Why are gay people scary?

[Kittyhawk]

Last night I was sitting at the pub talking about this among kbers and one of them recieved a text down the lines of his mate was at pizza hut and said there was a guy eyeing him up...must be gay...

To which we all thought it was highly amusing at the fact it was what we were discussing at the time. And to be honest I dont know what to think as the next text was "he's Indian should I be more worried" It upset me. I keep an open mind, and those of you who do know me...know what Im like.

This person also called my best mate a "homo" in front of several kbers who were hanging out at my place one afternoon and he almost shat himself when my mate came over, picked him up by the scruff of the neck and almost threw a fist at him for the comment.

Yes my mate can take a joke but the context of it wasn't as though it was in a jokey manner. He's forever going on about honda riders being gay...urgh Im over it.

So what does make gay people so scary? I just want to get a better understanding of where he's coming from and why he hates them so much.

[Hitcher]

Please refer to the Village People thread for more information on this vital topic.

[mstriumph]

perhaps a straight guy might think there was something wrong with his masculinity that HE couldn't see but the gay guy must be able to because he was coming on to him

------ that's on the theory that you'd have to be some sort of masochist to come on to someone you didn't think would welcome your advances .....

oh SHEESH .... not only gay but into s&m too [that was a joke ...:confused: i think]

no WONDER the fella was unsettled?? .......




or then again, mebbe the gay guy wasn't cute enuff to interest him ..... :msn-wink:

[moT]

i think its something to do with one dudes dick in another dudes ass or alternate orifice.

[Hitcher]

I think it's because they think they really might like it.

[sunhuntin]

dunno... i had the best gay friends at school... lost contact with most of em now. one guy i knew in canada offered to marry me so i could live there. if id taken him up, id be a full citizen on my way to being divorced. lol.

ive done the whole chick thing... dunno what you guys see in us... wasnt all that interesting. men are much more fun!

[Storm]

Please refer to the Village People thread for more information on this vital topic.

Well done that man. You correct the grammar, and I'll expose the insecurities.
Together we will be unbeatable:dodge:

[moT]

its creeps me out thats for sure. men and woman are meant to be together not anything else its unnatural

[Hitcher]

its creeps me out thats for sure. men and woman are meant to be together not anything else its unnatural

So sexual intercourse exists only for the purposes of procreation then?

[moT]

So sexual intercourse exists only for the purposes of procreation then?

in the natural order of things yes

[Conquiztador]

When single (many moons ago) I used to frequent gay clubs. There you would find the most gorgeous females. Reason they would frequent these places was that they would not be hassled by drunks asking them for a phuck. I used to stay sober when there...

[Hitcher]

in the natural order of things yes

By a man and woman joined in holy wedlock too, one presumes?

[moT]

So sexual intercourse exists only for the purposes of procreation then?

but for humans and dolphins it can be recreational. male dolphins dont go and have recreational sex with another male dolphin and neither should humans

[moT]

By a man and woman joined in holy wedlock too, one presumes?

nah thats unnessary

[Grahameeboy]

Well I have many gay friends and I am not scared...

Remember we all start as a female and then nature etc decides but some where along the line some genes get messed about and gays are produced, it is not their fault.

[Steam]

There are lots of reasons, but the main one is that they ride Suzuki's but secretly know Honda's are waaaay better.

But seriously, here are some that have just occurred to me...

It's because we have all been raised and taught to see "otherness" as a threat.
Religion. Religion. Religion.

Another reason is perhaps pre-historic; back in the day a man or woman was useless if they couldn't breed and ensure the survival of the tribe. Perhaps this instinct survives to this day, and people still feel the need to pressure the non-breeders to be "normal" and just goddam have a baby quick. (back in the day you needed kids to care for you in your old age of 30years, as if your kids didn't care for you the rest of the tribe had to, draining their resources.)

Homosexuality is also a threat to masculinity, threatening the identity of males by implying that perhaps they are a homooo hiding in the closet, and 'weak'. Womanish. Guys react against this and are homophobic in order to reassure themselves and others that they're not.

Some parents are afraid of homosexuals because they often fear it will "infect" their children somehow, thus leading to the family dying out. Good social-darwinism there.

I think the main reason is people just fear and hate what they don't understand. "The Other."

Here's a good simple article (http://www.bidstrup.com/phobia.htm), scroll down a few paragraphs till you get to
"The Reasons Homophobes Give For Their Hatred"
and then "The Real reasons behind their hatred"

You can study this kind of stuff for years and years at university, I knew a guy who worked by night as a sex-worker (a gay sex-worker) and did his bachelors and masters degree by day on gender paradigms and stuff.
He's quite well set up financially now, sex-work seriously pays.

[Maha]

Remember we all start as a female

Um?.....you might have!......;)

[Grahameeboy]

Um?.....you might have!......;)

Fraid you too Man Maha...........

[skidMark]

Well considering this thread is discussing me here goes,

No, i do not hate gay people i have friends who are gay.

Yes, i do take the piss out of hondas and homos, because i can it's just what it is, a joke.

in regards to the indian comment, i have nothing against indians either i live with two of them, but the person who i was texting who was with all of you said something about japanese or asians or fuck i can't remember what so keeping with the race, in a very joking way i replied with the indian comment,

it was a complete pisstake, and you take me too seriously.

Hope you have enjoyed my friendship sheryl, as it is over from this point.

[Grahameeboy]

Well considering this thread is discussing me here goes,

No, i do not hate gay people i have friends who are gay.

Yes, i do take the piss out of hondas and homos, because i can it's just what it is, a joke.

in regards to the inidan comment, i have nothing against indians either i live with them, but the person who i was texting who was with all of you said something about japanese or asians or fuck i can't remember what so keeping with the race, in a very joking way i replied with the indian comment,

it was a complete pisstake, and you take me too seriously.

Hope you have enjoyed my friendship sheryl, as it is over from this point.

Who says we take you too seriously?

[moT]

Well I have many gay friends and I am not scared...

Remember we all start as a female and then nature etc decides but some where along the line some genes get messed about and gays are produced, it is not their fault.

beh its not in the genes thats a shite excuse

[Grahameeboy]

beh its not in the genes thats a shite excuse

If you say so.............

[Steam]

male dolphins dont go and have recreational sex with another male dolphin and neither should humans

Actually Tom, homosexuality in Dolphins is really well documented and widespread. Have a look.
http://www.godhateshomophobes.com/video-homosexual-dolphins.php
There's more homosexuality than you can believe going on in the wild.
Just google Homosexual and Animals, and see how many species is homosexuality is found in.

It's been described in 130 species of birds. The southeastern blueberry bees do it. Penguins. EVERY primate species known does it. Heaps of mammal species have homosexuals.
It is natural. You may not like it, but it's certainly found everywhere through the animal world.

[TRAINING WHEELS]

When single (many moons ago) I used to frequent gay clubs. There you would find the most gorgeous females. Reason they would frequent these places was that they would not be hassled by drunks asking them for a phuck. I used to stay sober when there...

I would agree.... My GF's and i always went to gay night clubs for fun safe night 7 days a week.
Had so much fun, they make you feel so welcome and have lots to offer lol

[Kittyhawk]

Anytime I called my younger brother gay... (back in those teenage days when gay was the word) I'd be in big trouble from dad...always said "gay people are queer in the head, and that sex is only between a male and female."

In his era, it was never spoken of, and today, its more acceptable in society.

