Encouragement needed please

[Julie]

Hi Guys, I'm almost a totally new biker (38 years old and only been on a bike 4 times!)and wonder if I'll ever stop being petrified of my bike. I'm getting out about once a week for a 50k ride with my partner who has many years of experience and really have to force myself to go. The strange thing is I totally enjoy the last part of my ride home, it's such fun accelerating out of the corners. I just wish I could feel like I do at the end of a ride when I first set out. Any encouragement at all would be greatly appreciated.

[The Pastor]

You need to stop posting on kb and get out and ride.

Do a 300k trip every now and again (being easter you have the time!)

[The_Dover]

Smoke a joint before you get on it.

You'll be nice and relaxed and flow through the corners..

[Keystone19]

You guys are soooo helpful!

Julie, I hear what you are saying. Even to this day I often don't really get into a ride until I'm on my way home!

Strategies that I find help are to tell myself to relax, not try so hard, and perhaps focus on one thing only. The thing I find most useful is to focus on being smooth around corners - lining them up properly and concentrating on being smooth - even at low speeds.

You will get more comfortable the more you ride. Perhaps you also need to ride with someone other than your partner if possible?

[Ixion]

Well, 50km when you have ridden only four times is a jolly ambitious effort. So I would say you are doing very well.

Sounds like you are tensing up with anticipation. Perhaps, try to make your rides shorter and more spur of the moment. So going out ceases to be a "big thing" ? Try just taking the bike down to the shops or something.

[BuFfY]

You need to stop posting on kb and get out and ride.

Do a 300k trip every now and again (being easter you have the time!)

She has made one post!!!


Just go on a bike as often as possible, I used to be like that and now I pester for a ride!!

[Julie]

thanks so much fo a fast reply, I'm going to bite the bullet and go out and have a go this afternoon. Happy and safe riding over Easter

[Macktheknife]

Hi Guys, I'm almost a totally new biker (38 years old and only been on a bike 4 times!)and wonder if I'll ever stop being petrified of my bike. I'm getting out about once a week for a 50k ride with my partner who has many years of experience and really have to force myself to go. The strange thing is I totally enjoy the last part of my ride home, it's such fun accelerating out of the corners. I just wish I could feel like I do at the end of a ride when I first set out. Any encouragement at all would be greatly appreciated.

Hi Julie,
I am not at all surprised that you are feeling this way, after all it is very early days yet.
I would suggest thinking about your riding carefully in the light of your comments, specifically why are you really enjoying it by the end but reluctant to start.
Is it just fear of consequence or lack of confidence?
If it is fear, relax, breathe and remind yourself of your reasons for wanting to ride in the first place, spend time on the basics in a carpark or contained area on your own, practice is a good thing.
If it is a lack of confidence, understand that the only way to get confident is to do it. Prepare yourself for the ride, plan to practice specific things and notice what is improving in your riding skills. I would suggest doing more than 1 ride per week, even if it is just for 15 mins down the road and back, do more.
Above all, remember that this is a learning journey, compare it to other learning journeys you have had. This one will have similarity and differences, learn from your other experiences. Are you normally nervous about new things, this means it is nothing to worry about, carry on.
Are you usually scared of new things just because they are new and will challenge your skills, great, embrace the challenge knowing that you will be better for it once you have achieved your goal.
Riding is about having fun and doing something you love, you are experiencing that by the time you are coming home. As you improve that will just grow and grow until all the time you spend on a bike is pleasurable, and the anticipation is almost as good as the experience itself.
Relax and enjoy your learning and riding, it will go so much better if you relax. Don't beat yourself up about being worried about it, accept that this is a stage you must pass through to gain skills.

[Crisis management]

Harden up woman, if you can survive childbirth and rearing kids (there is a degree of assumption here) a little botormike shouldn't stop you!!

Stop whinging and go out and ride......


PS. watch out for gravity, it waits on corners and sucks at the unsuspecting.





This broadcast was brought to you in the interests of balanced discussion on open forums.

[Insanity_rules]

Hi Guys, I'm almost a totally new biker (38 years old and only been on a bike 4 times!)and wonder if I'll ever stop being petrified of my bike. I'm getting out about once a week for a 50k ride with my partner who has many years of experience and really have to force myself to go. The strange thing is I totally enjoy the last part of my ride home, it's such fun accelerating out of the corners. I just wish I could feel like I do at the end of a ride when I first set out. Any encouragement at all would be greatly appreciated.

