The law and men's rights

[kevfromcoro]

Divorse,,Separtion. when u are left alone....its a nasty bussniss.just like to put this thread in here to tell u all the rights of men.......interesting subject.....MY Story.... ..ok. Got married to a thai lady about 8 yrs ago..we had a happy life for quite some time..then at xmas she up and fucks off..iam sitting here stratcting my head thinking WTF.. well off i go 2 c a lawyer. heres how it went.well my missus has fucked off .sorry Kev but she is up for 50%...hang on says me thats not fair....i had a $300 000 house when i met her..now we have bought a house in coro and its worth $700 000..well she is up for half...wot about the 3 houses she has in thailand.......well she bought them before she met u ..separate property.... they are hers.....FUCK this aiant fair.....the law is a fucken arse ....the law is the law..says mister lawyer....well shove it were the sun dont shine.so off i go..that lawyer is a dickhead...lets go see another lawyer....in the last 6 weeks i have seen 8 lawyers...and the sad story is just the same.50 50 down the line....it just doesnt seem right.....i wouldnt mind if my wife had of contributed to something here..but never has,,,,,had 6 trips back to Thailand.and i gave her a $1000 every time ..never worked ...fuck we are getting screwed..... to anyone in a simalar situation..please post here..iam not a legal person but have most of the answers,. to top that of the missus has put a caveat on the house...cant sell it.cant borrow money against it....wot to do.....any way everthing has turned out for the best.....Regards KEVTHEKIWI

[chanceyy]

sorry to hear that kev ... methinks pre nup is the way to go ..

My ex was lucky .. he walked & I did not keep anything of his or go for half .. but then I i can look at myself in the mirror & know that I am not the vindictive type either ..

[Grub]

Just be happy you didn't have any kids Kev ... then you'd really find out how stacked the system is.

I feel sorry for your lawyers man, they didn't write the law, they don't deserve the grief.

[kevfromcoro]

sorry to hear that kev ... methinks pre nup is the way to go ..

My ex was lucky .. he walked & I did not keep anything of his or go for half .. but then I i can look at myself in the mirror & know that I am not the vindictive type either ..

HI YA..HAD A FIEND THAT HAD A PRE NUP.. ( sorry didnt mean to shout...) WASNT worth the paper it was written on..to any of us that think they may be screwed in the future....go and c a lawyer and stick it family trust,,,,thats it,,,doesnt cost much to set up........KEV

[chanceyy]

HI YA..HAD A FIEND THAT HAD A PRE NUP.. ( sorry didnt mean to shout...) WASNT worth the paper it was written on..to any of us that think they may be screwed in the future....go and c a lawyer and stick it family trust,,,,thats it,,,doesnt cost much to set up........KEV

agree with ya Kev ... to many guys/gals think its ok to stick it to the partner when they leave .. have certainly heard the horror stories :yes:

[Delphinus]

Yeah putting all your assets into a trust is the only way to do stuff these days it seems....

[007XX]

Real sorry about your trouble...it sucks majorly. Just like Chancevy, all I took when I left my ex husband was what I had bought and that fitted in my car...

It took me over 6 months for me to be able to have my son stay with me for one night though...The bastard was using my baby boy as emotional drawcard.

Separation/divorces suck, full stop. I'm afraid I can't give any advice, but all the best to you.

[kevfromcoro]

Yeah putting all your assets into a trust is the only way to do stuff these days it seems....

FUCK didnt think i would get so much resonspe to this..just shows ya wot a bunch of caring cunts we can be,..lol,,been thinking about it for about 6 months and now i have done it ....Shit how i feel good...should of asked sooner...anybody giong to ask about the happy ending..........one thing i have allways held is a sence of humour...gets ya through the hard times.learn to laugh and the world laughs with u....off to ausssie going to sit my arse on a sl 1000 s...Yahoo

[007XX]

FUCK didnt think i would get so much resonspe to this..just shows ya wot a bunch of caring cunts we can be,..lol,,been thinking about it for about 6 months and now i have done it ....Shit how i feel good...should of asked sooner...anybody giong to ask about the happy ending..........one thing i have allways held is a sence of humour...gets ya through the hard times.learn to laugh and the world laughs with u....off to ausssie going to sit my arse on a sl 1000 s...Yahoo

Good on you!!!Enjoy yourself...:Punk:

[kevfromcoro]

Good on you!!!Enjoy yourself...:Punk:

Thanks..do u relly look like that pic..ive been on my own for a long time.....hmmm.all is koooooooooool.....hope i get a few ?? from younger peeps...thanks guys and girls....KEVTHEKIWI

[007XX]

Thanks..do u relly look like that pic..ive been on my own for a long time.....hmmm.all is koooooooooool.....hope i get a few ?? from younger peeps...thanks guys and girls....KEVTHEKIWI

:laugh:Of course I do...I'm just $14K short of having them watermelons, but eh :whocares:
Let just put it this way: nature has been kind enough that i don't feel like complaining.

[Lissa]

Gosh, all I can say is glad you dont have any kids Kev... makes it a darn sight harder. Cant really give any advice, seems you have had a lot from lawyers etc. All the best, have a good time in Aussie.:sunny:

[Delphinus]

Righto whats the end of the story Mr kevfromcoro :)

[kevfromcoro]

:laugh:Of course I do...I'm just $14K short of having them watermelons, but eh :whocares:
Let just put it this way: nature has been kind enough that i don't feel like complaining.

F UCK THE ... 14K...NEVER didnt like the biggys..couple of fried eggs is enough........mayebe i have found my true love...sexy ass does it........KEV

[kevfromcoro]

Gosh, all I can say is glad you dont have any kids Kev... makes it a darn sight harder. Cant really give any advice, seems you have had a lot from lawyers etc. All the best, have a good time in Aussie.:sunny:

thanks lissa..had a couple of replys from u...no kids...been down that road,,of to ozz...were is my helmet....and the bike keys.....fuck the bike keys ...going to but a new one over there...will still post in KB..mayebe someone wants to do some riding in oz.......stick a post in..and c wot resposne i get.all the best KEV

[007XX]

F UCK THE ... 14K...NEVER didnt like the biggys..couple of fried eggs is enough........mayebe i have found my true love...sexy ass does it........KEV

Well then, I bet you're gone have field day in Oz! Lotsa cute ones there..:yes::sunny:

[kevfromcoro]

Well then, I bet you're gone have field day in Oz! Lotsa cute ones there..:yes::sunny:

holdem horsey..i aint going yet...its 6 months away......

[skelstar]

Mate, if you're a mother at home looking after the kids for XX years while the husband is building up a career and you split up, you end up with kids half the time and NO career eh. Its not always fair for everyone sometime eh dude.

[kevfromcoro]

Mate, if you're a mother at home looking after the kids for XX years while the husband is building up a career and you split up, you end up with kids half the time and NO career eh. Its not always fair for everyone sometime eh dude.

nah its not like that at all..there are womens rights to...which is fair enough to...i just dont know any of them...well sort of ..relly feel sorry for women that are left on there own,,,,it can be a stugle for them to,i put this post in here beasuse its about mens rights,,,,women are free to coment.......i know it gets hard when kids are involved,,,been there done that.....have u been down that road.

