Fostering children

[Sanx]

If anyone's got any experience with fostering children (officially) and don't mind answering a few questions, could they please drop me a PM.

Ta,
D.

[Nasty]

If anyone's got any experience with fostering children (officially) and don't mind answering a few questions, could they please drop me a PM.

Ta,
D.


PM U4ea she knows lots

[Mom]

I fostered children for years, cant seem to send you a PM at the moment, but feel free to ask any questions you may have.

[Scouse]

If anyone's got any experience with fostering children (officially) and don't mind answering a few questions, could they please drop me a PM.

Ta,
D.You could always try having your own children with your partner, or if you don't have any lead in your pencil adopt, or is the reason for wanting to foster a way to try to extract more benefit from our social welfare system, while you are hear, and the when you have had enough of New Zealand you can send these children back then you just go back home with no conscience. Any way must go unlike you I have got a job to go to.

[KATWYN]

You could always try having your own children with your partner, or if you don't have any lead in your pencil adopt, or is the reason for wanting to foster a way to try to extract more benefit from our social welfare system, while you are hear, and the when you have had enough of New Zealand you can send these children back then you just go back home with no conscience. Any way must go unlike you I have got a job to go to.

Ouch. :(

Either you know something the rest of us don't about Sanx, or those were pretty insensitive words.....

[NighthawkNZ]

You could always try having your own children with your partner, or if you don't have any lead in your pencil adopt, or is the reason for wanting to foster a way to try to extract more benefit from our social welfare system, while you are hear, and the when you have had enough of New Zealand you can send these children back then you just go back home with no conscience. Any way must go unlike you I have got a job to go to.

thats a bit uncalled for wasn't it... do you know something we don't???

[Str8 Jacket]

You could always try having your own children with your partner, or if you don't have any lead in your pencil adopt, or is the reason for wanting to foster a way to try to extract more benefit from our social welfare system, while you are hear, and the when you have had enough of New Zealand you can send these children back then you just go back home with no conscience. Any way must go unlike you I have got a job to go to.

Umm dude, if I hadnt been fostered as a child then I would've been more fucked than I am today! Most of the people who foster children do it out of love. Also alot of people that foster children work a full time job as well. I think that your criticism is a bit over the top!

[Drum]

We had more than 80 foster kids pass through my parents home over the years, and I can assure you that you don't make any money out of it. It costs you money, so there is generally a more noble reason to make the sacrifice.

zrxer, are you some kind of idiot?

[Sanx]

You could always try having your own children with your partner, or if you don't have any lead in your pencil adopt, or is the reason for wanting to foster a way to try to extract more benefit from our social welfare system, while you are hear, and the when you have had enough of New Zealand you can send these children back then you just go back home with no conscience. Any way must go unlike you I have got a job to go to.

That's right. All of the above. You caught me. How clever of you. I'm humbled by your laser-like insight and deductuve reasoning.

Or on the other hand, it could be we're trying to foster one child in particular; one my partner and I have known since she was born five years ago and whom we both have great affection for. The child's mother is criminally irresponsible, regards the child as a burden and spends half her time trying to work out who she can dump the child on so she can go out and get stoned. The child's father is a convicted drug dealer who's still in jail. Because the parents are still alive and the father would not agree to adoption, fostering's the best and only way we can ensure this child gets the attention and upbringing she deserves.

Is that a good enough reason, or are you going to continue spouting utter shite? Please feel free to continue making laughable threats via red rep as usual. But, if you want to do anything about them, perhaps think about the time and the place - trying to pick a fight at yesterday's funeral showed either a monumental lack of respect, or a similar lack of intelligence.

[Angusdog]

Ah, there's twats everywhere and KB is no exception.

Fostering children seems like the most charitable act, but like almost all acts of altruism I bet you do get something in return: love from the child, respect from your friends and the knowledge you're making the world a better place. So really, you are being greedy (in literally the nicest possible way).

All the best; I hope it works out for you. You are doing a very good deed.
If you need someone to moider the prick in jail, I'm sure someone on KB has connections...

[Str8 Jacket]

Or on the other hand, it could be we're trying to fosteror take care of one child in particular; one my partner and I have known since she was bron five years ago and whom we both have great affection for. The child's mother is criminally irresponsible, regards the child as a burden and spends half her time trying to work out who she can dump the child on so che can go out and get stoned. The child's father is a convicted drug dealer who's still in jail. Because the parents are still alive and the father would not agree to adoption, fostering's the best and only way we can ensure this child gets the attention and upbringing she deserves.



Good on ya mate, its not going to be easy but I reckon it will be worth the work! I hope things work out for you both! :)

[NotaGoth]

That's right. All of the above. You caught me. How clever of you. I'm humbled by your laser-like insight and deductuve reasoning.

Or on the other hand, it could be we're trying to fosteror take care of one child in particular; one my partner and I have known since she was bron five years ago and whom we both have great affection for. The child's mother is criminally irresponsible, regards the child as a burden and spends half her time trying to work out who she can dump the child on so che can go out and get stoned. The child's father is a convicted drug dealer who's still in jail. Because the parents are still alive and the father would not agree to adoption, fostering's the best and only way we can ensure this child gets the attention and upbringing she deserves.