Ride damn you ride!!!!!!! Seriously you got to get over this. Try and imagine how good it'll feel getting on and going for a blast in your minds eye as much as possible and pretty soon you'll link the experience with good things.

That'll be $105.50 please pay my receptionist on the way out.

[magicfairy]

I took up riding a "real bike" at 45. After riding scooters. I can assure you what you are feeling is perfectly normal, unfortunately you are past feeling 10ft tall and bulletproof as teenagers do.
Only time in the saddle changes that, and even now (18 months and 20,000k later) I still get nervous, especially if you have had a bit of a break.
I ride to work every day which helps - try and get out a bit more often even if it is only for a short time. So the weekly ride is not such a big event.
What I also found helped a lot in the early days is getting out on some newbie rides - meeting and riding with others with similar fears and ability.
Riding with an experienced rider can be off putting, they make it seem so easy, and they can get frustrated cos you are slow.
So hang in there, know you are feeling very normal feelings and try and get out for more frequent rides

[Trudes]

Keep going out for rides around familiar roads, don't try and do too much or have too higher expectations, it really does get easier with practice and bike time.

[Rosie]

Hi Julie!
I felt just the same when I first started riding. Going on lots of little, regular rides really helps, even if you just pop out for a couple of laps around the block in the evening or something. The more often you decide to go out, get yourself suited up and head out for a ride, the less intimidating it seems. At first it will be hard, but each time you go out, it will get a little less scary.
It's good to take time to get to know your bike as well, give it a wash, sit on it and make motorbike noises, practise pushing it around and 'parking' it, or just sit there and look at it. :love:

[vifferman]

I took up riding a "real bike" at 45. After riding scooters. I can assure you what you are feeling is perfectly normal, unfortunately you are past feeling 10ft tall and bulletproof as teenagers do.
That's a good point.
I really can't relate to Julie's dilemma, as I started riding at around 15ish, and never felt anything but excitement before setting out for a ride. Still do.

I guess you need to work out why you feel so anxious and try to do whatever you can to eliminate the cause of the anxiety. Maybe focusing on what it is you DO enjoy about the ride will help here. Obviously, by the end of the ride you're caught up in the ride so much that you're forgetting to worry/be anxious, so you're probably dwelling too much on the things that make you uncomfortable.

Although thinking is necessary (especially as a newbie), m/cycling is a very visceral thing, and most enjoyable when you're NOT thinking too much and just letting it be a "right-brain" activity. This will come when you've taught your body what to do so you don't have to think about it. Just like with any activity, there's no substitute for practice, practice, PRACTICE. Just make sure you get as much fun from the practicing as possible, so it doesn't become a chore and make you anxious.

[Pwalo]

I'm afraid there's no magic cure. As my erstwhile comrades have said practice is what it's all about. Its the same as learning any new skill - whatever it is.

Go through what you need to do in your head, and then go out and do it. Visualise and practice. Once you've got the basics (starting, changing gears,ect) down pat, you'll have more time to concentrate on riding itself, and your confidence will skyrocket.

Probably.

[mstriumph]

as others have said here, if we are honest we all feel like that sometimes, no matter how long we have been riding :yes:

.......my thoughts are that control is what you need to feel - over the ride, your bike, yourself

riding is, above all else, a self-focused, self-absorbed thing

sometimes riding with a partner who is more experienced than you [even a very [I]understanding one] can shift your focus, make you feel pressured ... and although a frisson of adreneline adds to the riding experience, feeling pressured and out of control and under observation does not

so go for little wombles on your own, mebbe? ........same roads and corners for a while until familiarity nails them for you, you and the bike and the world are in harmony and you swoop and flow down the road with a big smile plastered all over your face

then take that confidence onto roads you don't know and learn those too .......

above all, ENJOY!! :sunny:

[Trudes]

Actually, not to put you off or anything, but a couple of us were discussing that if you don't feel like riding or it doesn't feel right to go for a ride for some reason (sixth sense type stuff) you shouldn't fight that, you should listen to it. It's good to push yourself to do things that scare you, but not at the expense of the sixth sense! Good luck doll, you'll get there!:sunny:

[Paul in NZ]

Don't stress - that fear thing keeps you alive. Experience will tell it how much it's needed (if at all)

I've been riding for.. erm..... 34 years and I still get scared at times and I've also learnt that I don't always want to take a bike... Mostly - it's still the same magic rush it's ever been.

Keep at it - after a bit you will really know if it's for you or not but there should always be just a little bit of fear...