[skelstar]

...have u been down that road.
Not me personally...and hope to (my) god that I don't. Gotta be horrific huh?

[kevfromcoro]

Not me personally...and hope to (my) god that I don't. Gotta be horrific huh?

cover your ass mate

[jafar]

Sorry to hear about your cook leaving mate .
My ex got the house & everything in it, the car & the kids . I got some rubbish bags with my clothes in them , Child support & all the bills she couldn't pay.
She used her half share in the business we owned to send it under then claimed that she was entitled to half its value from before we split.... I had to pay her that too even though she had sunk it. The money for that came from my 'share' of the house we owned.
She used to send the kids over in rags so I would go buy them new clothes.
IRD's child support is staffed by nazi's ..... probably lesbian ones :dodge: they are obnoxious at best & have no problem sending you a bill for thousands then phoning you to tell you they are TAKING it from your bank account wether or not you dispute the amount.
Some I know have had their bank accounts stripped then got the phone call from IRD after the event... To make it worse it is all legal . nothing you can do about it except take the ky jelly with you cos they will definatley do you over.

[kevfromcoro]

Sorry to hear about your cook leaving mate .
My ex got the house & everything in it, the car & the kids . I got some rubbish bags with my clothes in them , Child support & all the bills she couldn't pay.
She used her half share in the business we owned to send it under then claimed that she was entitled to half its value from before we split.... I had to pay her that too even though she had sunk it. The money for that came from my 'share' of the house we owned.
She used to send the kids over in rags so I would go buy them new clothes.
IRD's child support is staffed by nazi's ..... probably lesbian ones :dodge: they are obnoxious at best & have no problem sending you a bill for thousands then phoning you to tell you they are TAKING it from your bank account wether or not you dispute the amount.
Some I know have had their bank accounts stripped then got the phone call from IRD after the event... To make it worse it is all legal . nothing you can do about it except take the ky jelly with you cos they will definatley do you over.
a mate of mine in aucks comes home last week..everthing is gone...when i say everthing.i mean everthing.light fittings .cutains, carpet was ripped up,even took his clothes..poor cunt,didnt leave a teaspoon..the only thing left was the fridge with the cord cut off,,and all his piss opended and tipped upside down,Didnt even c it coming.now he up the 50% split...ho hum..life is unjust sometimes.wonder wot makes people go like this..selffish nes and greed.....SUCKS...........KEV

[kevfromcoro]

Righto whats the end of the story Mr kevfromcoro :)

JUST HEADING OUT THE DOOR FOR WORK....will post it to-night..its a bit of a long story...Dont want anyone to feel sorry for me...as i say iam well over this ..the thread was started to make peeps aware .of there rights when it comes to divorce,,,,all has a happy ending... Now where is that chicky with the sexy ass..from the norf shore...bugga is getting light....the animals only only come out in the dark....lol KEV

[Grahameeboy]

Just be happy you didn't have any kids Kev ... then you'd really find out how stacked the system is.

I feel sorry for your lawyers man, they didn't write the law, they don't deserve the grief.

Not so, since 2004 automatic equal shared custody without going to Court.

Property, Law changed from 'Matrimonial Property' to 'Relationship Property' which is actually better....say you owned a business before meeting this is not necessarily relationship property.

[lb99]

My brother in law owned a house, then he met a chick, fell in love, she moved in bla bla, they decide to rent the first house out, and build a big new one, then they split.
They sell the new house and split the proceeds, and she takes half the value of the house HE ALREADY OWNED as well.
A couple of years go by, he moves to another city, and buys a house there, whilst retaining the very first house as a rental.
He and the chick recocile, and get married, and buy stuff togeather, including a few rentals here and there, then divorce this time for good, she takes everything, plus half of the value of the propertys INCLUDING HALF OF THE VALUE OF THE VERY FIRST HOUSE THAT SHE HAD ALREADY GOT HALF OF IN THE FIRST SPLIT, how fuct is that....



I pleased that when I split with my ex, we had nothing, we were that poor, i just packed up my ute and my bikes and walked away, she did likewise, It took years to sort the bills though

[007XX]

My brother in law owned a house, then he met a chick, fell in love, she moved in bla bla, they decide to rent the first house out, and build a big new one, then they split.
They sell the new house and split the proceeds, and she takes half the value of the house HE ALREADY OWNED as well.
A couple of years go by, he moves to another city, and buys a house there, whilst retaining the very first house as a rental.
He and the chick recocile, and get married, and buy stuff togeather, including a few rentals here and there, then divorce this time for good, she takes everything, plus half of the value of the propertys INCLUDING HALF OF THE VALUE OF THE VERY FIRST HOUSE THAT SHE HAD ALREADY GOT HALF OF IN THE FIRST SPLIT, how fuct is that....


It's chicks like those that gives nice girls a bad name....frankly, I have absolutely NO patience for anyone who would do such things.
I got very happily remarried in January this year:love::love: and I did offer my fiance to organise a pre nup as he has more assets than me (no pun intended!).
He turned down the offer, but he knows and so do I, that there is no way I would do anything like what you guys are talking about....

You're either a decent human being, or you're not...

[MSTRS]

...The bastard was using my baby boy as emotional drawcard.


That's a two-way street. One in which the other lane is MUCH more well-travelled.
It is a pity that people do this sort of shit to their kids, as well as each other. Kinda forces people to develop a distinct lack of trust in others, for years/ever.

[deanohit]

Heres one from the other side of the fence. My mum split from an abusive husband (My stepdad) earlier this year. She came into the marridge with everything, he came in with nothing. They used her house as security to buy another house, a 42ft launch and set up a successful business. Now all my mum wants out of it is her house ($500000), he gets other house ($150000), boat ($250000) and business ($150000), but is still wanting more. So when she said split everything then, he backed up fast. The idiot bastard even wanted all my antiques from my grandparents on my fathers side and split the money from them, plus other stuff belonging to my brothers. He's dragging the whole prcess out now when all my mum wants is to move on. So it's not only the guys who get screwed over.

[yungatart]

Not so, since 2004 automatic equal shared custody without going to Court.



In theory, maybe. In practice, another load of BS!
Sheesh, my son has been fighting to get access one weekend in two, no matter what the court says, his ex still does exactly as she pleases, and has no qualms about using the kids as emotional blackmail!

[007XX]

That's a two-way street. One in which the other lane is MUCH more well-travelled.
It is a pity that people do this sort of shit to their kids, as well as each other. Kinda forces people to develop a distinct lack of trust in others, for years/ever.

Oh most definitely...This was now 6 or so years ago. My son is now living with myself and my new hubby and things couldn't be better. The ex gave up his hold on my son as he was in way over his head looking after him and everyone from school teachers and the likes kept on telling him my son should be with me...

