Build a bridge and… Harden the fuck up!

**sinfull** · 19th December 2009, 07:38

Originally Posted by peasea

Have you put that bottle down yet?

Awww will you please not whistle so loud !

**peasea** · 19th December 2009, 09:21

Originally Posted by Genie

Re: recent events in Nelson.

Agreed. Violence is not always the best option, but it IS human nature unfortunately. Nothing wrong with tender moments, I quite like a few here and there.

Tender steaks are great too.

**DarkLord** · 19th December 2009, 11:33

3 steps

1. Trace it - find out the full extent of what is bothering you and where it is rooted. Often external circumstances are not the problem but merely reflect what is happening inside our own hearts.

2. Face it - stare the unknown in the face, shine a light into the darkness, be open about what is really happening, don't be afraid to share with people you trust.

3. Replace it - replace the dark with the light, replace lies with truth.

Works for me and has taken me a long way over the years.

**avgas** · 21st December 2009, 08:39

I hugged a tree once........bloody hurt.
Next time I hug a pine I am wearing clothes.

**StoneY** · 21st December 2009, 09:12

Originally Posted by avgas

I hugged a tree once........bloody hurt.
Next time I hug a pine I am wearing clothes.

My brother headbutted one once, courtesay of the broken brake cable on my old XR200....still has the bark shaped scars on his forehead (no helmet hahahaha, tree still lost!)

**Brownbikerbabe** · 21st December 2009, 11:23

All this talk of Chimay...oh lovely memories of hanging with my Belgium posse (mostly older folks) playing boules last june! *sigh*....lots of beer...Duval is great too! Duval makes me fall down.

Getting over shit...chocolate and sweets! Lots!!!