pay attention.
And yep, pretty much aslong as I've known you, you've been asking for that roof to be painted. Exactly how far is this shack fro the Hillcrest suburb of Hamilton anyway?

cowpoos

13th December 2005, 21:10

OI!! What's wrong with Yamahas?:eyepoke:

when someone can convince me there are okay...I will retract that statment..

:blip:

WINJA

13th December 2005, 21:11

Not sure, didn't really pay attention.
And yep, pretty much aslong as I've known you, you've been asking for that roof to be painted. Exactly how far is this shack fro the Hillcrest suburb of Hamilton anyway?
HILL CREST YA POSH BASTARD , I LIVE IN HICKSVILLE NTH WAIKATO

flash

13th December 2005, 21:11

Bullshit your still a virgin cock clutcher

just because i dont have such low standeds, like you with that monkey and green hair...:lol:

and what do you expect, im 16

Karma

13th December 2005, 21:13

Waylander

13th December 2005, 21:14

HILL CREST YA POSH BASTARD , I LIVE IN HICKSVILLE NTH WAIKATO
Hillcrest, posh? Have you ever been here mate? It's mostly students renting flats and a vast majority of them are boy racers. We do have one crazy old Lycanthrope just up the hill from my place though.

maddog007

13th December 2005, 21:15

i mainly only txt back girls that i either like or is a good mate,.

The definition of a chick whos a good mate....= a really hot chick that i want to get with,but shes not interested & thinks im ugly,so im trying the nice guy card.

sorry flash im not trying to pick on ya

WINJA

13th December 2005, 21:17

I'm still waiting :cry: :crybaby:
YEAH SOME GUYS ARE UNTOUCHABLE , I KNOW THIS GUY WITH ONE TESTICLE , 3 FINGERS MISSING AND A THIRD NIPPLE AND HES GOT A CHICK , YOU MUST BE A FUCKEN WRITEOFF WEASEL , PERHAPS YOU SHOULD PAY SOMEONE

SixPackBack

13th December 2005, 21:18

just because i dont have such low standeds, like you with that monkey and green hair...:lol:

and what do you expect, im 16

You where I recall, commenting on something that by your own admission you know nothing about

Karma

13th December 2005, 21:20

YEAH SOME GUYS ARE UNTOUCHABLE , I KNOW THIS GUY WITH ONE TESTICLE , 3 FINGERS MISSING AND A THIRD NIPPLE AND HES GOT A CHICK , YOU MUST BE A FUCKEN WRITEOFF WEASEL , PERHAPS YOU SHOULD PAY SOMEONE

Well the fact I'm poor might be keeping them away as well... so no K'Rd ladyboys for me :slap:

cowpoos

13th December 2005, 21:21

DID I REPLY ? I REALLY DONT REMEMBER IT . I HAD PAINT MY ROOF AS A SIG SINCE FEB 05

I got that joke from that thread just then...but heard it when I was about 15-16 ish....

flash

13th December 2005, 21:21

You where I recall, commenting on something that by your own admission you know nothing about

mostly anything i comment on i know nothing about, thats one of the perks for being a kid :yes:

edit:thanks SPB ;)

maddog007

13th December 2005, 21:22

YEAH SOME GUYS ARE UNTOUCHABLE , I KNOW THIS GUY WITH ONE TESTICLE , 3 FINGERS MISSING AND A THIRD NIPPLE AND HES GOT A CHICK , YOU MUST BE A FUCKEN WRITEOFF WEASEL , PERHAPS YOU SHOULD PAY SOMEONE

I knew a guy whos isnt much better,he got a chick & we all thought WTF, then we found out she was partially blind & suffred memory loss,due to the after effect of having an axe in her head.:bash:

Wellyman

13th December 2005, 21:32

OI!! What's wrong with Yamahas?:eyepoke:

Everything Waylander.They are heavy and gutless, Ride Red!

Waylander

13th December 2005, 21:35

Everything Waylander.They are heavy and gutless, Ride Red!
Same could be said for Hondas. :stupid: Besides, Honda makes the Rune. I'de be ashamed to ride any honda just becouse of that.

Wellyman

13th December 2005, 21:38

I hear the new yamahas are rubbish! the TTR-230 vs the CRF230, people have been saying the Yamaha is slower, less suspension travel and more cluttered up. and they prefer a Honda

Waylander

13th December 2005, 21:42

Yea, but honda makes the RUNE! (http://www.amadirectlink.com/features/2004/concepts/Honda_Rune.jpg)

SixPackBack

13th December 2005, 21:43

I knew a guy whos isnt much better,he got a chick & we all thought WTF, then we found out she was partially blind & suffred memory loss,due to the after effect of having an axe in her head.:bash:
But was she a good root?

