Bitch

[Brownbikerbabe]

When a man calls you a "bitch" or "bitchy" how do you as a woman interpret that? Do you find it flattering or uplifting or demeaning and derrogatory?

Men use that word like it was a punctuation at the end of a sentence. I find it derrogatory and demeaning to women.

I for one HATE that word and I despise any man who uses that word to describe a woman as that.

"Man" well any guy that uses that word to describe a woman/lady with that word, to me, is not a man all. Most men respect their women and treat them like a lady, but the few pea brained men who obviously have not reached puberty (even at 40) do use that word to describe their girlfriends or wives have no clue as to how demeaning that is to a woman. Some women out there like being called that, but I am curious to know just how many woman truly like being called a bitch.

So, how do you as a woman. interpret it? Just a question.

[Str8 Jacket]

When a man calls you a "bitch" or "bitchy" how do you as a woman interpret that?

Usually as nasty and then I punch them in the face.


(p/t) for all you PC nazis....

[Karma]

It's gotta be better than 'ho.

As long as women tolerate these terms they'll continue to be used.

[Kendog]

I don't really mind bitch. I refer to myself as a bitch often, my husband says I'm a stink bitch whenever I won't give him what he wants :stupid: and my parents used to call me a little bitch all the time. Can think of a lot worse things to be called, like the C word that I really take offence to!! If you ain't got one, you don't have the right to use the word! :laugh:
Mrs KD

[Cibby]

Hmm... Are you secretly american?

If i am actually being a bitch, then i probably deserve to be called that.

Its the same as any name the describes bad behavior,, bastard, geek, retard,shit head, arsehole, etc etc.. whats the difference?

There are some women who let labeled bitch unfairly if they are being simply assertive, however there are a lot more women who rightly deserve the title, and some guys to..

[MSTRS]

.... like the C word that I really take offence to!! If you ain't got one, you don't have the right to use the word!
But I do....I own the bitch:shifty: :dodge: :shit: :chase:

[thatHurt]

women who rightly deserve the title, and some guys to..

That's right. Don't have to be a chick to be a bitch. Ho either me thinks.

[jimbo600]

Ontario Canada? Great place, where abouts Ottowa?

Anyhow I think the whole "bitch" and "ho" thing as all too US gangsta really. It is degrading to women. Personally I am pretty thick skinned and tolerate all sorts of crap. I admit I have used the term when BSing with other blokes (as you know blokes talk utter crap when together), but would never call a woman "bitch" or "my bitch" to her face.

In NZ a more common term is wahine. (Maori for female)

[Switch]

I don't think its a very nice thing to call a woman at all. Unless some people use it in a "naughty" way haha :laugh:

[Hitcher]

"Bitch" is just a word, like any others. It is how it is used that is the issue, rather than the word itself. If it is used intentially to hurt or diminish the person at whom it is directed, then I have a problem with that.

[Devil]

There are plenty of appropriate places for the word 'bitch'. eg. "I'm Rick James, bitch.". Just like there are plenty of appropriate places for 'nigger'.
"Fuck your couch, nigger! Fuck your couch!".

[The_Dover]

I like to say

"Take it all bitch, yeah, both inches"

[placidfemme]

I like to say

"Take it all bitch, yeah, both inches"

lol

I don't mind the word... I've been called a lot of things, and 90% are worse than bitch...

But my relationship is sweet... I call her my bitch and she calls me her bitch... lol As for other people... who cares what they call you...

[Postie]

and its always funny when some one says "BIAATCH" in a Cartman voice

[Mental Trousers]

I'm the Juggernaut bitch (http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-3934651591022114445&q=juggernaut) - the dumb arse gangster way of using the word (stolen from another thread somewhere in these boards). It's rather large btw, but very amusing.

[Colapop]

Bitch - female dog. Calling someone a bitch suggests that you view them as such, whether in jest or not. It's still derogatory.

[KATWYN]

I for one HATE that word and I despise any man who uses that word to describe a woman as that.

So, how do you as a woman. interpret it? Just a question.


I've said it before and i'll say it again. These men & woman that
call someone a bitch don't realise they are using an acronym

It is a compliment Brownbabe because it means......

B - Babe
I - In
T- Total
C - Control of
H - Herself


Katie

[MrMelon]

That babe in total control of herself betta have my money!

[Colapop]

If she's that controlling (your's is :nya:) she probably already has!!

[ManDownUnder]

As woth most words - there are a huge number of ways it can be interepreted... affected largely by the circumstances at the time if nothing else.

In general I'd view it as derogatory and can only think of "you lucky bitch" as an example where I might use it, as an emphasis, to a friend I know, if she got lucky in any reasonably substantial way.

[bobsmith]

Ok, here is a question, I would never call a woman a "bitch" but I would yell that out when something untoward happens to me (as long as it is not caused by a woman). of course I would say, "fuck" or "shit" more often but that "bitch" does sometimes replace it. Now, would you find that offensive? (that I'm using "bitch" as a common swear word?)

