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    Quote Originally Posted by hellokitty View Post
    I think I told him to get over it and not to be a dick.

    I didn't give him a chance to get away...... I knew the first time I saw him that this was going to be something really major.
    I knew the second day that i would marry him, and I have never wanted to marry any one before.
    He was the first guy I had met that was hot and a great guy - never found any one before that was both combined.
    Poor buggar never stood a chance.........
    Hahaha good girl Kitty - THAT'S what we like to here. And still good to know that it can happen. mmmm that might be a long wait for me though til im 35 - Still, the best things in life are worth waiting for. And what is it with us girls and older men? hehe - seems that many of us are all the same

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    Quote Originally Posted by hellokitty View Post
    Took me until I was 35 to find my man and then I had to convince him that he wasn't too old for me (he is 9 years older)
    That's nothing. My father-in-law was more'n 10 years older than my mother-in-law, and my second sister is 12 years older than her husband.

    Anyway, Ed - congratulations on turning 52, and on making it home safely. Good to hear you're on the mend, and I hope your convalescence is quick and trouble free.
    ... and that's what I think.

    Or summat.


    Or maybe not...

    Dunno really....


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    Quote Originally Posted by hellokitty View Post
    I think I told him to get over it and not to be a dick.

    I didn't give him a chance to get away...... I knew the first time I saw him that this was going to be something really major.
    I knew the second day that i would marry him, and I have never wanted to marry any one before.
    He was the first guy I had met that was hot and a great guy - never found any one before that was both combined.
    Poor buggar never stood a chance.........
    LOL!!! Sounds like it! He obviously agreed with you. Funny how it goes, I first saw Jill across the room, cliche I know but it was genuinely the old "eyes across the crowded room" moment. I still can't explain it, but it seemed there was just something about her and later to find she had the same "moment" was wierd, but here we are and more in love than ever.

    Quote Originally Posted by vifferman View Post
    That's nothing. My father-in-law was more'n 10 years older than my mother-in-law, and my second sister is 12 years older than her husband.

    Anyway, Ed - congratulations on turning 52, and on making it home safely. Good to hear you're on the mend, and I hope your convalescence is quick and trouble free.
    Thanks mate! Was touch and go to reach the day for while there. I do have to be a bit patient as it was a bad break, but the drugs are good and I'm getting spoiled. First day for my ACC home help and turns out the carer is my youngest daughter's first boss! Small world!

    Getting lots of visitors which is great and even getting some work done - advantages of an internet based business...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Edbear View Post
    LOL!!! Sounds like it! He obviously agreed with you. Funny how it goes, I first saw Jill across the room, cliche I know but it was genuinely the old "eyes across the crowded room" moment. I still can't explain it, but it seemed there was just something about her and later to find she had the same "moment" was wierd, but here we are and more in love than ever .
    I asked my husband when he knew he wanted to marry me and his answer was "I don't know!" in an exasperated voice. What a romantic......
    I am sure your wife is very happy to have you home.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hellokitty View Post
    I asked my husband when he knew he wanted to marry me and his answer was "I don't know!" in an exasperated voice. What a romantic......
    I am sure your wife is very happy to have you home.
    LOL!!! Ah, memories... I can remember sittng in the driveway in the car at my parent's and we were talking, and I wanted to ask her to marry me. You know that awkward feeling, nervous and making nonsense small talk while frantically thinking how to say it..?

    We had casually mentioned getting married once and I'd said I thought about 25 was the right age and she'd said 21 was for her, so eventually, when I ran out of silly small talk, I said, (I can clearly remember), "You know when you said you'd like to get married at about 21?" She said "Yes..." her eyes down. I said, "Well, will you marry me when you're 21?" She slowly smiled and said softly, "I'll marry you anytime..."

    When we finally went inside, my Mum was fussing in the kitchen pretending to be doing dishes or something, (at 11pm..?) We sat down and I hesitantly said, "Mum, ahhh, Jill and I are going to get married." The greatest Mum in the world, simply said, "Oh, I could have told you that!"
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    Worse still Ed is when you turn the interior light on and shes fallen asleep (thats never happened to me though)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maha View Post
    Worse still Ed is when you turn the interior light on and shes fallen asleep (thats never happened to me though)
    Ha ha! Me neither, mind you we're not as young as we were, so it could still happen. She has growled at me once for falling asleep while she was talking to me and snoring. It was late and I was tired...
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    you and your wife are cute, I hope when I have been married that long (32 years was it?) that I as much in love as you guys - but I will be a hell of a lot older than you guys - started late! Does your wife ride or pillion? Or both? lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by hellokitty View Post
    you and your wife are cute, I hope when I have been married that long (32 years was it?) that I as much in love as you guys - but I will be a hell of a lot older than you guys - started late! Does your wife ride or pillion? Or both? lol
    LOL!!! That's exactly what our daughters say about us!