Stepdad is absolutely fantastic and my son adores him :love:
We keep the ex on a very short leash, and NEVER trust him on anything, but things are now more settled. It just takes time, especially as I didn't want to involve lawyers for my boy's sake.

[deanohit]

In theory, maybe. In practice, another load of BS!
Sheesh, my son has been fighting to get access one weekend in two, no matter what the court says, his ex still does exactly as she pleases, and has no qualms about using the kids as emotional blackmail!

Now thats just crap. The only one to benefit will be the mother, not the father an certainly not the kid.

[Grahameeboy]

In theory, maybe. In practice, another load of BS!
Sheesh, my son has been fighting to get access one weekend in two, no matter what the court says, his ex still does exactly as she pleases, and has no qualms about using the kids as emotional blackmail!

I had no problems despite my ex's unhappiness as well although she still uses Nats to get at me.

You are right, she can still ignore the Court Order, however, if she does that then she can loose some custody rights......like any Law I guess.

Is he not going for equal shared custody? Am happy to help.

[Grahameeboy]

My brother in law owned a house, then he met a chick, fell in love, she moved in bla bla, they decide to rent the first house out, and build a big new one, then they split.
They sell the new house and split the proceeds, and she takes half the value of the house HE ALREADY OWNED as well.
A couple of years go by, he moves to another city, and buys a house there, whilst retaining the very first house as a rental.
He and the chick recocile, and get married, and buy stuff togeather, including a few rentals here and there, then divorce this time for good, she takes everything, plus half of the value of the propertys INCLUDING HALF OF THE VALUE OF THE VERY FIRST HOUSE THAT SHE HAD ALREADY GOT HALF OF IN THE FIRST SPLIT, how fuct is that....



I pleased that when I split with my ex, we had nothing, we were that poor, i just packed up my ute and my bikes and walked away, she did likewise, It took years to sort the bills though

Things have changed since 2004.......he would probably have been able to argue the rental property was his if it was an investment.

[scumdog]

It took me over 6 months for me to be able to have my son stay with me for one night though...The bastard was using my baby boy as emotional drawcard.

Separation/divorces suck, full stop. I'm afraid I can't give any advice, but all the best to you.

The kid thing really pisses me off, I see heaps of it in my job.

All I can do is hope that the kids realises as they get older which parent was treating them as an emotional drawcard/tug-of-war rope etc and has nothing more to do with them.

[McJim]

Not something I condone but it certainly seems the law is trying to encourage murder. Should be fair and equitable - automatic 50/50 is a cop out.

My Mum left home when I was 12 - she left everything behind for the benefit of us kids.

Sometimes people can be more reasonable than the law.

[Lissa]

Every body circumstances are different.. esp when children are involved. The best way is putting the children first, their needs above mine and my ex. Making the rest of their lives the best they can be, and as happy as can be, and thats by being as reasonable as you can regarding property and money etc. Make sense?

[007XX]

Every body circumstances are different.. esp when children are involved. The best way is putting the children first, their needs above mine and my ex. Making the rest of their lives the best they can be, and as happy as can be, and thats by being as reasonable as you can regarding property and money etc. Make sense?

Makes perfect sense...it's the hardest, longest and bumpiest road but definitely the best in the long run for the child...

[ynot slow]

Like the joke.Why do they name hurricanes after women?
Because they make lots of noise as the come,and when it's over you might be lucky and have a car.

My situation was similar to all the men here,married at 20,rented home from inlaws,bought a home(with deposit from inlaws/inheritance),she left and had to settle,I had no problems with splitting everything.
We agreed she keep house but pay me approx $20-30000,as her parents had put money towards house and our mortgage was $35000 at time.Her folks said piss off and off to lawyers we go,her with legal aid as she had kids,me as working couldn't get it.
I had idiot lawyer,in the end i was given ,stereo(mine anyway),fridge,bed,and dryer wohoo,half of car sale,I couldn't be bothered fighting the crap so at court hearing gave in,at least i can admire myself in morning when staring in the mirror.Also with kids involved there was noway i'd take 1 bed,1duchess etc.
Now i've bought my second home,first one was from a mate on rent to buy,sold it about 12mths later and now have present one and it's in my name only,managed to re furnish it and except for freezer everything is less than 3yrs old.Hard struggle but new wife and myself deserve it.I know it cost me about $100000 but i can keep my head up and know she wasn't screwed,I was.

[007XX]

The kid thing really pisses me off, I see heaps of it in my job.

All I can do is hope that the kids realises as they get older which parent was treating them as an emotional drawcard/tug-of-war rope etc and has nothing more to do with them.

Funnily enough, mine does, and no I'm not helping in that process. What i mean is I'm never putting my ex down in front of my son...even if he's a moron, I refuse to stoop to his level. And besides, give him enough and he hangs himself.
Already once now, my son has told him : " don't be a bully to my mum". Things have been better since...

[Mystery]

Sorry to hear of your troubles Kev. It really does seem that you have got a raw deal and I cant believe that if she can keep her separate property separate, why you cant at least be compensated for the value of the property you had prior to your relationship. It definitely doesnt seem fair! However, I dont think that this problem is limited to "men only" as I have heard horror stories of women ending up in the same situation. Either way, it sucks!! Fortunately not all women are like your ex.

[Edbear]

21 years before I found he was having an affair


Does that help?

[Mystery]

No, because he knew he had made a huge mistake.

[inlinefour]

Divorse,,Separtion. when u are left alone....its a nasty bussniss.just like to put this thread in here to tell u all the rights of men.......interesting subject.....MY Story.... ..ok. Got married to a thai lady about 8 yrs ago..we had a happy life for quite some time..then at xmas she up and fucks off..iam sitting here stratcting my head thinking WTF.. well off i go 2 c a lawyer. heres how it went.well my missus has fucked off .sorry Kev but she is up for 50%...hang on says me thats not fair....i had a $300 000 house when i met her..now we have bought a house in coro and its worth $700 000..well she is up for half...wot about the 3 houses she has in thailand.......well she bought them before she met u ..separate property.... they are hers.....FUCK this aiant fair.....the law is a fucken arse ....the law is the law..says mister lawyer....well shove it were the sun dont shine.so off i go..that lawyer is a dickhead...lets go see another lawyer....in the last 6 weeks i have seen 8 lawyers...and the sad story is just the same.50 50 down the line....it just doesnt seem right.....i wouldnt mind if my wife had of contributed to something here..but never has,,,,,had 6 trips back to Thailand.and i gave her a $1000 every time ..never worked ...fuck we are getting screwed..... to anyone in a simalar situation..please post here..iam not a legal person but have most of the answers,. to top that of the missus has put a caveat on the house...cant sell it.cant borrow money against it....wot to do.....any way everthing has turned out for the best.....Regards KEVTHEKIWI

Split with the ex wife, she got everything, I just gave up and did not really care what happened to all the property. Now I've split with the ex after becoming a paraplegic. Was a bit more proactive in trying to get something for myself so I did not have to start all over yet again. Fortunately the ex was quite resonable and we did not need any lawyers what so ever. Thats the way the cookie crumbles eh. Its all a great big shit sandwich and us males all have to take a bite...