[yungatart]

I don't like it and will probably slap the face of anyone who dares to call me that to my face! As for you MSTRS, you DON"T own me - and its MISS Bitch to you!

[onearmedbandit]

Ha, I use it jokingly with the wife. Normally get told to 'get fucked' with her middle finger raised! It's all a piss take, we respect each other. But we are also comfortable enough with each other to give each other a bit of shit from time to time. Fuck in the 4yrs we've been together (married 1) we've only argued once, and the bitch was wrong anyway!!!

[mstriumph]

When a man calls you a "bitch" or "bitchy" how do you as a woman interpret that? Do you find it flattering .......................

not 'flattering' ............ 'flattening' - for him, that is .... :corn:

.................................................. .......... nah - that's the 'comic' answer .. not appropriate if it was a serious question, sorry

........if it WAS a serious question then i can't recall it happening but, if it did i think i'd probably take it in the manner it was intended and let that guide my response :confused:

was it a serious question? i mean, you are talking as though it's a standard form of speach [almost like 'mate' is used in australia] but i haven't found it so?

[cowpoos]

"Bitch" is just a word, like any others. It is how it is used that is the issue, rather than the word itself. If it is used intentially to hurt or diminish the person at whom it is directed, then I have a problem with that.
can you explain a good way to use cunt? bling if ya can??

[jimbo600]

can you explain a good way to use cunt? bling if ya can??

Man that's one smelly cunt, go give it a rinse would ya!

[cowpoos]

Man that's one smelly cunt, go give it a rinse would ya!
nah thats just a good excuse to skip filacio!!!

[Kendog]

Man that's one smelly cunt, go give it a rinse would ya!

I prefer your using of the c word at the bottom of your posting, now that is funnny, you bitch.:laugh: (sorry)
Mrs KD

[jimbo600]

I prefer your using of the c word at the bottom of your posting, now that is funnny, you bitch.:laugh: (sorry)
Mrs KD

Yeah sorry about that. Cowpoos brings out the worst in me. His fault.

[cowpoos]

Yeah sorry about that. Cowpoos brings out the worst in me. His fault.
yeah...my bad.....sorri

[The Stranger]

Its the same as any name the describes bad behavior,, bastard, geek, retard,shit head, arsehole, etc etc.. whats the difference?


Hmm... I always thought a geek was like a computer nerd.
Are they really as bad as bastards, retards, shit heads and arseholes?

[onearmedbandit]

can you explain a good way to use cunt? bling if ya can??

"He's a good cunt." Bling me, it's a tried and true piece of kiwi slang.


Saw a guy walking through town one day wearing a t shirt that read "I'm a good cunt".

[Smorg]

SMACK MY BITCH UP

[The Pastor]

Bitch, get your ass back in that kictchen.

[Ixion]

"He's a good cunt." Bling me, it's a tried and true piece of kiwi slang.


Saw a guy walking through town one day wearing a t shirt that read "I'm a good cunt".

It has the Trashman seal of approval, no less. As, here -http://www.kiwibiker.co.nz/forums/showpost.php?p=610705&postcount=5

[Brownbikerbabe]

Thank you for that applaudible response, I woke this morning and was very happy to see that the women that responded all said they find the word demeaning in some manner or other, but yes, I agree the "C" word when used as a weapon toward a woman is even worse and may cause the woman to do something that might end a man's life.

So listen up all you men on this forum, listen to what the women are saying here, treat your woman with respect and don't talk about your woman like she was a trash can infront of other men's girlfriends/wives or you will get an ear full. My neighbour was doing just that yesterday infront of the whole neighbourhood while the poor woman was in the house down the street and that made me pose this question here. I let him have it and my hubby let him have it he went home to cry or something, I hope he doesn't beat that poor woman too, so then I came here to vent.

Any man that demeans their lady in public should be hung up in the tallest tree by his balls!

[saul]

Any man that demeans their lady in public should be hung up in the tallest tree by his balls!

I don't usually like to get into threads, which aren’t about bikes, but this morning I did have a look at this one. While I don't agree with the word bi-ch being incredibly offensive (unless used as an insult or in anger), I do agree that men should never disrespect their lady (wife) in public or not.

[onearmedbandit]

Wow, calm down already. I treat my wife with the upmost respect, and I think you'll find most here do the same with their partners. So lay off the generalisations ok. And for every male that demeans his wife, either publically or in private there is a female who likes to do just the same.

Ah, what do I know. I'm just a male.

[Goblin]

"He's a good cunt." Bling me, it's a tried and true piece of kiwi slang.


Saw a guy walking through town one day wearing a t shirt that read "I'm a good cunt".
You're a clever cunt. Finn is a lucky cunt.
I'm not offended by swear words, they are just words. :mellow:

[MrMelon]

I don't enjoy cunt-ry music?

[The Stranger]

Wow, calm down already. I treat my wife with the upmost respect, and I think you'll find most here do the same with their partners. So lay off the generalisations ok.