TwoSeven

13th December 2005, 21:43

The trick is to watch it to find out what that secret is then fake it long enough for her to forget about it again.

If it was on allready then I bet a majority of us males have allready fucked up and missed it. Anybody know what it was/is?

Wasnt a bloke program. It was a program to teach chicks how to tell when a bloke is serious and when he is not without the bloke having to say anything.

Wellyman

13th December 2005, 21:46

That bike looks cool! although I don't like the muffler, the whole look is awsome, Another great Honda!

Waylander

13th December 2005, 21:47

What drugs are you on and why arn't you sharing?:bash:

maddog007

13th December 2005, 21:50

Wasnt a bloke program. It was a program to teach chicks how to tell when a bloke is serious and when he is not without the bloke having to say anything.

Didnt say it was a bloke program,but if every chick took everything to heart like that,we would all be left hanging around at the pub scratching our heads,saying WTF.

cowpoos

13th December 2005, 21:51

I hear the new yamahas are rubbish! the TTR-230 vs the CRF230, people have been saying the Yamaha is slower, less suspension travel and more cluttered up. and they prefer a Honda

pifft....both girls bikes....get a suz or kaw :spudbooge

Waylander

13th December 2005, 21:52

pifft....both girls bikes....get a suz or kaw :spudbooge
Pfft, Mmmm Ducati...

Wellyman

13th December 2005, 21:53

What drugs are you on and why arn't you sharing?:bash:

None, but it seems cowpoos is on something because he's talking about kawasaki's and suzuki's which are worse then yamaha or honda :bash:

Wellyman

13th December 2005, 21:56

pifft....both girls bikes....get a suz or kaw :spudbooge

Suzuki's - Regular repair needed- I had a Suzuki and needed major repair , and a few months later I sold it on because it was almost dead!

Kawasaki - unreliable/ bits fall off - I also owned a KDX200 steel tanker, I had a few bits and peices fall off while riding and at one point a fuel line fell off and I lost all my fuel!

cowpoos

13th December 2005, 22:11

Suzuki's - Regular repair needed- I had a Suzuki and needed major repair , and a few months later I sold it on because it was almost dead!

Kawasaki - unreliable/ bits fall off - I also owned a KDX200 steel tanker, I had a few bits and peices fall off while riding and at one point a fuel line fell off and I lost all my fuel!

funny you mention that...part of owning my bussiness requires me to have reliable bikes....and everything seems to fall off hondas...but credit where credit is due...the engines seem to keep running even when they shouldn't.
and yamahas....well lets not go there...shesh!!! *cough*crap *cough*

I have found suz and kawasaki's to be the most reliable off road bikes...and kawasaki's to be the best alrounders and usually the most powerful...
suz and kawa seem to handle long term abuse and neglect alot better...and you can't accuse me of riding like a pussy offroad!

cowpoos

13th December 2005, 22:15

Pfft, Mmmm Ducati...

true...they arn't a bad machine....you getting one???? can I ride it???? :wait:

Waylander

13th December 2005, 22:16

true...they arn't a bad machine....you getting one???? can I ride it???? :wait:
Maybe, and probably not lol.

Wellyman

13th December 2005, 22:26

funny you mention that...part of owning my bussiness requires me to have reliable bikes....and everything seems to fall off hondas...but credit where credit is due...the engines seem to keep running even when they shouldn't.
and yamahas....well lets not go there...shesh!!! *cough*crap *cough*

I have found suz and kawasaki's to be the most reliable off road bikes...and kawasaki's to be the best alrounders and usually the most powerful...
suz and kawa seem to handle long term abuse and neglect alot better...and you can't accuse me of riding like a pussy offroad!

Nothing falls of my Honda mate. Your Honda's must hate you because you ride other coloured bikes.
WM

mstriumph

14th December 2005, 00:42

mostly anything i comment on i know nothing about...............

:banana: and you think that makes you different from us grownups?? :doh:

Lou Girardin

14th December 2005, 07:45

I've been married three times - I know nothing about women.

Except that Mrs Three is a good 'un.

TwoSeven

14th December 2005, 07:48

Nothing falls of my Honda mate. Your Honda's must hate you because you ride other coloured bikes.
WM
haha. this is true. Never ever yell at your motorcycle. They sulk and things start going wrong.