    Yeah we were far too young! But I have no regrets and am very grateful to have someone like Jill now. You know, I stop and think at times when I look at her and see her love and I wonder why me? To think that someone loves you for who you are when you're conscious of your own faults and failings, it's humbling.

    She likes to pillion and she's the best pillion I've ever had on the back, completely relaxed and trusting and moves with the bike. I guess after so many years she's comfortable with me. I think she'd like to ride, but is nervous.
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    oh sigh, came in late to this thread, only read the last two pages and its truely inspirational and heart warming to read this wonderful love story. Congrats Mr & Mrs Edbear for taking the time and energy to keep going through the bad times. Its all to easy to walk away from a problem, its all about commitment, love and care to tackle a problem, hang in there, and reap the benefits with a lifetime together. Well done you two and anyone else who has hung in there together, through good and bad.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Quasi View Post
    oh sigh, came in late to this thread, only read the last two pages and its truely inspirational and heart warming to read this wonderful love story. Congrats Mr & Mrs Edbear for taking the time and energy to keep going through the bad times. Its all to easy to walk away from a problem, its all about commitment, love and care to tackle a problem, hang in there, and reap the benefits with a lifetime together. Well done you two and anyone else who has hung in there together, through good and bad.
    Couldn't have put it better myself Quasi. Well said!

    Ed - you truely inspire me.

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    You'll make me blush! I'm not special, and we have had our ups and downs but we made it through them somehow. We are very happy now and enjoying each other's company. We've been through a lot together and as a family but no more I'm sure than many others.

    I hadn't thought of this as a love story, but I guess it is in a way.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Edbear View Post
    LOL!!! That's exactly what our daughters say about us!

    Yeah we were far too young! But I have no regrets and am very grateful to have someone like Jill now. You know, I stop and think at times when I look at her and see her love and I wonder why me? To think that someone loves you for who you are when you're conscious of your own faults and failings, it's humbling.

    She likes to pillion and she's the best pillion I've ever had on the back, completely relaxed and trusting and moves with the bike. I guess after so many years she's comfortable with me. I think she'd like to ride, but is nervous.
    I know exactly what you mean, and could say almost exactly the same thing about me and my wife (including the pillioning bit, although sadly she's spent little time on the back). We've been together 32 years too, and married nearly 28. I don't think we married too young though - I realised I didn't want anybody else, so there seemed no point in delaying it too long once that realisation sunk in.
    ... and that's what I think.

    Or summat.


    Or maybe not...

    Dunno really....


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    Quote Originally Posted by vifferman View Post
    Imarried nearly 28. I don't think we married too young though - I realised I didn't want anybody else, so there seemed no point in delaying it too long once that realisation sunk in.
    Well put. We are the same, 28yrs on and happy as, and just become grandparents. Nothing wrong with starting young if you know what you want. We've done a few hard yards but the rewards for hangin in there are great.

    and Edbear, (just found this thread), all the best for the recovery
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    Quote Originally Posted by vifferman View Post
    I know exactly what you mean, and could say almost exactly the same thing about me and my wife (including the pillioning bit, although sadly she's spent little time on the back). We've been together 32 years too, and married nearly 28. I don't think we married too young though - I realised I didn't want anybody else, so there seemed no point in delaying it too long once that realisation sunk in.
    Quote Originally Posted by sels1 View Post
    Well put. We are the same, 28yrs on and happy as, and just become grandparents. Nothing wrong with starting young if you know what you want. We've done a few hard yards but the rewards for hangin in there are great.

    and Edbear, (just found this thread), all the best for the recovery
    Thanks guys and congratulations! I think it's only after you've been married for as long as we have that you really begin to appreciate what a good marriage can be. Our only, (so far), Grandson is now 4 and an absolute delight! To see the bond between him and his parents and to see my daughter with him is very special indeed.

    For me, too, I didn't just "fall in love" with Jill, I felt I wanted to take care of her and give her a life she would probably never have had. She came from a difficult background, and while I won't go into details, I saw in her, qualities that deserved a chance to come out. She deserved a good life and a chance to be who I knew she could be, As I said there was just something about her aside from the fact that she was quite attractive and I was committed to her almost immediately.

    To see her blossom and grow over the years and become such a wonderful person is something there is no price for. Certainly I have had to mature and change as well but we have grown together when you hear of so many who grow apart which is sad.
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