Name suppression - how can I get around this and out an offender legally?

[Number One]

What he said...

Not a kindy. A playground....

I have regained some of my normal wits now too and exposing him would likely hurt my son if not now - possibly in the future...I won't do that.

I will go really tough on the offender through my victim impact statement...which I have requested that I can read in court at sentencing AND I am taking many supporters with me to that court date so that he isn't sentenced without seeing the look on the faces of people that knew and respected him once....that will hurt him I am sure...well I can only hope it hurts him...a lot!!!!

NOTE TO SELF: rolling around on the floor wrestling my lovely dog helps me feel better. Animals rock...so much more than a lot of 'inhumanes'

[Ronin]

Not a kindy. A playground....

I have regained some of my normal wits now too and exposing him would likely hurt my son if not now - possibly in the future...I won't do that.

I will go really tough on the offender through my victim impact statement...which I have requested that I can read in court at sentencing AND I am taking many supporters with me to that court date so that he isn't sentenced without seeing the look on the faces of people that knew and respected him once....that will hurt him I am sure...well I can only hope it hurts him...a lot!!!!

NOTE TO SELF: rolling around on the floor wrestling my lovely dog helps me feel better. Animals rock...so much more than a lot of 'inhumanes'

I was pretty sure that 'normal' service would be resumed.

As has been said already. You know what needs to be concentrated on now and while I have never met you or hubby, I have one BIG dog and lots of sheep you can argue with if you ever need too.

I have a vision of a whole courtroom full of bikers at sentencing. Warms the cockles of my heart.

[oneofsix]

I was pretty sure that 'normal' service would be resumed.

As has been said already. You know what needs to be concentrated on now and while I have never met you or hubby, I have one BIG dog and lots of sheep you can argue with if you ever need too.

I have a vision of a whole courtroom full of bikers at sentencing. Warms the cockles of my heart.

I like the term 'normal service' and am also glad it has been resumed. Trust you enjoyed the chance to vent Number 1. Sounds like in the end you are being very sane about this.

[98tls]

Please be careful. The things you're starting to post are getting very very close to breaching the suppression order now. Try and keep from posting facts about the case so as not to influence any judge into thinking "he's suffered enough".

If it's any consolation they don't take kindly to kiddiefiddlers in Rimutaka. One possible thing you could consider is waiting until the perpetrator goes to jail, then visiting him and screaming at him about his crime in front of the entire room exactly what happened and how you feel about it.

Things will happen quite quickly from there... they can't segregate people all the time.

Riff they can and they do,all said scumbucket has to do is ask.Crime in itself in my opinion.

[riffer]

Riff they can and they do,all said scumbucket has to do is ask.Crime in itself in my opinion.

I understand that anyone can ask for segregation. It doesn't mean that they can be absolutely guaranteed that they won't at some stage have to interact with the rest of the general population.

Karma has a habit of dealing with people like this.

[Number One]

I have a vision of a whole courtroom full of bikers at sentencing. Warms the cockles of my heart.

That warmed my heart a little too actually

I like the term 'normal service' and am also glad it has been resumed. Trust you enjoyed the chance to vent Number 1. Sounds like in the end you are being very sane about this.

Yeah 'normal service' is a very good term for it. I did enjoy the chance to vent - these come few and far between and though some of you 'know me' IRL many of the people on here don't. It catches up and has to come out somehow - at least it just came out on here! I have to avoid letting son see how upset I am as at this point he doesn't really fully understand the gravity of the situation and so isn't too messed up...he's compartmentalising quite effectively at the moment and is making good progress with the child psychiatrist. Have been told that we don't want to freak him out about it all before he is ready to be freaked out about it for himself. PLUS given my distress he might think it's his fault that mummy is sad - even though we are constantly reassuring him he did the right thing and it was ....... that has done wrong and been very very bad.

I am looking forward to a run tomorrow morning and hoping that the supermarket shop will all carry me back to that somewhat contrived 'normal' state I am in at the moment. Contrived normal is still heaps better than stuck in the muck of the whole thing. Will be a long road but I know we will get there...just have to wait for 5 weeks and I have been reassured by a few people in the know that that whole hearing should be quite poweful and validating. Again I look forward to telling the offender just what impact they have had and just how much they have angered and hurt us.