ManDownUnder

14th December 2005, 08:28

I liked the show...

Question one "My boyfriend has a life of his own - what do you think?"

(Oprah leading the crowd of women happy to get a free book) HE'S NOT THAT INTO YOU
===

Question Two "The guy I'm dating says he has other friends too - is that ok"

(Oprah and the mob) -HE'S NOT THAT INTO YOU... (te he he)
===

Question three "My husband owns a motorcycle and says I should get one too. You can't talk while riding them and he says he really enjoys riding"

(Oprah - rolling eyes and mouthing "here we go again") HE'S NOT THAT INTO YOU

===

You get the idea.

There were some dumb arse questions on there, but yes - selling a book was the #1 goal of THAT show...

Waylander

14th December 2005, 08:44

Question three "My husband owns a motorcycle and says I should get one too. You can't talk while riding them and he says he really enjoys riding"

(Oprah - rolling eyes and mouthing "here we go again") HE'S NOT THAT INTO YOU

.
Lol was talking to Ms.Pillion about that one last night. She says, any woman who thinks that because thier man wants them to ride a bike means they are "not into you" has never riden a bike. She has now firmed her resolve that Oprah does not know shit about what she talks about.

Same thing with that holier-than-thou dipshit Dr.Phil.

scumdog

14th December 2005, 10:24

I've been married three times - I know nothing about women.

Except that Mrs Three is a good 'un.

Meatloaf misquote here: I bet you said that to all the wives......:lol: :bleh:

Lou Girardin

14th December 2005, 10:48

Meatloaf misquote here: I bet you said that to all the wives......:lol: :bleh:

No. Only this one is number three. I call her my current wife.
How she laughs at that! :ar15: :thud:

The_Dover

14th December 2005, 11:19

Cibby

14th December 2005, 12:08

What were you sausage jockeys doing watching Oprah in the first place?

That would pretty much confirm to me that you're not into your missus and should perhaps give Maurice a call.........

It's not really that hard to communicate with opposite sex.

Yes well. when you use such basic terms as

"wanna root?"

and "can we use the toothbrush" :bleh:

and

"you want my cock"

you do make it rather easy for people..

The_Dover

14th December 2005, 12:49

Yes well. when you use such basic terms as

"wanna root?"

and "can we use the toothbrush" :bleh:

and

"you want my cock"

you do make it rather easy for people..

It fuckin worked didn't it?

ManDownUnder

14th December 2005, 13:46

It fuckin worked didn't it?

Not on me it didn't...

The_Dover

14th December 2005, 13:56

Not on me it didn't...

C'mon Nige, you said we was speshul friends and I said it would only hurt a little.

Dont you remember?:buggerd:

ManDownUnder

14th December 2005, 14:04

C'mon Nige, you said we was speshul friends and I said it would only hurt a little.

Dont you remember?:buggerd:

You told me that was a sheep... (hard to tell with the lights out... but you must have a hell of a hairy back...)

The_Dover

14th December 2005, 14:07

You told me that was a sheep... (hard to tell with the lights out... but you must have a hell of a hairy back...)

Ha ha ha, fooled you. That was Maurice..........:slap:

MOTOXXX

14th December 2005, 14:17

i think SOME of it was true as a generalisation but, I think a lot of it is stupid as people express themselves differently. who the fuck is he to judge.

there is also a book out called "your just not that into him" hahahaha
wouldnt you already know that. why would you need a fucking book to tell you
:bleh:

Beemer

14th December 2005, 14:36

I caught a bit of the show and thought to myself "you need someone to tell you that the guy isn't really into you when you know it damned well yourself?" I'd say every woman has gone out with a guy who makes excuses not to call or see her (been there, done that!) and I doubt a book would make much difference to the scenario. I can see it now - "yes, I know he only calls me every few months and he only seems to want sex, we never go out for a meal or anything like that, but HE REALLY DOES LOVE ME!" It would make a good Tui ad!

Get a life, get some self-respect and don't (to steal a Madonna line) settle for second best! But most of all, don't waste your money on a book when your friends could tell you the same thing for free. But I bet it will look nice next to Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus (or whatever it's called) and all your other self-help books that you read on the nights when that guy "who's just not into you" doesn't call!

SixPackBack

14th December 2005, 15:01

v.ros`

14th December 2005, 15:44

Saw that thingy..

was stunned as to all those problems the fool just said the same old line..

