Some advice please.

[martybabe]

I gotta go with the others Bones mate, you and your partner have got enough on your plate with the grief of losing your Son, without having to fight this thieving woman as well.

If their are some items Of huge sentimental value that will remind you of your son by all means get some professional help. other than that mate just walk away and close the nasty episode, she'll get her's in the fullness of time and you can concentrate on your Family.

Good luck with it and I am very sorry for your loss, all the best mate.

[Pixie]

Thats the one, good advice

Sorry for your loss Bonez

If less than 2 years together she gets nothing, its been very kind of you and Connie to be so supportive, but time for you to think of the Grandson, and yep, give her a set period to relaes ALL his property including the dog (no shit Dognapping is a charge, my mate got done when his marriage split for taking the dog)

I would suggest 48 hours, and stake the property out to ensure no 'fire sales' occur

Correct.The dog is a chattel and is part of the estate,just as any livestock would be.

[Bounce001]

Sorry for your loss and condolances to you both.

I guess you have 2 options: Walk away with good memories or fight for what is rightfully yours. I guess you have affidavits etc proving ownership. If so, go to the police and charge her with theft. She sounds like a right slapper.

[Bonez]

Cheers all. She has served us with a Trespass notice which I find amusing.

Been to a lawyer and have a plan of action. At the moment its more a principle thing now and in a strange way am looking fwd to it. So telly ho pip pip.......

[nothingflash]

Sorry for your loss mate.

I knew a guy who was killed in a car accident maybe 18 months ago. He had met a girl not too long before - fell madly in love and then quickly fell out of love and they drifted apart. He had been encouraged to take a life policy by his father some time ago and did so. In a moment of love he assigned the policy to the girlfriend. He dies - she gets paid out $300k and won't (and legally of course doesn't have to) hand it over to the family. She did write a cheque to the parents for $6k to cover the funeral though.

It takes all kinds huh.

[martybabe]

Been to a lawyer and have a plan of action. At the moment its more a principle thing now and in a strange way am looking fwd to it. So telly ho pip pip.......

In that case disregard my post above. GO GET HER BONEZ!

[NZsarge]

I have no advice to add Bonez as I have no experience in such matters and any advice from me would be pointless and unfounded.
I'd just like to say i'm very sorry for your loss and would like to extend my condolences to you Connie, your family and Ross' friends..