[Grub]

Do a 300k trip every now and again (being easter you have the time!)

That's actually excellent advice. Nasty had her FXR150 for nearly a year and then got the Virago 500 but in all that time she would think of reasons *not* to ride to work. Too windy, too wet etc etc

Finally at xmas we rode Welly to Auckland via the Western Lakes road, back down Highway 31, over the Parapara's in the worst possible wind and rain and back home. That did it, she said that it didn't get any worse than that and it wasn't that bad.

Now she rides every day and looks forward to it

[Xtat1k]

You guys are soooo helpful!

Julie, I hear what you are saying. Even to this day I often don't really get into a ride until I'm on my way home!

Strategies that I find help are to tell myself to relax, not try so hard, and perhaps focus on one thing only. The thing I find most useful is to focus on being smooth around corners - lining them up properly and concentrating on being smooth - even at low speeds.

You will get more comfortable the more you ride. Perhaps you also need to ride with someone other than your partner if possible?


Good call I'd have to agree with that.

[yungatart]

I know how you feel! Magic fairy hit the nail on the head!!
Try and get out more regularly, and find yourself a mentor.
Relax, smile and ride your own ride!!

[Scamp]

I'm a newbie too and I agree with what everyone else has said "Get out more". When I first got my bike I was only getting out once a week, now I'm taking it to work a couple of times a week and using it to visit etc - getting on seems much easier now and I don't seem to make those silly mistakes quite so often.

Good luck, and most of all ENJOY

[gunnyrob]

Hi Julie, wnen I was a noob I did a introduction to riding course. helped my confidence no end. I believe BRONZ run them as do others. Have fun.

[<G>]

I had the same problem, see my earlier posts and the response I received was awesome - from some of the same people that have responded to your post. Not so bad any more...now liken it to being in love...same weak knees, knot in tummy, sweaty palms, heart racing...until we set off and it all comes together - reciprocity.
As the others say...practice and more practice. Sue came out with me the first few times, now I go on my own. I do this at 5am, very little traffic, downside is that it is dark and now getting colder. I go to a carpark and practice the things I learnt at Ride Right Ride Safe - you should look at coming up to Auckland to attend their course - and then I go out on the road - have done up to 30kms at a time (have to then get ready for work). At our age learning to ride doesn't come that easily and experienced riders have forgotten how they felt - but then they were young and invincible (especially men). All the best, it is worth it!

[gijoe1313]

So much good advice in this thread so I will not gainsay pretty much what MackTheKnife has posted. I will just provide the rah-rah gee-up and :niceone: :woohoo: chorus!

Go, you good thing go! :scooter: Take the time to enjoy what you are doing too! The freedom you have gained is well worth the journey you are struggling with at the moment :yes:

Now, stop reading this and get out there and pootle!

[Hitcher]

Any encouragement at all would be greatly appreciated.

Just fucking do it. You only live once. Sheesh.

[Mr. Peanut]

Where you at the tennis courts the last couple of nights? You might have seen my bike outside Pak'n Save. The white one.

I was intimidated by my 125cc scooter, when I first got it! If you want someone to give you a few tips I'd be happy to help :mellow:

[SpinFx]

Just hang in there and don;t give up. it gets easier the more you ride. and before you know it you'll be comfortable as.

[Terminated]

Hi Julie,
I am not at all surprised that you are feeling this way, after all it is very early days yet.
I would suggest thinking about your riding carefully in the light of your comments, specifically why are you really enjoying it by the end but reluctant to start.
Is it just fear of consequence or lack of confidence?
If it is fear, relax, breathe and remind yourself of your reasons for wanting to ride in the first place, spend time on the basics in a carpark or contained area on your own, practice is a good thing.
If it is a lack of confidence, understand that the only way to get confident is to do it. Prepare yourself for the ride, plan to practice specific things and notice what is improving in your riding skills. I would suggest doing more than 1 ride per week, even if it is just for 15 mins down the road and back, do more.
Above all, remember that this is a learning journey, compare it to other learning journeys you have had. This one will have similarity and differences, learn from your other experiences. Are you normally nervous about new things, this means it is nothing to worry about, carry on.
Are you usually scared of new things just because they are new and will challenge your skills, great, embrace the challenge knowing that you will be better for it once you have achieved your goal.
Riding is about having fun and doing something you love, you are experiencing that by the time you are coming home. As you improve that will just grow and grow until all the time you spend on a bike is pleasurable, and the anticipation is almost as good as the experience itself.
Relax and enjoy your learning and riding, it will go so much better if you relax. Don't beat yourself up about being worried about it, accept that this is a stage you must pass through to gain skills.

