Valentines Day Fall-Out

[Karma]

Well I'm interested given it was valentines day yesterday (if you forgot it's now offically too late)...

I'm gonna ask the big question.


What does love / romance / marriage mean to you?

[mstriumph]

'hugs & kisses' doesn't begin to cover it ------ so i'll stay quiet on this one :rolleyes:

[buellbabe]

You ask what Love really is and then offer those pathetic options for voting?
Got alot to say on the topic so gonna hold my tongue for now and have a wee think. Will revisit this thread later!

[APPLE]

:love: :love: hugs'n kisses,yeh man?thats wot its about,unionship bro?man and woman?......man i gotta go out and find me a woman?:cry: :cry: :cry:

[Grahameeboy]

:love: :love: hugs'n kisses,yeh man?thats wot its about,unionship bro?man and woman?......man i gotta go out and find me a woman?:cry: :cry: :cry:

Do you need any help.....safety in numbers!!!

[Grahameeboy]

You ask what Love really is and then offer those pathetic options for voting?
Got alot to say on the topic so gonna hold my tongue for now and have a wee think. Will revisit this thread later!

BB Have you had your wee think yet?? ,:brick:

Agree though that options are not varied......I mean where is 'Hugging my bike'.....

[buellbabe]

Still thinking baby...

[Grahameeboy]

Still thinking baby...

tease!!.............................how hard is it.........you know Cowpoos embodies your dream man..!!

[Ms Piggy]

A combination of hugs & kisses and doin' the washing up.

[Grahameeboy]

A combination of hugs & kisses and doin' the washing up.

so wet hugs and kisses then.......reckon the tea towel fight is good too........especially if you wet the end....

[Motoracer]

At the risk of being labeled as a 'poof' by my c*nty as good mates, I'd say its the most beautiful feeling you'll ever experience in your life. It's something that makes you weak no matter who you are and at the same time it can make you far stronger as a person.

Weak as in, you become oblivious to what is logical, as in the whole "love is blind" thing. Which is very true. Suddenly you are ready to make sacrifices that you normally wouldn't even think about because all you care about is that certain someone.

Then Strong as in, you suddenly get a boost of motivation for your whole life. It's that desire to want to wake up the next morning, not just to drive your flash bike to your flash job... It'll simply be for the fact that you are waking up next to the person you are in love with. Once you are in love, you become complete no matter how rich or poor or what ever you are.

[Grahameeboy]

At the risk of being labeled as a 'poof' by my c*nty as good mates, I'd say its the most beautiful feeling you'll ever experience in your life. It's something that makes you weak no matter who you are and at the same time it can make you far stronger as a person.

Weak as in, you become oblivious to what is logical, as in the whole "love is blind" thing. Which is very true. Suddenly you are ready to make sacrifices that you normally wouldn't even think about because all you care about is that certain someone.

Then Strong as in, you suddenly get a boost of motivation for your whole life. It's that desire to want to wake up the next morning, not just to drive your flash bike to your flash job... It'll simply be for the fact that you are waking up next to the person you are in love with. Once you are in love, you become complete no matter how rich or poor or what ever you are.

You are not a poof mate.....nice words.....stop dreaming GBee

[buellbabe]

Righty-ho.. here goes...
Marriage: to me it doesn't mean much really mainly because it holds no attraction for me.Marriage+Kids have never beem part of my master plan. But for those that DO take the leap I guess its their way of saying to the world that they are so committed to each other they wanna make it official and 'seal their Love'...
LOVE: the biggie... this I have experienced and I believe in Love at First Sight. Its that crazy out-of-control state of mind when your whole existance is revolving around the object of your affection! Love is the daily comfort of knowing someone cares for you but its also an amazing Passionate All-Consuming Feeling of Desire, Want, Hunger, Need...
When you + your beloved are in-sync then Love truely is Heaven on Earth ;-) but sadly when you're out-of-sync its literally Hell on Earth. :-((
Romance:well I reckon its all the little things that go towards keeping the Love alive. Its not necessarily flowers/choclate/jewellery/powertools... Personally I find Romance in riding with my man (in fact its a major turn-on) Walks in the bush, along the beach... lovin' under a starry sky. And I won't deny that I love getting dressed up and being taken out somewhere... Or being in a crowded room at a party and my man comes up behind me and whispers in my ear "babe, you are the hottest..." Yep that does it for me... sigh.
Sadly the man in question F**ked up BIG TIME and got the boot so still waiting for Mr Right... Luckily I am an optimist...:love: :devil2:

[heavenly.talker]

Love put in motorbike terms is when you are out on a ride whipping around the corner totally at one with your bike.
The feelings of joy, excitement, danger, being slightly scared and yet you can't get the grin off your face and do not want to stop probably sums it up.

