How do you deal with deaf idiots? (Self anointed leader)

**paturoa** · 12th February 2010, 17:13

Have you tried the ignore / pretend she doesn't exist approach?

Edit: maybe she's a dominatrix ... ask her.

**peasea** · 12th February 2010, 17:43

Originally Posted by EJK

Theres this woman who thinks she is the bomb. She thinks she created the heaven and the universe and everything in it. Shes definitely not attractive either (get my drift?). Most of all, she anoints herself as a leader and tries to do shit by herself. Oh and did I mention she doesn't listen to the people whos under her "supreme authority"?

Aha, you've met my ex.

**slofox** · 12th February 2010, 17:55

Originally Posted by peasea

Aha, you've met my ex.

If she ain't yours, she's prolly mine...

**Indiana_Jones** · 12th February 2010, 18:10

Originally Posted by EJK

Theres this woman who thinks she is the bomb. She thinks she created the heaven and the universe and everything in it. Shes definitely not attractive either (get my drift?). Most of all, she anoints herself as a leader and tries to do shit by herself. Oh and did I mention she doesn't listen to the people whos under her "supreme authority"?

Sounds like a few KB members but since shes not on KB, I'd like some advice to deal with this woman. Any psychologist here on KB?

You work with Helen Clark?

Yea, I know I wasn't the frist to think that lol

-Indy

**SlowHand** · 12th February 2010, 18:20

You know Dean's mom?

**Dean** · 12th February 2010, 18:34

Originally Posted by SlowHand

You know Dean's mom?

haha very funny.

**LBD** · 12th February 2010, 18:37

EJK...."Canis Majoris" Being somewhat ignorant of things stellar, I looked it up and I think I found the root cause of your problem....You consider your self to be the brightest of all those around you, and you cannot accept another trying to steal some of your "StarLight"

And with an effective temperature if some 3000K....I would say you are quite hot headed as well....

Either you tangle with this Black hole you are struggling with and run the risk of being swallowed whole never to emit another sparkle of star light....or give up and move on forgetting and avoiding any other interaction with this bain of your life.

**Hans** · 12th February 2010, 18:49

Originally Posted by EJK

Theres this woman who thinks she is the bomb. She thinks she created the heaven and the universe and everything in it. Shes definitely not attractive either (get my drift?). Most of all, she anoints herself as a leader and tries to do shit by herself. Oh and did I mention she doesn't listen to the people whos under her "supreme authority"?

Sounds like a few KB members but since shes not on KB, I'd like some advice to deal with this woman. Any psychologist here on KB?

Symptoms I found:

Loneliness: Seeks attention. Strongly urge her opinions to gain attention.
Arrogance: Thinks she has the nessesary experience. God-knows-what she knows.
Quarrelsomeness: Whenever her opinions are clashed with other's, she'd butcher the whole world to bring out all the evidence from her experience story which I doubt it's existence and it's depth.
Narrow Minded: To her just a gossip, article read, small reading etc is everything. e.g. Because she had a flatmate who did a business, she thinks she knows all the principals of business. Shes not even a business student nor had experience of any sort of work.

Last time she told me and that pissed me off quite a bit. What made her the decision that she knows more than I? What kind of a judgement is that? What made her think shes lived my life and think shes better than I?

I'm not unhappy (nice word

) because I'm jealouse. It's one of those unwise (a.k.a male-cattle-feces) hearings that drives me into malfunction.

Cheers.

Divorce is your friend.

**Toaster** · 12th February 2010, 18:56

She sounds delusional with rather warped visions of grandeur.

I can't stand people who think they are subject matter experts when they clearly are not. A dumb fool is one who thinks they know it all but to the rest of the world come across as a complete knob. A "wise" fool is one who knows their limitations and seek advice or shuts the heck up.

**CookMySock** · 12th February 2010, 19:01

Originally Posted by Toaster

I can't stand people who think they are subject matter experts when they clearly are not. A dumb fool is one who thinks they know it all but to the rest of the world come across as a complete knob. A "wise" fool is one who knows their limitations and seek advice or shuts the heck up.

