I didn't see the 60 minutes item, but my opinion is very much along the "victim" line. Taking out ethnicity for a minute - an overly simplistic view of humanity is that people are either victims or not. Those who are not generally deal with life, accept that things are how things are mostly for reasons beyond their control, and so they just get on with life.
Then there are those who feel that they are victims. They were abused as a kid, they got picked on at school, their parent's split up (or they were from solo-parent families to start with), they have a physical/mental disability, they feel their great great great great great great grandfather got screwed in a contract negotiation... bla bla bla. Really, who friggin cares? Just build a bridge and get over it.
I work in disability claims, and those claimants I deal with who have a "victim" mentality are guaranteed to have a longer recovery, more ongoing problems, and generally be on claim a hell of a lot longer than those who just accept that whatever has happened has happened, for whatever reason doesn't matter, and life must go on. This transfers into all aspects of life.
Where a particular section of the population subscribe to the victim mentality then they are ensuring their own failure. Until that section of the population takes responsibility for themselves, instead of blaming my section of the population, then they will continue to fail. You can choose to be a victim, you can also choose not to.
"You, Madboy, are the Uncooked Pork Sausage of Sausage Beasts. With extra herbs."
- Jim2 c2006
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