I take my hat off to you MTK, an excellent post.

Julie here is a link to my first days,weeks and months:
http://www.kiwibiker.co.nz/forums/showthread.php?t=30010

Take your time, focus and take a disciplined approach while still having fun. You may want to keep a short diary log [pen and booklet] to reinforce and review your progress.

Heads Up and Enjoy:yes: :scooter: :yes: :scooter: :yes:

[Terminated]

Julie I just went back to the Newbie Training Update for you, here you go;


As At Wednesday 29th November
Elapsed Time Since Last Update: 7 days
Riding days completed since last update: 5
Distance Travelled 515km
Total Distance 9043km [since 12 May]

Refer Back To 15 November Training Update

DEE-FAP
Over the past week the following DEE-FAP is discussed

Discipline - You will know when you get that pit gut feeling when something goes awry - Expect the Unexpected.

Riding on winding roads with sweeping and blind bends: There were numerous occasions when I met oncoming traffic, cars, SUV's and heavy haulage trailers this past week and two things standout:
1. Avoided target fixation, and
2. Countersteering strategy kicked in and hands were already in position covering front brake and clutch well before the bend/s.

Feedback to myself - Expected [repeat] Expected - the Unexpected

Focus - Have one or two things as key review points each time you get on your bike.

Having moved from Learners to Restricted this month my focus has been at several levels:
1. Reducing speed from 100kph. Without immediately going into full on Emergency braking procedure from 100kph I have practised speed reduction on an open quiet dead-end stretch of road moving up in 5-10kph levels from 70kph without trying to stop in the shortest possible distance but rather focusing on the bike's suspension initial brake pressure then increasing pressure. Also before coming to complete stop stepping straight down through the gears [click to 4th,click to 3rd, click to 2nd click to 1st gear] and getting left foot down then right foot down. This is a topic I want to cover with my mentor on our review ride in December.

2. Countersteering - Now that I am getting out beyond 70kph I am notice more so now the influence of slight knee pressure against the fuel tank and this has been good when moving through open view bends - good feeling of balance and minimal steering effort with the quite good feed back of the 'slight push on the grip'.

Similarly on a good stretch of winding road [Blue Mountains Road leading up to Whitemans Valley] with slow to moderate bike control I have found balance, knee, lean, and gradual winding throttle on very rewarding both going up the hill and back down.

Attention - Develop a habit of cycling through your safety strategy.

Okay hands up how many times have we looked in the mirror and said to ourselves 'where did he/she come from' when you discover a vehicle right behind you.....Two things here:

1. Just because I [and you perhaps] have just got a Restricted licence I don't think we wear the mantle 'King of the Road'. This past week there have been several instances when I have purposefully found a safe spot to let that one or more vehicles pass: an evening ride coming back down the Rimutaka Hill and also down Blue Mountains Road were instances. I have seen the traffic coming and my priority is focusing on my riding technique - so I let the traffic get by and return to my practice. [If I know a vehicle is behind me coming down a hill I want to be constantly aware of how close or far back the vehicle is......you get around the next bend and there is a real time emergency braking situation on your hands.......] Key: I want to control my riding environment as best as I possibly can.

2. Okay I got my hand up and have said to myself 'WTF where did that cage come from?' [Paint a scenario say you came around a bend and there is a real time emergency braking situation on your hands - you flash check the mirrors....'WTF the cage behind is way way too close'.....Potentially you lost control of your riding environment 30seconds, a minute, two minutes ago....] How frequently do you check your mirrors? This is a constant alert reminder to myself 'Buck you're not paying attention.'

As an aside I had the pleasure of joining in the White Ribbon Day ride last weekend with about 100 bikes going around the city and coastline - Head Checks and Mirror Checks were a constant constant.

Personal - How you approach your DEE-FAP Discipline Focus Attention Personal strategies will be evolving as your riding skills develop. Above all be true to yourself when you next go for a ride and think again about where you're riding and how you're riding. Remember you do not have to be overly tense and completely locked into your training program remember to relax.

When thinking about 'where you're riding and how you're riding' can be very rewarding - I continue to ride over parts of Stokes Valley where I did my first 1000km and I conduct an litmus test frequently [if not constantly] and the feedback is immediately rewarding: I recall cul de sacs where I would be hesistant when doing a u-turn where rear brake and clutch combined was still an overly conscious effort. Similarly, I can now look at winding roads eg: over the Holborn Drive and notice how my vision has extended way out and through the bends while at the same time counter steering, balance, lean, throttle are running altogether very smoothly.

