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    fuck...dime a dozen those types
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    theres partime jobs at hunters corner....niteshift of course
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    Quote Originally Posted by fridayflash View Post
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    Let's play a game - form a sentence from the following words...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Winter View Post
    Haha, thanks Mr Random, I have a top-shelf missus I live with. She thinks that I'm such a nice person for looking out for this girl...
    You should really have stipulated that in your first post. That makes it all OK. Given that your judgement in the matter is not as impaired as I feared, good onya for helping out, and best of luck.
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    She dont need any benefits, she did choose to keep the child right? Then WTF, she will support it, not the tax payers! Just because some girl decides to get a child the tax payers should pay for it? No way!

    There are several birth control drugs and abortion if you get pregnant, just stupid get a child if you dont have a job and cant support it!

    Just let her face reality, get a job like the rest of us!

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    Quote Originally Posted by ManDownUnder View Post
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    Quote Originally Posted by Argyle View Post
    She dont need any benefits, she did choose to keep the child right? Then WTF, she will support it, not the tax payers! Just because some girl decides to get a child the tax payers should pay for it? No way!

    There are several birth control drugs and abortion if you get pregnant, just stupid get a child if you dont have a job and cant support it!

    Just let her face reality, get a job like the rest of us!

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    Let me begin. Yes there are "several" birth control drugs, all of which CAN and DO fail even when used correctly. Nothing is 100% effective, and anyone who thinks it is, is thick. Simple.

    Abortion. Now how about you go and have one and come back in 10 years time and tell me that you don't regret it. Having an abortion is an EXTREMELY difficult and potentially soul destroying decision to have to make, that you then carry with you FOR LIFE. Just because it seems like its the "better" option doesn't mean that it is.

    Yes its easy. Just "abort it" Class.

    Some of us aren't in a financially stable when we have children, wether it be that they were a mistake (we weren't ready) or wether they were planned because we desperately need that little bundle of joy. As parents we still strive to support them as best as we can and give them all the love that they deserve. (Money doesn't necessarily mean the child would be loved and looked after in the way that they need anyway).

    She's a young mum who is obviously stuck in a rut. Maybe she has made some bad choices. Or maybe she made what she thought was the correct choice at the time but its not panned out exactly how she thought it would. Its not as though she's "breeding for a living" so cut her some slack.

    Personally I hope she enjoys every cent of your tax up until she gets back on her feet.

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    Quote Originally Posted by XxKiTtiExX View Post
    Having an abortion is an EXTREMELY difficult and potentially soul destroying decision to have to make, that you then carry with you FOR LIFE.
    I have observed that one only tends to hear those sentiments from starry-eyed nincompoops who haven't actually had an abortion.

    Then again, if one wasn't going to do anything with one's life in the first place... fairy muff.



    Quote Originally Posted by XxKiTtiExX View Post
    wether they were planned because we desperately need that little bundle of joy...
    Ah, yes, if only the dole paid as much as the DPB, eh?
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    Quote Originally Posted by XxKiTtiExX View Post
    Abortion. Now how about you go and have one and come back in 10 years time and tell me that you don't regret it. Having an abortion is an EXTREMELY difficult and potentially soul destroying decision to have to make, that you then carry with you FOR LIFE. Just because it seems like its the "better" option doesn't mean that it is.
    I think that the only people who can or should speak with any authority about abortion are those who have had to make that decision. Airheaded bimbos aside, I don't think that deciding to abort a foetus is a decision many take lightly. Indeed most people who choose this option are not teenagers knocked up for the very first time. They are generally more "mature" folks who are either already parents or having to come to terms with medical evidence that shows that the foetus carries defects of some kind that would severely impact on its quality of life or that of its parents.

    Terms like "soul destroying" are much bandied emotional clap trap.

    People who decide to terminate are worthy of consideration, support and respect, not condemnation, stigma or ridicule.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jrandom View Post
    I have observed that one only tends to hear those sentiments from starry-eyed nincompoops who haven't actually had an abortion.

    Then again, if one wasn't going to do anything with one's life in the first place... fairy muff.





    Ah, yes, if only the dole paid as much as the DPB, eh?
    Actually I know more than a few women who have made the choice to have an abortion. Everyone that I know who has had one has regrets.



    Quote Originally Posted by Hitcher View Post
    I think that the only people who can or should speak with any authority about abortion are those who have had to make that decision. Airheaded bimbos aside, I don't think that deciding to abort a foetus is a decision many take lightly. Indeed most people who choose this option are not teenagers knocked up for the very first time. They are generally more "mature" folks who are either already parents or having to come to terms with medical evidence that shows that the foetus carries defects of some kind that would severely impact on its quality of life or that of its parents.

    Terms like "soul destroying" are much bandied emotional clap trap.

    People who decide to terminate are worthy of consideration, support and respect, not condemnation, stigma or ridicule.
    Never said that those who terminate aren't worthy did I? But having someone sit there saying "she should have done" is low. I understand perfectly what reasons are behind people chosing to have an abortion. (same ones that you stated). You are actually replying to someone who practically had to terminate at 31 weeks because their baby was literally dieing inside them. So if I want to use the term "soul destroying" I will.

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    Quote Originally Posted by XxKiTtiExX View Post
    So if I want to use the term "soul destroying" I will.
    If the experience destroyed your "soul", then fair enough. However I suggest that you are not qualified to speak for others, so should couch personal opinion in a clearer context.
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    Quote Originally Posted by XxKiTtiExX View Post
    Actually I know more than a few women who have made the choice to have an abortion. Everyone that I know who has had one has regrets.
    So do I. And none of them would go back and change that decision.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hitcher View Post
    If the experience destroyed your "soul", then fair enough. However I suggest that you are not qualified to speak for others, so should couch personal opinion in a clearer context.
    Not qualified no, but I'm sure there are "some" who would agree on that feeling after an abortion. As I'm sure there would also be "some" who would feel the complete opposite. I think what I typed was relatively clear.

    "Potentially" was included.

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