Need ideas for really special dates

[Motoracer]

Girl I've been seein for a few months now will be going back to her home in Germany in a few weeks.

I'll be sad to see her go but life goes on. She reckons it's 50/50 on wheather she'll come back or not.

So I just want to show her a really special time before she leaves.

I'm poor and can't spend money but I always make up for that with the effort and creativity and thought I put into things.

Would love to hear some ideas on what you would do to show a special lady a really good time, if you were in my situation.

She loves going out to pubs/bars/clubs at night and also tramping in the bushes in nature among many other things..

[98tls]

Take her to the beach early evening light a fire....make up a hamper of her favourite food and some nice wine do the romantic thing for awhile then out clubbing later....

[ManDownUnder]

Is she into skiing/snow?

Contact the staff at Whakapapa (or skifield of your choice), and let them know what you're up to... then...

Pack a picnic in a chilli bin, include a rug, ground sheet etc and have her come down and join you... go for a hike and happen across the cave, get the stuff out and have a picnic on the side of the mountain.

Pack a card and/or something she can take away with her. Homemade is good, something personal, that reminds her of you, and let her know how you feel... in writing. I bet she'll keep that for the rest of her days.

Same approach applies to a day at the beach, or maybe hiding something under/near a doc hut/other facility...

$$$ ain't where it's at... show her how you feel, and put the effort in,

[Fishy]

If she is keen on the outdoors mate, I know you are into MTBing so you could take her out to Woodhill during the day...you can borrow my softtail GT if you want, then afterwards head off for an evening dinner and a couple of wines somewhere at a beach by candellight (fires are illegal at most places) then off for a few drinks somewhere afterwards.

[SARGE]

man... if shes only 50/50 about coming back.. avoid the heartache and just move on...

hate to play Devils Advocate but reality sucks..good chance you will never see her again .. long distance relationships are a bitch

[HDTboy]

Read The Book.
You could take her for a sedate (for you) ride around the East Cape. Fires on the beach wouldn't be a problem out there, and the isolation is awesome. Pack a tent and sleeping bag, and hope it's warm.

[sunhuntin]

man... if shes only 50/50 about coming back.. avoid the heartache and just move on...

hate to play Devils Advocate but reality sucks..good chance you will never see her again .. long distance relationships are a bitch

yeh....i left the guy i wish id married in canada...and the americans didnt take my green card from my passport upon my return, so essentially im trapped here.
we chatted on msn for about year...i sent him birthday and xmas presents. actually...i was thinking he was dead! but i saw his msn username on a group, so sent him an email. havent heard back though.

moto....what mattered to me, was spending time with him. not what we did. he suffered a brain injury in a bike accident, so was mentally slow. he would sit at his kitchen table for hours...just sitting. and id sit with him, both in silence. occasionally, id brush and braid his hair.

im not sure what happened...he just stopped coming online. so i think we both decided, individually, to "break up". as i say...i would have married him, but he didnt want to. said he was too old [he was 54...i was 19]

[Big Dave]

yeh....i left the guy i wish id married in canada...and the americans didnt take my green card from my passport upon my return, so essentially im trapped here. [he was 54...i was 19]

Quickly - learn to play the guitar and write some country and western songs - you have the knack for it!

[padre]

Waitomo caves. Coromandel, Waiheke Island.... something memorable. Don't try the home date of pizza hut and porn movie trick is all. But you do want a reasonably uncrowded place.

[cowpoos]

it doesn't have to be big bro......

had a awesome chick friend of mine tell me once the ingredients of a perfect date....well to her anyway......

1.FUN
2.thought-full-ness
3.FUN
4.relax situation [as in no expectation of how things happen]
5.FUN
6.memorable
7.FUN
8.flexable [as in not planned to the exact detail of how things "SHOULD" happen]
9.FUN
10.good food

Ps: why not go to germany with her?

[Winston001]

Take her to the beach early evening light a fire....make up a hamper of her favourite food and some nice wine do the romantic thing for awhile then out clubbing later....

????!!!!! Why would he need to club her? Bit neanderthal innit?

[98tls]

????!!!!! Why would he need to club her? Bit neanderthal innit? :whistle: whatever it takes eh.............