[enigma51]

A good blow job

[Grahameeboy]

Thanks for sharing that, sounds like a stupid man BBee.......glad your are optimistic and looking at your profile I am sure you will be able to find your 'meaning'.....geeze some guys.......
My Valentine girl right now is my 3 year old Daughter....I cook for her, bath her, give her cuddles and kisses, take her out and wait by her bed until she goes to sleep......and get up at 5am!!!....what more can a girl ask for eh?

[Grahameeboy]

A good blow job

it's an enigma then??

[Colapop]

Weasel, did you postthis thread for someone to abuse you? I'm not gonna but I mean to say, you're asking a general question of two completely different ends of the spectrum! Thre'll be ructions over this one I tells ya.



You little stirrer:Pokey:

[enigma51]

it's an enigma then??

You got it took some time though :spudwave:

[SwanTiger]

My definition of the various relationships, mainly for amusement but these do extrovert my own opinion. If you find a spelling mistake, fuck you, yah' educated prick, in advanced.

Marriage
Gauranteed sex for majority of life span, however quality and quantity are sacraficed.

Love
State of mind arroused by physical and mental attraction to opposite or same sex with sexual motivations. Often thawrted as gushy moments of belly spun butterflies, exotic occasions of romance and an attempt to buy the world out of chocolates, jewellery and flowers.

Companion
Someone who you genuinely apreciate as a person and can accomodate as a part of your life. Their attention and opinion means a lot to you. You find plenty of joy and satisfaction from their company and when thinking of certain tasks or objectives consider them as a significant link in those tasks or objectives.

Friend
Just another person who needs friends, like everyone else, to help them feel wanted and adored, usually with false perceptions. Their opinion of you will alternate depending on the influence of other friends and your actions within a particular circle of friends. They will provide company in numbers on occasions as no one likes to be a loner, so to speak, but would happily ditch you for higher-class/more popular friends.

MATES
Always a phone call away. Keen to help you whatever the price, never expectant or demanding. Mutual connections, flow of shared information, desire to help one another acheive higher standards and position in life. Always forgiving. Foundation of trust through complete honesty and apreciation of fellow mates. Rare to find.

[Hitcher]

After having been with the same woman for 20-odd years, I'm probably not qualified to answer this.

[buellbabe]

Hmmm interesting Swantiger... I would put Love and Companion together. Can't be one without being the other. Mates, yep agree with that. My actual circle of Mates/TRUE friends is only about 12-15 people but the circle of "Acqaintances" is pretty vast. When it comes to the crunch I know who I can count on..

[Swoop]

Very nice words BB.
Good mates are the best. People who you can talk all sorts of bullshit and be on exactly the same wavelength the whole time...:yeah:

:ride:

[soundbeltfarm]

Well I'm interested given it was valentines day yesterday (if you forgot it's now offically too late)...

I'm gonna ask the big question.


What does love / romance / marriage mean to you?


when you first go out you say you love her to get some loving even though you prob dont mean it.

then you get the romance.

then you get marriage and normally you do love them but even if you say it you dont get any loving so then you buy them something for valentines day trying to buy a root.
then once you been married for a bit and got kids you cant even buy some loving from your wife.

so then you have an affair and get caught
then split up
then start the process again.
hahaah

[Sniper]

A good blow job

Hahaha, seconded.

[Kendog]

Love to me is... My husband cooks my dinner and oils the chain on my bike and when it's broken or in the shop, he lets me ride his bike. That's love!!:hug: Love you honey.
Mrs KD.

[nadroj]

Women need to feel loved to have sex.
Men need to have sex to feel loved.
Stalemate!

[Deviant Esq]

What does Love / Romance / Marriage mean to me?

Well, I won't go into the first two, but what is marriage? Really? Apart from the obvious, you know, committing to one person for life. Modern marriage really isn't all that different from what marriage has always traditionally been - coming together before whichever god you happen to believe in and asking that he bless your union. Marriage is a ritual of the religious, it shouldn't be any surprise that nearly everyone who is qualified to "marry" is some form of religeous leader. "With God as my witness, I now..."

So to me, marriage means nothing. I don't need to appear before anyone's god, nor do I need a legal document affirming that we belong to each other. Funnily enough, that's basically what a Civil Union is - takes religion out of the equation. I read an interesting article about a couple that were the first heterosexual couple to do that, and that's exactly why they wanted to have a C.U, because it took religion out of it.

