Quote Originally Posted by Virago View Post
I'm not quite sure what your point is.

As the father of two (now adult) girls, it was my parental job to bath or shower them. Having them in the bath with me as babies was a fairly normal occurance, and as they grew older they would shower with me. I let them decide when they wanted to shower by themselves, which for both was a gradual process up until the age of around eight. They both enjoyed having dad wash their hair, and the one-on-one interaction time.

Natural curiosity was dealt with in a matter of fact way, without making a fuss about it - no big deal.

Those who view such interaction with revulsion are perhaps the ones who are perverted.
I bathed and showered with my children. And many fathers do as you say shower and bath with their children up to a certain age. However the issue I raised is not one of "accidental touching" once or twice due to natural curiosity but where the touching occurred on several occasions behind a locked bathroom door. So yeah I am repulsed by such a thing......