[Edbear]

I am presently contemplating Divorce and the thing I cant come to terms with is that I will be taking everything that matters away from my husband.

...home to where there are people who love him, where he is always welcomed, cared for and where he can relax).



Obviously I don't know either of you personally nor the circumstances so am only speaking generally. I do know of a similar situation where she has forgiven him and continued the marriage... I also know it has been hell for her even so.

Sorry, but has he not taken everything that mattered away from you? You still have a home where you are welcomed, cared for and can relax?

I just have little sympathy for such a betrayal of trust and the fact that the offender would probably have continued to do it had he not been found out.

As I say, I don't know personally, so understand you must make your decisions yourself.

[skelstar]

While tempting, seeking or giving relationship advice online is pretty tricky. I don't envy anyone who have been through one of the situations in this thread.

[RantyDave]

I am presently contemplating Divorce and the thing I cant come to terms with is that I will be taking everything that matters away from my husband.

So don't. Not don't divorce, but don't take away the things that matter.

Sorry, having started this post I find myself a bit lost already. Why are you divorcing? He had an affair, right - do you mind? Like, seriously, was it being lied to that hurt? The affair itself? It sounds like you're both good friends and if it's over then perhaps you can use it as a basis to rebuild the relationship. Fix what's wrong because, frankly, it sounds like very little.

That being said my Mum and Dad divorced when I was 14. Probably the smartest move either of them ever made. It was all done reasonably and in a restrained and basically respectful fashion. It took them a while to get their shit together afterwards (Dad then went and left the woman he left mum for, good job too) but now they're living in their separate places, both remarried, living dramatically different lifestyles and both much happier as a result.

Dave

[kevfromcoro]

jst a we footnote how my life.changed in 2 weeks.there are some really good replys in here....thanks for coments.iam an a engineer by trade...for the last 3 months i have been worried sick about my life.tangs of suaside...what a mess also..loosing half of my lifes savings.didnt give me much joy.chatting at work the other day,, and a mate of mine says why dont u piss of to oz,,, there are some really good jobs out west ..got a mate out there.now hows this for a job... 6 weeks on 2 weeks off.the company will fly u anywhere in oz and back ..$100 TO $120 AN HOUR. do u believe it ,,free food and accomadation..whats the site like asks me...in the middle of nowhere.fly in fly out.3 swiming pools..bar. rec centre...even sweet ladys .if a man desires.(hang on iam married.).no iam not anymore..sounding better all the time,so heres the plan, got a daughter in surfers,owns a lifestyle block.the garage is fully decked out,kitchen.dunny.15 mins from the beach. thats me..go and join the foriegn legion in perth..pull some big bucks.3 to 6 months,back to surfers..bikin..forever..yahoo.what about the house,,fuck the house and the ex.i can hide i n oz for yrs.hoping to slowly wear the missus down get the caveat of the house.and sell it.course i will give her something..but not $350 000.next day iam walking down the street and bump into a asian lady i have nown for yrs,,,,cut a long story short ,,new chicky on the way,things are looking up,better take my heart pills ..she is 30 yrs younger than me,last week i wa sitting here and there was a knock at the door.FUCK its the ex.....shaking like a dog shittin razor blades.wants to come back.will lift the caveat .sell the house and come to oz with me.FUCK wot to do...in the mean time the new lady is going back to thailand and neads some company..ferk thats me...place called Chang mai...bikin country..been there.will post some pics,when i get there.come back sell the house ..go to oz..with the ex,if she pisses me off..i will go and join the foreign legion...(like fuck i will..i will fly back to nz.and go and visit my new friend) i have put this post in here for a reason...a month ago .i was ready 2 jump off the harbour bridge..how things can change in a mater of weeks,to those people who are going through divorse..seperation.wht ever..i know at the time life feels hopeless...but there is lite at the end of the tunnel..also there is help.from a lot of peeps,(fuck i should no this is 4 th time.) and it wasnt a barrel of monkeys......Thank fuck ive finished,starting to get that thing women typist get..H.I.V in the finger....Regards KEVTHEKIWI..

[jafar]

Nice that life has turned a corner for the better kev.
The ex is entitled to half AFTER expenses , I.E. the mortgage..So the $350k you speak of would only be a reality if the property was freehold !!
Even if it was/is a freehold property the legal expenses,land agents fees & anything else you can put on it are deducted from that figure.

[kevfromcoro]

Nice that life has turned a corner for the better kev.
The ex is entitled to half AFTER expenses , I.E. the mortgage..So the $350k you speak of would only be a reality if the property was freehold !!
Even if it was/is a freehold property the legal expenses,land agents fees & anything else you can put on it are deducted from that figure.

yeah i know m8....the property is freehold,,,,its valued at 700..pus half assets.boat.car.left testacle..etc..etc.sounds like u have had a bit of a bad run.......its a cunt when things go wrong..cheers KEV

[jafar]

yeah i know m8....the property is freehold,,,,its valued at 700..pus half assets.boat.car.left testacle..etc..etc.sounds like u have had a bit of a bad run.......its a cunt when things go wrong..cheers KEV

Thanks kev, my run was 7 years ago , the ex & I get on well now, I have recovered somewhat from the experience & moved on.
I have my own place again (in a trust) & have remarried to a great lady :love:
Life is good :yes:

Still can't get past the old addage though :
IF IT HAS TITS OR TYRES IT WILL GIVE YOU TROUBLE :innocent:

[deanohit]

Great to hear things are on the up for you there mate.

[kevfromcoro]

Thanks kev, my run was 7 years ago , the ex & I get on well now, I have recovered somewhat from the experience & moved on.
I have my own place again (in a trust) & have remarried to a great lady :love:
Life is good :yes:

Still can't get past the old addage though :
IF IT HAS TITS OR TYRES IT WILL GIVE YOU TROUBLE :innocent:
yeah i had my 1st one 25 yrs ago..still comes back every now and then..not to much about 1nc every 2 yrs.

[ZeroIndex]

Don't divorce her... you have to actually get divorced for her to get half... just send her off to Thailand, and don't let her come back...

[kevfromcoro]

Don't divorce her... you have to actually get divorced for her to get half... just send her off to Thailand, and don't let her come back...
u shore about that..iam not,u may be right,,, can hold things up for yrs..when there is no children involved..

[jafar]

Don't divorce her... you have to actually get divorced for her to get half... just send her off to Thailand, and don't let her come back...

WRONG legal seperation is enough .

Now if he followed her to thailand THEN he could go her for half of her properties there.....

[kevfromcoro]

WRONG legal seperation is enough .

Now if he followed her to thailand THEN he could go her for half of her properties there.....

no way mate...i lived there.for a start we arnt allowed to own land in thailand,also.u can change a property name in minutes.dont even need a lawyer.she got wind of any of this id b fucked..also u can get someone killed for about 200 bucks..its a very corupt country..money buys anything...theres some dam good riding though...hard out and then come to a small village.the people are so nice..going up soon,,ALONE ,any takers.