[Number One]

I should also say. Thank you to those of you that made contact with me offering support, violence and wrath and just gentle well meaning and caring advice.

You were all little voices of reason..well some were - others were voices of holy war...I'm a little bit shallow so I enjoyed those probably slightly more...but it all helped me get my head back into the right space today. So again THANKS.

In some small way it was comforting to have others validate how hideous it all is and how acting on my feelings given the situation might not be the smartest way forward it is completely understandable and sane and normal of me to have them!

The offender doesn't apparently think he has anything to be sorry for, while I know those are the words of a raving fucking lunatic sicko there is a small part of you that is caught off guard and starts to wonder...am I overreacting? NO FUCKING WAY is the answer but...there is always a way to ACT and I am not just going to REACT.

Now I shall go and try again for some sleep...doesn't seem to be coming to me much of late...that in and of itself is killer for the psyche

[fuknKIWI]

Get someone from overseas not bound by our laws to post it ?

Funny you should say that

[Teflon]

I have a car - why the fuck would I want another one?!

Tell me to buy a gun and I may consider that...offer me phone numbers for gang prospects...yes that might be good too...talking schmorking...there just aren't any words

Guns, cars, to messy. If i was that way inclined, I would look into cyanide.

Good song:

[Number One]

It was a better day today. Spent it on the treadmill...funny that I have never been a runner however since my size 16 frame has shrunk to a 10 it seems so easy now. Suddenly makes sense why all my clothes are SO big on me...

45mins at max heart rate followed by a good vent at the counsellor a few practise runs writing my VIS followed by a long walk in the sun along the waterfront means I have managed to get a bit further past the nasty black anger that pulled me down yesterday.

I've also told the offenders supporters to stop contacting me, I do not want to be at all involved in their side of things and I am just counting the days until I stand up in court, face him for what will likely be the last time and tell him exactly what he has done to us and how we are feeling. I am also gathering up friends and family and asking them to take the day off to attend the sentencing hearing with us. I know this will sting the offender in the only way I can legally without causing myself further grief or anger with silly actions.

Life is a shit sandwich and every hours lunchtime at the moment but as a wise old nude copper from down south said...don't let the offender eat you up so you become a sad, bitter and miserable human being.

We will get through - we will be alright AND his life is totally fucked now so he WILL suffer and I believe he will die a sad and lonely old man. One part of me feels horribly sad for him about that but the rest of me says - FUCK YOU VERY MUCH and feels good about it.

Kia kaha Number one

[Banditbandit]

So a PM wouldn't be publication then would it?

No sorry. Used to work in the media ... worked with the law as a court reporter ...
Telling someone who was not in the courtroom is publication .. doesn't matter whether it is written or verbal ..

[Drunken Monkey]

If your original question hasn't been answered yet:

http://lancewiggs.com/2010/09/14/nam...o-it-properly/

It appears there is a way it can be done without breaking the law, read the judge's statement on "Off-Shore Publication of Suppressed Names"

[Number One]

Name suppression?

Very good response from the investigating officer today.

Confirmed there is no way in hell I want the offenders name getting out into the public....not for these charges anyway. The pending ones - hell fricken yes...but that won't be an option until after they are brought against him.

Another good day today - LOOOONG run and the personal trainer says I am really quite fit! How the hell that happened I don't know...I can only put it down to just having less fat on board...anyway 5 weeks and we will have our day in court to confront him 'almost' no holds barred.

I'm sharpening my very unimpressed look, may even pluck my eyebrows differently to add to the effect

[Number One]

Weird to read back. This is all such a roller coaster with as many ups as downs and twists and turns in it.

6 sleeps till sentencing...good thing is that I have 10 nights worth of good drugs to knock me out so hopefully the time will fly.

I'm sure of only one thing at this point....that I am pleased there is a pub within 100 metres of the court.

Terabytes of pedobear type shit on pc will 'hopefully' be taken into account by the judge...surely that shit is contextual. Not feeling confident that sentence will measure up but not sure anything short of shooting him would. Not that I would shoot him (btw)

[Mental Trousers]

Hope for a bit of Prison time in General Population. Doesn't have to be long, a couple of days usually sorts these things out.

That is, however, unlikely (the Gen Pop bit)