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    Introductory offer – “The” communications course - that saved my daughter

    Introductory Offer – “The” Communications Course - That Saved My Daughter


    I have a once only introductory offer for KB members or anyone they pass this onto on what I consider to be the best damned communications skills course ever. (And I’ve been on a few). This stuff works with kids, in families, when negotiating, in business etc. I even use it with solicitors to gain trust and help resolve disputes. But what matters to me was it saved my daughter and that’s how I came across it.



    The three things we don’t get taught about at school are relationships, money and how to ride a motorbike. (Sorry, I just felt the thread needed to be a little motorbike related).

    So we need a licence to ride a bike and get tested on competency. When we form a partnership / marriage and have kids there is no licensing process. It’s learn as you go. My personal relationship had ups and downs that it didn’t need. I learnt my parenting skills on my first child and by my 4th I was starting to get the hang of it. If only I had 6 more kids I might have got good at it. I’ve always loved the kids thing, but they can really, really, really, stretch us at times.

    How This Saved My Daughter

    About 7 years ago, my then 9 year old, set me on a path that completely changed my life. You see this 1 child of our 4 took 80% of our time. She would best be described as the child from … &%$#. If there was a problem, she was in the middle of it. I didn’t know how to handle her, let alone teach her how to handle herself. Not a high point for a parent to realise. I was at the point of physically having to restrain her. As a parent this was gut wrenching stuff. I’d spent a fair bit of time learning my trade but it never occurred to me I needed to spend time to learn how to communicate. My wife, kids and I paid for this for a lot of years.

    I realised if I didn’t do something back then, I was looking at a child running away from home. I started looking for information and answers. I attended talks and courses to Christmas. Finally I found a world class course that had stuff that the others had missed, it happened to be tucked away in the farthest reaches of the world, and oddly enough just down the road from me in Christchurch. Go figure, you scour the world and it’s buried in your back yard.

    Today at 16 she’s an angel and you couldn’t recognise the other child that she used to be. Thanks to her I’m now doing change work with kids and adults for half my week. I went on to learn more and develop a whole new set of skills that sees me helping other kids and adults with personal challenges from Spelling, Learning, ADHD with kids through to Insomnia, Stress, Depression and Anxiety with adults. I even have athletes come and see me to figure out how to perform better. Now if you told me I’d be doing this 8 years ago I’d have been the first to laugh at you.

    Once I’d mastered this stuff, my daughter changed over night. I discovered, not just how to talk with her, but got a road map on which way to talk, when. I discovered how she thought and what worked for her. When I changed the way I spoke, most of the problem disappeared. (Embarrassingly true!)Years later, in a quite moment when we finally spoke about how we felt, she let me know she had been planning to run away years earlier. That’s still sad for me to know.

    As you can probably guess, I place a tremendous amount of value on this course because of what it’s done for me, my wife and kids. What I really wanted to do was to get this course out there, and specifically for parents. Prior to this course I considered it was appropriate for parents to smack from time to time. After this course I can’t conceive of a time where that is ever necessary. The reason we raise our voices is because we’ve run out of communication skills, the reason for smacking is because the raised voice didn’t work. I’ve found it’s much more enjoyable when you tackle the communications skills.

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    The Introductory Offer

    I’m in an unusual position of having used this stuff and tested it, using it day in and out, combined with other skills, to work with kids and parents for all sorts of personal challenges.

    So I’m ready to teach the exact course that I learnt the life saving communication skills on. This is where you lot come in. (yes it took a long time but I got their didn’t I)

    So the course is taught around the world and it costs $800 here in New Zealand.

    The Offer

    On “The” Communication Skills Course - Transforming Family Communication is;

    1/ I’m going to make this course available through KB on a one time only basis where I’ll earn nothing for it. In fact I’ll lose money. I’ll pay for the course material, the space, drinks, course food and the shiny new International Certificate with your name on it, etc, and you won’t pay for that.

    2/ You will pay a nominal agreed amount because I believe that it’s important that you do that and when the group meets we’ll decide whether that amount gets paid to either (I envisage $50-$100);

    a/ A charity the group decides on or,

    b/ To a motorcycle racer in the form of sponsorship (and perhaps a younger rider) or,

    c/ it’s held in trust till the end of the course and if you’re happy we use part to cover my costs and the remainder goes to a/ or b/ or to me.

    3/ So this means you get to attend what I consider to be the best Communcations Skill Programme around. The course combines communications skills, learnings from successfully resolved international disputes, (NLP) Neuro Linguistic Programming and the latest research on how the brain functions and how we can use that knowledge to improve communication.

    4/ The course is 26 hours long and I’m proposing that we run it over 3 consecutive Sundays. Starting as soon as possible and around the Epsom, Newmarket area.