[jafar]

no way mate...i lived there.for a start we arnt allowed to own land in thailand,also.u can change a property name in minutes.dont even need a lawyer.she got wind of any of this id b fucked..also u can get someone killed for about 200 bucks..its a very corupt country..money buys anything...theres some dam good riding though...hard out and then come to a small village.the people are so nice..going up soon,,ALONE ,any takers.

So you can solve your problems for $200.00 once your in Thailand ?
Interesting concept :shutup:

[kevfromcoro]

So you can solve your problems for $200.00 once your in Thailand ?
Interesting concept :shutup:

ferk..thats an interesting concept..never thought of that.....works both ways......

[jafar]

ferk..thats an interesting concept..never thought of that.....works both ways......


Thailand known for:
Drugs:yes:
Prostitution:yes:
Corruption:yes:
Dirty deeds done dirt cheap :gob::shit:
Locking up ozzie chick for having a Surfboard in her drugs bag :dodge:

Think I will give it a miss :sunny:

[kevfromcoro]

Thailand known for:
Drugs:yes:
Prostitution:yes:
Corruption:yes:
Dirty deeds done dirt cheap :gob::shit:
Locking up ozzie chick for having a Surfboard in her drugs bag :dodge:

Think I will give it a miss :sunny:nah its a nice place if u keep your nose clean...lovely people...BTW the drugs in the surfboard was in bali indoneseia....not thailand,,,last time i left thailand..met a guy ..having a coffee in the morning..the bigest income erner in thai..is copy cds..2nd is drugs....3rd protisution....turned out he was with the thai mafia...nice guy...couldnt ride a bike for shit though.....most of them cant a big bike is a 250..there are a few 1000s...but very rare.....its funny really the chickys take one look..cheers ..KEV at yr bike..c the size..and then manage to read the cc ..not hard ..it usually plasted all over the tank....and thats it ....size is a frietening them for them..i know thet well dropped me strides a couple of times,,,,CHEERS KEV

[jafar]

nah its a nice place if u keep your nose clean...lovely people...BTW the drugs in the surfboard was in bali indoneseia....not thailand,,,last time i left thailand..met a guy ..having a coffee in the morning..the bigest income erner in thai..is copy cds..2nd is drugs....3rd protisution....turned out he was with the thai mafia...nice guy...couldnt ride a bike for shit though.....most of them cant a big bike is a 250..there are a few 1000s...but very rare.....its funny really the chickys take one look..cheers ..KEV at yr bike..c the size..and then manage to read the cc ..not hard ..it usually plasted all over the tank....and thats it ....size is a frietening them for them..i know thet well dropped me strides a couple of times,,,,CHEERS KEV

Your right it was bali....
Still not keen on going there ( or bali ).

[jrandom]

Got married to a thai lady about 8 yrs ago...

There's your problem, mate. Never trust anyone you can blindfold with a shoelace.

And please, please, get over this yellow fever nonsense. LBFM (http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=lbfm)s are not for marrying!

Anyway, looks like things are on track for you now. Hopefully you'll learn from your mistakes, set up a family trust and stop sticking your dick in the untermenschen.

Oh, did I sound bigoted just there? So sorry.

Perhaps you shouldn't have started a thread by implying that a common-law 50/50 split of your assets after eight years of marriage is somehow unfair because your wife is Southeast Asian. What's your point? Little Brown Fucking Machines shouldn't have the same legal property rights as real women?

(Did you really waste money on eight different lawyers before you managed to beat a single, simple fact about property law into your skull?)

You're a stereotype, man. The middle-aged loser who perpetually chases Chinese or Southeast Asian women because he's not attractive, intelligent or confident enough to pursue women from his own culture. What's the story, man, too insecure to manage a hard-on in the presence of a blonde?

And don't give me any bullshit about how lovely the slanty-eyed LBFMs are, and how much you respect them - the whinging in your original post makes your underlying disdain abundantly clear.

Stop with the pissing and moaning already, split up your marital assets like the law says you should, and HTFU.

[kevfromcoro]

There's your problem, mate. Never trust anyone you can blindfold with a shoelace.

And please, please, get over this yellow fever nonsense. LBFM (http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=lbfm)s are not for marrying!

Anyway, looks like things are on track for you now. Hopefully you'll learn from your mistakes, set up a family trust and stop sticking your dick in the untermenschen.

Oh, did I sound bigoted just there? So sorry.

Perhaps you shouldn't have started a thread by implying that a common-law 50/50 split of your assets after eight years of marriage is somehow unfair because your wife is Southeast Asian. What's your point? Little Brown Fucking Machines shouldn't have the same legal property rights as real women?

(Did you really waste money on eight different lawyers before you managed to beat a single, simple fact about property law into your skull?)

You're a stereotype, man. The middle-aged loser who perpetually chases Chinese or Southeast Asian women because he's not attractive, intelligent or confident enough to pursue women from his own culture. What's the story, man, too insecure to manage a hard-on in the presence of a blonde?

And don't give me any bullshit about how lovely the slanty-eyed LBFMs are, and how much you respect them - the whinging in your original post makes your underlying disdain abundantly clear.

Stop with the pissing and moaning already, split up your marital assets like the law says you should, and HTFU.

haha.. new i would get one...why dont u go and stick a carrot up your ass. and dream of a blonde,...u dont get out much do u,

[Hitcher]

haha.. new i would get one...why dont u go and stick a carrot up your ass. and dream of a blonde,...u dont get out much do u,

That's really nice. Donkeys love carrots.

[jrandom]

why dont u go and stick a carrot up your ass...

I'm keeping it tight and fresh for my new business venture (http://www.kiwibiker.co.nz/forums/showthread.php?t=52850).

Can I interest you in a booking?

[Panther]

haha.. new i would get one...why dont u go and stick a carrot up your ass. and dream of a blonde,...u dont get out much do u,

Hey Hitcher, isn't it arse?
You're slipping little buddy.

[kevfromcoro]

That's really nice. Donkeys love carrots.

ok.i didnt stick this thread in here to run women down..where ever they come from...read it again...mens rights an the law..its about wot it comes down to when things turn bad.i have had a lot of ressponse..much appreciated....women or men..have made lots of friends..through this site..as far a whinging goes..well i aint whinging...cheer up..your life will change for the better soon.

[jafar]

I'm keeping it tight and fresh for my new business venture (http://www.kiwibiker.co.nz/forums/showthread.php?t=52850).

Can I interest you in a booking?

:sick::buggerd:
$10,000 ??? :shit::moon::rofl:
For that price you had better be cooking the breakfast in the morning :dodge:

[jrandom]

For that price you had better be cooking the breakfast in the morning :dodge:

My poached eggs are to die for.

[Grahameeboy]

ok.i didnt stick this thread in here to run women down..where ever they come from...read it again...mens rights an the law..its about wot it comes down to when things turn bad.i have had a lot of ressponse..much appreciated....women or men..have made lots of friends..through this site..as far a whinging goes..well i aint whinging...cheer up..your life will change for the better soon.

