Violence in the workplace

[yungatart]

This kid has 'issues' not of his making, but his mother is creating/has created far worse than the boy was ever inflicted with at birth.

FM...I have run out of wine, but off to do a track day instead. Just what the dr ordered methinks!

[Edbear]

This kid has 'issues' not of his making, but his mother is creating/has created far worse than the boy was ever inflicted with at birth.

FM...I have run out of wine, but off to do a track day instead. Just what the dr ordered methinks!

My wife is a teacher, currently working in early childhood, and she is constantly gobsmacked at the incompetence and ignorance of parents these days. The stories she brings home stagger me!

[awa355]

disfuckinsgustin... heal quick YT... tis 1 in 7 years and now someone elses problem. Mummy hugging him just fucks me right off, can only imagine you wanted to paste the mother too... but i'm with Mom and Ed, you should consider reporting it to the cops, if only to get it on the record in case he does it again...

I doubt the police would keep a record of it if the offence did not result in a conviction.
A weekend without any videos, coke and chips would hurt him more. But then that would mean the little buggar would have nothing to live on at all.
Cant have that.

[fuknKIWI]

Nah. Just the wrong sort of pill. Try the Pb type - 150g @ 3000 ft/sec...

Now that's violence in the workplace...got fired last year for throwing a punch at work

[JimO]

Catholic school??

yes, the head master would have made time in his busy schedule of sodomising other boys to give this one a good seeing to

[BuzzardNZ]

at my high school that kid would have got sodomised by the head master

TFF

[ynot slow]

He would look good hanging on a coat hook by his shirt collar until he begged to be let down!

Or the dreaded third former head down toilet trick,ahh joy of a senior.

[chanceyy]

good to see you tonite my tarty one !! thats one wickedly deep bruise on ya thigh,(nothing like dropping ya trou to show us) and suprised Mstrs is not sporting one now after he lovingly squeezed it by accident

but all jokes aside I am pleased its been treated by the school seriously however with mumsy making light of it, and basically condoning the behaviour there really isn't any hope for him

[avgas]

I had to really fight the urge to kick the living shit out of him!

Your doing better than me then.
I was in a similar situation about 10 years ago - had to leave the area for a while.
(no one knew who I was fortunately)

[DEATH_INC.]

Give a couple of the other students a couple of bucks to rough the little f*cker up a bit

[KiWiP]

In 7 years in my current school, I don't recall a staff member being assaulted. I wish I hadn't been the first!

And I wish you hadn't either. Bad luck, wrong place wrong time, bad day in the office? what ever Really sorry that that sort of thing happens to anyone (especially you as I have enjoyed your posts)

However

I sadly doubt the little bugger will receive a fitting punishment.

And that would be?

sodomised by the head master

Hmmh?!?

Bring back the cane that was instant pain for doing shit i wasn't ment to.Worked then will work now

Nope didn't work then never will. Beating children has never changed behaviour. Not beating, not sodomizing, not torturing or otherwise not abusing those who have no way of defending themselves has had on a number of occasions had positive effects.

Bring back the cane

Because all of the people beaten in the '50s '60s '70s have created this society where children punch adults?

PC gone mad!

PC? does that stand for Perspective Corruption? One 13 year old child in 12 years of education causing damage and we should

He would look good hanging on a coat hook by his shirt collar until he begged to be let down!

Torture (because that is what that is) the child.

Do the world a favour and make it a rope. Preceded by a short drop...

Or kill the child (Jeez get a grip MSTRS)

He should be transferred to Morrinsville, he'll fit right in there.

So prison is appropriate for a tantrum, admittedly one that caused damage and upset, but still a tantrum. And what caused it? had the kid been beaten up at home? sodomised by his headmaster, had his granny die in his arms? shit what the F do you guys know about the background story?

Thats exactly whats wrong, any decent parent

OK another perspective. If decent parents make decent kids and shit parents make shit kids why punish (torture, jail, kill) the kid when the parents are so obviously at fault?

Get a grip KB people. One of our posters had a bad experience. Traumetising but not life threatening. A 13 year old child with definite issues/problems was unable to control themselves and it resulted in an adult getting harmed.