    5/ Because it’s my first time I’d ask you to forgive me when I find I don’t have something I need on hand because my checklist wasn’t as thorough as I thought it was.

    6/ This price is almost as good as a money back guarantee but I’m so confident that you’ll find a huge amount of useful stuff in here that I will provide a written money back guarantee. Here it is. If you complete the full course and feel it just wasn’t any good then bowl on up to me and I’ll refund in full. No questions asked. On the other hand, i you feel this course was a Wow!, then you are under no obligation, but if you felt you wanted to discretely give me a donation to contribute to my losses then I’d appreciate that. Or we can utilise the option referred to in 2/ c.

    7/ I would of course be looking for video testimonials to put on a website if this course is what I say it is. You would be under no obligation on this.

    8/ And of course I’d love to have you email out to everyone you know an email from me on an upcoming course. You would be under no obligation on this.

    So please post up if you’re interested, if you can’t do Sundays but other days just let me know. I’d like to get a fairly big group together and starting as soon as possible, excluding any holiday weekends if need be.

    The course would be in Auckland unless you ended up organising a group in another centre.

    I know you can be a vocal lot so speak up and tell me what you think.

    I expect you’d learn a lot on the course and we’d have a bunch of fun. Yes you can use this stuff to resolve disputes involving your motorcycle.

    All humour is appreciated. Bear in mind this is a serious subject. I know you lot can be at Polar opposites but if it’ll help just think of a big white cuddly furry animal.

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    I uhhmmed and arrhhhgged about posting this up but figured I'd never know if it was a good idea to do this any other way.

    Let me know what you think.

    If the traffic is a bit light then excuse the odd bump.



    Cheers - Des

    And if you want to discuss any other stuff posted please feel free. Since I've mentioned the family and work thing I'm happy to talk more.

    Because I work with kids I also get to work with what have been termed "Indigo or Crystal" kids. So I've got a bit of experience working with that as well. For those of you that don't know the terms you can google. It appears we are having more kids being born with heightened senses. They can sometimes see more, hear more, feel more etc.

    Sometimes when these kids are being referred through to the church an exorcism is often being suggested. When being referred to GP's and in the instances of hearing voices they are getting schizophrenia medication. There's actually nothing wrong with them they just have heightened senses. I'm not sure I believe what I read on the net I just see it as normal human evolution.

    It's important for parents of these kids and for the kids themselves to understand that they just have heightened senses and to understand how that will grow in future.

    Unfortunately I don't have those heightened senses like they do but I know a child when they come in and can help parents make sense of what's happening for them. I also have experience with a number of these kids and their experiences.

    Cheers.

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    Cool Pity its not in Wellington area

    I have a 2.5 and newborn and would love to learn how to make sure I am doing the best parenting job I can. It does get frustrating at times not wanting to use corporal punishment when that is what you were raised with. Anyway, I hope you get a great session together and you help as many of us as possible.

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    Does it involve religion?
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    It's not just a 'Amway' meeting is it?!

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    3 posts and not a single piece of real information about whatever the hell it is.

    I'd stay well away from it, and if it moved towards me I'd beat it with a stick until it looked like jelly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Headbanger View Post
    3 posts and not a single piece of real information about whatever the hell it is.

    I'd stay well away from it, and if it moved towards me I'd beat it with a stick until it looked like jelly.
    Perhaps it's a Landmark forum?

    Just kidding Mystic - though if it is I'm with beating it with a stick till it looked like jelly if it came near me!

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    So you did a course that changed your life possibly saved your daughter and to repay this you do them out of business by giving it away for free?
    Sorry if I sound like a c**t and I might have it wrong but id be a bit pissed if you copied my course and did me out of business after I changed your life for the better.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Disco Dan View Post
    Priceless !

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    Quote Originally Posted by 325rocket View Post
    So you did a course that changed your life possibly saved your daughter and to repay this you do them out of business by giving it away for free?
    Sorry if I sound like a c**t and I might have it wrong but id be a bit pissed if you copied my course and did me out of business after I changed your life for the better.
    Actually the whole Intellectual Property argument did register in my mind also....

    Careful Mystic - you can get in lotsa trouble here...

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    I smell bullshit.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gubb View Post
    Does it involve religion?
    Hey Gubb, we don't have connections with any religions. The material just deals with communications skills. There were a couple of key aspects to this that helped solve things for me and seems to be a common comment from people who've used it.

    Cheers.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Racey Rider View Post
    It's not just a 'Amway' meeting is it?!
    Sadly. No we can't provide Amway but I'm sure you could use the skills in that arena. But I'm not interested in that. I am really interested in making this available for parents. For me it's kind of like finding out how to fix the bike and know when things aren't working well. Or just waiting till they go seriously wrong and getting the bike into a workshop.

    You see I already provide the workshop services for kids and families. It just seems useful to deal with it before they have to come and see me.
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