I thought your Thread was fine........in 10 years time the money will be the last thing on ya mind...not nice now I know but things happen for a reason

[Grahameeboy]

My poached eggs are to die for.

If they kill ya, I'll pass thanks

[jafar]

My poached eggs are to die for.

WOT ?? No bacon & toast ???:nono:

[kevfromcoro]

:sick::buggerd:
$10,000 ??? :shit::moon::rofl:
For that price you had better be cooking the breakfast in the morning :dodge:

10 grand,,wotcha talking about.

[jafar]

10 grand,,wotcha talking about.

Slackass selling his assets !

I'm keeping it tight and fresh for my new business venture.

[kevfromcoro]

Slackass selling his assets !

I'm keeping it tight and fresh for my new business venture.

just seen your new bussines adventure...count me out..lol.still dont understand your last post completely

[jrandom]

If they kill ya, I'll pass thanks

No worries, handsome. Breakfast is an optional extra.

[jafar]

No worries, handsome. Breakfast is an optional extra.

:confused: so much for the poached egg's then :sick:

[SPman]

My poached eggs are to die for.
On marmite toast with paprika?

B O T - my ex and I were fighting furiously at split up time when it came time to divide up all the property....."you have it..no, you have it,...I don't fucking want it....you have it... No!......."
The one kid at home had a choice as to who he wanted to stay with....and if I need a bed for the night (single) when I'm in Palmy, I stay at her place.
So - never had any problems
However - if anyone in Auckland is going through this drama, there is a weekly informal mens group, which I can thoroughly recommend - more horror stories than you can shake a stick at, but lots of shared information and practical and emotional backup

http://www.mensline.org.nz/resource.html
Men in Change


Tuesdays, On-going
7:30pm - 10:00pm
Joe Barker / Paul Heinz
Total Cost: Donation
Support and growth group for men who want to approach life positively, with hope, relate more effectively with people and discuss issues relevant to men. New members welcome.

For more information contact Raeburn House (http://www.raeburnhouse.org.nz/page/raeburn_14.php) ph: (09) 441 8989.

[Winston001]

I am presently contemplating Divorce and the thing I cant come to terms with is that I will be taking everything that matters away from my husband. The whole 50/50 thing is not an issue, we were married in our early 20's and had been together for 21 years before I found he was having an affair and he moved out. Everything we own, we have both worked really hard for, together. We are really good friends, we still spend a lot of time together and we work together in a business we have both built from scratch, we both really care about each other and believe that we have unfinished business. So why do it you might ask. I have spent the last 3 years waiting and wishing for things to change and I am wasting my life away being sad and alone, thats why.

My problem is I will be taking away his home (the one place that he can come home to where there are people who love him, where he is always welcomed, cared for and where he can relax).

I will be taking his family from him. They are all teenagers but they have always been with me, they have seen first hand the upset and pain that I have been through and they are fiercly protective of me. If I go my own way, they will come with me and he will lose them.

He will also be losing the best friend and greatest ally he has ever had. The one person who would support him no matter what. So as you can see, not all women are concerned with money, some of us have greater concerns than that.

If anyone has any ideas on how to divorce the man you love, feel free to PM me. This is one of the hardest things I have ever had to deal with and I have no idea where to start. This is not a thread hijack and I wont discuss this online but would welcome any support or advice.

This has to be one of the most perceptive posts on this painful subject. Many decent people separate or become unhappy, without all of the aggro. It still hurts incredibly badly.

The best advice I can suggest is a book "After the Affair" http://www.amazon.com/After-Affair-Healing-Rebuilding-Unfaithful/dp/0060928174/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/002-3172822-5878421?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183343874&sr=8-1 Good sensible stuff and should be at your local library.

[KATWYN]

My brother in law owned a house, then he met a chick, fell in love, she moved in bla bla, they decide to rent the first house out, and build a big new one, then they split.
They sell the new house and split the proceeds, and she takes half the value of the house HE ALREADY OWNED as well.
A couple of years go by, he moves to another city, and buys a house there, whilst retaining the very first house as a rental.
He and the chick recocile, and get married, and buy stuff togeather, including a few rentals here and there, then divorce this time for good, she takes everything, plus half of the value of the propertys INCLUDING HALF OF THE VALUE OF THE VERY FIRST HOUSE THAT SHE HAD ALREADY GOT HALF OF IN THE FIRST SPLIT, how fuct is that....



Sounds like she makes a career out of that sort of thing.

[avgas]

Yep its all bullshit mate.
Best thing is these days you don't even have to get married. If she can claim she has known u for 2 years....your fucked, your kids are fucked and if she's a slut your so-called mates are fucked.
Sorry if i rub on someones sunshine with this topic - but its close to home.

[007XX]

My poached eggs are to die for.

May I ask very innocently if you are or have ever been married?

[007XX]

Sorry if i rub on someones sunshine with this topic - but its close to home.

You're not ...just stating a fact. It is pretty close to home to a lot of people by the looks of it, and that's pretty sad.
It is a gender independant problem which only demonstrate that no matter how long you've been with someone, it's uncertain whether you actually know them at all...and that just plain sucks!

[kevfromcoro]

You're not ...just stating a fact. It is pretty close to home to a lot of people by the looks of it, and that's pretty sad.
It is a gender independant problem which only demonstrate that no matter how long you've been with someone, it's uncertain whether you actually know them at all...and that just plain sucks!

ONYA MATE.....just been out on the bike..fu..kin freezing..... never mind..having a big glass of V.. ...SHOULD PUT ME RIGHT... .HAHA..:Punk:

[jrandom]

May I ask very innocently if you are or have ever been married?

I was, for seven years. Two kids resulted.

I don't think I will be again, though. As Samuel Johnson said, second marriages are a triumph of hope over experience...

[scumdog]

I was, for seven years. Two kids resulted.

I don't think I will be again, though. As Samuel Johnson said, second marriages are a triumph of hope over experience...

Sort of like getting onto another motorbike after having written-off the last one eh???
Who the hell would ever do THAT!!

[Al]

My brother in law owned a house, then he met a chick, fell in love, she moved in bla bla, they decide to rent the first house out, and build a big new one, then they split.
They sell the new house and split the proceeds, and she takes half the value of the house HE ALREADY OWNED as well.
A couple of years go by, he moves to another city, and buys a house there, whilst retaining the very first house as a rental.
He and the chick recocile, and get married, and buy stuff togeather, including a few rentals here and there, then divorce this time for good, she takes everything, plus half of the value of the propertys INCLUDING HALF OF THE VALUE OF THE VERY FIRST HOUSE THAT SHE HAD ALREADY GOT HALF OF IN THE FIRST SPLIT, how fuct is that....
I pleased that when I split with my ex, we had nothing, we were that poor, i just packed up my ute and my bikes and walked away, she did likewise, It took years to sort the bills though

Poor sod didn't learn the first time around....

Maybe he got punished for his stupidity?

Al

[kevfromcoro]

Sort of like getting onto another motorbike after having written-off the last one eh???
Who the hell would ever do THAT!!