Now, don't get me wrong. I love my partner to bits and I'm more than happy to stay with her for the rest of my life. She's a hell of a catch and I'm not about to give her up for anything, not even a difference in opinion on marriage. Trouble is though, little girls don't grow up dreaming of their perfect Civil Union now, do they?!? :blank:

Redge

[Grahameeboy]

You got it took some time though :spudwave:

what took time!!!!

[Grahameeboy]

[QUOTE=Deviant Esq]What does Love / Romance / Marriage mean to me?


So to me, marriage means nothing. I don't need to appear before anyone's god, nor do I need a legal document affirming that we belong to each other. Funnily enough, that's basically what a Civil Union is - takes religeon out of the equation. I read an interesting article about a couple that were the first heterosexual couple to do that, and that's exactly why they wanted to have a C.U, because it took religeon out of it.

Too true and often you don't find out until it is too late...

[enigma51]

what took time!!!!
The blow job :corn:

[Grahameeboy]

The blow job :corn:

geeze, how do you get that far down??

[Karma]

Weasel, did you postthis thread for someone to abuse you? I'm not gonna but I mean to say, you're asking a general question of two completely different ends of the spectrum! Thre'll be ructions over this one I tells ya.



You little stirrer:Pokey:

Me! stirrer! never!


It may have been a thinly veiled attempt to find out who the lonely single biker women are after Valentines day :dodge:

[scroter]

At the risk of being labeled as a 'poof' by my c*nty as good mates, I'd say its the most beautiful feeling you'll ever experience in your life. It's something that makes you weak no matter who you are and at the same time it can make you far stronger as a person.

Weak as in, you become oblivious to what is logical, as in the whole "love is blind" thing. Which is very true. Suddenly you are ready to make sacrifices that you normally wouldn't even think about because all you care about is that certain someone.

Then Strong as in, you suddenly get a boost of motivation for your whole life. It's that desire to want to wake up the next morning, not just to drive your flash bike to your flash job... It'll simply be for the fact that you are waking up next to the person you are in love with. Once you are in love, you become complete no matter how rich or poor or what ever you are.

can you fit your bike in the bed next to you?

[loosebruce]

Something that gets in the way of my bike..................

[Motoracer]

can you fit your bike in the bed next to you?

Na, my bikeS (what a pimp aya) sleep in my garage but since I can see them through my bedroom window looking through the garage window, I guess it is kind of like waking up next to them. :)

Although if you are game enough you can sleep with your bike like the dude in this old and famous pic here...

[Kickaha]

Love is the word you use if there is no other rational explanation!

[SlashWylde]

If those are the only options you consider worth selecting from to form the basis for a definition then you've got a lot to learn about love. None of them even begin to cover it.

Still, an interesting topic for discussion...

[rasty]

You ask what Love really is and then offer those pathetic options for voting?
Got alot to say on the topic so gonna hold my tongue for now and have a wee think. Will revisit this thread later!

+1 on this. Having been married for soooo long (like 30 years) your options don't even begin to cover it.

[SPman]

true love......

[SixPackBack]

true love......

Oh bbbbaaarbara..:msn-wink:

[Motoracer]

If those are the only options you consider worth selecting from to form the basis for a definition then you've got a lot to learn about love. None of them even begin to cover it.


Yep, I'm with you man. Hence, I couldn't select anyone of the options for this poll.

[kro]

Means absolutely zero to my wife and I. The trick is to do random acts of kindness all year round, then you don't have to buy an overpriced bunch of roses on Valentines day, and you can have a bad day that day, and not have to hide it.

[Mooch]

Looking through your options none apply , which leads me to think

1, You are probably single and are having trouble holding a relationship for more than a night and can't work out why
2, You spend to much time surfing p@rn
3, Your an Aussie , cos they are REALLY into sheep.

Love / Marriage for me is simple
A solemate for life.

[Ms Piggy]

If I may add a bit more to orginal statement...I think the type of love that lasts doesn't have a lot to do with a racing heart, butterflies in the stomach or getting that giddy feeling.

I definitely think there needs to be an attraction there but, for love to last I also believe there needs to be a connection beyond great sex & common interests.

I'm not really sure how to explain it but, before I met my current partner I didn't believe in all that "soulmate" hoo hah and when we 1st got together he wasn't looking for anything serious but, there is something different about us that neither of us had experienced before in a relationship...I guess that's what soulmates are...a deeper connection or something like that and that to me is what love is - well with your significant other anyway.

[buellbabe]

I am with ya on the Soul-Mate buzz but for me there always has to be the passion. I want to be able to look at my partner in 10yrs time and still think "god damn your sexy".

[Grahameeboy]

3, Your an Aussie , cos they are REALLY into sheep.



I thought they had recently discovered that sheep are for shearing?

[nadroj]

I thought they had recently discovered that sheep are for shearing?
No - just dagging!