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Kittyhawk

13th March 2008, 20:53

What does it mean to you....and what do you feel your purpose is in life?

This is nothing religious I want this thread kept simple, what do you feel your meaning in life is..etc

Badger8

13th March 2008, 20:54

Hrm... You got all day?

Mr. Peanut

13th March 2008, 21:02

Honest communication is the most important part of friendship to me, if not the only part. True kinship cannot exist without it.

My purpose in life is to experience.

CookMySock

13th March 2008, 21:18

Friends are people who let you help.

My purpose is to show people they don't need to feel afraid, and to be someones' favourite person.

DB

westie

13th March 2008, 21:31

What does it mean to you....and what do you feel your purpose is in life?

This is nothing religious I want this thread kept simple, what do you feel your meaning in life is..etc

I like you.

The Pastor

13th March 2008, 21:32

I like skidmark, he keeps me entertained.

Kittyhawk

13th March 2008, 21:35

I like you.

aww pruddy biker hug to lusty hunny,. with a little slap on ass hahahahhah!

Nah Im in one of those thinking moods tonight...which is quite rare lol

Curious_AJ

13th March 2008, 21:38

my purpose? I don't really know... just to be as kind and loving to people as I can, start a family, love them to death, have fun, live the way I wanna live... I guess... lots more to it but I guess one doesnt really know the purpose in their life very often...

as for friendships, a friend should always be there for another friend no matter what.

westie

13th March 2008, 21:39

aww pruddy biker hug to lusty hunny,. with a little slap on ass hahahahhah!

Nah Im in one of those thinking moods tonight...which is quite rare lol

I'll go to bed then. Just use a wet finger to wake me...

Big Dan

13th March 2008, 21:39

Un-conditonal love and support thru hard times and the better times.

A true friend is one that is there for you 24 7 without question and respects your values and wont judge you

i think my purpose in life is to help ppl and to love ppl

Friendship=Kitty(Meow)Hawk

take care all
Dan

Big Dan

13th March 2008, 21:43

aww pruddy biker hug to lusty hunny,. with a little slap on ass hahahahhah!

Nah Im in one of those thinking moods tonight...which is quite rare lol

So thats why i can see steam coming from your area - hell i thought it was Rangitoto Island blowing its top

:hug: to you hun

westie

13th March 2008, 21:48

Brutal honesty and yep to be there always.
Aye! old best friend that no longer talks to me cos his missus donot like it:weep:

Kittyhawk

13th March 2008, 21:58

Brutal honesty and yep to be there always.
Aye! old best friend that no longer talks to me cos his missus donot like it:weep:

Oh no...is it who I think it is?

westie

13th March 2008, 22:01

Oh no...is it who I think it is?

No my dad is always my bestest mate:Offtopic:

Chickadee

13th March 2008, 22:04

Friendship = looking out for your mates, enjoying a common interest/bond, having an awesome time, making great memories.

Purpose in life = experience what life has to offer, learning more about myself through life experiences, give it 100%, be true to yourself and your loved ones. Being a good role model for my kids.

Tiz bout all I can fink of..

smoky

13th March 2008, 22:14

What does it mean to you
Friendship – I have been let down too many times with the notion of mutual friendship – the two-way expectations kind. Now I will give my friendship easily with no real expectations of anything being returned. Mind you my friendship is somewhat compartmentalised.
I’m trying to be honest with people rather than portray something in order to try to fit in, trying to.

....and what do you feel your purpose is in life?
I have the answers to world peace, world poverty, and the pending energy crisis. But no one whats to know.
(actually I think I'm just another spare arse around the place)

what do you feel your meaning in life is..etc
The meaning of life is to find the value in life
My meaning in life would be to get the best value out of every encounter and experience that presents it’s self to me

Kittyhawk

13th March 2008, 22:14

No my dad is always my bestest mate:Offtopic:

Few'f you had me worried cos Morcs turned up at the pub with out ya last week!! :bleh:

westie

13th March 2008, 22:17

Few'f you had me worried cos Morcs turned up at the pub with out ya last week!! :bleh:

We're on a break.:rofl:(had to put that in there, sounded too much like I rode a honda)

Kittyhawk

13th March 2008, 22:17

I've lost the value of what friendships mean to me and being hurt on more than on occasion fairly recently.

smoky

13th March 2008, 22:33

I've lost the value of what friendships mean to me and being hurt on more than on occasion fairly recently.