FUCK I MUST BE A DUMB ARSE... this is the 4th time i ve come off a bike....lets pick up the peices and start again......ho hum

[jrandom]

Sort of like getting onto another motorbike after having written-off the last one eh???

If motorcycles were prone to randomly spitting you off while you were tooling along in a straight line babying the throttle, then yes, it'd be just like that.

[Joni]

If motorcycles were prone to randomly spitting you off while you were tooling along in a straight line babying the throttleYup, thats why I dont ride horses.... :yes:

Sorry completely off the subject.

[kevfromcoro]

Yup, thats why I dont ride horses.... :yes:

Sorry completely off the subject.

shag them horses..i can never find the brake pedal.

[007XX]

I was, for seven years. Two kids resulted.

I don't think I will be again, though. As Samuel Johnson said, second marriages are a triumph of hope over experience...

I used to say the same thing, believe me...but funnily enough, I met my soulmate:love:5 years ago , he adores my son (who's not his) and we got married this past January.
What I'm getting at his, don't be too harsh on those that share in their pain, and keep your options open (and I don't mean like your venture kind of option....funny though!). You'd be amazed at how many decent people there are out there, regardless of their skin colour.:sunny:

[007XX]

shag them horses..

Geez mate, I know your a horndog (me :dodge:) but horses?? Eeeeuuu....:laugh:

[ManDownUnder]

shag them horses..i can never find the brake pedal.

You're only allowed to shag horses if you're from Eltham... I think that's the place...or is it cows??

Mods... PD?

[kevfromcoro]

You're only allowed to shag horses if you're from Eltham... I think that's the place...or is it cows??

Mods... PD?

hahaha..nah its sheep..but all the good looking ones can out run me...

[ManDownUnder]

hahaha..nah its sheep..but all the good looking ones can out run me...

LOL... not in Eltham dude. The press reported it was a cow... and I have friends that witnessed said sad event LOL!

[007XX]

LOL... not in Eltham dude. The press reported it was a cow... and I have friends that witnessed said sad event LOL!

God...I don't know about you two!!!:gob::laugh::laugh:

Hey Kev, you might have to go easy on the V, maybe ???:msn-wink::laugh:

[kevfromcoro]

God...I don't know about you two!!!:gob::laugh::laugh:

Hey Kev, you might have to go easy on the V, maybe ???:msn-wink::laugh:

hahah a girl.....just had another bottle....and managed to catch a good looking sheep.....been out bikin to day ..just bought myself a new set of leathers.to take to thailand...i know its going to hot over there..but i will wear them..last thing i want to do is go the road .with no protection....might even wear 2 condoms when iam riding...just incase..thailand is a bit different to NZ..IF U ARSE OF THERE are all sorts of infections u can get..the dogs and the elephants shit and piss in the street..lot of the dogs have rabies....so even a small infection can be seriuos.never mind iam away got a big box of v 2 take with me... love it.....now where is that sheep..... come on.....come heeeeereee..

[kevfromcoro]

moved my trip forward,,leaving in a couple of days.just packing my suitcase. lets c....wot does a bloke need for 3 months overseas....condoms.. 6 pairs of jeans..few t shirts .. boots,,,gloves..2 pairs of leathers....first aid kit.. hip flask.. and a pair of underpants.....now i cant close the fucking thing..lets c.wot can i take out,umm....underpants..dont need them...thats better,,closed it

[deanohit]

Going already mate? Did the sheep just not do it for you last night?
Sounds like you've got all the essentialls packed. Just be careful because the road aint the only place to catch a nasty infection, but you probably know that already.

p.s: I notice you didnt mention a helmet?

[007XX]

never mind iam away got a big box of v 2 take with me... love it.....now where is that sheep..... come on.....come heeeeereee..


you such a smooth talker....More seriously, do be careful out there, ok??!!! having yur ding dong fall off could cramp your style, even with the ewes...or are you going for the rams these days???:dodge::laugh::shit:

[kevfromcoro]

you such a smooth talker....More seriously, do be careful out there, ok??!!! having yur ding dong fall off could cramp your style, even with the ewes...or are you going for the rams these days???:dodge::laugh::shit:

got all the gear to gether.yeah mate got 2 helmets,2 suit cases one is full of condoms.and the other is just basic stuff,,,, bikin gear.acuatly the sheep is a blow up one..giving it a dam good scruffing last night.and it went down on me..took it back to the shop where i bought it..and the cunt wanted to charge me extra...hahaha ..V is good for the body.

[Hitcher]

So has this thread been just a big piss take, or am I missing something really deep?

[kevfromcoro]

So has this thread been just a big piss take, or am I missing something really deep?

no mate.its not a pisstake at all..iam very serious about this thread..jst met a few people. through this thread and having a bit of fun.... i started this thread to help people out ,,who are going through hard times,and if have read most of it.u will understand where iam coming from..not worried about who did this and who did that..we all have different stories...REGARDS KEVTHEKIWI

[Hitcher]

So the moral of the story then is if one's marriage breaks down, one should back up one's cares and woes and indulge in a bit of whoreing in a third-world country?

[kevfromcoro]

So the moral of the story then is if one's marriage breaks down, one should back up one's cares and woes and indulge in a bit of whoreing in a third-world country?

whatever it takes.mate...seperation is the worst thing i have been through in my life,now iam alone.. living in the middle of the bush..it aint a lot of fun.so i have to get my shit together...some cunts comit susaside over things like this....iam not running away from anthing.i just know that i can go to thailand..and have a bit of fun....bikin no 1...drinking no.2 and chase a few girlys.no 3....cheers mate. ( WE ARE ARE A SORT TIME HERE AND A LONG TIME DEAD)..Regrds KEV

[kevfromcoro]

hows that for being seroius

[deanohit]

bikin no 1...drinking no.2 and chase a few girlys.no 3....cheers mate. ( WE ARE ARE A SHORT TIME HERE AND A LONG TIME DEAD)

I think you've got no 2 & 3 mixed up there mate. Each to their own though:Punk:
Love that quote

[mikey]

Divorse,,Separtion. when u are left alone....its a nasty bussniss.just like to put this thread in here to tell u all the rights of men.......interesting subject.....MY Story.... ..ok. Got married to a thai lady about 8 yrs ago..we had a happy life for quite some time..then at xmas she up and fucks off..iam sitting here stratcting my head thinking WTF.. well off i go 2 c a lawyer. heres how it went.well my missus has fucked off .sorry Kev but she is up for 50%...hang on says me thats not fair....i had a $300 000 house when i met her..now we have bought a house in coro and its worth $700 000..well she is up for half...wot about the 3 houses she has in thailand.......well she bought them before she met u ..separate property.... they are hers.....FUCK this aiant fair.....the law is a fucken arse ....the law is the law..says mister lawyer....well shove it were the sun dont shine.so off i go..that lawyer is a dickhead...lets go see another lawyer....in the last 6 weeks i have seen 8 lawyers...and the sad story is just the same.50 50 down the line....it just doesnt seem right.....i wouldnt mind if my wife had of contributed to something here..but never has,,,,,had 6 trips back to Thailand.and i gave her a $1000 every time ..never worked ...fuck we are getting screwed..... to anyone in a simalar situation..please post here..iam not a legal person but have most of the answers,. to top that of the missus has put a caveat on the house...cant sell it.cant borrow money against it....wot to do.....any way everthing has turned out for the best.....Regards KEVTHEKIWI

your looking at it from the wrong angle? owning a hosue i assume you have insurance? a will etc, did the gook have one? are you the sole benefactor? when in thailand KILL HER

[scumdog]

your looking at it from the wrong angle? owning a hosue i assume you have insurance? a will etc, did the gook have one? are you the sole benefactor? when in thailand KILL HER

Ah, another sensible touching helpfull post from that guru of understanding and knowledge, KBs mikey!!