For me as a person I feel safe around gay men, knowing they arent going to try get into my pants. (and they are really sexy physicially as they take good care of themselves)

Back in medevil times, or one of those baroque era's men slept with men because sex with a women was for reproducing..cant remember who told me that but it was in discussion not long ago with me.

[puddy]

Your mate's in denial. Tell him that you can't change what you are

[xwhatsit]

Poofs ftw!!

I won't hear a bad word said against our gay friends, Tchaikovsky wrote some sexy ballet scores!

[u4ea]

I explained sex to my boywhos now probably getting more than me as nuts and bolts.....mechano sets are great...don't think nuts and nuts work really....although he does have a gay boss hes not homophobic he does come home calling him pharken fag at times:buggerd:

[moT]

gay ppl are not in ratio to 1.618

[Steam]

Here's the homosexual dolphins.

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[crashe]

Well I have many gay friends and I am not scared...

Remember we all start as a female and then nature etc decides but some where along the line some genes get messed about and gays are produced, it is not their fault.


beh its not in the genes thats a shite excuse

Yep it is totally true.......

At the moment of conception when that sperm joins up to the egg.... the child is a female...... and only after a few months does the fetus decide whether or not it is going to stay a girl or become a male.

The clit grows longer and moves outwards to become a penis.......

Now in some babies the gender becomes very confused and that is why there are intersex (hermaphrodite) babies.

Intersex (hermaphrodite) babies are born with both genders...... and then it is up to the dr and the parents to decide whether or not to have the operation to correct it.
Usually it is best to leave the child as they are until they become teens.
By then they really know if they are male or female in their makeup.

So Tom you were once a female inside your mummy's tummy at the time of your conception.

[TRAINING WHEELS]

Well considering this thread is discussing me here goes,

No, i do not hate gay people i have friends who are gay.

Yes, i do take the piss out of hondas and homos, because i can it's just what it is, a joke.

in regards to the indian comment, i have nothing against indians either i live with two of them, but the person who i was texting who was with all of you said something about japanese or asians or fuck i can't remember what so keeping with the race, in a very joking way i replied with the indian comment,

it was a complete pisstake, and you take me too seriously.

Hope you have enjoyed my friendship sheryl, as it is over from this point.

Think you may have missunderstood the thred... It may have been you ( i am unsure) but was it not more of a general understanding about thoes that may have been scared or what ever it is....
I think your safe Skidmark as even after the bigdog comment (one friday night) you managed to swing your leg around him on the way back from your trackday LOL....Well done :headbang:

[Finn]

Remember we all start as a female and then nature etc decides but some where along the line some genes get messed about and gays are produced, it is not their fault.

But surely you can beat it out of them.

[Kittyhawk]

it was a complete pisstake, and you take me too seriously.

Hope you have enjoyed my friendship sheryl, as it is over from this point.

It was a situation which made me think later that night while I was with someone drinking....

Yes you are allowed to pisstake, we all do it and its good for a laugh, but there are limits, and contexts which can go the wrong way.

So our friendship is over, because Im bi ?:bleh: Im proud to be on the fence...just havent decided which side to fall off and into.

Mark....lets have makeup sex just to prove you aren't a honda rider..
Love Clittykitty

[skidMark]

Think you may have missunderstood the thred... It may have been you ( i am unsure) but was it not more of a general understanding about thoes that may have been scared or what ever it is....
I think your safe Skidmark as even after the bigdog comment (one friday night) you managed to swing your leg around him on the way back from your trackday LOL....Well done :headbang:


what comment about big dog? LOL

[skidMark]

Mark....lets have makeup sex just to prove you aren't a honda rider..
Love Clittykitty

first things first it's nothing to do with you being bi, i am sick of being judged by you constantly

and i would never have sex with you i have standards.

[TRAINING WHEELS]

Its funny really....I have alot of different groups of friends and yet there are still some that are not accepting of gay men but lesbians ....well thats ok
To me thats doubble standards
Why is it more acceptable for two women than it is for two men?

Dont get me wrong i like 2 women and I dont care if two gay men get it on it just does nothing for me.

[TRAINING WHEELS]

what comment about big dog? LOL

Well i wont go into details lol...But the one you wanted to fall off the deck for lol....

[Chrislost]

Well considering this thread is discussing me here goes,

is that what all the talk was about huh? you were trying to be scary...


finally cum(ahahahha) out of the closet?

:love:

[The Stranger]

Well I have many gay friends and I am not scared...



Of course not, why would you be?

[Kittyhawk]

first things first it's nothing to do with you being bi, i am sick of being judged by you constantly

and i would never have sex with you i have standards.

*sighs* We are just like a married couple then.....constantly bickering at eachother and no sex! :girlfight:

[deanohit]

Its funny really....I have alot of different groups of friends and yet there are still some that are not accepting of gay men but lesbians ....well thats ok
To me thats double standards
Why is it more acceptable for two women than it is for two men?
No, it's not double standards, it's for the same reason that you went to gay night clubs.
I don't get off on the thought of 2 woman going at it, but I do enjoy been friends with a lesbian for the same reason my Mum likes her gay friends, because your friends and you don't have to worry about them trying it on with you.




Plus there was the small matter of a much older gay guy flirting with me when I was 16, I literally ran away from him.
My bastard boss thought it was hilarious, me, I was disgusted! :sick:

[Dave-]

my godfather is gay....yeah I know...

"you come to me...on the day of my daughters wedding....to ask of me....a reach around?"

anyway I've always been pretty open minded to the whole thing, but I still feel a bit creeped out by it...if you want to be gay then that's fine, go right ahead....but it still seems voodoo.

I guess a good question is "will it ever be 100% socially acceptable to be homosexual?" I guess in a few years when religion is blotted out we'll let it slide, but then we'll start segregating against robots and have problems like the matrix...

which then begs to question do humans have to hate?

[Kittyhawk]

Life would be better as a robot, and you wouldn't hate like a human does.

My batteries wouldnt go flat, I'd be constantly lubed, robot sex would be quite technicial.

[skidMark]

Its funny really....I have alot of different groups of friends and yet there are still some that are not accepting of gay men but lesbians ....well thats ok
To me thats doubble standards
Why is it more acceptable for two women than it is for two men?

Dont get me wrong i like 2 women and I dont care if two gay men get it on it just does nothing for me.


because girl on girl is fucking hot.

guys like girls, so two girls getting it on is like heaven,

i spose it's not the same for chicks when 2 guys are getting it on...

because gay guys act like chicks

to girly and prissy.

just like butch lesbians do nothing for me, too much like guys, but hot girly lebians getting it on...reow..

making sense?

[Steam]

Life would be better as a robot, and you wouldn't hate like a human does.
My batteries wouldnt go flat, I'd be constantly lubed, robot sex would be quite technicial.

I dunno, being a robot might be complicated. Lots of moving parts. You know?
I bet they'd be gay too. Some of them. This video is pretty gay. Nah, actually it's GENIUS! FLight of the Conchords ROCKS!

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[Jeremy]

Yep it is totally true.......

At the moment of conception when that sperm joins up to the egg.... the child is a female...... and only after a few months does the fetus decide whether or not it is going to stay a girl or become a male.

The clit grows longer and moves outwards to become a penis.......

Now in some babies the gender becomes very confused and that is why there are intersex (hermaphrodite) babies.

Intersex (hermaphrodite) babies are born with both genders...... and then it is up to the dr and the parents to decide whether or not to have the operation to correct it.
Usually it is best to leave the child as they are until they become teens.
By then they really know if they are male or female in their makeup.

So Tom you were once a female inside your mummy's tummy at the time of your conception.

