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Bloody Mad Woman (BMW)
9th May 2007, 10:08
Last nite I had the unfortunate experience of having to go to hospital. When I get the flu, as I have had for the last week, it inevitably turns into bronchial asthma. Was sent home from work yesterday - they - my boss and her boss, a partner of the firm, "heard me" and said "Go back home". Stood over me while I rang the Dr, got an appt for 2.15pm. Nurse commented that I sounded worse than when I first came in. Got home had nanny nap. Got to Dr's and the lift was out of order. I thought geez the stairs are gonna finish me off.

Sitting in the waiting room, and this woman kept staring at me - apparently I'm rattling/wheezing away - cos I can't really hear it at all - the system has labelled me deaf. My Dr is excellent and was horrified I hadn't gone in sooner (he's still getting to know me!!) On the nebuliser - wow how nice to breathe. He said to me if my peak flow got to 250 to ring an ambulance. Gave me new antibiotics and steroids. $41 - payday is Thursday morning. I had spent $110 on Dr and script week before. Had to leave script there. 2 other friends couldn't help out.

One thing about all of this is I did not realise how sick I was. By 10.30pm, after laying on my bed all nite watching some DVDs my peak flow had dropped to 150-200. So rang ambulance. The lady on the phone was amazing. Asked some interesting questions, are you clammy, getting sleepy? Yes do you always talk this way?? Gasping between each word. I told her they needn't put the sirens on - I just needed a nebuliser and that I would walk down the stairs and meet them - didn't want them waking the whole apartment block. Anyway I down the first flight and I hear the bloody sirens - I had to have a laugh to myself - Now Shirl don't rush to the ambulance!!

It was a 4wheel drive one - hell it was quick. The guy got into action immediately - "Yes I can see you are the patient". This guy had brains. Put me on nebuliser, took pulse, stethescoped back and chest - he shielded me a bit - there were men resealing the road outside my place - been happening all week!! Then the guy asked me questions - by this time I could talk. Yes there are times when I am speechless lol. Kept me informed all the time and said a real ambulance was on its way. They had their sirens on too. Introduced themselves - very caring and professional. The woman said to me when you are clammy and sleepy that is the real danger zone for asthmatics - cos ya just drift off - been there twice before - lovely white light, and you just float.

Got to the hospital. By this time I had had 10mls of stuff thru nebuliser with oxygen up at 8. In the surgery that aft - the gave me 2.5mls and oxygen set to 3 - cos even that can make you a bit shakey!! Anyway I wasnt sounding so much like a rattlesnake. Both ambulance officers did the stethescope, pulse, blood pressure then the male Nurse at the hospital. then the Dr did it as well. Apparently the heart was racing quite high - and it certainly wasn't at the sight of the male nurse. Cocky shortarse little pratt - but then his attitude changed for the better after I cracked a joke.

Then the Dr came. Well by this time probably 1-1 1/2 hrs later - I was much better. Not quite well enough to give her a mouthful tho. Well what's wrong with you (try readin the fn notes you moron) don't sound too bad to me. She's checking my back so I am bent over - trying to breath and the stupid bitch is asking me questions "What is your "asthma attack program"" - I'm trying to answer - when breathing exercises and ventolin don't work - drink hot water. She must be deafer than me. She walked out and said God she doesn't even have an asthma attack program. She seems alright now - but she will need prednizone immediately and more ventolin now. Don't ya just love being talked about as if you don't exist. Now had I been able to talk more I was going to yell out in response to her "program" what do you mean I'm spose to have a fkn appendage/husband - cos she even asked me how I got to hospital. Confidence inspiring. (She had "the ring" on "the" finger). I must admit being a single person (and yes, particularly female) you become persona non gratus and they treat you like crap - cos they don't have to answer to the "support person".

She then came back and said what did you Dr prescribe - stronger antibiotics and prednizone - why didn't you get the script? Because I couldn't afford it. She looked at me like I was scum of the earth. What planet does she live on - having shelved out the week before!! Anyway as usual I have waffled on. She said I could go home shortly. Nurse had given me drugs and checked me over again and said the Dr would see me before I went. Waited half an hour she never showed. Now it was a quiet nite at A&EE. I was turfed out at 2am into the cold (knowing I'd had the flu all last week and still had it). No buses at that hour of the morning. Woke a friend up who kindly took me home.

While waiting in hospital I read their mission statement: Innovation, next word, Treaty of Waitangi, few more words and right at the bottom, quality healthcare. Go fkn figure. I rest my case.

I didn't realise when I went on the Ambulance Charity run recently that I would be needing their services. I cannot praise them highly enough.
Nice to be home and I'm as high as a kite at present, drugs are strong.

Dooly
9th May 2007, 10:39
The health system is fucked, in a ntushell.

But in saying that, I have had some good service, and very bad.

Many a time I've sat in AE waiting for repairs and others with less urgent things have been taken before me.
Seems that the fastest way to get good service is to be taken in by ambulance.

Good to see you're getting better hopefully.
From lots of your posts recently and over a while you seem to get the short straw on life a lot.

At least you have your bike eh!

Paul in NZ
9th May 2007, 11:29
Anyone with a chronic and recurring condition seems to become an annoyance to them and just lately its gotten worse.