[sunhuntin]

Quickly - learn to play the guitar and write some country and western songs - you have the knack for it!

lol...naw....ill just sing along with proper singers of that genre. keith urban for one....

[MattRSK]

Quickly - learn to play the guitar and write some country and western songs - you have the knack for it!

Country and western what the fuck, sounds a bit gay to me!! Are you trying to get some, cause the brokeback mountain theme song wont help ya. Haha

p/t

[Motoracer]

man... if shes only 50/50 about coming back.. avoid the heartache and just move on...

hate to play Devils Advocate but reality sucks..good chance you will never see her again .. long distance relationships are a bitch

Hey man, I've been through this many times before. It does get easier though... Had a different German Mrs when I was 19, Polish later on, Spanish after that.. All left and I moved on but I never regreted anything because every moment was an experience of a life time that taught me many valuable lessons.

I'm not counting on wheather she'll come back or not. It's nice in the movies but in reality, it's a bit different. Even if she comes back, she could have met someone else or whatever but even still, it would be a nice surprise for me to see her again if I do.

I just want to do this cause I like her and I just want her last few weeks in NZ to be really special cause I feel good about doing nice things for her. Kind of like my farewell present for her. Even if I never see her again, I bet you I'll still live in her memories and she'll live in mine. In a world were nothing is certain, where I could drop dead tomorrow, I'm just happy that I've still got 2.5 weeks with her. Nothing lasts forever anyway...

[Motoracer]

Pack a picnic in a chilli bin, include a rug, ground sheet etc and have her come down and join you... go for a hike and happen across the cave, get the stuff out and have a picnic on the side of the mountain.

Pack a card and/or something she can take away with her. Homemade is good, something personal, that reminds her of you, and let her know how you feel... in writing. I bet she'll keep that for the rest of her days.

Same approach applies to a day at the beach, or maybe hiding something under/near a doc hut/other facility...

$$$ ain't where it's at... show her how you feel, and put the effort in,

She's got a season pass but I am so broke that my phone is going to get disconected soon and I get people sending me all kinds of mail with bills I can't pay. But the beach thing like everyone else is saying sounds the go. Any special spots anyone like to let me know about? You can PM me if its a secret and I won't tell a single soul.

Her main pressie is going to be a wicked painting. Doesn't cost me anything extra cause I've already got all the equipment I need. All I need to do is put a bit of effort and time into it.

[boomer]

if you cant afford hair remover use scisors & a razor ( discard said razor after operation ).


another money saving idea by McBoomer :banana:

[Karma]

Even if I never see her again, I bet you I'll still live in her memories and she'll live in mine.


:lol::lol::lol::lol: Brilliant.

Is this the bit where Celine Dion starts singing?

[Motoracer]

If she is keen on the outdoors mate, I know you are into MTBing so you could take her out to Woodhill during the day...you can borrow my softtail GT if you want, then afterwards head off for an evening dinner and a couple of wines somewhere at a beach by candellight (fires are illegal at most places) then off for a few drinks somewhere afterwards.

Cheers for the offer man, She's got a MTB too.. Will keep in mind


Read The Book.
You could take her for a sedate (for you) ride around the East Cape. Fires on the beach wouldn't be a problem out there, and the isolation is awesome. Pack a tent and sleeping bag, and hope it's warm.

Will do man. Gotta read the book! Just so overloaded with assignments ATM! Nice ideas..


Waitomo caves. Coromandel, Waiheke Island.... something memorable.

Waiheke Island sounds good...


it doesn't have to be big bro......

had a awesome chick friend of mine tell me once the ingredients of a perfect date....well to her anyway......

1.FUN
2.thought-full-ness
3.FUN
4.relax situation [as in no expectation of how things happen]
5.FUN
6.memorable
7.FUN
8.flexable [as in not planned to the exact detail of how things "SHOULD" happen]
9.FUN
10.good food

Ps: why not go to germany with her?

Cheers for the pointers Poos! Goodies there. Except for the Germany trip. Can't afford it! Hello? lol Maybe someday though.. I could catch up with heaps of my mates in Europe then...

