Shitty rock and a hard place

[Brett]

If she is a hard core Christian, she is probably getting a whole heap of stick from her family and church friends. It is entirely possible that she feels very alone in this, and really she shouldn't have to.
If she is going through this largely on her own, I am bloody sure that she would appreciate a friend around who shows an interest in her and expresses a desire to be part of her life and who shows her that having the kid, while perhaps a stupid move now given the situation, will ultimately be a blessing. Your support may be exactly what she needs to hold her chin up. if your family can't see this, then their hearts are in the wrong place.

Also, it is not the childs fault, I am sure that growing up they will be immensely appreciative of having another family role model around.

One last thing, please kick your cousin in the nut sack for me for being a big tosspot and walking out on a girl he knocked up and should be supporting now. Asshole.

[Berries]

Hang on I thought Christians didn't have anything to do with cock until after popping the ring?

That's why they invented confession ...

And anal beads apparently.

[placidfemme]

Yeah that is EXTREMEMLY polite....I won't be so.

HOW RUDE - he spreads his seed far and wide and isn't man enough to deal with the consequences...stupid little boy she is better off without him and if family can't see it that way...stuff them!

Typical - the woman gets left dealing with the shit and he gets supported by family to fuck off and leave her too it...raise a man not a mouse! ARRRRRRRRRRGHHHHHHHHHH

BTW that feels heaps better thanks and good luck!

PS: I'm a totally biased as the child of an irresponsible dog of a sperm donor who never made an effort and fucked around on my mum once I was born.

Agreed. I havn't heard from them since last week and don't think I will for a while. Just before I found out about the baby they mentioned moving to Aussie. Running away always helps huh

Oh well. Not too much of a consolation for the little bubble (cause it looks like a bubble on the scan picture.... so cute! ) But I will still be there for it... I'm gonna teach it to ride! When it's old enough of course!

[fuknKIWI]

Agreed. I havn't heard from them since last week and don't think I will for a while. Just before I found out about the baby they mentioned moving to Aussie. Running away always helps huh

Oh well. Not too much of a consolation for the little bubble (cause it looks like a bubble on the scan picture.... so cute! ) But I will still be there for it... I'm gonna teach it to ride! When it's old enough of course!

Yep that should be good for our reputation here

[placidfemme]

Yep that should be good for our reputation here

Don't worry they are not kiwi's

[Number One]

Moving to Oz funny that's where my sperm donor went after I popped out lol

Yep that should be good for our reputation here

too late!

[Mental Trousers]

Well the "side taking" accusations have already started... Oh well. No loss there

Those who aren't morally good hate it and will attack you when you make a moral stand. Accusations of taking sides are rather mild.

What the hell wrong with your 'family' - do they hate the girl for not keeping her legs crossed or something?

Usually the family of the dickhead see it as that bitch is trying to trap him by tying him down with a baby or something along those lines. They know what the words personal responsibility mean separately but don't have the faintest idea what they mean when you stick them together.

Losers. pf, You're better off without them. After all, you can't choose your family, but you can chose your friends and it looks like you have.

[placidfemme]

Usually the family of the dickhead see it as that bitch is trying to trap him by tying him down with a baby

that's exactly what they think. I think its really shallow of them to think so highly of themselves. She knows having a baby is the last thing that will make him want to be with her, and if she could turn back time she would, but now that its happened she will go through with it. Big ups to her

[Mental Trousers]

that's exactly what they think. I think its really shallow of them to think so highly of themselves. She knows having a baby is the last thing that will make him want to be with her, and if she could turn back time she would, but now that its happened she will go through with it. Big ups to her

Damn straight. She's willing to accept the responsibility and live with the consequences of her actions. The arsehole dad and his family could learn a thing or two.

[placidfemme]

Damn straight. She's willing to accept the responsibility and live with the consequences of her actions. The arsehole dad and his family could learn a thing or two.

Eh, time will tell. If he takes his current path he will essentially be becoming his father. Apparantly "I'm going to give my kid everything I never had" has small print excluding the father/kid relationship

[Geeen]

Um, Since your cousin is the spooge donor doesnt the make the impending sprog family, and by extension the Mother as well? I think you have done the right thing, by being there for her, when my wife got pregnant with our first she was 19 and not married Even though she had left the church by then she still got the dissaproving 'God shalt smite thee' bullshit. We were in Tauranga at the time and my Wifes family is religious as well. As it turns out we got married and reproduced again . So bubs's Mum is most likely over the moon someone is thinking of HER.

Man I ramble