Young death - Donations

[MyGSXF:Me]

Thinking of you both today.. Merry Christmas

[caseye]

Morning Anika,also thinking of you and Connor today.God bless.

[alexm]

Not a merry christmas..just a christmas, which is just another horrible day. I'm down in Tauranga, just got back from visiting Alex's grave. Kinda would be nice to not have Connor with me so I could stay there longer..and would also be nice if his grave wasn't next to a freaking farm so that theres not someone mowing their lawn 100m away and their dog jumping the fence and coming up to me. And would be great if certain people could water the flowers I planted there and not let them die but thats just part of this fantastic life. Yes I'm the grinch this christmas

[caseye]

Bloody dog, what a cheek! lol. Well at least you are not getting rained on as well.Take care Anika.

[GOONR]

Not a merry christmas..just a christmas, which is just another horrible day. I'm down in Tauranga, just got back from visiting Alex's grave. Kinda would be nice to not have Connor with me so I could stay there longer..and would also be nice if his grave wasn't next to a freaking farm so that theres not someone mowing their lawn 100m away and their dog jumping the fence and coming up to me. And would be great if certain people could water the flowers I planted there and not let them die but thats just part of this fantastic life. Yes I'm the grinch this christmas

Hi Anika, this day was always gonna suck for you, another shitty milestone but another shitty milestone behind you.

I'm fairly sure that my mother in-law is in the same place as Alex, right at the top, next to the farm just down the path from the Children's memorial's.??

I go down there a few times a year and would be honoured if I could water/ replace the flowers when I'm there. If that is Ok PM me with the details of how to find him and I'll see that he is Ok every time we go down. I tried to find him the last time that I was there but couldn't.

I would offer to take you with us but our car is always full. If we could squeeze Connor and yourself in we would.

Take care, stay strong.

[alexm]

Hmm must not be the same place, I don't know about any childrens memorials..It's on oropi road.

[alexm]

and the flowers are pretty much dead already they look horrible I'll probably pull them out tomorrow before I go..will have to do some research into flowers that only need watering about once a month if those exist

[GOONR]

Hmm must not be the same place, I don't know about any childrens memorials..It's on oropi road.

Ahh, sound's like a different place but not too far away from the mother in-law, she's in the cemetery on Pyes Pa Road, runs parallel to Oropi Road. If it's Ok the offer still stands, whenever I go down I'll sort out some flowers etc.. All I would need is an address.

[alexm]

oh yea I've seen the one on Pyes Pa rd atleast that's a nice cemetery..I don't even know what the address is, all I know is it's like 11km's down oropi rd :s

[GOONR]

oh yea I've seen the one on Pyes Pa rd atleast that's a nice cemetery..I don't even know what the address is, all I know is it's like 11km's down oropi rd :s

Yeah, as cemetry's go it's not a bad one.

The next time I'm heading that down that way I'll see if I can find the one on Oropi rd, shouldn't be too hard. Once I know I can find it I can take flowers or whatever for you when I go down if you like.

If I had the room in the car you would be more than welcome to come down but Mrs GOONR and midget GOONR take up all the space.

[howdamnhard]

and the flowers are pretty much dead already they look horrible I'll probably pull them out tomorrow before I go..will have to do some research into flowers that only need watering about once a month if those exist

Cactus's are pretty hardy , it's the only one we haven't managed to kill.

[alexm]

Hmm yea I was thinking of a succulent or something but I'd much rather have flowers there..will have to look into it. Thanks Goonr, maybe you could pm me when you go down there and I could transfer some money into your account and if you could buy flowers and put them there I'd be really grateful.

[GOONR]

Hmm yea I was thinking of a succulent or something but I'd much rather have flowers there..will have to look into it. Thanks Goonr, maybe you could pm me when you go down there and I could transfer some money into your account and if you could buy flowers and put them there I'd be really grateful.

Hey, No need for the dollars, keep those for the little one. I will gladly get some flowers, I'll PM ya closer to the next time I go down. Just tell me what ya want.

There is a grave in London that means a shite load to me, I kinda know what it's like not to be able to get close as often as you would like. Consider this to be my little bit of good karma towards the world.

[alexm]

Of course I gotta give you money, you just going through the effort to take care of someones grave you don't even know is already kind enough.

[GOONR]

Of course I gotta give you money, you just going through the effort to take care of someones grave you don't even know is already kind enough.

Nah, for me it's not bout the money, it's knowing that you know he is being looked after when ever possible. I'm not religious by any stretch of the imagination but I am an emotional old bugger, I know how it makes a difference if you think your loved ones are being cared for.