[MattRSK]

*rubbing his thumb and forefinger together*
Mr. Pink: Do you know what this is? Its the world's smallest violin playing just for her!

[Motoracer]

:lol::lol::lol::lol: Brilliant.

Is this the bit where Celine Dion starts singing?

That's the bit that makes me the sorta guy that I am, which then opens up doors to various perks, like making love to a hot German woman.! :love:

[MattRSK]

Cheers for the pointers Poos! Goodies there. Except for the Germany trip. Can't afford it! Hello? lol Maybe someday though.. I could catch up with heaps of my mates in Europe then...

If you really were into her you would build yourself a raft and float there.

[MattRSK]

That's the bit that makes me the sorta guy that I am, which then opens up doors to various perks, like making love to a hot German woman.! :love:

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[Karma]

That's the bit that makes me the sorta guy that I am, which then opens up doors to various perks, like making love to a hot German woman.! :love:

Each to their own... personally I'm too cynical to give a shit. I'd grab a bite to eat, wish her well, then fuck off back to work... but then again I don't have sex with many hot german women...

Oh yeh... and real men don't call it 'making love'... but I won't hate you for being a metro.

[Motoracer]

Blowing my own trumpet... LOL That'd be if I told everything that I've left out, due to its irralavance to my genuine question in my first post and modesty. N/M This thread isn't about that. Chur!


Each to their own... personally I'm too cynical to give a shit. I'd grab a bite to eat, wish her well, then fuck off back to work... but then again I don't have sex with many hot german women...

Oh yeh... and real men don't call it 'making love'... but I won't hate you for being a metro.

Each to their own indeed. There is a difference between fucking and 'making love'. Though, you have clearly stated that you are not the type of person who'd give a shit to differentiate between the two.

[Indiana_Jones]

:lol::lol::lol::lol: Brilliant.

Is this the bit where Celine Dion starts singing?


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I love you swanny :lol:

-Indy

[SwanTiger]

:hug:

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I love you swanny :lol:

-Indy
I love you too Indy :hug:

[Krayy]

Call Fullers to find out how much a weekend pass on the ferries would cost then you could:

1) Climb up Rangitoto (fairly easy up path or go the long way round)

2) Head out to Tiritiri-matangi for the day (nature reserve with lotsa walks)

3) Go to the Music Museum on Waiheke then a cafe in a vineyard

[Finn]

If she's said 50/50 then I don't think she's coming back. Sorry, but once she's back home in Germany in her own environment with friends & family, the thought of coming back will quickly fade. Most Europeans think NZ is a great place to visit but get really frustrated living in our backward environment.

I say that until she goes, it's all about you from now on. Here's something inexpensive that will guarantee results for you. Go hire Schindlers List and watch it together. Make sure you're all nice and snug, embracing each other. At a certain peak in the movie when the German atrocities are very visual, release from the embrace and start crying.

The guilt sex will be out of this world. You can thank me later.

[RantyDave]

the americans didnt take my green card from my passport upon my return, so essentially im trapped here.
I had that happen to me. I got to the US and immigration said "oh, they should've taken this out when you left". And that was it.

So, you want to go to the US? Go. It's no problem.

Dave

[cowpoos]

If she's said 50/50 then I don't think she's coming back. Sorry, but once she's back home in Germany in her own environment with friends & family, the thought of coming back will quickly fade. Most Europeans think NZ is a great place to visit but get really frustrated living in our backward environment.

I say that until she goes, it's all about you from now on. Here's something inexpensive that will guarantee results for you. Go hire Schindlers List and watch it together. Make sure you're all nice and snug, embracing each other. At a certain peak in the movie when the German atrocities are very visual, release from the embrace and start crying.

The guilt sex will be out of this world. You can thank me later.


FUCKING BRILLENT!!!!

[oldrider]

Jeez man, 50/50 is just her way of telling you that you aint quite cutting the mustard for her!
Stop thinking and talking about "you" and start focusing on "her".
It's not much use doing all this marketing if you can't supply the goods.
A satisfied woman is just like a homing pigeon, home is where her heart is!
No matter how far away they fly, they just gotta come home. Think about it! She wants "comitment". 50/50? This is just nesting talk!
Is it her that's 50/50 or is it really just you! :doh: How much does she really mean to you? That's what "she" wants to know! Good luck, John.

