Good thread Mom, and a very relevant one. Unfortunatly the very people who should be reading this thread never venture into this part of the forum.
I was in the exact situation as you, and was embarressed at how I had managed to stay alive on the bike with out any formal training. Being passionate about something, doesnt mean you are any good at it! Becoming a well skilled rider is a lifetime experince and does not end once you have a license.
What many new and born again riders dont relise, is how much skill they are actually lacking, and when they do relise it is to late. This hearbreaking thought came to me as I stood over the coffin of a very young work collegue.
Since I attended a couple of sessions with Tricia, I have noticed a marked improvement, especially at how I am handling the bike at slow speed and hazard awareness. It certainly was a humbling experince, yet as you so well said, a dollar value cannot be put on it.
You have shown a great deal of courage by saying what you have, admitting your faults, but more improtantly doing some thing about it. Hopefully your actions will encourage others to embark on the same journey. There is nothing wrong about coming on here and being truthful.......
I am sure also you are enjoying your biking far more now than ever before. Thanks for sharing this story, I think it is one that more people need to read, and in doing so may be motivated to eat humble pie and go out and get some decent training.
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