It's not as clear cut as that though.The outward appearance of being female doesn't really mean that much, during fetus development. If it was then Turner's syndrome wouldn't have symptoms (only a single X chromosome). The secondary X chromosome as a barr body is still responsible for a lot.

---

As to the hate. Western society is built upon a dualism philosophy. I'm imagining that everyone here would have no problem matching up hot/cold, love/hate, tall/short, young/old, good/evil, into respective columns. Now watch what happens when you put straight/gay and place them.

That's why. Due to associativity, they become "good" , "bad" columns.
Whether it's possible to shrug off the us versus them way of looking at things, I do not know, it's been drilled into us for our entire lives.

Though there's a positive outlook, we generally don't kill people for being left handed anymore. So given time sexual orientation may become something that people don't even care about.

[Grahameeboy]

But surely you can beat it out of them.

Silly boy, not allowed anymore........

[Grahameeboy]

Of course not, why would you be?

Exactamont..................:whistle:

[DMNTD]

Don't see how a gay person can be scary but have to admit that overly camp guys give me the shits :pinch:
My sister is gay,I have several gay friends both male and female and like someone else mentioned gay clubs used to be the place to score HOT chicks back in the day :rolleyes:

IMO if someone has serious issues with anyone that's gay etc then they probably have some serious insecurity problems of their own.
I mean why should it be of concern? Are ya jealous? :buggerd:

[kevfromcoro]

Yep it is totally true.......

At the moment of conception when that sperm joins up to the egg.... the child is a female...... and only after a few months does the fetus decide whether or not it is going to stay a girl or become a male.

The clit grows longer and moves outwards to become a penis.......

Now in some babies the gender becomes very confused and that is why there are intersex (hermaphrodite) babies.

Intersex (hermaphrodite) babies are born with both genders...... and then it is up to the dr and the parents to decide whether or not to have the operation to correct it.
Usually it is best to leave the child as they are until they become teens.
By then they really know if they are male or female in their makeup.

So Tom you were once a female inside your mummy's tummy at the time of your conception.

Thats interesting...I allways thought the mans sperm carried both male and female ..the one that wins the race to fertilise the egg determines the sex of the baby.

[zeocen]

This person also called my best mate a "homo" in front of several kbers who were hanging out at my place one afternoon and he almost shat himself when my mate came over, picked him up by the scruff of the neck and almost threw a fist at him for the comment.

It probably wasn't because he was called gay, it was probably just because it was SkidMark.

[LilSel]

some of the replies in this thread are disgusting... here I was thinking we lived in a fair society... Im gay... no im not scary... and no its not unnatural... Why am I gay?... because I am... simple as that... I didnt choose to be a 'homo'...

know me before you judge me

[marioc]

gays dont scare me tbh

[Usarka]

I witnessed some public M2M goat action in india :eek5:

[DMNTD]

I witnessed some public M2M goat action in india :eek5:

Yeah but was it a nanny or...Billy action?

[NighthawkNZ]

two lesibens...errrr thats hot :drool:... twos errrr thats not... :no: I need a tatoo that says exit only... :doh: :lol:

However I don't judge people and never have, never will, each to there own and all that. I have had a few gay freinds in the past with no problem... just as long as they know there boundaries... ie freinds only nothing more then, I will have no issue.

[Usarka]

Yeah but was it a nanny or...Billy action?

Billy #1 was having a taste of sausage from billy #2......

dissapointing i was hanging out for some nanny on nanny.....

[DMNTD]

Billy #1 was having a taste of sausage from billy #2......

dissapointing i was hanging out for some nanny on nanny.....

Never been a fan of blue rinse action...give it time though

[Usarka]

just as long as they know there boundaries... ie freinds only nothing more then, I will have no issue.

Do you also set "boundaries" with your female friends that you dont want to shag?

they wont get you if you dont let them.....

or is that what all the protestors are afraid of :drinknsin :buggerd:

[Number One]

[B]IMO if someone has serious issues with anyone that's gay etc then they probably have some serious insecurity problems of their own.

Gotta agree with this sentiment...they do say that we dispise most that which we recognise in ourselves. Still waiting to hear news that an ex of mine has come out the closet...very very anti gay (gay guys only, mind - am yet to meet a guy that has an issue with girl on girl action) and he was super jumpy if I tried to get friendly with his bum....and by friendly I mean just patting it not trying to pop a digit or anything. He was very much an anal retentive! :bleh:

[jrandom]

:corn:

I hope kiwifruit doesn't see this thread. He's the most homophobic queer I've ever... er, met.

[The Stranger]

Gotta agree with this sentiment...they do say that we dispise most that which we recognise in ourselves.

Who's they?
So Islamics recognise that in reality Christianity is the true religion and thus they despise them. I think you may have a little trouble proving that one.
The poor despise the wealthy (well many do) because they are secretly wealthy poor people?
The list goes on.

Perhaps your ex had a bad experience as an altar boy?

[Hitcher]

making sense?

Here's a shovel. Keep digging.

[KATWYN]

Who's they?
So Islamics recognise that in reality Christianity is the true religion and thus they despise them. I think you may have a little trouble proving that one.
The poor despise the wealthy (well many do) because they are secretly wealthy poor people?
The list goes on.



Its got nothing to do with proving anything

Number One said "that which we recognise in OURSELVES". I don't think Number One mentioned "that which we recognise in the GROUPS we are part of " The group may despise (i.e., one religion over another) but an individual within that group secretly may not because they are only conforming anyway

[scracha]

its creeps me out thats for sure. men and woman are meant to be together not anything else its unnatural

But Tom, you told Mumbles and I that you liked to listen?

As far as I'm concerned, go the gays. It leaves more women for the rest of us.

[jrandom]

... go the gays. It leaves more women for the rest of us.

Yes, but then the lesbians come and steal them away.

[scracha]

Do you also set "boundaries" with your female friends that you dont want to shag?

Female friends that I don't want to shag? What strange concept is this?

[Fatjim]

If you have to ask you either a chick or gay.

[007XX]

Could it be that it might be as simple as the fear of being seen as different?

In a society where the sense of "belonging" is drilled into us from an early age, being placed in categories that identifies us from sex, to economic class, right down to work capabilities, even ethics and morals and the ever so arguable matter of religion...

We are told we need to belong in a straight forward description that other people can easily identify...to be accepted within society's rules, you need a "permissible" sticker on your forehead...

Being gay is becoming more and more acceptable, but people still have a long way to go, even though it is something that has existed for centuries:
the romans were very openly into polygamy as well as same sex relationships,
So were Egyptians...

I reckon that being Bi is actually the next frontier, as it blurs the limits even further...I reckon it is now less accepted than being actually gay. It would seem that everyone wants to know wether you're in or out. It all has to make sense and so needs to be black or white...

[scracha]

I don't get off on the thought of 2 woman going at it,

What's wrong with the yoof of today?



but I do enjoy been friends with a lesbian for the same reason my Mum likes her gay friends, because your friends and you don't have to worry about them trying it on with you.

Rubbish. Your mum's a randy cow who's trying to convert them. The same way as most blokes dream of converting lesbians, preferably two at a time.




Plus there was the small matter of a much older gay guy flirting with me when I was 16, I literally ran away from him.

cocktease

[LilSel]

What is up with all the gay stuff on KB anyway??.... There seems to be a lot of it!!?!...

Is it cuz people want to understand etc?? or just a way to poke fun :Pokey: n to say how tough you are cuz you hate fags?...