[The_Dover]

My 2c.

Stop asking others for ideas and do what you feel would make her happy.

Artists dont ask their mates what they should paint and songwriters don't canvas for ideas either. Unless they are crap.

For it to mean anything at all it's got to come from YOU for HER.

Not fucking cowpoos, oldrider or anyone else.

Hell, even my KY and oversized cucumber is from my heart and not yours.

[Motoracer]

If she's said 50/50 then I don't think she's coming back. Sorry, but once she's back home in Germany in her own environment with friends & family, the thought of coming back will quickly fade. Most Europeans think NZ is a great place to visit but get really frustrated living in our backward environment.

I say that until she goes, it's all about you from now on. Here's something inexpensive that will guarantee results for you. Go hire Schindlers List and watch it together. Make sure you're all nice and snug, embracing each other. At a certain peak in the movie when the German atrocities are very visual, release from the embrace and start crying.

The guilt sex will be out of this world. You can thank me later.

Thanks man! Along with Dover, my opinion about you has changed too. Thanks heaps guys. :)

[Motoracer]

Jeez man, 50/50 is just her way of telling you that you aint quite cutting the mustard for her!
Stop thinking and talking about "you" and start focusing on "her".
It's not much use doing all this marketing if you can't supply the goods.
A satisfied woman is just like a homing pigeon, home is where her heart is!
No matter how far away they fly, they just gotta come home. Think about it! She wants "comitment". 50/50? This is just nesting talk!
Is it her that's 50/50 or is it really just you! :doh: How much does she really mean to you? That's what "she" wants to know! Good luck, John.

Some thought provoking points there... Cheers. Not the sort of answers that I've got ready right at this minute, even to myself. Thanks.

Commitment is a scarry word for sure...

[HDTboy]

My 2c.

Stop asking others for ideas and do what you feel would make her happy.

Artists dont ask their mates what they should paint and songwriters don't canvas for ideas either. Unless they are crap.

For it to mean anything at all it's got to come from YOU for HER.

Not fucking cowpoos, oldrider or anyone else.

Hell, even my KY and oversized cucumber is from my heart and not yours.

He's fuckin right

[mstriumph]

........... avoid the heartache and just move on...

hate to play Devils Advocate but reality sucks..good chance you will never see her again .. long distance relationships are a bitch

not always - definately not always ...................who knows, something MR does after reading the ideas in this thread MAY just swing the balance ...... :hug:

[Finn]

not always - definately not always ...................who knows, something MR does after reading the ideas in this thread MAY just swing the balance ...... :hug:

Damn right. After renting Schindlers List tonight, MR's gonna be bombing her bunker with his dambuster! Woohoo!

[SARGE]

not always - definately not always ...................who knows, something MR does after reading the ideas in this thread MAY just swing the balance ...... :hug:

my wife and i kept up a long distance relationship for almost 3 years before i moved here .. it was a hard time for both of us.. i scrimped and saved and sold everything i owned to get here for good after 3 years of flying back and forth ( on a positive note .. i now have enough Frequent Flier Miles to get to Mars and back..)..left all my mates and a lucrative 20 year career 20,000 miles away..its not something i recommend doing ..its painfull and lonely at times to be this far from family and friends.. you dont have a support network you can fall back on.. you have to start from scratch when you only know one person in the country..you deal with massive culture shock and all kinds of drama ..


but yes Ms.T .. sometimes it does work out ..i have my soulmate and i doubt i would change much about it .

MR.. she may be dealing with the same thing i did when i came over .. talk to her about it .. seriously.. homesickness sucks.. if she means something to you .. find out what she needs in order to stay..


good luck whatever the outcome

[Finn]

left all my mates and a lucrative 20 year career 20,000 miles away.

Now I'm confused. I thought you were American. Given the earth's circumference is only 24900 miles, that places your homeland only 4900 miles from NZ, like Jakarta. You're a bloody muslim aren't you? Busted SARGET!!!

