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APPLE
24th May 2006, 15:57
i've been a bit quiet lately on here but a close friend of mine passed away last nite in hospital while giving birth. its really hit hard, i couldn't believe it, or didnt want to? shock to the system. i remember her being funny, witty, bubbly, cheeky, and quite serious on occation, but she always had a smile you know man, if she didnt like you? she would tell you. but baby jocinda was born long enuf for her mum to hold her. But then there was a problem they had to rush her off to operate. then thats when we didnt see her again. But wot do you say or do man? you know?all i know is that i have to be here for junior and there two boys now,and now there new baby girl .so my heart is with junior to day folks, i will miss her dearly...................To god be all the glory and Honour.

WRT
24th May 2006, 16:01
Mate, thats harsh, lifes just not that nice sometimes, is it?

Best wishes for her partner and kids, this must be an incredibly hard time for them, to be expecting to gain a family member and wind up loosing one instead. I hope the baby girl (Jocinda?) is well, and that the family are pulling together.

Sniper
24th May 2006, 16:04
Condolences to all affected. Its not something I would even wish on my worst enemy and Im sorry to hear it :(

Edbear
24th May 2006, 16:04
That's rough, Mate. Condolences. I nearly lost both my wife and daughter at her birth, was pretty agonising thing to go through. You can only be there for them.

DemonWolf
24th May 2006, 16:05
Man that is harsh... and very scary!

I'm with WRT and best wishes for her partner, kids, family and friends.. a very big shock to the system.. I wouldn't know what to say or do.. but just to be there for them and support them when they need it.. to always be there.. and remember Joe and the great times she has had.. and bringing in a new born baby girl Jocinda.

My feelings go out to you and her family and friends and loved ones.

Fishy
24th May 2006, 16:05
Mate thats sad to hear. Best wishes to you, her family and may she rest in peace.

crashe
24th May 2006, 16:10
Condolances to her family and all her friends.

Freakshow
24th May 2006, 16:27
Truly Sad news, best wishes to the family and friend

Scouse
24th May 2006, 16:27
Condolances to you Apple and family and freinds Rest in Peace Joe

Smorg
24th May 2006, 16:39
That sucks man......its not really something that is considered as much as it used to be now that we live in the age of modern medicine, you just dont expect sort of complications in childbirth.

Paul in NZ
24th May 2006, 16:49
Ahhh damn... That is very very sad! Life just sucks sometimes and a death in childbirth would have to one of the suckiest things ever...

Nothing said in condolences to you and yours on this forum can be a bigger tribute than your first post. It has more truth and genuine heartfelt emotion than all the floury words in the world and I applaud you for it.

Support each other in this and you will all be the stronger for it, ultimately, this is what life, love, friends and family are all about.

To live in the hearts we leave behind is not to die." (Thomas Campbell)

Vicki and my thoughts are with you. If you can think of any practical thing I can do to assist you, please let me know.

Paul N

diggydog
24th May 2006, 17:32
my condolences for you and her family, and let there be better things to come in the future.
from dave

onearmedbandit
24th May 2006, 17:38
Words can not express the sympathy I think we all feel in a case like this.

SPman
24th May 2006, 17:43
What Paul said.

We forget that death in childbirth used to be a big killer. With modern healthcare, it's not something we really consider now - until it leaps up and hits you in the guts.

My condolences.

Brett
24th May 2006, 20:40
I can't comprehend the bitter sweet feelings of you and the family. A beautiful new little girl but the mother not there. So sorry to hear it, so utterly sad. Heartfelt compassion for all affected.

sunhuntin
24th May 2006, 20:46
memories can live forever...and her family and friends can all share these with jocinda [lovely name] so she will in a way know her mother.

@-;--

u4ea
24th May 2006, 20:51
sending love and thoughts at this time

oldrider
24th May 2006, 20:54
I wish I new of something to say that could help. Sorry doesn't seem to be enough, even though I don't know you or your lost love, sorry is all I have. John.

chanceyy
24th May 2006, 21:03
that is such a tragedy, memories do last foreva

condolences to the family & freinds left behind .

Scorpygirl
24th May 2006, 21:12
Sorry to hear about this Apple!! RIP to your friend. :weep: Condolences to you and the family!! :grouphug:

APPLE
24th May 2006, 21:33
I want to thank everyone here on kiwibiker,for your love.........basically just for your love?i know i dont know many of you,but i just want to Acknowlege you all.junior now has a challenge on his hands to bring up his family,without there mum.but i know he will get thru it,im there for him...............''Thank you ''kiwibikers

Madness
24th May 2006, 21:52
Just over a year ago a good friend of mine was killed, leaving behind a son and a daughter. He died the night before his daughter's birthday and did not make it to see her on that special day.

Be strong for your friend as he will need your support, sometimes without knowing it himself.

Condolances bro. I'll be thinking of those kids.

Insanity_rules
25th May 2006, 09:53
My deepest condolences to all in this difficult time.

Macktheknife
25th May 2006, 09:55
My condolences to the family and also to you, this is a tough situation and I wish you all the best.

scumdog
25th May 2006, 18:45
So dad, so sad, and we moan about our bike riding being 'life threatening'.

Condolences.

Nitzer
25th May 2006, 23:37
My thoughts are with you all, this is very sad indeed.

Actually I think I heard about this from a friend today, my partner's friend sent an email to us saying exactly the same thing about a friend of hers at Middlemore. We were quite moved as my partner gave birth at Middlemore 6 weeks ago.

Anyway I wish you all the best and feel free to PM me if you wanna go for a ride sometime in the future as I live near you in Botany.

Brett
26th May 2006, 20:47
My thoughts are with you all, this is very sad indeed.

Actually I think I heard about this from a friend today, my partner's friend sent an email to us saying exactly the same thing about a friend of hers at Middlemore. We were quite moved as my partner gave birth at Middlemore 6 weeks ago.

Anyway I wish you all the best and feel free to PM me if you wanna go for a ride sometime in the future as I live near you in Botany.

Yeah I will second that.