I still maintain that I am not scary lol... I was brought up to treat people as I'd like to be treated myself... With strong morals & beliefs of right & wrong... I was never told that being gay was right or wrong, I had a great upbringing... middle class etc blah blah... I have never stolen anything... & have always gone out of my way to do things that benefit others...

have you ever had a child in hospital??... This 'homo' spent 8 house selling lightsticks to raise $$ for the kids hospital??... why did I volunteer my time?... cuz it was something I wanted to do to contribute in a postive way, for the kids... did I get paid?? no... was I satisfied afterwards?? yes (with really sore feet lol)...

Gays/fags/homo's contribute alot to society... give them a break... it may not be the way that you do things... you dont even have to like or agree with it... just let it be... its not affecting you in anyway :done:

[vifferman]

All people are scary, gay or not. :confused:

[Pwalo]

So, are we still discussing why gay people are scary?

I find them strange because they are different to me. Not scary, but definitely different.

As long as they leave my bottom alone it's all good.

[Paul in NZ]

Last night I was sitting at the pub talking about this among kbers and one of them recieved a text down the lines of his mate was at pizza hut and said there was a guy eyeing him up...must be gay...

To which we all thought it was highly amusing at the fact it was what we were discussing at the time. And to be honest I dont know what to think as the next text was "he's Indian should I be more worried" It upset me. I keep an open mind, and those of you who do know me...know what Im like.

This person also called my best mate a "homo" in front of several kbers who were hanging out at my place one afternoon and he almost shat himself when my mate came over, picked him up by the scruff of the neck and almost threw a fist at him for the comment.

Yes my mate can take a joke but the context of it wasn't as though it was in a jokey manner. He's forever going on about honda riders being gay...urgh Im over it.

So what does make gay people so scary? I just want to get a better understanding of where he's coming from and why he hates them so much.

Wrong question....

A better question is why do some people feel the need to demean and degrade others in public over matters that are no concern of theirs?

Increasingly it seems - displays of physical or emotional violence and dominance are becoming acceptable - they are not.

[jrandom]

What is up with all the gay stuff on KB anyway??.... There seems to be a lot of it!!?!...

Actually, there's a lot of discussion about sex on KB. Which isn't really surprising. The fact that the subject of homosexuality is touched upon reasonably regularly is probably just par for the course.

I wouldn't waste time over-analysing it.

:doobey:

[nodrog]

I wouldn't waste time over-analysing it.



nice wording bro

[LilSel]

Actually, there's a lot of discussion about sex on KB. Which isn't really surprising. The fact that the subject of homosexuality is touched upon reasonably regularly is probably just par for the course.

I wouldn't waste time over-analysing it.

:doobey:

This is true :sunny:... haha... you said anal... :sweatdrop... any holes a goal :laugh: :whocares:

[LilSel]

As long as they leave my bottom alone it's all good.

:killingme... I dont like men's bottoms :p

[007XX]

:killingme... I dont like men's bottoms :p

Oh I do...:devil2: :spanking: Especially when they're round and firm, and you just wanna nibble on them...*SWOON*


*sorry, couldn't help myself*

[jrandom]

you just wanna nibble on them...

*raises eyebrows*

Are you talking about analingus, or biting the glutes?

[Usarka]

hopefully not doing a cleopatra

[jrandom]

I reckon that being Bi is actually the next frontier, as it blurs the limits even further...I reckon it is now less accepted than being actually gay.

:grouphug:

[007XX]

*raises eyebrows*

Are you talking about analingus, or biting the glutes?

Biting the glutes...I always had this fascination with them, don't know why?:blink:


:grouphug:

Oh yeah, that's right...you one of them! Pardon my momentary lapse...:whistle:

:dodge: :rofl:

[deanohit]

What's wrong with the yoof of today?
cocktease
Thats it exactly, 2 woman together is a cocktease because you just want to jump in the middle. :grouphug::laugh:

Rubbish. Your mum's a randy cow who's trying to convert them. The same way as most blokes dream of converting lesbians, preferably two at a time.

Actually my mum wants nothing to do with men sexually after an incident a year ago that is still waiting to go to court. :mellow:

[DMNTD]

Thats it exactly, 2 woman together is a cocktease because you just want to jump in the middle....

No two women together is exactly what most men need to witness first hand or better still get involved with so they can learn how to satisfy a woman properly ;)
Blokes are too busy trying to fuck...oh sooooo much more to it young fella

[deanohit]

[B] two women together is exactly what most men need to witness first hand or better still get involved with so they can learn how to satisfy a woman properly ;)

I have seen it before, was a wild game of truth or dare, I was younger and REALLY drunk when it happened though. Was certainly an eye opener for a 16yo! :eek:

[ManDownUnder]

Gay people aren't scary. I've been hit on by gay guys, bi guys etc and I found it flattering. Not my thing - politely let them know but... scary?? That spells insecurity to me.

People trying to force their way of life upon me are annoying. Sexuality , religious and political views are always out there but when people refuse to hear what I have to say and "know they are right"... followed by an attempt to convert me??? Nu uh!

I think the whole gay thing is simply bigotry anyway. Guy A wants to insult guy B so they find something likely to challenge or embarrass them. Accusations of being gay usually works because it's a source of insecurity... either because it challenges their masculinity, or they are actually are/have had those thoughts and aren't willing to admit it.

Kitty - you've met some of my gay friends... honestly - I think they're amongst the most lovely and normal people I know.

[ManDownUnder]

I reckon that being Bi is actually the next frontier, as it blurs the limits even further...I reckon it is now less accepted than being actually gay. It would seem that everyone wants to know wether you're in or out. It all has to make sense and so needs to be black or white...

You're exactly right there!

Being Bi is viewed as "wannabe gay" from what I understand... so the understanding is missing from the straight and the gay communities.

Hell - I actually like Woody Allens perspective on it. "Being Bisexual doubles your chances of a date on Saturday night"

[007XX]

Being Bi is viewed as "wannabe gay" from what I understand... so the understanding is missing from the straight and the gay communities.


What I find interesting is that the gay community (generalisation, I know, but humour me here...) should pass such a harsh judgement onto the (supposedly) newly emerging bi community. Considering they have had such a hard time fighting for the straights to be more open minded about their close mindedness, I would have thought they would follow their own preachings...

Now, I am not finger pointing, just wondering about it.

I think you've got it right MDU, when you say it is very much biggotry, no matter which side of the fence you're on.

[Oakie]

People who are gay don't scare me because I see most of them as people first and gay second because 'gay' is only part of what they are. Apart from the 'gay' part, they are just like me. (There are some of course who are 'gay' first and that defines their whole being ... a bit like being a full on biker)
I was lucky enough to have a gay uncle who came out around about the time I was 13. He was my favourite relative (from the extended family) so when I was going through those teenage years and my mates were accusing each other of being 'homos' at the drop of a hat, I always thought that it wasn't such an insult.
I've worked with quite a few people who are gay ... even had an offer once when I was in staff accommodation which I declined ("we don't have to do anything, just lie here and cuddle" he said). Indeed my previous boss and current boss were/are both gay. Not a worry there except for the time my previous boss said to me in passing "You're quite big aren't you? Did you play rugby?" My current boss is a gay gal so no worries there. We have a great 'blokey' relationship and its really cool to be able to have that sort of a relationship with a woman without the risk of suspicion or rumours.

[Finn]

Apart from the 'gay' part, they are just like me.

So your parents hate you too?

[Oakie]

So your parents hate you too?

:laugh: I just knew I shouldn't have said that....