I think when we need too much from others – we can struggle when an investment in a friendship turns sour and doesn’t pay any dividends or interest.
But I’m sure you’ll try again, and I’m sure it will work out next time.
It may not be friendship; but I enjoy your KB posts and profile.

Kittyhawk

13th March 2008, 22:45

I think when we need too much from others – we can struggle when an investment in a friendship turns sour and doesn’t pay any dividends or interest.
But I’m sure you’ll try again, and I’m sure it will work out next time.
It may not be friendship; but I enjoy your KB posts and profile.

I never expect anything in return from friends, I am there unconditionally to help, support and be non judgemental. But when it turns sour it hurts, it really does...

Friends change as one progresses throught various stages of life...maybe Im just entereing another different stage.

Still trying to work out my purpose, I feel Im lost at the mo. :weep:

Disco Dan

13th March 2008, 22:46

42

...Having someone that you can call on in times of need, someone that calls on you in times of their need. A person that respects you, without being judgmental.

I have always observed the differences between a "mate" and a "friend" - for some, making that distinction can be difficult leading to conflict and disappointment.

Finn

13th March 2008, 22:54

This thread is making me violently ill. Kitty, you need to get laid.

Disco Dan

13th March 2008, 22:57

This thread is making me violently ill.

If only Finn....

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smoky

13th March 2008, 22:57

Still trying to work out my purpose, I feel Im lost at the mo. :weep:

Take some time out if you can, go for a ride, meet some new people.
Drop some of us down here in the waikato a line next time youre able to, and come down a for a ride, drink and chat, we're all happy and friendly in the Waikato

Kittyhawk

13th March 2008, 23:09

This thread is making me violently ill. Kitty, you need to get laid.

:Oi:Find me a victim then hahaha,....

Take some time out if you can, go for a ride, meet some new people.
Drop some of us down here in the waikato a line next time youre able to, and come down a for a ride, drink and chat, we're all happy and friendly in the Waikato

I dont ride anymore sorry hun. But I will come down when my shoulder is a bit better as Im off work for the rest of the month...would be nice to meet you :rolleyes:

Big Dave

13th March 2008, 23:54

forty two (42)

smoky

13th March 2008, 23:55

forty two (42)

46 I thought

Big Dan

14th March 2008, 05:53

:Oi:Find me a victim then hahaha,....

:rolleyes:

victim or sucker?

they wouldn't be a victim surely cause they will enjoy it

chanceyy

14th March 2008, 06:25

Friendship – I have been let down too many times with the notion of mutual friendship – the two-way expectations kind. Now I will give my friendship easily with no real expectations of anything being returned. Mind you my friendship is somewhat compartmentalised.
I’m trying to be honest with people rather than portray something in order to try to fit in, trying to.

Bingo well said .. these days most ppl have no idea of true friendship, there is no give and take .. its appears to be mostly take ...

I too have learnt over the yrs never to have expectations of ppl as you end up being disappointed, true freinds are like gold and can prob be counted on one hand, acquaintances are many and come & go ...

no point in trying to be something your not to fit in .. its more about being yourself, honesty and integrity are the most important ingredients to me .. either accept me as i am or move on ..

purpose in life - appears to be helping others through the tough times

gav

14th March 2008, 06:31

On a similar note then, do you believe in "soul mates"?
And do you think you could find your soul mate on line? And if you did, what would you do about it?

Grahameeboy

14th March 2008, 06:31

But Kitty, religion is simple...

I have always had a small circle of friends...most still in UK...many of my friends here are female...nice to not worry about the male / female thing...

Grahameeboy

14th March 2008, 06:33

On a similar note then, do you believe in "soul mates"?
And do you think you could find your soul mate on line? And if you did, what would you do about it?

I THINK I HAVE FOUND HIM:hug:

smoky

14th March 2008, 07:02

On a similar note then, do you believe in "soul mates"?

yes, but theycome and go - 3 people so far in life, i would describe as a soul mate. I think that level of compatability or like mindedness is rear and not always permanant.The best kinda friends.

avgas

14th March 2008, 07:11

Simple ability to read one anothers faces, to poke shit at each other and not feel bad afterwards. This ability to drink, talk crap and still feel it was a valid conversation.