Is that a good enough reason, or are you going to continue spouting utter shite? Please feel free to continue making laughable threats via red rep as usual. But, if you want to do anything about them, perhaps think about the time and the place - trying to pick a fight at yesterday's funeral showed either a monumental lack of respect, or a similar lack of intelligence.

You really don't have to explain yourself to him. He's the one with the issues not you. I say good on you, and I hope things work out. Its obviously something that you have already put alot of thought into doing.
Every child deserves a loving family and a decent home. And you're prepared to offer that.
All the best.
Bling sent.

[GIXser]

You could always try having your own children with your partner, or if you don't have any lead in your pencil adopt, or is the reason for wanting to foster a way to try to extract more benefit from our social welfare system, while you are hear, and the when you have had enough of New Zealand you can send these children back then you just go back home with no conscience. Any way must go unlike you I have got a job to go to.

Dude, you have serious issues ...get a life of your own !
i personnally know Sanx very well and this is a genuine request for advice and guidance,
it seems whereever you go , you stirr and get peoples back up, something i didnt expect from you. dissapointing man....

[Pussy]

If anyone's got any experience with fostering children (officially) and don't mind answering a few questions, could they please drop me a PM.

Ta,
D.
My folks fostered heaps of kids over the years. I've got one sister, but a huge amount of foster brothers/sisters. Good on you, Sanx. I could ask my now elderly folks any questions on your behalf. Cheers

[MrMelon]

You could always try having your own children with your partner, or if you don't have any lead in your pencil adopt, or is the reason for wanting to foster a way to try to extract more benefit from our social welfare system, while you are hear, and the when you have had enough of New Zealand you can send these children back then you just go back home with no conscience. Any way must go unlike you I have got a job to go to.

You just keep finding ways to make yourself look like a total tosser don't you...

[Nicksta]

You could always try having your own children with your partner, or if you don't have any lead in your pencil adopt, or is the reason for wanting to foster a way to try to extract more benefit from our social welfare system, while you are hear, and the when you have had enough of New Zealand you can send these children back then you just go back home with no conscience. Any way must go unlike you I have got a job to go to.

I respected you as an experienced rider and good person. After reading this, i'm truly shocked and amazed and am sadened that my impression of you is so wrong. A funeral is a time of coming together for one person and celebrating their life. How dare you be so selfish as to overshadow this. I couldnt understand why one of my good friends left in a hurry without saying goodbye at the church, now i know.
your truly a sad person.

[Zuki Bandit]

You could always try having your own children with your partner, or if you don't have any lead in your pencil adopt, or is the reason for wanting to foster a way to try to extract more benefit from our social welfare system, while you are hear, and the when you have had enough of New Zealand you can send these children back then you just go back home with no conscience. Any way must go unlike you I have got a job to go to.
What an absolute wank!!!

[dmoney]

much respect for wanting to give the child a good go at life hope it all works out for you :niceone: As for zrxer who the fuck are you dude didnt no one love you as a child or something. Someone needs to bitchslap you ya loser :yes::bash:

[98tls]

All the best with it mate,if you can offer a child a home filled with love/securitygood advice then you do a wonderful thing.:niceone:

[Sanx]

All the best with it mate,if you can offer a child a home filled with love/securitygood advice then you do a wonderful thing.:niceone:

Not sure about the 'good advice' bit, but we'll try our best with the other two.

Myself and my partner are considering legalities at the moment. Thanks to all those who have PM'd with advice.

[Brett]

You could always try having your own children with your partner, or if you don't have any lead in your pencil adopt, or is the reason for wanting to foster a way to try to extract more benefit from our social welfare system, while you are hear, and the when you have had enough of New Zealand you can send these children back then you just go back home with no conscience. Any way must go unlike you I have got a job to go to.

Is there something wrong with you?

SOmeone taking on the responsibility of raising and caring for another persons kid(s) is pretty awesome. If a child is in a position where they are at risk, I honestly believe thatt is irresponsible to ignore them. When my wife and I have kids, we will foster as well because I believe that we can make a difference in kids' lives who would otherwise grow up to be unproductive drains on society and empty as people.

[White trash]

Dan. Mum and Dad fostered quite a few kids over the years, one of them for 14 years, who I later became legal guardian of when mum and dad moved to England. Have a chat to theold man next time you see him.

Steve. Dunno what Sanx has done to get your back up but I've suddenly realised what a cocksucker you can be.

[Nasty]

You could always try having your own children with your partner, or if you don't have any lead in your pencil adopt, or is the reason for wanting to foster a way to try to extract more benefit from our social welfare system, while you are hear, and the when you have had enough of New Zealand you can send these children back then you just go back home with no conscience. Any way must go unlike you I have got a job to go to.

zrxer .. you come here when you are looking for support for your various ventures and friends etc ... yet you abuse the shit out of someone who is trying to do something good ... you need to look at yourself again .. having a job means f@#k all when you screw up like you just have.