[SPman]

but for humans and dolphins it can be recreational. male dolphins dont go and have recreational sex with another male dolphin and neither should humans
Do humans have recreational sex with male dolphins! :eek:

I agree - it's unnatural - and you'd drown!

[RC1]

:Oi: whats with all the gay threads on kb lately??

[Kittyhawk]

It seems that in the gay community that bisexual people are frowned upon but in the straight community if its a bisexual woman then its more of a blessing...not too sure what the theory is behind this...

Is it because we cant make up our mind?
:whistle:

[Kittyhawk]

Gay people aren't scary. I've been hit on by gay guys, bi guys etc and I found it flattering. Not my thing - politely let them know but... scary??

Kitty - you've met some of my gay friends... honestly - I think they're amongst the most lovely and normal people I know.

I know, and it wasn't my fault one of them turned me on just secretly lol!

[Scouse]

So what does make gay people so scary? I just want to get a better understanding of where he's coming from and why he hates them so much.Cos they've got AIDS and they are into Bottom sex

[ManDownUnder]

Cos they've got AIDS and they are into Bottom sex

Interesting coming from the self proclaimed sufferer of constipation... something we should know?

[Kittyhawk]

Cos they've got AIDS and they are into Bottom sex

I could always throw on a strap on......and take you up the rear...:spanking:

[Morcs]

Im not scary. what a stupid thread. :laugh:

[jim.cox]

:Oi: whats with all the gay threads on kb lately??

Too much leather

It gets to them in the end...

[TRAINING WHEELS]

It seems that in the gay community that bisexual people are frowned upon but in the straight community if its a bisexual woman then its more of a blessing...not too sure what the theory is behind this...

Is it because we cant make up our mind?
:whistle:

I would agree... It seems less acceptable in gay communities but then again being bi in the straight community men mostly see it as a way in to that 3some they wanted lol...(not all men)

Being bi does not mean you cant make up your mind its more you find specific things in people that attract you and your open enough to have that come from a woman or a man. Who says we have to be with one or the other when it comes to attraction....Its just we know what we like and don’t mind what sex they are.

[imdying]

I doubt that it's anything to do with the inherent scariness of gay people (although there's plenty of scary looking fat dykes out there). Probably it's just that most people aren't suppressing the built in knowledge that humans have that homosexuals are an unclean deviant scurge on the earth that need to be wiped out at the earliest opportunity. Lets face it, they can't breed, they're good for nothing.

[007XX]

I would agree... It seems less acceptable in gay communities but then again being bi in the straight community men mostly see it as a way in to that 3some they wanted lol...(not all men)

Being bi does not mean you cant make up your mind its more you find specific things in people that attract you and your open enough to have that come from a woman or a man. Who says we have to be with one or the other when it comes to attraction....Its just we know what we like and don’t mind what sex they are.

:clap: Bravo!!!! Couldn't have said it better myself...

Why is it that people feel a strong need to label each other...I've been asked many times which side of the fence I sit on...but why should anyone have to answer such a question?

[DMNTD]

Too much leather
It gets them in the end...
:shake:....................................

[007XX]

:shake:....................................

Now, that's just asking for it, innit? :eek5:

Now, where's me strap on??? :devil2:

[DMNTD]

Now, that's just asking for it, innit? :eek5:

Now, where's me strap on??? :devil2:

What would Oprah do? ;)

[ManDownUnder]

What would Oprah do? ;)

get Doctor Fill...

[007XX]

What would Oprah do? ;)

Talk my strap on into deflation by asking it to get in touch with its feelings? <_<

:laugh:

[jrandom]

Doctor Fill

Now that'd be a good name for a strap-on.

[007XX]

Now that'd be a good name for a strap-on.

:shifty:Bold, fat and sanctimonuous? I don't think so...:nono:

However, the Culminator gets my vote...:yes: :first:

[ManDownUnder]

However, the Culminator gets my vote...:yes: :first:

Come again ? (sorry - I just had to...)

[007XX]

Come again ? (sorry - I just had to...)

Or maybe we should rename it "Climax" :rofl:

Eh btw...what's with the ugly bugger standing as DMNTD's avatar...Damn, the man has no taste...:rolleyes:

:innocent:

[DMNTD]

Eh btw...what's with the ugly bugger standing as DMNTD's avatar...Damn, the man has no taste...:rolleyes:

I dunno...some sort of broke back biker :buggerd:

[007XX]

I dunno...some sort of broke back biker :buggerd:

:killingme :killingme

Shit that was quick...well done!:first:

As you were...

[oldrider]

So what does make gay people so scary?

Scary???? :spudwhat:

It's just a case of mind over matter, I don't mind, so to me, it just doesn't matter!

Gay people are not scary, they are just.......well....er.....gay!.....What counts is, do they..:ride: Cheers John.

[snot]

Gay people are scary because they know they are going to hell but take it in the arse anyway.
Nothing scarier than a man with nothing to lose..:crazy:

[ElCoyote]

I could always throw on a strap on......and take you up the rear...:spanking:

Strapadictomi is awful.........stop it immediately :baby:

[Scouse]

I could always throw on a strap on......and take you up the rear...:spanking:Er no thanks dear

[ynot slow]

Don't think they are scary,just scared.Mostly to tell their family.After my seperation,my brother had a piss up,got talking and dancing with his g/f mate,was ready to form a relationship at time,she and I hit it off,thought could be interesting,but on sunday when she went home to another town,she said she thought she was gay,I said shit hot I'm happy too.Went onto explain last boyfriend was for 7 yrs blah blah,but had definate feelings to women,I asked was she sure as we'd seemed to get it on,she said she definately had feelings for women but her family wouldn't understand and would I keep it quiet.Next year saw her again with her new partner,was happy and had told her family,she said she was gratefull for my understanding as she was shite scared to tell family.Even my mums cousin has been in a lesbian relationship longer than most people,and she had a hard time explaining to the parents,aunties/uncles why she hafn't got married,using the excuse to career minded.

[fireball]

gay people are not scary, and the way guys act towards gay guys is stupid.... they know you are not gay and no they are not going to try it on just because you are a guy.....

im more scared of dykes.. ya know the big bull bald head looking ones... but even then they are human just like me and you they have a story and i give them all respect just like anyone else...
you are entitled to live your life in your own way thats why its great to live in a free country!

but being gay is not easy and being open about it can be hard... the whole "coming out" saga isnt just one day telling the people closest to you that yes you are gay but it can happen everyday when you start a new job, meet new people etc etc, its not an easy lifestyle to live but if it is who you are, you learn that its just part of life and who gives a fuck really.

[Wiki Drifter]

Life would be better as a robot, and you wouldn't hate like a human does.

My batteries wouldnt go flat, I'd be constantly lubed, robot sex would be quite technicial.

mmmmmm robot sex... giggdy giggdy giggdy gooo
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EjAoBKagWQA

[scracha]

Im not scary. what a stupid thread. :laugh:
I've heard your riding is scary.... cough I'll get my coat

[TonyB]

Personally I don't find gay people scary. However allow me to regail you with a tale of a slightly uncomfortable experience...

MrsB's work social club had a dinner and a show night at a gay nightclub. MrsB was teasing me all week leading up to the big night, saying she was going to sit me in the corner and see if anyone hit on me, to which I answered that I would probably be flattered if anyone did....it's not like I ever get hit on so it would be a novel experience. The show was put on before the club opened for the night, but there were a few regulars there. During the evening I went for a leak, as you do. While I was taking a piss one of the regulars walked in and proceeded to do same. Then he started hitting on me...while I was taking a piss...so here I am, in the bog of a gay night club with my old fella out, taking a piss and theres a gay guy next to me hitting on me. That was not an overly comfortable experience....bloody funny after the fact, but not overly comfortable at the time.