We had a maori guy working for us, the darkest skin maori you ever seen. His nic name was niga. everyone calls him niga, his wife calls him niga, he calls himself niga.
If you call out his real name he doesn't even look around.
Now he is a big bastard and if you don't know him, quite intimidating, despite actually being one of the most amiable people out (unless riled).
Funniest thing is watching people come to grips with calling a black man niga. Most can't do it, some after half an hour of trying to call him by his real name give up and call him niga.
Is this a lack of respect. Hell no, one of the most respected people on site. He is a carpenter and everyone goes to him for help when they have a construction related problem, myself as the foreman would never hesitate to ask his advice.

My point is, it is all a frame of reference.
Too many people judge others by their standards and their education and their beliefs.
No one can or should judge you OAB unless they walk a mile in your shoes.

[Cibby]

Thank you for that applaudible response, I woke this morning and was very happy to see that the women that responded all said they find the word demeaning in some manner or other, !


bollocks,

i said nothing of the sort.

[Paul in NZ]

I don't enjoy cunt-ry music?

Now thats just in poor taste... ..

[Paul in NZ]

can you explain a good way to use cunt? bling if ya can??

Meh! People are always telling me 'You cunt do that here..."

[Paul in NZ]

So listen up all you men on this forum, listen to what the women are saying here, treat your woman with respect and don't talk about your woman like she was a trash can infront of other men's girlfriends/wives or you will get an ear full. My neighbour was doing just that yesterday infront of the whole neighbourhood while the poor woman was in the house down the street and that made me pose this question here. I let him have it and my hubby let him have it he went home to cry or something, I hope he doesn't beat that poor woman too, so then I came here to vent.

Any man that demeans their lady in public should be hung up in the tallest tree by his balls!

O h goodie...

Someone else telling me what to do.... Jeeze, join the labour Party, they are looking for a replacement for helen...

Look, if some looser dumps on his lady, he deserves to be lonely not hung up - it's hardly a capital crime! People do much worse things everyday (like speeding and stuff) If she is daft enough to put up with it, I'll bet he has an endless supply of it. Face it, there has NEVER been an easier time for her to just walk away!

Don't turn rudeness and stupidity into a gender issue 'cos it isn't. Its not soley a male preserve, there are plenty of women that exploit men as well as the otherway round so. People behaving badly towards each other is the root cause of half the rotten things that happen in the world.

Paul N

[The_Dover]

bollocks,

i said nothing of the sort.

Shut it bitch.:done:

[Lias]

What I want to know is who unchained the bitch so she could post this thread?

[Paul in NZ]

What I want to know is who unchained the bitch so she could post this thread?

Um.. I think your meds are turned up a little high.... :-)

[Cibby]

Shut it bitch.:done:


oh oh oh i'm sooo insulted, i feel soooo disrespected.... oh oh oh.. i'm gonna cry....


*claps Hands*

Comon everyone

R E S P E C T.. find out what...

oh well.. you know the rest..

*sigh*

now where is my gun.... i

[MSTRS]

Meh! People are always telling me 'You cunt, do that here..."
You perhaps did not hear the comma....

[smokeyging]

Thank you for that applaudible response, I woke this morning and was very happy to see that the women that responded all said they find the word demeaning in some manner or other, but yes, I agree the "C" word when used as a weapon toward a woman is even worse and may cause the woman to do something that might end a man's life.

So listen up all you men on this forum, listen to what the women are saying here, treat your woman with respect and don't talk about your woman like she was a trash can infront of other men's girlfriends/wives or you will get an ear full. My neighbour was doing just that yesterday infront of the whole neighbourhood while the poor woman was in the house down the street and that made me pose this question here. I let him have it and my hubby let him have it he went home to cry or something, I hope he doesn't beat that poor woman too, so then I came here to vent.

Any man that demeans their lady in public should be hung up in the tallest tree by his balls!

I personally think that woman down the street will have to get out of that relationship before something really bad does happen that they will regret for the rest of there lives.
It’s getting real bad when it affects a neighbourhood.

[Insanity_rules]

My Wife often calls me bitch, he-bitch or man-ho. Deuce Bigalow is responsible for a lot of mirth in my house. Not to mention requests of "Show us your mangina".

[Karma]

Your wife often get the hand cuffs out? stand on your testicles wearing high heels? make you wear womens clothes around the house?

[Insanity_rules]

Your wife often get the hand cuffs out? stand on your testicles wearing high heels? make you wear womens clothes around the house?

Hey I'm the king of my castle.......when shes not around :second:

[Smorg]

DAT BITCH IS A HOE YO!! I TAPPED DAT BITCH! BEND OVER BITCH

these are all beautiful phrases in the english language, they make our colourfull dialect diferent

[Hitcher]

these are all beautiful phrases in the english language, they make our colourfull dialect diferent
Especially when they're spelt and punctuated correctly.

[Smorg]

Especially when they're spelt and punctuated correctly.

yeah and punctuation was definately the effect i was going for.......