Internet dating

[marty]

Who on here has a NZD/AshleyMadison/Adultfriendfinder or similar account?

If so, does it work for you? How often do you log into it?

[hellokitty]

I used to be on NZdating (for about 4 weeks), met a few weirdos and scary men, but I met my husband on there.
I used to log in every day, and being a women in her thirties was swamped with men of any age coming on to me. You have to wade through the crap, chances are you might find someone - or if you are looking for a hook up, seems to be the place.
I did a search for motorbikes, found a few men that rode motorbikes, and went from there...... apparently there aren't many women on there that ride bikes.

[SMOKEU]

Just watch out with those online dating sites. A mate of mine met this slut online and she invited him over to her house, so we dropped him off at her house and about 10 niggers came out of her house with baseball bats and knives and tried to rob us.

[hellokitty]

I f you are going to meet someone, make sure it is a crowded public place and take friends with you - make it a group meeting.
Too many freaks ands weirdo out there. I met one guy that became obsessed and then abusive - scary.

[Tank]

It depends how desperate you are.

If you are really scraping the bottom of the barrel there is always the KB-Swingers user group started by our Very own DangerousBastard. you can see it here: http://www.kiwibiker.co.nz/forums/group.php?groupid=41

Mrs DB who is in this site isnt a member - so you might just end up with him. But it must work because he has loads of young girlfriends - he keeps telling us.

Other than that - have a number of friends who have met on NZDating. All normal. A couple of the lady's could be called very good catches. A couple have married and seem very happy.

Never been a member myself (was married before that kind of thing took off) - but if I was single its got to be better place to look than the local "pig and firken".

[george formby]

Met my girlfriend on NZD & very happy now too. It's hard for single women to meet guys, they can't exactly wear a sign in the pub & their are only so many options in a circle of friends / workmates. A lot of guys (me) find it hard to say I'm interested for fear of rejection, abuse, embarrassment, what ever. Chatting on line is great, a phone call or two & a public date with no expectations was a perfect way for me to meet woman. I made friends, had a lot of fun & laughs & met a woman I fell in love with. It's fairly easy to spot the nutters & find people on a similar wave length, as long as you can write sentences, spell & actually have something interesting to contribute. On line dating is what you make it. Honesty & humour are essential.

[Genie]

Ha...I was on a website...didnt' really think of it a dating site...anyway, met a fella, wonderful one too. amazing in fact...but alas, he had a secret. Secret Girlfiend. And if going by the news, the women up North met a man, he had wife and didnt' tell her and when she discovered his lie she ended up dead. Be careful out there.

[Dooly]

A mate of mine is on NZD and is getting laid so much by so many chicks he's sick of it...........poor cunt.
He reckons he's looking for a woman genuinely but if so he's sure trying them all before he buys.



.......and no, it's not me............dammit

[Genie]

a friend of a friend does the same thing...he thinks it the best ever and most of the time the dates are free...eg no dinner and no having to buy them drink. I have a chick friend - recently separated - and she's going nuts.

[Grubber]

Been there done that a couple of years ago. Problem was that most woman in the Auckland region seemed to want the money and the expensive restaurant etc. All got a bit much after a while and i bored of the whole thing. Seemed to me that unless you were anything short of perfect you needn't bother replying.
Got a ton of friends that fill the gaps better anyway.
May work for some i guess.

[Love my Bonnie]

Been there done that a couple of years ago. Problem was that most woman in the Auckland region seemed to want the money and the expensive restaurant etc. All got a bit much after a while and i bored of the whole thing. Seemed to me that unless you were anything short of perfect you needn't bother replying.
Got a ton of friends that fill the gaps better anyway.
May work for some i guess.

Thats ya problem Grubber, those Auckland tarts.
Find yourself a good Franklin girl.
One who rides & is interested in having fun, not spending your cash.

[blackdog]

i searched bikers and dating and came up with this for ya....

www.collarme.com

[coffeejunkie]

i searched bikers and dating and came up with this for ya....

www.collarme.com

hahahahahahaha fuck you crack me up stig

[Maha]

Anne and I started chatting on a 'Chat Site' in 01'....we didnt meet straight away, maybe 6 months after the first hello?
Nine years later and we have only spent about 5 days apart in that time, and thats not an easy time for either of us.

[hellokitty]

It's fairly easy to spot the nutters & find people on a similar wave length, as long as you can write sentences, spell & actually have something interesting to contribute. On line dating is what you make it. Honesty & humour are essential.

Ha ha my husband has shocking spelling, I was so pleased when I met him that he wasn't retarded!
I is hard to meet people when all your friends are married, and it is hard to put yourself out there only to be rejected.

And as for Auckland women wanting to have money spent on them - maybe - but I am an Aucklander and I am very cheap to run - in fact I bought my man a motorbike, so what does that make me? (I had to, I needed someone to ride with me while I was learning)