Then the next time I went for a piss, the guy the first guy had been sitting with turns up....was this a coincidence?? :confused: Maybe they wanted a threesome...

MrsB was VERY keen to sit me in the corner after hearing that. Strangley I was fairly keen on leaving and heading to a 'normal' nightclub and seeing if I got hit on by women..... strangely MrsB was not so keen on that<_<

[imdying]

Then he started hitting on me...while I was taking a piss...so here I am, in the bog of a gay night club with my old fella out, taking a piss and theres a gay guy next to me hitting on me.A man who's been drinking only needs one hand to manage his Johnson, use the other one to swing a good punch to that faggots throat and problem solved :2thumbsup:

Just make sure you wash your hands when you're done.

[007XX]

Then the next time I went for a piss, the guy the first guy had been sitting with turns up....was this a coincidence?? :confused: Maybe they wanted a threesome...

MrsB was VERY keen to sit me in the corner after hearing that. Strangley I was fairly keen on leaving and heading to a 'normal' nightclub and seeing if I got hit on by women..... strangely MrsB was not so keen on that<_<

Oh you sex magnet you!!! :rofl:

Similar situation for me and 007XY a couple of days ago...my work do was at Caluzzi on K'Rd (famous transvestites cabaret for those who don't know already)
Difference is, I placed my beloved between a wall partition, the table and myself...no way was any of them "ladies" going to chat up my hunk :nono: :laugh:

Thing is, I always get on great with these girls, and I ended up getting into an awesome conversation with one of them, chatting about make up and boots (as you do! :p)...Zoe was her name, and she looked like Colapop, but with makeup and long hair! :lol:

I got me a new girlfriend and hubby escaped unscathed from the experience, probably cos I was "one of the girls"...:Punk:

[TonyB]

Oh you sex magnet you!!! :rofl:As if! Although clearly these guys had my polarity confused...

[crashe]

A man who's been drinking only needs one hand to manage his Johnson, use the other one to swing a good punch to that faggots throat and problem solved :2thumbsup:

Just make sure you wash your hands when you're done.

Charming.......!!!!!!!!
Another person who will bash up a gay person just because they are gay and happen to look at your little willy.
How many straight men chat to you in the toilet's and look at it to check out your size. I bet there are many who look. But you don't bash them up.

Too many gay men are being bashed up and killed because of the hatred towards gaymen.

All anyone has to do is say "No thanks I'm straight" and the person will leave you alone. No need to bash up another human being.



Oh you sex magnet you!!! :rofl:

Similar situation for me and 007XY a couple of days ago...my work do was at Caluzzi on K'Rd (famous transvestites cabaret for those who don't know already)
Difference is, I placed my beloved between a wall partition, the table and myself...no way was any of them "ladies" going to chat up my hunk :nono: :laugh:

Thing is, I always get on great with these girls, and I ended up getting into an awesome conversation with one of them, chatting about make up and boots (as you do! :p)...Zoe was her name, and she looked like Colapop, but with makeup and long hair! :lol:

I got me a new girlfriend and hubby escaped unscathed from the experience, probably cos I was "one of the girls"...:Punk:

The 'girls' are 'Drag Queens' not transvestites...... there is a huge difference between the two.

[imdying]

Too many gay men are being bashed up and killed because of the hatred towards gaymen.That's one opinion... another is that there's insufficient getting buried...

All anyone has to do is say "No thanks I'm straight" and the person will leave you alone. No need to bash up another human being.I agree, no need to bash another human being. Sub human deviants on the other hand, game on!

[DMNTD]

Charming.......!!!!!!!!
Another person who will bash up a gay person just because they are gay and happen to look at your little willy.
How many straight men chat to you in the toilet's and look at it to check out your size. I bet there are many who look. But you don't bash them up.

Too many gay men are being bashed up and killed because of the hatred towards gaymen.

All anyone has to do is say "No thanks I'm straight" and the person will leave you alone. No need to bash up another human being.

Yes true however a straight man doesn't want to gob ya bits and massage your prostate with his penis. :eek:

In saying that...if one choses to be in a GAY BAR one must take into consideration certain things.
IE: There are gay men and women that may just find thee attractive therefore may hit on you.
Sooooooo...if one doesn't want to be hit on by a gay person,don't go to a gay bar :rolleyes:

[imdying]

Sooooooo...if one doesn't want to be hit on by a gay person,don't go to a gay bar :rolleyes:That's sound advice...

[007XX]

The 'girls' are 'Drag Queens' not transvestites...... there is a huge difference between the two.

Maybe, but trust me, these particular ladies were answering to the definition of both...

drag queen
A male transvestite; also, a female impersonator. For example, He was surprised to find out that Roxanne was actually a drag queen. This term uses the slang noun drag in the sense of "female attire worn by a man" (a usage dating from about 1870; also see in drag). [Offensive slang; c. 1940]


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transvestite

Someone who dresses in the clothes usually worn by the opposite sex. Transvestites may be bisexual, heterosexual, or homosexual (see bisexuality, heterosexuality, and homosexuality).

[nodrog]

Maybe, but trust me, these particular ladies were answering to the definition of both...

drag queen
A male transvestite; also, a female impersonator. For example, He was surprised to find out that Roxanne was actually a drag queen. This term uses the slang noun drag in the sense of "female attire worn by a man" (a usage dating from about 1870; also see in drag). [Offensive slang; c. 1940]


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transvestite

Someone who dresses in the clothes usually worn by the opposite sex. Transvestites may be bisexual, heterosexual, or homosexual (see bisexuality, heterosexuality, and homosexuality).

i believe the correct term is "cock in a frock"

[98tls]

Scary..yep.I reckon any guy thats happy to put a dick in there mouth is very scary,besides the obvious wtf else are they capable of.To me anyway whats even scarier is that theres people out there telling society its normal and to just accept it and treat them as you would anyone else.Not into faggot bashing at all,just not into them full stop.

[The Stranger]

Last night I was sitting at the pub talking about this among kbers and one of them recieved a text down the lines of his mate was at pizza hut and said there was a guy eyeing him up...must be gay...

To which we all thought it was highly amusing at the fact it was what we were discussing at the time. And to be honest I dont know what to think as the next text was "he's Indian should I be more worried" It upset me. I keep an open mind, and those of you who do know me...know what Im like.

This person also called my best mate a "homo" in front of several kbers who were hanging out at my place one afternoon and he almost shat himself when my mate came over, picked him up by the scruff of the neck and almost threw a fist at him for the comment.

Yes my mate can take a joke but the context of it wasn't as though it was in a jokey manner. He's forever going on about honda riders being gay...urgh Im over it.

So what does make gay people so scary? I just want to get a better understanding of where he's coming from and why he hates them so much.

You have asked why are gay people scarey.
I don't see anything in your post which indicates that anyone is scared of gay people.
The first question I would like to ask is are gays scarey?
Who actually finds gays scarey?

[007XX]

Main Entry: ho·mo·pho·bia
Pronunciation: \ˌhō-mə-ˈfō-bē-ə\
Function: noun
Date: 1969
: irrational fear of, aversion to, or discrimination against homosexuality or homosexuals
— ho·mo·pho·bic \-ˈfō-bik\ adjective



People affected by homophobia find Gay people scary...I guess we haven't had any homophobics answer this thread yet...