[SARGE]

Now I'm confused. I thought you were American. Given the earth's circumference is only 24900 miles, that places your homeland only 4900 miles from NZ, like Jakarta. You're a bloody muslim aren't you? Busted SARGET!!!



maths were never my strong point there Finn..


much like social skill arent yours .. :Pokey:

i still love ya though dwarf-boy :hug: ( and i mean that in a Chicago Bears/ Pittsburgh Steelers way .. not in a Rent-boy Masterbator / ShitMark way..)

[Matt Bleck]

He's fuckin right

you have no idea

[HDTboy]

you have no idea

He's fuckin right too

[Lias]

Roofies.. For that extra special occasion!

[MSTRS]

Roofies.. For that extra special occasion!

I was first with this 'suggestion'...some mod was a bit precious and deleted it:spanking:

[R6_kid]

viagra? give her a good weekends worth of ya pecker and make her want to come back. I thought you Nepalese fullas had lots of stamina anyway.

I'd go with what dover said (didnt know the cunt had a soft side!)... just flow with it man. Give her some of that energy you and texmo were passing around in the car down to Manfield and im sure you'll have a good night. :2thumbsup

Whatever you decide to go with bro, good luck and enjoy it.

[The_Dover]

don't give her the energy you and texmo were sharing.

not all chicks dig anal.

[Lias]

The guilt sex will be out of this world. You can thank me later.
And if it doesnt work, thers always the roofies!

[Sniper]

man... if shes only 50/50 about coming back.. avoid the heartache and just move on...

hate to play Devils Advocate but reality sucks..good chance you will never see her again .. long distance relationships are a bitch

I second that dude. Its not worth the hassel wondering round 5 years from now if she will turn up on your doorstep one day and you will have little stunting Motoracers

[Motoracer]

I second that dude. Its not worth the hassel wondering round 5 years from now if she will turn up on your doorstep one day and you will have little stunting Motoracers

It's not like that at all man.

I think you didn't read my views on the matter that I posted later on.

For everyone else's comments, cheers!

Will see how it goes...

[Motoracer]

Got a pretty solid plan for one date. An old mate owes me a favour. We'll practically be set free in a large area in Auckland where there will be no one else but us 2 and the view from up there is breath taking at night...

[SixPackBack]

This is a must read before your date Sudeep.
http://www.tuckermax.com/archives/entries/tucker_tries_buttsex_hilarity_does_not_ensue.phtml #278

[Lias]

This is a must read before your date Sudeep.
http://www.tuckermax.com/archives/entries/tucker_tries_buttsex_hilarity_does_not_ensue.phtml #278

Bling for that..
Tucker Max and Maddox are my gods :2thumbsup

[Motoracer]

Just to update you people.

Dates have been really good. I even gave her a farewell Present that earned me MAJOR brownie points. It's something that I created in a normal A4 print paper with a ball point pen and art pencils and an eraser. All done by hand. She said she was very touched and moved and thought about it for days... So much so that the scales have tipped over greatly in my favour so far.

So, after long intense, open and honest chats, let's just say that I'm in deep waters... In a good way. I've actually never been this deep. I know it should be scarry but I'm totally calm. I want this to happen.

I am keeping my fingers crossed and hoping for the best. She leaves this Friday. :bye:

If al fails, the hotties in my class who have been giving me advise and stuff now reckon I'm a real catch (after hearing out the stories). So I've got pleanty of plan 'B's!!

[R6_kid]

teh PIMP Sooooooooooooooooo-deep FTW!!!

so wheres the pics of your damsel then?

[The_Dover]

did you get to smash her back doors down?

[Motoracer]

teh PIMP Sooooooooooooooooo-deep FTW!!!

so wheres the pics of your damsel then?

Maybe you'll meet her in person one day, if she comes back.


did you get to smash her back doors down?

Maybe, maybe not. Like you said, not all chix are into that.

[Squeak the Rat]

I haven't read the thread but some good dates are:

1 january-new year
25 dec - the only time a big fat hoho prick can come in my chimlej
29 mar - int bisexual chick day
Wedneday - pay day

Sure there are more.

[The_Dover]

Maybe, maybe not. Like you said, not all chix are into that.

dirty bastard.

good on you, continental chicks are filthy.

