The Redneck is moving south

[Bren]

It's official. My wife and I are seperating, so I am going to move back to Christchurch. The time up here in Kapiti has been really hard for me, and I feel I have not had the support I deserve from my wife over this transition.

It would be good to get back home and see my kids, but the hurt and pain of seperating overrides that joy.
I would like to get together with everyone down south so maybe after I get back down we could go for drinks at the Fox & Ferret or at Speights Ale House...

...At least one thing...I will be about for the KB Rally:2thumbsup

Cya guys in June,
Brendan (-:

[yungatart]

Bren, so sad to see this post.
I hope everything works out well for you and Jane, too.

[Owl]

Fucken sorry to hear that Bren!

Taking a step backward (Christchurch, kids, family, friends) may be a step forward for you?

I don't want to give you shit advice dude, so I'll just say this: "There comes a time when you need to put yourself first"!!!

[scumdog]

Sad way to come back to the Mainland dude!

See ya in Dec.

[FJRider]

That is bad news... but another mainlander on the mainland can't be bad. If I don't see you before, I'll see you in december...

[Bren]

I don't want to give you shit advice dude, so I'll just say this: "There comes a time when you need to put yourself first"!!!

Yup, thats all I can do....never mind...i was unhappy up here, and now maybe will get happy again...although there is still some grief...ya dont go into a marriage for it all to fall to pieces a few years later...

Will see ya round anyway Owl...I have made too many friends up here for me not to come up every now and then

[Bren]

Sad way to come back to the Mainland dude!

See ya in Dec.

Look foreward to it Scummy


That is bad news... but another mainlander on the mainland can't be bad. If I don't see you before, I'll see you in december...

Otago sounds good for a blat....first on my list for a good blat

[86GSXR]

Hmmm, I'm with you on this one Brendan. As Al said I don't want to give you shit advice either so I won't. FWIW you're a top bloke!

[Maha]

All the best Bren, we do things for the right reasons, most of the time.

[MSTRS]

Sorry to hear things haven't worked out, in more ways than one.

[ynot slow]

After the depression thread it almost seems the resulting change is making you feel better about ya self.Keep positive sounds stupid but wtf just do it lol.Life's way too short to be unhappy.

[martybabe]

Shucks that's a shame. All the best Bren and maybe it is for the best, good luck mate and take your coat.

[laRIKin]

I get back down we could go for drinks at the Fox & Ferret or at Speights Ale House...

Does a Bear shit in the woods?
Of course we will, I think it would be mandatory.

Again, sorry to hear about you and your wife.
And welcome back to your home, the Mainland.

[Mr Triple]

Bugger to hear this Bren, Be good to catch up for a beer when you get here.

[SDU]

Like Lemans says we'll be seeing you & You know where we live.
Sad that it hasn't worked out for you but as you know there is a bright side to coming back home, wish you the best in your journey.:hug:

[Ghost_Bullet]

Ya for real dude, ya an old mate, so will make the track to the Ferrit if the wind blows right!!!!!

[Bren]

Ya for real dude, ya an old mate, so will make the track to the Ferrit if the wind blows right!!!!!


tell me about it...one year shy of the big 40 in a few weeks....

[98tls]

Shit sorry to read of your troubles Bren,glad to have you back in the Mainland again but,wont be able to make it up there but have one for me eh,hope all turns out well.:drinknsin

[MyGSXF]

Wishing you all the best Bren.. things will work out, how they are supposed to.. :hug:

[miSTa]

Bugger man, see you the Fox and Ferrit when you get back.