If you really care, then get involved. If you're not you can't start bleating "where did it all go wrong" But if you work with kids you won't say that because when you do you find they're not the problem, we are!

e.g.
Adult related issues
War
Substance abuse
corruption
murder
sexual deviancy (pick your own)
Completely fucking over someone who you once professed undying love to
Shagging children

Child related issues
Tantrums
Being annoying at inappropriate moments
Shagging children, but that's the hormones at work and they are in the same class

[Winston001]

Really sorry that that sort of thing happens to anyone (especially you as I have enjoyed your posts)

OK another perspective. If decent parents make decent kids and shit parents make shit kids why punish (torture, jail, kill) the kid when the parents are so obviously at fault?

Get a grip KB people. One of our posters had a bad experience. Traumetising but not life threatening. A 13 year old child with definite issues/problems was unable to control themselves and it resulted in an adult getting harmed.

If you really care, then get involved. If you're not you can't start bleating "where did it all go wrong"

I respect your alternative point of view. You are correct that many difficult children have awful backgrounds. Nevertheless we are talking about a 13yr old - not a 5yr old. At 13 every child should have had exposure to normal self-disciplined behaviour even if they are treated badly at home.

In essence, they will understand right and wrong. Good behaviour vs bad behaviour. I feel distraught when we hear about the dysfunctional families at the margins of society but some good kids come out of those families. Those kids learn to behave normally.

So I get a little tired of bad, vicious, nasty behaviour being excused too readily.

[KiWiP]

I respect your alternative point of view

Doubt it as my view is not alternate it is mainstream societies view. Social services, education, the justice sytem are all in line with respecting the rights of the child. A 13 year old is a child. They have no voice, no forum, no right of reply. none of the rights of an adult. The alternative point of view is the beat them, whip them, fuck them until they become submissive quivering wretches. A quiet child is an unhappy child, an unhappy child is a fucked up adult. Who do you want as your neighbour?

At 13 every child should have had exposure to normal self-disciplined behaviour even if they are treated badly at home.

How right you are but what if they don't have that exposure? Do we hammer the child because he was errant in seeking out good parenting?

. I feel distraught when we hear about the dysfunctional families at the margins of society but some good kids come out of those families. Those kids learn to behave normally.

Absolutely and very often they need support and help from outside
Want to help, be a mentor for kids from disadvantaged families [First Foundation] Get involved these are great kids and benefit greatly from those with a greater world view.

So I get a little tired of bad, vicious, nasty behaviour being excused too readily.

Oh really how often do you hear of this? Sunday tomorrow, get the newspapers there will be sod all. But there will be tales of corruption, theft, adult violence, etc etc...

Let's start concentrating on the big stuff

Why the fuck do we have Kiwi boys in the middle of a fucking desert?

Why does our government bow to an American government who doesn't give a fuck about us.

Why are the developers of leaky building homes still building substandard housing and why are the same planning committees still signing off these developments.

An errant kid and people are calling for him to be tortured, sodomised, and murdered. Yet real issues get ignored. Thats what I get tired of

[KiWiP]

Give a couple of the other students a couple of bucks to rough the little f*cker up a bit

What a quality adult you are. You have just taught two (a couple) children that they can make money from beating up another individual.

When you hand over the money are you going to specify the quality of the beating.

$10 black eyes
$50 broken bones
$100 ruptured spleen

Are you a parent? Do you encourage your kids to outsource their wetwork? If your kid had a freakout at school and hurt someone would it be acceptable for a third party to be contracted to 'rough them up a bit'

Get a grip. What sort of world do you want to live in? I'm pretty sure it's not one where you pay people to 'teach others a lesson' for money

[gammaguy]

He is suspended and has to appear before the board before he is allowed back at schoool. I doubt he will be back.
When Mumsy arrived to pick him up she gave him a big hug and sympathy...a lost cause, I'm afraid. If one of my kids had done anything like that, they would have received a kick up the arse...and that would be just for starters!!
Parents need to discipline their kids with natural/logical consequences for their actions. If that's not happening, there is no hope!

spare the rod and spoil the chiild(cue wringing of hands from bleeding heart liberals)

Keep lettting them get away with it,we can all see the type of society it has created.

Its a failed experiment people,and the sooner children can be correctly disciplined the better,and no that does not mean I condone beating them up.

There are ways of showing them their errors that do not involve violence,sadly for many so called parents these days thats in the too hard basket.

You have my sympathies trying to do in a few hours a week what the parents should be doing the rest of the time.