Young death - Donations

**PrincessBandit** · 12th October 2009, 19:09

Hi Anika. Hope you were able to get out with mrs busa pete the other day; it will be good for you to do things with other people, even if just briefly or every now and again.

Try not to isolate yourself and take advantage of people's offers to go with you or help with "paperwork" issues. It is very hard to find motivation to do even the most basic things when you simply feel drained and bereft. If at all possible make yourself interact with others, even if you resent having to do it or feel you simply have no energy or desire for it.

I hope you are able to get through the next few days with the love and support of your family and friends.

**Mrs Busa Pete** · 14th October 2009, 08:15

Good morning anika hope you had a better day yesterday. As i know you are going to get there. Sorry we couldn't catch up for a coffee but hopefully soon you will feel up to it. Just remember we are hear for you.

Take care Love

Wendy

**Ronin** · 14th October 2009, 08:44

A thread like this makes me realise how special this place can be sometimes.

Anika, you have some great people here supporting you.

**caseye** · 15th October 2009, 19:58

Hello there Anika, have sat here reading the previous few pages of posts to catch up.Glad to see you are telling it like it is, still!
Speak the truth and nothing can ever be misconstrued.I'd be only to happy to assist you with the flat if you'd like.
Just say the word.
I've always left off my signature when PMing you,but never took it off while in this thread.I'm hoping it hasn't ever offended or upset you, but it was the favourite of my late brother inlaw and it's here as my tribute to a great mate.
Take care and give that little fella Connor, a hug from us all when you get the chance.
Remember theres always someone here who can and will do whatever you need if asked.
K.

**StoneY** · 15th October 2009, 20:02

A wee note too all you wonderful folk looking out for Anika.

EVERY one of you rox, you do, all of you

Anika, prayers to ya mate
These guys really care, and im glad your doing as well as you are for Conner's sake

Bless all of you

**Sharry** · 15th October 2009, 20:14

Hi Anika,

I had a few days in Napier, saw some realy cool snow.

Hope the move is complete now. But do ask any of us for assistance, particularly caseye who has made a guenuine offer there.

Remember that our offers are genuine and stand untill you feel like you would like to meet us

**cowpatz** · 16th October 2009, 08:24

Hi Anika,
Just dropping a line to say hi and lend a little moral support.
I hope your move went Ok and that you and Connor are settling into wherever you are now. Do take the time out to enjoy your son. They are only ever this age once and it would be a shame to miss out on this wonderful time. I hope his wee smile can help take just a little of your pain away...even if just for a moment.
Take care Anika.

**Madmax** · 16th October 2009, 09:42

Anika could you please pm me your bank account details my partner and I would like to help out too.

**Ladydragon** · 16th October 2009, 09:49

Anika could you please pm me your bank account details too

**jono035** · 16th October 2009, 13:11

Originally Posted by alexm

hi..I noticed some people are still asking for my acc #..well connors new acc # is 12-3035-0719772-51. but everyones already been so generous

i too hope connor might use this forum some day and really appreciate how kiwibiker helped his dad and me out

There we go... She posted it a couple of pages back.

Link to the post

**Mrs Busa Pete** · 17th October 2009, 06:25

Morning Anika how are you going i hope you are getting there which you will with a time and with a lot of

and support which you are getting from your mum and don't forget us guys on kb that has offered there support. Take care love and don't for get my offer we are more than willing to give you a hand. Take care love

Wendy

**Genestho** · 17th October 2009, 07:18

Hey sweet pea! Thinking of you this weekend. I have that number for next time you come down. Don't be afraid to ask for anything

**caseye** · 17th October 2009, 07:52

Morning Anika, finally the sun.
I know it's small consolation but at least without the rain and the wind a person can sit outside with their thoughts and get out of the cabin so to speak.
Seems to me that you are getting things done however hard they may be to do.
We here are very sincerely saddened by your loss, but over the last few days and weeks we've come to see a determined young women come to terms with her situation and deal with it honestly.
Stay true Anika, say whats on your mind let us know what, if anything we can do for you and ours.