Finally, this past week there were a few times when though I had nothing to stop me from going down to the garage and getting my gear on to ride, I just wasn't ready, in fact I even went out onto the front drive way and weeded for quarter of an hour and during this time I was thinking about where will I ride to, and, what will I review today.

Heads Up and Enjoy

Heads Up and Enjoy Julie

[Scorpygirl]

Hi Julie, as everyone has said - I know how you feel. I felt very nervous, even to the extent of being nauseous when I first got back on my bike again at the end of December. However I was determined to do it and it started to get easier. Keep up the practice and all the best.

[scumdog]

Just get out there and ride - at your own pace, never do it when you feel 'pushed', after a while you'll get more confident and faster - but never relax as that is when the other idiots we have to share the road with will get you (or the skid 'skid-demons' - but that's another story)

[scumdog]

I've been riding for.. erm..... 34 years and I still get scared at times and I've also learnt that I don't always want to take a bike... Mostly - it's still the same magic rush it's ever been.

Keep at it - after a bit you will really know if it's for you or not but there should always be just a little bit of fear...

I agree with Paul - he calls it 'riding', I call it 'staying upright and not colliding with anything" but it means the same thing. (I think).

[idb]

.......my thoughts are that control is what you need to feel - over the ride, your bike, yourself


Never had it, haven't got it, that's the excitement for me!!!

[KATWYN]

Hi Guys, I'm almost a totally new biker (38 years old and only been on a bike 4 times!)and wonder if I'll ever stop being petrified of my bike. I'm getting out about once a week for a 50k ride with my partner who has many years of experience and really have to force myself to go. The strange thing is I totally enjoy the last part of my ride home, it's such fun accelerating out of the corners. I just wish I could feel like I do at the end of a ride when I first set out. Any encouragement at all would be greatly appreciated.

Hi Julie, firstly, congratulations....riding a motorcycle- HUGE achievement. What you feel is completely normal.

What solved that feeling for me was riding my bike every day (I ride it to work) I no longer have that awful nervous throw up feeling I used to get prior to a ride.

So the answer is....ride as often as you can and understand the physics (of the machine) & geometry (of the road) to corner ! :sunny:

enjoy

[Nasty]

That's actually excellent advice. Nasty had her FXR150 for nearly a year and then got the Virago 500 but in all that time she would think of reasons *not* to ride to work. Too windy, too wet etc etc

Finally at xmas we rode Welly to Auckland via the Western Lakes road, back down Highway 31, over the Parapara's in the worst possible wind and rain and back home. That did it, she said that it didn't get any worse than that and it wasn't that bad.

Now she rides every day and looks forward to it

I love it when the man tells stories about me and doesn't give me a heads up on it ...

Well Julie, I know how you feel .. but you just gotta ride more ... and enough on that ...

I love the feeling of getting close to home ... and what I find it is, is simple, the courners are working, the roads are smooth and I havbe enjoyed the lead up after getting over the nerves ... that is really normal.

I hated my time up north when the day started straight away with windies and courners and shyte when I am not always comfortable doing ... but start for a bit on the straight and work into it and I am in the grove .... hopefully you will see what I mean ...

Anyway ... got to go to me aunties for dindins .. let us know how it is going.

Nasty!

[shafty]

Hi Julie, welcome aboard the Motorcycling Roundabout - well done for "doing it". I've ridden for 32 years and nearly always feel a bit "cautious", - I reckon if you feel too relaxed, you can become "cocky", so its a good thing.

I would sincerely recommend you do a BRONZ (www.bronz.org.nz ) or similiar course as soon as convenient. That will give you the tools for the job, before you pick up any bad habits.

Long rides as you get in to it will help also.

Have fun, never stop learning :sunny:

[beyond]

As other have said, you just need to get out and practice.
I was off bikes for 25 years then got a 1400. The first few times on the motorway I felt so vulnerable and exposed just like I did when I first started riding at 18 years. Now, it was like I was born on a bike. It all becomes second nature and then of course you have to deal with over confidence which is stage 2 of your cycle. :)

You'll come right. Just ride often and start enjoying it and the more you ride, the things you concentrate on now will become automatic so you can just relax and get on with the ride. There will come a time when you just can't wait to get back on the bike.

