Geez. I've had this. Mate pissed off to Dunedin (from Wellington) to go to Uni and filled my garge with his crap before he left. It was up to ME to put his stuff in boxes and send to him - using a book of courier stamps he'd got. The bugger even came by Wellington on some holidays and didn't pop-in to help do some packing and sending. Caused big strife between me and Wife, too.
You feel like you want to do right by your mate, but end up feeling used and abused.
Has the guy even replied to your messages?
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