Whatever .
Whatever .
My neighbours diary says I have boundary issues
Instead of naming anyone I left it anonomous, because you were amazingly clever you worked out that it must be you guys ,99.5% of the rest of KB didnt know, you made yourselves famous.
I raised it issue so it could be discussed , you know like grown ups do , discuss stuff. That is why I called you an idiot.
What does me crashing my bike at home have to do with riding and pregnancy, I wasnt pregnant, I crashed lots that year never had one miscarrige.
I didnt say somebody wasnt clever , I was refering to the act of racing while pregnant as not too clever, you added your spin.
I guess while your ego is still inflated and you own this part of the internet, not much will get discussed in any meaningfull way. Sorry I interupted the knitting group
My neighbours diary says I have boundary issues
WOW, this be a beter thought out reply than just "whatever"
Now sorry but have tio say DOH... Rashika had already posted saying she raced when preggers... so umm, 99.5% of people already knew this you obviously being the .5%
I already knew of your thoughts of racing while duffed, we spoke at the time, and I understood you might fell resposable had something gone wrong in a race ie: if you were to have knocked her off (well actually I already had) the thing is she like the other girl racers were and are never at the frount of the pack, they were racing at a more sedate and safe pace behind... they have this uncanny weird thing were they lean on the side of cauction and have a stronger feeling of mortatity... mate thay have vagina's not penis, it aint no pissing comp for them so rearly end up in a heated battle and taking risks, the chance of anyone tangling with them was and is very very unlikely... put it this way racing would be one of the less dangerous situations they would be in over a normale week.
good night
Mr Dawson
cheers DD
(Definately Dodgy)
Think it is individual's choice in the end , but can understand how some people would get a bit upset/concerned , natural thing to be protective. Same as I prefer not to pillion rummie now with young family.
Life is still there to be lived and to much cotton wool doesn't do anyone any good.
best response of the thread goes to nodrog
what the fuck were you doing riding down the stairs?
Last edited by bittertwistedcute; 27th June 2010 at 12:11. Reason: quote malfunction
yeehaaa sunshine
I am not sure if you have been on the track, but if the guy three bikes ahead of me going into a corner pops the last blob of fat through his remaining artery then he could potentially stop drop and roll and include SEVERAL people in that, and that includes diabetics who haven't managed their diet/bs's appropriately and drive/ride and anone else. Chance is a fine thing
Back to topic, "telling" your partner or anyone else what to do is a recipe for ruin. Have an opinion, discuss it, and move on. Sexual activity in the first trimester can precede miscarriage also.
My response would be "I have undertaken a risk assessment, now I am going for a ride on my bike while you go fuck yourself" or eloquent words to that effect, not helped by my "nappy brain and sloppy ligaments"
yeehaaa sunshine
I agree- chance is a fine thing- who can tell. But you go onto the track having taken the decision that you are willing to take these risks, as well as the risk of highsiding, lowsiding, being taken out, etc. Lets face it, when you race, you push the limits - you take risks that you would not normally. When you take teh decision, you take it about your own life. I am saying that when my wife takes a decision that potentially afects another life besides her own, in which I have a stake, then i want my opinion and feelinsg to be taken cognisance of. i feel it is NOT her decision alone.
I dont have a problem with my wife taking chances- as long as its not with my baby.
Just like women dont "tell" their men what to do, but they make it very clear in other ways that their actions wil have "consequences". In the same way, I make it clear that her actions will have consequences. Especially if something does happen. Thats not a threat, that is setting out plainly and simply that that particular time of her life is not for selfishness.
As always, I really struggle with this one... Reason is: I can see both sides of the coin.
Ok, ladies: Yes, it is our body and we should be able to do whatever the heck we want with it. BUT... IT IS the man's baby in there as well, therefor, he who made the effort of shagging us in the first place to impregnate us has got some say in the matter if we were to be fair about this right? I mean, we do want him to feel like he should care about the unborn, don't we?
And gents: how would you feel if we told you that just "Because we can't ride for the next howevermanymonths, then neither shoudl you be able to,goddammmit!!!! And my boobs hurt FFS"??
C'mon, be honest... you have got to respect the fact that we as women make a huge sacrifice of freedom when we endeavour to become mothers and if you don't appreciate it, then I foresee a very, very difficult time ahead for you and your family.
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