The subject women may actually, due to her circumstances, have problems working and caring for her sick child...it is hard to get a balance in this situation whereas maybe she wanted to have her own business which would have given her some flexibility if she employed someone....but perhaps it was not her calling at the end of the day
Your choice of words are fantastic!! Breeding slave haha!!
No, she should be made to work and have ZERO benefit and some form of sterilisation as she has proven she cannot look after her responsibilities. You should definitely get some assistance from the government and I applaud you for being a decent human being!
But why should she receive a benefit when others, like my family and myself, are caring for her children? Yes, the children are innocent and I love them, but, she is not. I do not think she deserves any government support what soeverI think she, like the struggling honest mothers, should be looking at finding employment and help funding her many kids now away from her.
My point is that it is not the kids fault..are you saying that the kids should be penalised because of their parents and potentially end up in Foster homes....I can hear your response but at the end of the day it is more important that the kids stay with their biological Mum and at the end of the day $47,000 = a contribution of 1c per person to care for the kids...a small price to pay I reckon...how many of us have no problem paying money to Charity's to help kids in war torn countrys because of "Innocence" but when it comes to our own doorstep...it's a different matter...almost a reverse envy...
No, what I am saying is, the mother should be penalized. I would love it if the kids could go stay with their biological mother, but, she is incapable of taking care of herself, let alone 11 children [1 died playing with matches in the family home]. The children do not understand that she is their biological mother, even at 8 and 10. As far as they care, we are their real family, we have provided for them and cared for them and I think they are part of our family now. But, if the mother was not a drunken wench with absolutely no compassion for the human life she and multiple individuals have created, then the children may be safe in her care. Until then, the children will be in a home with a loving family and may very well be adopted by us.
The children are in real danger if they lived with her again, she does no parenting whatsoever nor does she supervise them, which they NEED 24/7. That is why one burnt to death. I am saying they are better off in every way with us, than with her. She shouldn't be provided for, she should provide for her children, she has already fucked them by drinking whilst pregnant, why not attempt to redeem some sort of morale she lacks?
Actually your attitudes and responsibility are refreshing and you'll find many many KBers who agree with you. All that's happening is people are saying life presents many shades of grey. Things happen.
We live in a social democracy. That means there is a social contract between each of us to protect each other in our hour of need. The government sets the policies.
Most wealthy nations are social democracies and its pretty much taken for granted world-wide.
Where the debate rages is the extent of the contract. How little should we pay? What should we pay for? Your ideas are as valuable as anyones.
But Graham the problem is that the welfare system has allowed this to happen. It's a double whammy because it encourages the people we don't want breeding to breed like rabbits.
Remember, it's a safety net, not a friggen trampoline. All this social engineering has achieved is a massive dumbing down of the nation.
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