ok, on a real computer now, so barring typo's i hope this is a little better.
As for your circuit tester, it sounds like it may help, but you can set it to volts, ground one side and then look for 12volts on the fuse. this will do the same job as a test lamp - when the volt meter says 12 volts (or there abouts) the lamb would be glowing. just make sure you ground (battery or bike frame/engine) the black negative wire to the meter.
ok, it sounds like you may have already found the wire from the fuse box to the tail light so yes, thats the one. but just to be on the save side, put your meter on the wire you want to tap into (somehow) and make sure when you pull the fuse and then turn on the ignition, that the meter shows 0 volts still, (and the tail light does not go now), of course plugging the fuse in should make the tail light go, and the meter show 12 volts or there abouts.
so from there yes, your ok to somehow tap into that wire (if you look closley i find you can usually push a small tab inside the fuse holder and the socket will come out, then you can attach your wire to it and re-insert it back into the fuse holder. this makes a neat job).
so take that wire to the one of the coil pins on the relay, the other side of the coil (the other coil pin on the realy) to ground (bike frame, battery negative terminal or engine block). then you can try it. it should click when you turn on the bike and click again when you turn it off.
then you can run a wire from the positive battery terminal, to a FUSE (important) then to one of the relay 'switched' terminals, the other side will go to the distribution block which was shown in the picture you linked too.
i hope this helps.
i'm happy to chat on the phone (i talk better than i type) if that helps at all. so no worries there.
good luck.
cheers
Gavin
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