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Grahameeboy
28th April 2006, 09:54
Having meeting with ex and Lawyers at 2pm this arvo to sort out Financial Settlement and Parenting Agreement which ex continues to ignore in part.

I am approaching on basis of what ex needs and hoping to keep the focus on Natalie and what we both need to look after her ie both have a home, and if she accepts she will end up with $425,000 cash and I keep house and no cash.....yeah she would be silly not to accept but my ex is not in a good space right now which I understand but Natalie needs to come first.

Otherwise, it will end up in Court next year, Law is in my favour and I am offering her more than she is legally entitled to and money would be better used for Nats.

Anyway, bring it on I say.

Have a great weekend all.

Fishy
28th April 2006, 09:58
Good luck mate!. Hope it all goes well and in your favour. :yes:

Sniper
28th April 2006, 09:59
Good luck matey.

Colapop
28th April 2006, 10:00
Keep the faith

SwanTiger
28th April 2006, 10:01
Best of luck to you, don't loose focus of what is most important to you.

Grahameeboy
28th April 2006, 10:04
Best of luck to you, don't loose focus of what is most important to you.

No way matey....other than God, Natalie is the most important part of my life and my faith will see me right.

Grahameeboy
28th April 2006, 10:04
Keep the faith

You can bet on it Mr Fizzy.........

Grahameeboy
28th April 2006, 10:06
Good luck matey.

Cheers Mr S.......if I need your firearms skills I will let youze know:rockon:

Grahameeboy
28th April 2006, 10:07
Good luck mate!. Hope it all goes well and in your favour. :yes:

Cheers but luck not required, just right......but I knowz what you are saying Fishy..

u4ea
28th April 2006, 10:13
wont prey for you ,thats not my thing but sounds like the law will be kind to you because your daughter is what is the focuss aye.good on ya matey

The Tazman
28th April 2006, 10:15
All the best and hope it all goes well.

Grahameeboy
28th April 2006, 10:16
wont prey for you ,thats not my thing but sounds like the law will be kind to you because your daughter is what is the focuss aye.good on ya matey

That is cool..................cheers.

Grahameeboy
28th April 2006, 10:17
All the best and hope it all goes well.

I intend to do my whole to make it so...cheers

Qkkid
28th April 2006, 10:17
Best of luck to you, don't loose focus of what is most important to you.
yes i agree good luck

Grahameeboy
28th April 2006, 10:18
yes i agree good luck

Cheers..............

scumdog
28th April 2006, 10:24
Be cautious - you're possibly not going to be dealing with a rational person in the 'other corner'
But good luck and be true to youself.

emaN
28th April 2006, 10:29
No way matey....other than God, Natalie is the most important part of my life and my faith will see me right.

That's the one bro!
Better to face life 'with' Him than not, innit?!

Here's praying for the best outcome for Natalie...

WickedOne
28th April 2006, 10:29
All the best mate, hope it all turns well.

Grahameeboy
28th April 2006, 10:33
Be cautious - you're possibly not going to be dealing with a rational person in the 'other corner'
But good luck and be true to youself.

I am only too well aware of that....to be fair Natalie's disability has hit ex hard but life has to go on.......this is why I am gonna go in with with what we both need and what ex needs to buy a house......a more positive approach, like holding a hand out to help which make give her some positives.

Always true to myself....only way I can be matey

Grahameeboy
28th April 2006, 10:34
That's the one bro!
Better to face life 'with' Him than not, innit?!

Here's praying for the best outcome for Natalie...

Ultra true................your prays will count......talked to God this am...all is good.

Grahameeboy
28th April 2006, 10:36
All the best mate, hope it all turns well.

Cheers.....it will be well whether today or another day..

MSTRS
28th April 2006, 10:39
Of all the deserving people out there you'd be at the top of the list (alongside your youngun). We wish you well this arvo

Grahameeboy
28th April 2006, 10:44
Of all the deserving people out there you'd be at the top of the list (alongside your youngun). We wish you well this arvo

Bless.....too choked to say anything else...........:cool:

Smorg
28th April 2006, 10:53
Bless.....too choked to say anything else...........:cool:

Well dont.....if theres anything worse than an ex its an ex you go to court against, good luck

DemonWolf
28th April 2006, 10:57
Best of luck.. I hope that an amicable agreement can be met. Stick to your guns though and keep your priorities insight. If the meeting isn't going anywhere fast.. then suggest a break so that heads can cool down and some rational thinking take hold (do it in a good way.. or the situation will just explode!).

Grahameeboy
28th April 2006, 11:04
Well dont.....if theres anything worse than an ex its an ex you go to court against, good luck

Okay....................

Grahameeboy
28th April 2006, 11:09
Best of luck.. I hope that an amicable agreement can be met. Stick to your guns though and keep your priorities insight. If the meeting isn't going anywhere fast.. then suggest a break so that heads can cool down and some rational thinking take hold (do it in a good way.. or the situation will just explode!).

Yeah..have stuck to me guns since June....trubs is it builds up ex's resentment despite fact it was her decision/affair and whilst it is weary....I have not waivered.

Break good idea....already have mind set to keep things to point as I called meeting and if she says "No" and I can see hat she will not budge then I will just close meeting for reflection but a coffee break sounds cool idea..cheers matey.

sels1
28th April 2006, 11:22
you 've got my vote, hope it goes well

yungatart
28th April 2006, 11:25
All strength and blessings to you mate, we are thinking of you.

Grahameeboy
28th April 2006, 11:27
you 've got my vote, hope it goes well

Cheers............

Grahameeboy
28th April 2006, 11:27
All strength and blessings to you mate, we are thinking of you.

Bless you younglady..............

kickingzebra
28th April 2006, 11:32
Got my brief prayers! Go well!

Swoop
28th April 2006, 11:34
Grahameeboy, the best of luck today! Going up against an ex with her lawyer is a rather unpleasant thing to have to do...
Keep us updated mate!

Sniper
28th April 2006, 11:34
Cheers Mr S.......if I need your firearms skills I will let youze know:rockon:

I do believe it is illegal to hire me for those skills. Im good at being lazy though.

Storm
28th April 2006, 15:15
Best of luck mate, definitly thinking of you

OMG
28th April 2006, 15:19
I hope that you come to an agreement where you both walk away happy.

jazbug5
28th April 2006, 17:52
Hope it went well, chap...

Scorpygirl
28th April 2006, 17:58
Hope it went well GB!! Continued thoughts and prayers are with you!!! :yes: *Hugz*

WINJA
28th April 2006, 18:53
I intend to do my whole to make it so...cheers
ITS JUST SAD THAT YOU DIDNT DISCOVER YOUR SEXUAL PREFERENCE B4 YOU GOT MARRIED AND HAD A KID , ALWAYS 2 SIDES TO EVERY STORY AYE GRAHAMEEBOY

BTW THE INTERNET IS NOT THE PLACE TO POST THIS STUFF

Streetwise
28th April 2006, 18:55
Im not a praying type of fella so i wont, But it must suck being in that position. I hope i never end up in court with my kids. Best of luck, It will all work out in the end...

Back Fire
28th April 2006, 22:09
Good luck! hope all things go as planned and you don't need to take it further.

It's a shame when this stuff has to go to court so I will rootin for ya that it's not needed!