I mean wat if a dude is scared of commitment...and thus dont wanna marry or dont have the dosh to get married.. then how can this dude say he AINT into him..??

and as someone already said... if a person has a job and some mates... he doesnt have to like spend the whole freaking free time (outside his work) with the girl... how long would that last lol.. bet she would get bored of him in 2 weeks...

ahh welll guess the more ladies act like that.. the harder they will find a guy then... :)

placidfemme

14th December 2005, 16:37

*throws in my 2c*

oprah sucks... why not just place a blue screen with the words "hes just not into you" on the screen for an hour... would have been more interesting then slamming everyone down with the same answer... I think I watched about 10 minutes and got bored... sorry oprah but I'm just not into you :(

ManDownUnder

14th December 2005, 16:43

Ha ha ha, fooled you. That was Maurice..........:slap:

Well that's MY reputation buggered...

heavenly.talker

14th December 2005, 17:07

It has been my observation (15 years of having a mostly male clientle...ex-hairdresser) that when a man falls in love that he does make an effort to impress the person in question.

He isn't casual about the whole thing...in fact he's intense and doing his best to close the deal.

Men are just as socialised about the rituals of dating and love just as much as women are. Even the die hard bachelors bring on the romance when they meet someone they want...why? because films, books, and people all tell us that is how it is done in western culture.

In fact I would even say that Men fall in love more quickly than women...not as often I grant you, but they pretty much know when they have found a keeper. Women are alot more unsure and have to analyse every nuance of his behaviour to see if he is "the one"!

Women are also more hopeful...they set themselves up for disappointment and sometimes will hang in there, refuse to recognise the signs that he isn't keen.

I have seen some Men let women hang around because they do care for them, do want to be friends and not hurt her feelings... however, they simply are not interested in a long term settling down type of relationship...the women then thinks there is hope.

Women also are stupid trading sex in the hope of affection. Men are simply taking the women up on her offer...and why wouldn't they?

Sometimes the man then ends up with this women until something better comes along or because the relationship progresses and they don't feel they have options without being seen to be a bastard.

Caveat: these are generalised observations and do not apply to everyone!

This book has a place in popular culture as women do need a wakeup call.

Honey if he isn't respecting you, then he isn't ready for a deep and meaningful relationship. That might be his phase of life, it might be it's just not with you. Either or, don't hang around, that's not going to change his mind. He wants you, he will come and find you!

Before you go getting all upset, already formed long term relationships do not fit in to this. This is talking about relationships that are not committed or just starting.

And let's face it...life is too short to spend time with people that you don't adore! That's more like serving a sentence.

SPman

15th December 2005, 05:56

Well that's MY reputation buggered...
Just your reputation????

Pillick

15th December 2005, 10:33

I've finished okay...there are no last words of wisdom...it's time to pull your pants up and go home!

your sig raises other possibilities of why you would have 15 years of talkative male clientle... =P

But seriously, I think there are two types of not-committed relationships that guys have (or at least, that I've had)

1) Pretty much you are bored and want a girl, so you're just looking for something lightweight. This sort of situation really isnt fair on the girl, since all the talk, connections, affection really just boils down to maintenance. Its better for the girl to quote that quote and go, and probably better for the guy to find some other hobby.

2) You arent with a girl out of boredom, but because you see something in the girl that makes you think she could be "it". I wouldnt call it love and it certianly isn't anything the you are sure of. So what you do in terms of affection and romance isnt about "closing the deal" at all, you do it because you like it, she likes it, you like that she likes it, and your exploring whether she really is the one. This will go on till you are sure, and you make a commitment, or it all just fades away and reverts to type 1. Unless of course girl watches some show like this and kills it because she thinks "not sure" means "not that interested"

Subtle difference right?

heavenly.talker

16th December 2005, 07:40

your sig raises other possibilities of why you would have 15 years of talkative male clientle... =P But seriously, I think there are two types of not-committed relationships that guys have (or at least, that I've had) Subtle difference right?

You do know that men can't multi-task right...so what you are suggesting above about other possibilities is near impossible :whistle: :lol:

What you speak of is something very common. Woman hang around in the hope that something deep and meaningful will develop...this hardly ever happens.

It's like the big question I kept asking men all through the years.

What is the difference between a girl that you adore (best friend) and that you are happy to shag but would never settle down with and the woman that you fall in love with?

Women sooo don't get this:wacko:

R1madness

16th December 2005, 07:54

are you sure you don't ride a yamaha?

Yes i bloody do what of it???????????:motu:

ManDownUnder

16th December 2005, 08:02

What is the difference between a girl that you adore (best friend) and that you are happy to shag but would never settle down with and the woman that you fall in love with?

