
Originally Posted by
Katman
There's often a wide gulf between what someone might say they're prepared to do and the reality of feeding and wiping the arse of someone else 24/7.
Just as there's often a wide gulf between someone blightely saying the decision of how much commitment a carer gives to them is the carer's to make and the sudden bitterness discovered by the injured person come the day that that commitment becomes too much for the carer.
Totally agree. We've also admitted to each other that we don't know what that choice would be if we had to make it. Would I feel bitter if I needed help and it was not forthcoming? Given the main reason I'm married in the first place is to be in a position to ensure the happiness of my wife I would hope not. I won't know for sure until it happens.
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