Young death - Donations

[dave_a]

Please PM me account number to.

[Genestho]

the thing is its so easy to say all those things to me, and i dont blame you my mum has said the same things to me.butp u dont know how i feel alex was my lifep im sorry but we loved eachoter a bit more than we loved connor because we hadnt got to know connor as a person yet. I love connor so much i wouldnt leave him if i didnt feel he would be looked after, I have a large warm family who will take him as his own..i know u think im selfish but im not i would take connor with me if i could so we could all be together as a family but i cant do that to him.its just so hard 2 exlain the only person who would understand and know is alex and hes not here and i need him. rest assured connor will be taken care of by people who love and adore him

Honey. I understand. It's raw. And very unreal I bet.



Day at a time, don't think too far. (although if money is an issue you do need to sort it, as said earlier get family to help)

Please post so we know you're ok Hang with friends and family, let them do everything for you, cuddle your son. X

[PrincessBandit]

Hi Anika

today is another day. A lot of us were thinking about you through the night.
I hope you will endure today with the love and support from your family and friends.

Keep writing, keep posting. Thinking of your and your wee bub.

[Oakie]

Yeah, let us know you're OK huh. There are a lot of people here who are sharing your pain.

[Mom]

Hi Guys,

Hey paddy

I guess by now you are feeling the full effects of the support of KB when something like this happens. Good upon you too for putting your hand up to get the ball rolling. Just a thought here though, why not put that bank account up on here, it has happened before and has never been abused. That way you dont have to attempt to keep up with the PM's.

For everyone else there, you rock! It is at times like this I am very proud to be a KBer!

Hey MDU! My clippers are sharp and always ready, I could bring along my famous hair wax if you prefer

[madbikeboy]

Could you PM me the account please. MBB.

[Fatt Max]

Please PM me the details.

I am happy to donate all of the proceeds from the sale of one of my songs to help out, cant do much more at this time but will do what I can.

Thoughts are with you, take care

[Sheba]

My thoughts and prayers have been with you throughout the night. Please keep us posted Anika.

[Xsasinator]

I have been lucky over this so called recession to still be able to have some disposable income, and rather than spending it on myself i would like to help you out Anika & Conner, stick in there.

to the KB community - good to see everyone getting involved and helping out those that need it.

[Smiffy]

Hey Paddy

Send me the bank details. I would be happy to help out.

[Conquiztador]

Please forward account details. Wish there was more I could do.

[ynot slow]

the thing is its so easy to say all those things to me, and i dont blame you my mum has said the same things to me.butp u dont know how i feel alex was my lifep im sorry but we loved eachoter a bit more than we loved connor because we hadnt got to know connor as a person yet. I love connor so much i wouldnt leave him if i didnt feel he would be looked after, I have a large warm family who will take him as his own..i know u think im selfish but im not i would take connor with me if i could so we could all be together as a family but i cant do that to him.its just so hard 2 exlain the only person who would understand and know is alex and hes not here and i need him. rest assured connor will be taken care of by people who love and adore him

Way sorry about your news,but THINK.Yes it is going to be hard,and more so now rather than later.Worst part is one day he's here next is gone.Live for your future,it will get better,and I can't say what it's like to lose a parent,let alone both,but imagine your son when he grows into a man,be there for him.

[Waxxa]

which KBers live up Whangaparoa way?

get the address off Paddy or who ever and someone get around to Anikas place...Physically!!!!

i dont like what I'm reading here, although all advice and grand thoughts offered are well directed and intended....but can someone get around there?

Madduck, you work up in Whangaparoa dont you?

[paddy]

get the address off Paddy or who ever and someone get around to Anikas place...Physically!!!!

Just to clarify - I don't have Anika's address. My only contact has been via this forum.

P.

[PrincessBandit]

I believe MadDuck has given her cell number to Anika, but obviously unless Anika chooses to phone her it won't get too far.

A lot of people on here really want to help but Anika has to want it, and accept it in order for it to work. Many people have pmed her I'm sure, and they could indicate if they're local enough to pop around to see how she's getting on if she's agreeable to that.