[vifferman]

...my work do was at Caluzzi on K'Rd (famous transvestites cabaret for those who don't know already)
My wife's work do a couple of years ago was at Caluzzi. Very entertaining, but the food wasn't very good, and the place was dirty (glasses looked like they'd been wiped by the same rag used on the ashtrays! :shit:)


Difference is, I placed my beloved between a wall partition, the table and myself...no way was any of them "ladies" going to chat up my hunk
What a chicken!
What were they going to do to him? Are you so insecure about his devotion that you thought a 6'3" Samoan 'girl' was going to steal him? :rofl:
I was lucky (or maybe just too unattractive), being the only male in the party not picked on by the 'girls'.
Time to write a book:
"The Secret of My Success: Being Singularly Unattractive to Members of All Five Sexes".

[007XX]

My wife's work do a couple of years ago was at Caluzzi. Very entertaining, but the food wasn't very good, and the place was dirty (glasses looked like they'd been wiped by the same rag used on the ashtrays! :shit:)

I'd never been there before, but this event I am referring to was only last week, and it was great fun, the food was really good, and I had no issue whatsoever with any problems of cleanliness...They must have picked their game up! :clap:


What a chicken!
What were they going to do to him? Are you so insecure about his devotion that you thought a 6'3" Samoan 'girl' was going to steal him? :rofl:

Shit, I was wearing 10" heels at the time, so was almost at the same height as her, but honnestly, she would have picked up my man and carried him off on her shoulder if she'd felt like it! :eek: :laugh:

At one stage, she and I were giggling away, and we both looked at my hubby, whispering to each other about how cute he is...He was looking slightly uncomfortable then, for some reason! :lol:


I was lucky (or maybe just too unattractive), being the only male in the party not picked on by the 'girls'.
Time to write a book:
"The Secret of My Success: Being Singularly Unattractive to Members of All Five Sexes".

:devil2: I could fix that...I could have a chat to Zoe for you if you'd like! I'm sure if you kept your leathers on you wouldn't be half bad...:dodge: :clap:

[Finn]

The first question I would like to ask is are gays scarey?

I guess it depends on the situation....

Example 1:
I'm in a social environment and a guy starts talking to me. He is either obviously gay because of his fluffiness or I conclude he is gay because he keeps talking about his mummy. He is no threat and is definitely not scarey.

Example 2:
I break up from my girlfriend because someone better came along. She gets very angry because she finds out my new lady is actually quite a lot better than her. Now, she has kids to her previous partner who also found someone better than her and she makes up a story about me fiddling with the kids. Because of our man hating justice system, I eventually find myself in prison. My cell mate, Kingi from Rotorua, is the size of a small house. Kingi is gay. At this stage it doesn't really matter how gay he is because it's irrelevant. Am I scared? Fuck yes.

[Usarka]

This one might be scary...... woooooooo

http://www.irishblogs.ie/images/267632.jpg

[Hitcher]

Have we successfully discovered all of the KB homophobes yet?

[deanohit]

At one stage, she and I were giggling away, and we both looked at my hubby, whispering to each other about how cute he is...He was looking slightly uncomfortable then, for some reason! :lol:
Bwahahaha, ya meanies, I bet he was feeling uncomfortable! I can just see 007XY sitting there going :confused: while you and this tranny are :drinknsin

[Oakie]

Have we successfully discovered all of the KB homophobes yet?

Do previously secret homophobes 'come out of the closet' or do they have something else they come out of....? (I mean, they wouldn't share a closet with gays would they). Perhaps they have a broom cupboard ... or would that be too representational with all those big stiff broom handles sticking up proudly ...

[007XX]

Bwahahaha, ya meanies, I bet he was feeling uncomfortable! I can just see 007XY sitting there going :confused: while you and this tranny are :drinknsin

Nah mate, he was alright...

a) he's too secure in himself to feel seriously threatened
b) he knows fully well that i have always gotten on really well with gays, transvestites, drag queens...whatever anyone calls them. So , he knew we were putting it on a little just for his benefit! :lol:

[Littleman]

I used to work with a large Samoan gay chap. He was quite camp but very classy about it. Imaculate dress sense I must say.

However, being the tiny little white fella I am, he took a bit of a shinning towards me.

He used to give me shit and say things like "oooh if only you were gay for one night" or "aren't you just a little curious" (lisp included).

There was lots of good natured exchange and innuendo.
(if only girls flirted like that).

I found him thoroughly interesting.

Once when we were discussing sexual antics I said to him "look if I was gay I certainly would swallow".

He went very quiet and then admitted he was significantly aroused.

All good fun.

[Oakie]

I found him thoroughly interesting.

Once when we were discussing sexual antics I said to him "look if I was gay I certainly would swallow".

He went very quiet and then admitted he was significantly aroused.

All good fun.

You tease!

[TonyB]

There was lots of good natured exchange and innuendo.
(if only girls flirted like that).
But the ones I flirt with do....maybe they're men...:laugh:

[The Stranger]

I used to work with a large Samoan gay chap. He was quite camp but very classy about it. Imaculate dress sense I must say.

However, being the tiny little white fella I am, he took a bit of a shinning towards me.

He used to give me shit and say things like "oooh if only you were gay for one night" or "aren't you just a little curious" (lisp included).

There was lots of good natured exchange and innuendo.
(if only girls flirted like that).

I found him thoroughly interesting.

Once when we were discussing sexual antics I said to him "look if I was gay I certainly would swallow".

He went very quiet and then admitted he was significantly aroused.

All good fun.

So, did you swallow?

[The Stranger]

Main Entry: ho·mo·pho·bia
Pronunciation: \ˌhō-mə-ˈfō-bē-ə\
Function: noun
Date: 1969
: irrational fear of, aversion to, or discrimination against homosexuality or homosexuals
— ho·mo·pho·bic \-ˈfō-bik\ adjective


Surely that would be a pretty loose definition and a stretch of the word phobia.

Normally a phobia would be classed as an irrational, intense, persistent fear wouldn't it.

To include aversion and discrimination is a to alter the meaning of phobia.

One may for example discriminate on religious grounds without having any phobia.
Personally I have an aversion to gays - they're welcome to their lifestyle, however it is not to my liking so I aren't about to partake in thier scene or activities. This don't make me phobic, it's no different to my aversion to amway distributors for example - Thank christ however that amway distributors are easier to spot and thus avoid as I prefer gays to them.

[Finn]

I used to work with a large Samoan gay chap. He was quite camp but very classy about it. Imaculate dress sense I must say.

Did his name start with "V"?

[007XX]

But the ones I flirt with do....maybe they're men...:laugh:

:shifty:Does explain a few things...:whistle:

:rofl:

[ManDownUnder]

So, did you swallow?

No he bloody didn't... bastard...

[007XX]

Surely that would be a pretty loose definition and a stretch of the word phobia.

Normally a phobia would be classed as an irrational, intense, persistent fear wouldn't it.

To include aversion and discrimination is a to alter the meaning of phobia.

One may for example discriminate on religious grounds without having any phobia.



I guess in this definition, the discrimination was treated as a by product of the aversion, which in turns comes from the irrational fear...So I guess it is more meant to succintly explain a thought process or consequences of a phobia...

For example, a phobia of spiders...the person will discriminate all spiders, regardless of size or actual capacity to cause harm...and will also display a strong aversion to spiders with more often than not great physical displays of the said aversion.

I guess they only had so much room in the dictionary to explain it...

[snot]

Have we successfully discovered all of the KB homophobes yet?