Women sooo don't get this:wacko:

It's the soul mate thing. A lot (a lot) of guy's don't get it either... till it happens. It takes the emphasis off the physical aspects of the relationship (sex as "doing stuff") by adding a deep emotional side.

In the meantime, the physical relationship is what gets enjoyed. It souknds like the women want to build on that initial relationship to get to the amasing soul mate emotional one, but most guys are happy with the physical.

Ever noticed how a lot of guys are happy to jump any brainless bimbo... ? Compare that to how many women would do the same.

heavenly.talker

16th December 2005, 19:48

It's the soul mate thing. A lot (a lot) of guy's don't get it either... till it happens. It takes the emphasis off the physical aspects of the relationship (sex as "doing stuff") by adding a deep emotional side.

So often you are the voice of reason :spudflip:
Wanted to give you bling for the post but alas I need to spread it around some more before you can get some :(

Ever noticed how a lot of guys are happy to jump any brainless bimbo... ? Compare that to how many women would do the same.

Well it really depends what generation you are talking to...mine not that many...the youth of today are far more racy and will chuck a leg over anything for some weekend entertainment. My niece got to double figures before her 18th birthday and she is tame compared to many of her friends! I keep telling her she will wear it out but hooking up with randoms seems to be the cool thing to do:no:

BuFfY

16th December 2005, 19:58

Well it really depends what generation you are talking to...mine not that many...the youth of today are far more racy and will chuck a leg over anything for some weekend entertainment. My niece got to double figures before her 18th birthday and she is tame compared to many of her friends! I keep telling her she will wear it out but hooking up with randoms seems to be the cool thing to do:no:
My generation is the same.... unfortunatly, and many of us get grouped into this "lot". A lot of it comes from what we grow up with, we felt as though we needed to act older in order to be "cool" which is really sad.
Yeh some girls go out like that... they are called skanks... yet some do that sort of thing because they think that if they sleep with a guy he will want to talk to her again because when she didn't go home with the guy from the week before he never called... so I can see where this book is coming from, it is trying to get girls to get over the guys that are obviously not into them.. hence the anoying quote! If only guys would learn that if they are not into the girl they should not say... yeah I'll call ya... cause that is how girls get hurt!

maddog007

16th December 2005, 21:52

some do that sort of thing because they think that if they sleep with a guy he will want to talk to her again because when she didn't go home with the guy from the week before he never called... so I can see where this book is coming from, it is trying to get girls to get over the guys that are obviously not into them.. hence the anoying quote!

well i was always of the thought that to expect to sleep with the girl on the first date was a no no, & disrespectful,not to mention that its not likely to be a long term thing if that happens. so now women are telling us that if we dont try to get in there pants from the moment we meet,then we arent into them !!!.

it makes you wonder which gender has sex on there minds more.:confused:

BuFfY

18th December 2005, 15:55

well i was always of the thought that to expect to sleep with the girl on the first date was a no no, & disrespectful,not to mention that its not likely to be a long term thing if that happens. so now women are telling us that if we dont try to get in there pants from the moment we meet,then we arent into them !!!.

it makes you wonder which gender has sex on there minds more.:confused:

Maybe it is the fact you are a fabulous Cantab that has lead you to have this view?
But yeah girls so think, and talk about sex, a lot more than they make public... trust me!

Maha

18th December 2005, 16:14

oh my god :zzzz: ....you still seem to think that quote you ripped off from a joke is funny....are you sure you don't ride a yamaha?
Mr POOOOOOS ! I GUESS LIVING WHERE YOU DO, ALL THAT METHANE IN THE AIR HAS CLOUDED YOUR THINKING. TELL ME? WHICH BIKE MANUFACTURER WON BOTH THE MOTOGP AND WORLD SUPER X THIS YEAR? THAAAAAAAAATS RIGHT YAMAHA..........YOU AND OPRAH SHOULD HAVE A CHAT SOMETIME....

WINJA

18th December 2005, 17:19

mr poooooos ! i guess living where you do, all that methane in the air has clouded your thinking. tell me? which bike manufacturer won both the motogp and world super x this year? thaaaaaaaaats right yamaha..........you and oprah should have a chat sometime....

rossi won the motogp with the assistance of jerry ,and he coulda done it on the blatta ,kawasaki or suzuki , he was making a point going to yamaha so that he could win on a bike that had established itself as average, if you wanna boast about the yam just point out its placing in master bike this year