Sorry to hear wot's happened...but but but there is life after wot seems death row...
My husband and I spilt after 13 years...and yes hard going ....can't offer advice you just have to live life how you want to live...party..love ya mates....have fun...
Time will take you to your soulmate.....
Your picture's in my wallet and I'm sitting on it. And if that isn't love, I don't know what is
I broke up with a girl many years ago and did something really reallystupid. I'm not proud of what I did and I expect to be judged and juried over it. I am happy to admit my sins on KB because of my respect for you lovely people.
So, what did I do......?
Something unbearable and unforgivable......
I let her keep my collection of take away curry menus...I had over 200 of the fecking things from all over the country, some even had food stains on them....and I let her keep them.......that was stupid shit, that collection took years and added many KG's to my usual slim and athletic frame......
I'm not proud of what I did, and I sorry if this has caused any grief to you all.....
Ah fuck it, she was a fat old slapper anyways.....
Stupid act after a break up? Binned my bike. Well, not the direct result, but my mood at the time was definitely a contributing factor. Pretty childish too.
Shit sux man, I hope you worked out all the anger you needed to on the door...
Library Schooled
That is a shame katie girl. I know it must be very stressful hun
Am 6mths out of a 21yr relationship. My choice to leave. Very scarey decision. To be fair to both of us I should have done it years ago. Had some arse try real hard to cause us trouble for his own little game. But it's only made us stick together on the important things.
I'm still living in the same house until I leave. We've sorted what we need to between us. No arguements, no bitterness, some tears. I guess we've been friends for so long it stops us doing stupid stuff to each other.
I just got back from 2mths in NZ looking for a place in this world where I can be me & feel safe. Thanks to cave weta for taking me in & the great friends I have from here (KB) I know I'm not such a f*#kup after all. (Insert large smile)
Dearest, age does not protect us from lack of wisdom. Feelings can not be defined by logic, nor explained with reason.
I'm just grateful that you are here to make NOISE too, lovely one![]()
Is a very brave thing to tell.
To those that have had bad break-ups, Sorry.
Be glad though that it didn't include children.
The hardest break-ups of all are where you have kids together.
I have a deep disrespect for the mother of my child (so much shit happened you could write a Quadrilogy)
but I have to be civil towards her when picking my boy up (he lives with her)
That has to be the worst thing ever, having a lot of bad thoughts and feelings re-surface when picking up or seeing your
Son or daughter. Maybe it's just me, I don't know.
White Trash Pearls of Wisdom #2654 - Refering to yourself in the 3rd person: The only thing gayer, would be being caught handcuffed around a public toilet bowl, an apple stuffed in your mouth and George Michael administering an epic caneing to your exposed cheeks while Boy George documents the event on a handicam.
When the shit hits the fan and you feel like everything is lost, there are three critical things to remember ;
1. Tomorrow, you will still be living your life, unless you do something really stupid and dangerous.
2. One year later, you will still be living your life, unless you do something really stupid and dangerous.
2. Fifteen years later, you will still be living your life, unless you do something really stupid and dangerous.
Take a break from giving a fuck so much. Someone else can for a while, but just watch the really stupid and dangerous crap, or your mum will cry.
Steve
"I am a licenced motorcycle instructor, I agree with dangerousbastard, no point in repeating what he said."
"read what Steve says. He's right."
"What Steve said pretty much summed it up."
"I did axactly as you said and it worked...!!"
"Wow, Great advise there DB."
WTB: Hyosung bikes or going or not.
I've never had a break up![]()
I remember that one well... I didn't do anything stupid, as my boy was involved... but got to the school playground one morning (he was 7), saw my boys teacher and thought I better explain to her and find out how my son was taking it... She got 5 words into, well we've noticed a difference and I broke down in the middle of a packed playground... that was the thing that steeled my resolve to have more access... that way I could keep an eye on him... in some ways it drove the perfect wedge between me and my ex and I moved on to my now wife some days after the playground incident (shame it wasn't my sons mates mum, grrrrrrrrr)...
I didn't think!!! I experimented!!!
My 3.5 year gf broke up with me on a Friday. I went out to celebrate with mates, was too pissed, met a girl and ended up at her place. Woke up, huge hangover went to find a bathroom to take a shit and I manage to stumble on my ex in the kitchen, I only had a towel draped around me. She goes what are you doing here, crying starts... you know the whole chick drama thing. Seems she had slept over at a mates, the other flatmate of the girl I met, 'cos she was too distraught by our break up.
White Trash Pearls of Wisdom #2654 - Refering to yourself in the 3rd person: The only thing gayer, would be being caught handcuffed around a public toilet bowl, an apple stuffed in your mouth and George Michael administering an epic caneing to your exposed cheeks while Boy George documents the event on a handicam.
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