There are a few more coming yet, hold the door..

[DMNTD]

There are a few more coming yet, hold the door..

...and we know which door that is eh :shutup:

[The Stranger]

I guess they only had so much room in the dictionary to explain it...

Thus they could have omitted the erroneous descriptions, saved room and ambiguity - a win/win situation.

As it is, it looks more like pandering to a minoritys attempt to get the net cast as far and as wide as possible.

[skidMark]

alright due to rep like this

"are you gay?"

"Well mark... I think your a great kid even though your riding scares me lol...WHo cares what otheres think of you in this debate. You are you and thats the important bit."

WHAT THE FUCK

i am not gay.

when i said because the thread is discussing me, i meant i was the one who sent the texts.

not that i bat for the other team jesus christ.:gob:

[007XX]

i am not gay.

:


As long as you know that, then why do you worry about what other people think!

Honnestly, don't sweat it Mark...However, the remark about your riding being scary, weeeelllll... :laugh:

:hug:

[skidMark]

As long as you know that, then why do you worry about what other people think!

Honnestly, don't sweat it Mark...However, the remark about your riding being scary, weeeelllll... :laugh:

:hug:


SILENCE SCANDELOUS HUSSY DO YOU NOT KNOW THY PLACE

love you long time:dodge:

[007XX]

SILENCE SCANDELOUS HUSSY DO YOU NOT KNOW THY PLACE

love you long time:dodge:

I know where the place of my foot is going to be next time I see you...:devil2:

Love you too sweetheart...

[98tls]

alright due to rep like this

"are you gay?"

"Well mark... I think your a great kid even though your riding scares me lol...WHo cares what otheres think of you in this debate. You are you and thats the important bit."

WHAT THE FUCK

i am not gay.

when i said because the thread is discussing me, i meant i was the one who sent the texts.

not that i bat for the other team jesus christ.:gob: :killingme even though your from up there and a faggot your still one of my favourite KBrs.

[skidMark]

I know where the place of my foot is going to be next time I see you...:devil2:

Love you too sweetheart...

by the way people have read my posts in this thread, i might like it?:blink:

[skidMark]

:killingme even though your from up there and a faggot your still one of my favourite KBrs.


Awwww i feel the love....

in the straightest way possible...

the rear of ur bike turns me on.

[TonyB]

:shifty:Does explain a few things...:whistle:

:rofl:And what would these 'things' be, pray tell?

[imdying]

the rear of ur bike turns me on.I'd hit it :buggerd:

[007XX]

by the way people have read my posts in this thread, i might like it?:blink:

Oh I'm sure you would hun! :devil2: But that's ok, I promise I won't leave any marks...


And what would these 'things' be, pray tell?

You haven't met our little Skiddy, have you? :laugh:

[TonyB]

You haven't met our little Skiddy, have you? :laugh:

Nope. And I'm more puzzled than ever...

[007XX]

Nope. And I'm more puzzled than ever...

Well, I guess you'll just have to find out for yourself next May...:D :bleh:

[TonyB]

I'll have forgotten about it by then.

[007XX]

I'll have forgotten about it by then.

Would only be a problem if it was worth remembering...:D

[moT]

Actually Tom, homosexuality in Dolphins is really well documented and widespread. Have a look.
http://www.godhateshomophobes.com/video-homosexual-dolphins.php
There's more homosexuality than you can believe going on in the wild.
Just google Homosexual and Animals, and see how many species is homosexuality is found in.

It's been described in 130 species of birds. The southeastern blueberry bees do it. Penguins. EVERY primate species known does it. Heaps of mammal species have homosexuals.
It is natural. You may not like it, but it's certainly found everywhere through the animal world.

Have you wached the video? those dolphins dont root each other the will go out and find femails and root them maybee in a 3some or 4some but not other males. there like best mates going out to root girls (there behavior may be slightly homo i guess but there actions prove otherwise)

[Steam]

Have you wached the video? those dolphins dont root each other the will go out and find femails and root them maybee in a 3some or 4some but not other males. there like best mates going out to root girls (there behavior may be slightly homo i guess but there actions prove otherwise)

Did YOU watch the whole video? The males stimulate each other's genital slit.
For fucks sakes Tom, pay attention or shut the fuck up.

[mynameis]

And to be honest I dont know what to think as the next text was "he's Indian should I be more worried" It upset me. I keep an open mind, and those of you who do know me...know what Im like.



http://youtube.com/watch?v=5i_L_EuOiew

[Kittyhawk]

You have way too much time on your hands...hahahaha

[Raelynn]

male dolphins dont go and have recreational sex with another male dolphin and neither should humans

wow, you've never seen any animals in nature have you? because yes, dolphins DO have recreational homosexual interactions. you could check out Bonobo chimps as well... closest damn things we have to relatives in the animal kingdom and man... they'll shag anything and everyone. it only takes a little bit of knowledge about animal behaviour and you should see any problems you have with sexuality will be entirely due to society.

I have to admit it amuses me how many guys are all "argh! so wrong!" about man on man love, but show them a couple of lesbians and it's their wildest fantasy. :P

[The Stranger]

wow, you've never seen any animals in nature have you? because yes, dolphins DO have recreational homosexual interactions.

wow?
Really, you find it surprising that bikers don't tend to study the recreational homosexual tendancies of male chimps and dolphins?

Wow!

[jrandom]

... you find it surprising that bikers don't tend to study the recreational homosexual tendancies of male chimps and dolphins?

Don't play coy, sir, I've seen that copy of 'Bubble-Butt Bonobo Bandits IV' sitting coyly on your DVD shelf.

;)

[The Stranger]

Don't play coy, sir, I've seen that copy of 'Bubble-Butt Bonobo Bandits IV' sitting coyly on your DVD shelf.

;)

That research doco actually stars the famous bandit riders Lou Girardin, Pixie and canarlee.

[Grahameeboy]

Don't play coy, sir, I've seen that copy of 'Bubble-Butt Bonobo Bandits IV' sitting coyly on your DVD shelf.

;)

Has he still not given you your DVD back..............

[jrandom]

Has he still not given you your DVD back..............

It's OK; I'm still working my way through the full set of Cock-Clasping Cockney Chimps I found tucked behind Nats' Postman Pat DVDs.

:niceone:

[Grahameeboy]

You are awfull...........at least give the Postman Pat DVD's back

[jrandom]

at least give the Postman Pat DVD's back

Yes, I should probably wipe them clean first, too...

[The Stranger]

wow?
Really, you find it surprising that bikers don't tend to study the recreational homosexual tendancies of male chimps and dolphins?

Wow!

My sincere apologies Realyn.
It would appear from jrandom's viewing preferences that perhaps more bikers are in to carnal drunken homosexual monkey sex than I at first thought.

[Dave-]

so this fella is looking at cameras the other day I go over and offer my assistance, he say's he's looking for a dSLR and that he's got a 350D, I point out the canon 40D as a better upgrade from the 350D and he tells me it's actually for his partner.

So i said "ah well I'm sure they'll love it" and as I said that I wondered why I said "they'll" and not "she'll" and made the assumption that he was straight, I hadn't yet conciously noticed anything homosexual about this man...

then he said "yeah but it'll mean his is bigger and better than mine...which isn't usually the case...anyway cheers for that mate" and turns around and walks away.

i laughed.

[scumdog]

I agree, no need to bash another human being. Sub human deviants on the other hand, game on!


Not scared of fags are ya, huh? huh?

Or is it other 'deviants' you're talking about- like two-stroke riders and trash like that??i