[Motoracer]

dirty bastard.

good on you, continental chicks are filthy.

I wouldn't have it any other way brotha!

Went and saw her off at the airport yesterday. I just realised that my recent happiness was just the result of her presence. Her true importance only became apparant from her absence. I already miss her...

She's pretty much set to come back in less than 3 months provided that she won't have any visa problems, which is the only worry now. Even if that happens, fuck it. I'll go and see her there.

[Scouse]

Man that looks like a Tranny did it have a adams apple

[Motoracer]

Oh yea, just came to me that I had started this thread.

Maybe I have you guys to thank you for her coming back cause I did try some of the things you had sujested.

Well, she's back since 31st Jan this year and things are great! :)

Thanks again guys!

[Finn]

Oh yea, just came to me that I had started this thread.

Maybe I have you guys to thank you for her coming back cause I did try some of the things you had sujested.

Well, she's back since 31st Jan this year and things are great! :)

Thanks again guys!

It was the Schindler's List movie wasn't it?

[Mrs Busa Pete]

So what age bracket does she come in then.

[jrandom]

So what age bracket does she come in then.

Whichever age bracket is getting her off at the time, I suppose...

[mstriumph]

If she's said 50/50 then I don't think she's coming back. Sorry, but once she's back home in Germany in her own environment with friends & family, the thought of coming back will quickly fade. Most Europeans think NZ is a great place to visit but get really frustrated living in our backward environment.

I say that until she goes, it's all about you from now on. Here's something inexpensive that will guarantee results for you. Go hire Schindlers List and watch it together. Make sure you're all nice and snug, embracing each other. At a certain peak in the movie when the German atrocities are very visual, release from the embrace and start crying.

The guilt sex will be out of this world. You can thank me later.

Living proof that YOU CAN BE WRONG :sunny: she DID come back :love: and everything is roses ...........

it's all so lovely i think i'm going to cry ..........


and furthermore he's FAR too much of a gentleman to comment on the quality/quantity of the guilt sex [if any] .......

[Mrs Busa Pete]

Whichever age bracket is getting her off at the time, I suppose...

I was referring to his poll in the previous thread.

[jrandom]

I was referring to his poll in the previous thread.

... and I was indulging in a little filthy-minded wordplay.

[jrandom]

gentleman...

You haven't met MR, have you?

[Indiana_Jones]

Shit, don't dig this thread up!, AJ will be reading it now!

PS I'm a gentleman too :D

-Indy

[Motoracer]

It was the Schindler's List movie wasn't it?

No, but I sure will be using that idea very soon! :D


So what age bracket does she come in then.

I am not shy dating older women. 20s - 30s. Been there done that. However I won't reveal the actual age unless she discloses it in person if you ever met her. You know how it is with women and ages. The bracket would be 25 - 30+.

I am not going to say any details but the last few nights were pretty memorable and spectacular for sure! Now, her reward for coming back will be me making her realise she made the right choice by spoiling her further.

Awwwe guys.. Thanks for being happy for me! :D

[Mrs Busa Pete]

No, but I sure will be using that idea very soon! :D



I am not shy dating older women. 20s - 30s. Been there done that. However I won't reveal the actual age unless she discloses it in person if you ever met her. You know how it is with women and ages. The bracket would be 25 - 30+.

I am not going to say any details but the last few nights were pretty memorable and spectacular for sure! Now, her reward for coming back will be me making her realise she made the right choice by spoiling her further.

Awwwe guys.. Thanks for being happy for me! :D

Just so you know they do last and can very happy we have been together 161/2 years and married 15.

[Guitana]

Hey MOTORACER any chance you could bring in some of that awesome GERMAN PORN I've been hearing about!!!!!!!!
You know like Der Schiser ist Kaput!!!!!!

[T.I.E]

thats sad but such a happy ending, when do we get a complete write up on it all? and got to know how is it all going?

better than shorty st

[Indiana_Jones]

Pics.

-Indy

[Indiana_Jones]

Watch the 1st minute

All the single guys take note.

This is the animated me :D

And fuck I am smooth with the ladies :sunny:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FyqTenmMkDA

-Indy

done.

-Indy