Who made me the grown up?

[Mom]

relief - a gladness that it was finally over. Just go with the flow - laugh, cry, remember, forgive. Move forward, with no regrets.

Thank you. I wont feel guilt (I hope), I am certainly relieved. Very sad and devastated follow closely.

Forgive is one that I overlooked. Wise words them.

I have no regrets, though I would not mind losing this chest pain, the drive back to Thames tomorrow will be interesting

[jafar]

Thank you. I wont feel guilt (I hope), I am certainly relieved. Very sad and devastated follow closely.

Forgive is one that I overlooked. Wise words them.

I have no regrets, though I would not mind losing this chest pain, the drive back to Thames tomorrow will be interesting

Sorry to hear about your mum mom. Remember the good times you had & know she is now at peace.

[Mom]

Well I am pleased with what I achieved today, all the equipment that Mom relied on is back where it needs to be. I donated the electric over blanket I bought for her to Hospice for someone else to use, it is soft and light and can be used with the vibrating air matress where other ones cant.

The toilet at her place is unblocked, talk about Mom getting the last laugh, the shitter packed up on the day of her funeral There are 5 rubbish bags at the gate for collection tomorrow and no perishables in the house, no food either for that matter. Her bed is stripped and the sheets washed, the stuff she had with her at the hospital is also clean. The hot water is turned off, as is the fridge and all standby appliances are unplugged.

I have her will - the original so I can get probate sorted. I had an argument with a lawyer and won Why would I pay a lawyer in Thames to apply for probate when I live in Warkworth? I have the DVD's of the service so I can send them to her brothers and sister tomorrow. I found a beautiful card for one of Moms closest friends, and wrote in ti and delivered it to the church, he is the vicar that took Moms service for us and will be missing her very much.

I had a lovely meeting with Moms hospice nurse and got to thank her for all her support over the past year or so, she said some lovely things about her that made me cry The tears have flowed on and off all day really as I did what had to be done, but the most I cried was when this fantastic woman offered to take Moms cat and care for her. The cat is old, and timid, and probably not as healthy as it could be. I saw her today but she would not come too close, she was meowing so hard out, must be missing Mom so much. This angel just said no problem I will take your Moms cat and get a vet visit to give it a check up and I will keep her here. She is being fed by neighbours at the moment and I needed to find a permanent solution as they dont want to keep looking after her.

I got through Mom o'clock for the 2nd day running

[Genie]

I so wish I could give you a big hug.....you're an amazing woman and one your mum would have been so proud of.

[caseye]

I so wish I could give you a big hug.....you're an amazing woman and one your mum would have been so proud of.

X2 Anne! Couldn't just sit here and not tell you how proud of you we are.I'm sure ol Maha is somewhere around the place, so tell him he'll get a big kiss when we catch up but for the meantime remember, time for Anne.
Take care my friends.

[FROSTY:Me]

I'm sorry to have just seen the news Mom. Big ups to you for doing what needed doing.