[mikey]

Ah, another sensible touching helpfull post from that guru of understanding and knowledge, KBs mikey!!

In ubekastan its legal to kill any of your wifes even before she leaves you or cheats on you, or even if you think she has, or might.

From an insurance point of view, they put a value on human life, they even put a value on cats and goldfish. Why cant you put a value on someone elses life? Doesnt have to be monetary, more what they have done. Usre kev from koro will benefit financially, but why should he lose out? If the laws were thought out a bit, people wouldnt be put in this ethical dilema.

Im not talking about a maori bludgeon to death with a tiaha annd your eyes been eaten, then body been spitroasted and eaten also.More a humane bullet in the head. Is that to much to ask for? I think you could pay someone in thailand a hundred bux to put a bullet in someones head.

[kevfromcoro]

THANKS FOR THE COMENTS PEEPS... yeah right take the ex to thailand and get her knocked off,,,great idea,,,,,,fianacally i would be a lot better off.... but i cant live with that shit,go up there and do that come back on the plane grinning like shit.. go home sit for a while..and then think about what u done......iam an old biker from years ago what is right is right,,,,seems we are getting screwed by the system in more ways than one,,,,the law is the law...and it doesnt seem moral rights mean a hell of a lot ...we know whats right and wrong stick with it and fight for it....MORAL RIGHTS.... yeah thats it ... fuck that..she can have the lot before i do anything like that,,,sanity......./peace of mind ....is worth a lot more ...than a million dollars...... the bike....wheres the bike..........fuck thats all i need...pack the cunt up and fuck off.... she can have it....trying to get a message through here ..anyone got it...REGARDS KEV

[sAsLEX]

i had a $300 000 house when i met her


wot about the 3 houses she has in thailand.......well she bought them before she met u ..separate property.... they are hers.....FUCK this aiant fair.....

Surely that works both ways then? You are not allowed, by laws higher than divorce law, to discriminate on sex. So if you have to give half your preowned house to her, you get half her three?

[scumdog]

I think you could pay someone in thailand a hundred bux to put a bullet in someones head.

And I know just the 'someone' to get a bullet put into.......

[kevfromcoro]

And I know just the 'someone' to get a bullet put into.......

say no more......

[kevfromcoro]

Surely that works both ways then? You are not allowed, by laws higher than divorce law, to discriminate on sex. So if you have to give half your preowned house to her, you get half her three?

no sorry..if a partner owned a property b4 the relationship.comes under the separate property.act...so iam not entitled to any of that......i owned property b4 we met.. but i sold it...and put it all im one house....called the matrimonial home...which we both lived so wot it comes down too she can have 50% of wot i have but iam not entitled to anything of wot she owns.........

[kevfromcoro]

Wahoo..booked the ticket..contacted a few mates in chang mai..in the air on sunday..15th..how life changes when a little bit of effort is put into it.going to do a trip report when i arrive...WELCOME TO THAILAND. lots of biky pics rides..a bit of humour.and a few x rated..cant wait.,,,,CHOOKE DEE..= Good luck........KEV

[kevfromcoro]

Summary..6 weeks go i didnt want to start this thread.now iam really pleased i did,there has been a lot of support.and met a few friends ..MRS V.. it just shows wot we are all about.iam flying to thailand in 12 hrs..and then another 12 hrs on the plane with no smokes..i have met a lot of bikers in my day..from gang members to lawyers docters,who dress up in a pair of jeans..and go for a ride on there harleys.when we stop and have a chat we are all the same..i have travelled in many countrys..and bikers just seem to be the same..there seems to be a brotherhood amongust us.and the odd girly hood too.so for al u young fellas out there that have just started ..its to late..we are all part of the brotherhood.thanks everyone for your posts..it has picked me up imensally...(cant spell)..going to start a thread in here soon..welcome to thailand.riding..drinking..and fun....REGARDS KEV

[peasea]

Summary..6 weeks go i didnt want to start this thread.now iam really pleased i did,there has been a lot of support.and met a few friends ..MRS V.. it just shows wot we are all about.iam flying to thailand in 12 hrs..and then another 12 hrs on the plane with no smokes..i have met a lot of bikers in my day..from gang members to lawyers docters,who dress up in a pair of jeans..and go for a ride on there harleys.when we stop and have a chat we are all the same..i have travelled in many countrys..and bikers just seem to be the same..there seems to be a brotherhood amongust us.and the odd girly hood too.so for al u young fellas out there that have just started ..its to late..we are all part of the brotherhood.thanks everyone for your posts..it has picked me up imensally...(cant spell)..going to start a thread in here soon..welcome to thailand.riding..drinking..and fun....REGARDS KEV


Hey man, you'd be surprised at how many KBers have been through the same shit. I got dragged over the coals when I first posted, kinda like an initiation ceremony at a gang HQ, but it's all good now.

We are all kiwis on the same road. Start any thread you like, there's always someone who'll respond.

Good luck in life.

[kevfromcoro]

Bit of addvice needed.
I have just returned from an overseas trip..Had a great time.
While i was overseas my best mate was onto my ex.telling her to sell my house ,,,take the money..from me ..and live with him,happily ever after.
Just seems cant trust anyone these days.
Think steam has the right idea..( fix everthing with a handgun)
Missus doesnt want to come back,,reconds i drink to much...(chickens breasts)..all kiwis drink a little.
The missus still has the caveat on the house..so iam stuck there.
Feeling a bit down about the whole deal..
One option i do have,,is cash up a few items,and go to Aussie.
My lawyer told me this months ago.its not illegal.
Just sort of means starting again.
The house can be rented.
I can stay here, and battle it out,but i think i have more chance in 5 or 10 yrs time.
Got somewhere to go in aussie.no probs there.
Am i doing the right thing??
Got a scooter for sale is anyone is interested.
Bit of advice appreciated......KEV

[avgas]

Start again now, my old man - 10 years on still doesn't know what do with his life. He been in and out relationships since then.
Last i heard from him he was thinkin of just packing up and going to Nepal for a few years (he's been there twice before).
I told him it was probably a good idea.
Cut your losses and run, Like a wise man always told me - Pride is not everlasting, depression can be.