[Blueskies]

Hi Julie,

Thanks for starting this interesting thread. Always good to read of how other bikers feel, esp the more experienced amongst us.
I have been riding for just 15 months. A late starter you could say.
Initially terrified by my gn250, the required skills were apparently far out of my reach.
One year later I was back to being almost as terrified again - this time by my scary Vulcan cruiser. Woweeee did the size of the Vulcan's petrol tank intimidate me, big time. Never mind the rest of the bike, all it took was one look at that tank to turn me into something similar to jello.
It took me 5000k's on the Vulcan to finally get that fantastic one-with-the-bike feeling, but it came. Not easily, but finally.
Now it's a love thing forever and the secret was, as has been repeatedly said here, PRACTICE. I made the biggest improvement when I rode 2500 km in 10 days, all weathers.
So Julie, be kind to yourself. Know 'that feeling' will come and just let it happen. Do it whatever way suits you, but get out there and do it. You will not regret it. Go for it Biker Girl, you are nearly there.

[Julie]

Hey, thanks for the brilliant responses, advice well appreciated. Got on the bike a few days ago and headed off to waihi and back (about an hours ride)and totally enjoyed it so much so that the following day being Easter and all that I went on a challenging ride to Whangamata with lots of winding roads and even survived that. I don't feel as apprehensive about getting on my bike and can't belive I am actually looking forward to going out on it tomorrow weather permitting. Cheers

[beyond]

Good to hear. Go girl. :)

[Hinckley]

Hey, thanks for the brilliant responses, advice well appreciated. Got on the bike a few days ago and headed off to waihi and back (about an hours ride)and totally enjoyed it so much so that the following day being Easter and all that I went on a challenging ride to Whangamata with lots of winding roads and even survived that. I don't feel as apprehensive about getting on my bike and can't belive I am actually looking forward to going out on it tomorrow weather permitting. Cheers

Thats good stuff Julie its all about relaxing and enjoying the ride for what it is (bloody good fun). :yes:

[Scamp]

Good to hear that you are getting out there Julie.
One other thing I'd recommend is attending a track day. They aren't that expensive and the skills you learn are worth the small outlay.
Keep enjoying.

[peasea]

I'm afraid there's no magic cure. As my erstwhile comrades have said practice is what it's all about. Its the same as learning any new skill - whatever it is.

Go through what you need to do in your head, and then go out and do it. Visualise and practice. Once you've got the basics (starting, changing gears,ect) down pat, you'll have more time to concentrate on riding itself, and your confidence will skyrocket.

Probably.


These people have ESP: Just go and do it. You'll soon find your own headspace, groove and limitations. Take trips in good weather to familiarize yourself with local roads and your bike, then do the same trip in the wet. Build on that. Be prepared at all times and at all times be prepared. At ride's end, look back, ponder and absorb. It's all good. Riding is a disease that has no cure other than riding some more.

Welcome

[Rotor]

I think all new bike riders feel scared and a lot of people who have had bikes for year still are scared.
For my self, I was all-ways nervous when I first started riding. Had a few crashers but kept ed getting back up (you have to if you want to be a bike rider). What cured my fears was to only have a motor bike for transport for 4 years so that it takes the pressure off-
1/ starting the bike (old bikes have a spacial way of starting if you get it wrong they need pushing)
2/putting your gear on (in the right order)
3/ watching out for KILLER cars
4/ you get my meaning
once all the little things (and there are heaps of little things) are second nature then the big things (KILLER cars, trucks, oil, dirt etc) are easier to think about.
Good luck and keep doing it

[The Lone Rider]

Hi Guys, I'm almost a totally new biker (38 years old and only been on a bike 4 times!)and wonder if I'll ever stop being petrified of my bike. I'm getting out about once a week for a 50k ride with my partner who has many years of experience and really have to force myself to go. The strange thing is I totally enjoy the last part of my ride home, it's such fun accelerating out of the corners. I just wish I could feel like I do at the end of a ride when I first set out. Any encouragement at all would be greatly appreciated.

They way I learnt to ride was as follows: I went out onto the roads at like 3am on a Monday night when no one in their right mind would be out and sped around the roads to get comfortable.

Since then, all my learning to ride has simply been forcing myself to grin and bare no matter what the obstacle. I suppose in a way I have a goal though, as I use my bike for going to work everyday and refuse to pay the $$ my car guzzles - so its either ride or waste $$ I can spend elsewhere. So rain, shine, wind, and erections on a cold day excluded, it's all just been go do it even if I was nervous.. and now I'm more comfortable then I used to be. :rockon: