Graham Capell

**KATWYN** · 15th July 2005, 14:01

Originally Posted by ajturbo

i cannot understand how a grown man can do those sorts of things

Probably a very large part of the prefrontal lobe is missing in their brain. -and
theres a few with that problem so it seems.

I wonder how Caphills wife feels toward Graham......surely everytime she
looks at the guy she must feel sick and can't stand the sight of him....if she
doesnt, well.........thats scary....really scary

**Paul in NZ** · 15th July 2005, 14:10

Originally Posted by Zed

Aha! That must be where you get your *zeal* from!

Er no.. Lou has a Bandit I think...

**Paul in NZ** · 15th July 2005, 14:17

I dunno...

http://www.stuff.co.nz/stuff/0,2106,...a12855,00.html

http://www.stuff.co.nz/stuff/0,2106,...a12855,00.html

All pretty depressing reading...

Cheers

**Paul in NZ** · 15th July 2005, 14:21

Originally Posted by KATWYN

Probably a very large part of the prefrontal lobe is missing in their brain. -and
theres a few with that problem so it seems.

I wonder how Caphills wife feels toward Graham......surely everytime she
looks at the guy she must feel sick and can't stand the sight of him....if she
doesnt, well.........thats scary....really scary

Sigh! Who really knows? I wonder how much he has manipulated her sense of reality so that objective judgement is no longer a possibility?

Sadly, like a lot of celebrity prisioners, I'll bet some sad sack will be writing to him inside and falling in love with him... Yuck!

Cheers

**matthewt** · 15th July 2005, 14:24

And who watched stake-out last night. Lots of dodgy men in chat rooms trawling for young kids.

I put it onto dvd for a friend at work whose daugther spends most of her time on MSN. I don't think she realises how widespread this is in NZ.

**Hitcher** · 15th July 2005, 14:41

Originally Posted by pete376403

I heard on the radio that Capill claimed he was abused as a child.

He was 19 years old when the abuse is alleged to have taken place. "Child" maybe true in his case...

**Lou Girardin** · 15th July 2005, 14:54

Aren't they all abused as a child. Just another "it's not my fault, I'm a victim too" excuse.
But he's going to be a victim for sure in the next 9 years. he'll probably be sitting on an inner tube for the rest of his worthless life.

**marty** · 15th July 2005, 15:00

a short rope and a high bar would be mr capills (and his victims) best option right now.

**crashe** · 15th July 2005, 22:41

Originally Posted by Hitcher

He was 19 years old when the abuse is alleged to have taken place. "Child" maybe true in his case...

Oh so Capill was 19 when he was allegedly abused..
Ummm he is an adult at 19, so he had CONSENTUAL (sp) sex then...

So who is he saying that "abused" him... a female or a male?

Abuse in a child is 16 years an under... No one is a child at 19 years of age.

Capill it trying to cop out on what he has done.... He raped and abused 3 young girls. He hasn't faced up to what he has done and never will.
This is the way pedeophile mind's work... thats why he won't ever apologise to the 3 victim's. As pedeophile's see in their mind that its ok for what they have done.

9 years isn't long enough for what he did. These young girls now grown up women have to live with what he did to them for the rest of their lives. One even tried or wanted to commit suicide.

There are many (sadly) that have been abused over the years, but they don't go and do it to others. Capill is a feeble gutless male.

**placidfemme** · 16th July 2005, 10:41

Originally Posted by crashe

Oh so Capill was 19 when he was allegedly abused..
Ummm he is an adult at 19, so he had CONSENTUAL (sp) sex then...

So who is he saying that "abused" him... a female or a male?

Abuse in a child is 16 years an under... No one is a child at 19 years of age.

Capill it trying to cop out on what he has done.... He raped and abused 3 young girls. He hasn't faced up to what he has done and never will.
This is the way pedeophile mind's work... thats why he won't ever apologise to the 3 victim's. As pedeophile's see in their mind that its ok for what they have done.

9 years isn't long enough for what he did. These young girls now grown up women have to live with what he did to them for the rest of their lives. One even tried or wanted to commit suicide.

There are many (sadly) that have been abused over the years, but they don't go and do it to others. Capill is a feeble gutless male.

Damn right!

**MikeL** · 16th July 2005, 11:04

Originally Posted by NC

Oh for fuck sakes, she actively knew her husband was fucking an 8 year old. She should be locked up for aiding and abedding a criminal. Any woman that stands by and lets her husband hurt a child has no soul.

Is this the general view of Mrs Capill? Am I alone in feeling some sympathy for her??
I'm not sure that whatever knowledge or suspicion she might have had about her husband's crimes amounts to complicity. In any case my original comment was about the agonizing dilemma that such women find themselves in. Surely just a little compassion is called for here...

**Ixion** · 16th July 2005, 11:20

Originally Posted by MikeL

Is this the general view of Mrs Capill? Am I alone in feeling some sympathy for her??
I'm not sure that whatever knowledge or suspicion she might have had about her husband's crimes amounts to complicity. In any case my original comment was about the agonizing dilemma that such women find themselves in. Surely just a little compassion is called for here...

Not alone.

It is the nature of human beings that people in such a position will want to rationalise away what suspicions they may have. Noone wants to face that sort of truth so they will find excuses and reasons why it "is not so".

Everyone in this sort of mess suffers, Mrs Capill not the least. For her there was no way out of the dilemma. Whatever she did led inexorably to grief and sorrow.

I am too human, and myself too much of a sinner (in totally different way and nature to Mr Capill I hasten to add, before some fool goes off in a burst of misguided righteous indignation) to condemn anyone who finds herself (or himself) in the position of Mrs Capill.

And that does not mean that I in any way excuse or condone his actions, or gloss over the sufferings of the children. Mercy and cndemnation are not incompatible.

**placidfemme** · 16th July 2005, 11:22

Originally Posted by MikeL

Is this the general view of Mrs Capill? Am I alone in feeling some sympathy for her??
I'm not sure that whatever knowledge or suspicion she might have had about her husband's crimes amounts to complicity. In any case my original comment was about the agonizing dilemma that such women find themselves in. Surely just a little compassion is called for here...

I think in a way she could have done something to stop what was happening... but you can see it from her point of veiw... as wrong as it may be it was right for her and her family.

They have 10 kids... does anyone know if Mrs. Capill works? With 10 kids it must have been hard to hold down a job, so I'll assume that she was a stay at home mom... Capill didn't abuse his own kids (not that we know of). His nice big pay check paid for everything... Women from Mrs. Capills era (no offense to the older readers) are very traditional and seeing as they were "christians" keeping the family together and obeying your husband (how damn sexist) is top on the list.

Now lets say she knew (which apparently she did) that Capill was abusing kiddies... she more than likely didn't know the extent in which it was happening... also if she had spoken up... he could have become physically/verbally/mentally abusive towards her and the 10 kiddies under his own roof... also had he been convicted or charged with such offenses... theres no more money to feed 10 mouths (11 including her own).

From a mothers point of veiw she may have been doing what was best for her kids, which is unfortunate for the girls he did abuse... but remember there are always two sides to every story (I'm just refering to Mrs. Capill with this comment).

Also who's to say he wasn't physically abusive to her... if his mind is that twisted that he can't tell right from wrong and abuses kids then he may very well have been abusing his own wife... she may have been too scared to leave him or report him... she may have been ashamed, you never know.

**crashe** · 16th July 2005, 18:48

In the "Email" that Capill sent to his supposed supporters, he also asked them all, if they could give money every week to pay the mortgage...as he has no money left and he is worried that his wife and children will loose the house they live in...

Well not all the kids are now children.... time they paid board if they still live at home... time she got a job or went on the DPB. WINZ will help towards the mortgage...

I think he had a nerve to ask his friends to give money to keep his wife in a home...

I would think that he owns a huge home..... maybe its time to downgrade to a cheaper home.

If the wife really knew what was happening, and going by what the victim's have stated... then YES she should also be charged with something.

I also believe that the police should also be investigating all 10 children of theirs... He has probably brainwashed his kids into believeing that what he has done is ok....