Nah a wise fool is one who accepts he can't control other people, and realises, despite his increasingly deteriorating emotional state, that it doesn't actually effect them. Anything else is the whole basis of violence.

You can't make anyone do anything.

Steve

**Mully** · 12th February 2010, 19:10

Originally Posted by SlowHand

You know Dean's mom?

FUCK!!

I wish I'd thought of that.

**98tls** · 12th February 2010, 19:29

Originally Posted by slofox

I got an MA in Psychology (I really do).

I reckon its just lack of self esteem and she's projecting all that aggression as a compensatory mechanism...

OR she might have "boss bitch" syndrome - happens to quite a few (but not all) first born daughters...I was married to one such

Treatment? Kick her up the arse. Hard as you can. Be worth the jail time for the satisfaction you'd get...

Avoid the jail time and simply give her the donkey punch whilst shagging her arse.She will do 1 of 2 things,enjoy it to the point that you have a shag on the side forever or simply at first feel revulsion for you but a few months later send you an email thanking you for sorting out her shit.

**EJK** · 12th February 2010, 23:50

Originally Posted by LBD

EJK...."Canis Majoris" Being somewhat ignorant of things stellar, I looked it up and I think I found the root cause of your problem....You consider your self to be the brightest of all those around you, and you cannot accept another trying to steal some of your "StarLight"

And with an effective temperature if some 3000K....I would say you are quite hot headed as well....

Either you tangle with this Black hole you are struggling with and run the risk of being swallowed whole never to emit another sparkle of star light....or give up and move on forgetting and avoiding any other interaction with this bain of your life.

Good observation however semi correct. You may judge me as a "big star" however I do not try to act as one nor find people to orb around me. Good observation that I maybe losing my "starlight", however I've not intentionally seeked attention since High School.
Hot headed? Yeah maybe. With this ignorant lady who thinks I orb around her, yes. Other than that, I never encountered physical violence since the age of 4.

I find amusing on big things e.g. VY Canis Majoris, Tzar Bomba, Olympus Mons etc. You can say I'm ambitious. However that does not mean I'm selfish.

Good observation LBD.

P.s. I never entitled myself as a Canis Majoris. It's just a message.

Originally Posted by Hans

Divorce is your friend.

I'm not married yo!

**Big Dave** · 13th February 2010, 08:55

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deliberately destroy, damage, or obstruct (something), esp. for political or military advantage.
noun
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**Pixie** · 13th February 2010, 10:22

Originally Posted by EJK

Theres this woman who thinks she is the bomb. She thinks she created the heaven and the universe and everything in it. Shes definitely not attractive either (get my drift?). Most of all, she anoints herself as a leader and tries to do shit by herself. Oh and did I mention she doesn't listen to the people whos under her "supreme authority"?

Sounds like a few KB members but since shes not on KB, I'd like some advice to deal with this woman. Any psychologist here on KB?

Symptoms I found:

Loneliness: Seeks attention. Strongly urge her opinions to gain attention.
Arrogance: Thinks she has the nessesary experience. God-knows-what she knows.
Quarrelsomeness: Whenever her opinions are clashed with other's, she'd butcher the whole world to bring out all the evidence from her experience story which I doubt it's existence and it's depth.
Narrow Minded: To her just a gossip, article read, small reading etc is everything. e.g. Because she had a flatmate who did a business, she thinks she knows all the principals of business. Shes not even a business student nor had experience of any sort of work.

Last time she told me and that pissed me off quite a bit. What made her the decision that she knows more than I? What kind of a judgement is that? What made her think shes lived my life and think shes better than I?

I'm not unhappy (nice word

) because I'm jealouse. It's one of those unwise (a.k.a male-cattle-feces) hearings that drives me into malfunction.

Cheers.

Maybe she's seen some of your writings