My sister talked me into going with her when I was in my 20s and at first I was quite amazed at how right she seemed to be, but then when you think about it, a lot of it was general. She said the guy I was going out with at the time wasn't the right one for me (score one point for that!) but she said I would marry a man who had been married before (but it wouldn't be on the rebound, it would be true love
) and would have four children. Years later I went out with a guy who had two kids and wondered if he was 'the one' but he wasn't. Here I am, many years later, married to a guy who had never been married before, neither of us has kids and we don't plan on having any! She also told me that I was about to undertake a long journey (true - I was flying to Whakatane to drive my parents down to Wellington in their car) and that an older person would die suddenly on that trip. My sister was really freaked out by that and didn't want me to go - but I am one of those people who believes in the good superstitions and just ignores the bad, so I didn't take any notice of either of them. That was in 1986 and my father died of cancer in 2001 and my mother is still going strong.
I think they are a bit like horoscopes - meant to be taken with a grain of salt. Fortune telling of any kind fails to take into account free will - if you were told you were going to have five kids and you didn't like kids, would you have to go ahead and have them because it was your 'fate'? Nah, I wouldn't bother unless you feel like a laugh.
Yes, I am pedantic about spelling and grammar so get used to it!
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