Annoy them even more by surviving. I plan to...

Cheers

gijoe1313
9th May 2007, 11:31
Crikey BMW :gob: You channelling Charles Dickens or summat? Luv'a duck, you've been through the wars in regards to this - chin up and box on, least you still got your sense of humour and driving through the obstacles best ya can!

Now get rest, drink some honey char and look forward to getting back on two wheels of freedom when you can! :yes:

ManDownUnder
9th May 2007, 11:46
ok so - you have a need for medication that you can't afford. What's meant to happen in this situation?

My tax dollars are going to those that can't be BOTHERED getting out of bed in preference to those without enough lung capacity to get out of bed???

Sorry - that's BS (the system that is)... A few enquiries going out ...

Macktheknife
9th May 2007, 12:08
Glad you are feeling better now Shirl, take care of yourself and sing out to us all if you need a hand.

Paul in NZ
9th May 2007, 12:25
Yes - if you can please reply to my txt or pm... Paul N

sunhuntin
9th May 2007, 12:50
ok so - you have a need for medication that you can't afford. What's meant to happen in this situation?

My tax dollars are going to those that can't be BOTHERED getting out of bed in preference to those without enough lung capacity to get out of bed???

Sorry - that's BS (the system that is)... A few enquiries going out ...

exactly! what a load of tripe. :angry:

bmw... are you able to afford the meds yet? if not im happy to throw a few coins your way.

Panther
9th May 2007, 12:54
Shirl, for fks sake, ASK one of the do gooders on here next time you need a hand.

pinkhoggirl
9th May 2007, 13:11
Hey hon - hearts out to you! :love: Sorry, but no doc worth his pay packet (remotely) would allow a patient in your condition to leave without thier script. :gob: They would make SOME kind of arrangement, even if it was to give you samples (which they usually have), to ensure you received ongoing care and treatment and...(what a concept...) RESOLUTION. Its irresponsible - negligent even. :shit: I work in the **** system - I'll pm you and help if I can.

Squeak the Rat
9th May 2007, 13:14
H is also for Harden up.



















(you know I'm just kidding :))

avgas
9th May 2007, 13:14
Ambo's are awesome. When i got pulled in, not only did the ambo jack everything up for me in the A&E dept, but after she had done a few callouts she called in and checked on me again.....nothing had changed since she had last seen me 4 hour earlier. She promptly got some drugs into me.

Nasty
9th May 2007, 13:48
Sorry to hear all the crapola you are getting ... I think you need to send a copy of your story into Cap and Coast DHB .. so they realise that this services is crap(only way to get things better is to let them know when they suck). The name of the person to speak to is: Denise Mundy, Complaints Facilitator : you can email her on denise.mundy@ccdbh.org.nz .. I think that the doctor needs to be told that she needs to listen .. and its fair that she is .... pisses me off people like that.

Bloody Mad Woman (BMW)
9th May 2007, 17:46
Hey hon - hearts out to you! :love: Sorry, but no doc worth his pay packet (remotely) would allow a patient in your condition to leave without thier script. :gob: They would make SOME kind of arrangement, even if it was to give you samples (which they usually have), to ensure you received ongoing care and treatment and...(what a concept...) RESOLUTION. Its irresponsible - negligent even. :shit: I work in the **** system - I'll pm you and help if I can.

Uuum if my Dr knew he would have seen me right but I was sure my mate had money, we have an arrangement "$50 communal pot" that goes back and forth between us - twas empty! My girlfrend got msg too late and chemist was shut - script had been filled! She was around at 7.30am.

Once I took them it was basically Goodnite Nurse. I dared not do any sewing or go for a walk, the latter I may have acted like me mother (alzeimers) yes I know it is spelt wrong. (that will be another thread).

Me mad Maori mate - is being a kitchen bitch - a male in his proper place at last lol!! He's cooking a mince sausage stew.

"How dark it is before the dawn". Before going to hospital, I had a call from my mother's partner saying Mum had gotten worse and they were moving her to another home. So much on family conferences that we are spose to have!! It was nice to be treated like a human with respect and courtesy from the ambo people ( a young lad was out on his first nite of volunteer training - top marks to him) - compared to "number treatment - oh this is an unexciting case". She was South African - what a shame we cannot keep our own Drs in this country. Anway I diverse. I must admit A&E part of hospital (I don't get to the main ward - they kick me out asap) I felt so alone and lonely. That doesn't happen often for me. Just that committee in the head wanting to rear its pity party hat - well that got told to f off quickly. I accept my family isn't there for me - and yes it would be nice to have a loving partner to take over at these times. Then I listed my blessings in my head. And WOW
today I am so blown away and deeply humbled re the very caring, supportive response from KB.

I certainly would/will be there for KBers at the drop of a hat.
I will answer PMs very shortly.

The drugs have certainly worked. I am almost breathing normally.
Dinner time.

:rockon:

sels1
9th May 2007, 18:11
Cripes Shirl, thats quite a tale. Hope you come right soon. I have had both very good and pretty darn average service at Wgtn A&E with myself and the family....I guess its the luck of the draw (or shift)
All the best for a speedy recovery

Paul in NZ
9th May 2007, 18:12
Good on ya - (Paul puts on senior Dr voice) "don't leave it so late next time young woman....."