Chic 'n' Charge back online

**chic 'n' charge** · 1st February 2012, 20:19

Hey all my Biker Angels. For those who remember me - Hellllooooo again and for those who don't know me - a big hello to you too.

So much has happened since I've been on here I can't believe I lost touch with my friends on here

I'm bad I know.

Anyways, I'm single again - it would appear I'm lovable but just not long term.

I am sticking it out in New Plymouth until I can find something to head back to ChCh for (my home town) so until then I will be needing to find some peeps to ride with - anyone out there from the Naki or there abouts? I ride with a group of mates to rallies etc but would be nice to just be able to do some day trips etc. So if you're keen, or know of anyone, message me and we'll catch up.

Chur for now
Chic

**chanceyy** · 1st February 2012, 20:21

Hey chic welcome back .. you know you never really leave aye

boys may come n go but ya bike is always there

**scumdog** · 1st February 2012, 20:30

Welcome back C'n'C!!

(At least a bike won't get ya knocked up or give ya the pox

)

**chic 'n' charge** · 1st February 2012, 20:31

Originally Posted by chanceyy

boys may come n go but ya bike is always there

Ain't that the truth, I made up for lost time with my wheels and rode it to work for a whole week - felt great too

Am heading away this long weekend to the Rally at Hastings, can't wait.

**Edbear** · 1st February 2012, 20:31

'Sniff!" My bike left me...

Still got the Missus though...

Welcome back, let us know what you've been up to.

**chic 'n' charge** · 1st February 2012, 20:33

Hey Scumdog - it's good to be back amongst good friends (and some dodgy one's too no doubt)

**chanceyy** · 1st February 2012, 20:44

Enjoy the One nite stand Rally .. remember stay away from the boys n just drool over the bikes instead

Scummy has it right !!

**chic 'n' charge** · 1st February 2012, 20:49

Originally Posted by chanceyy

just drool over the bikes instead

Scummy has it right !!

I think that's the bit that gets me into trouble tho - I am genuinely into the bikes but the owners think I'm into them LOL

**pete376403** · 1st February 2012, 20:53

KB is like Hotel California - you can check out any time you like but you can never leave

**chic 'n' charge** · 2nd April 2012, 21:18

So the next piece of my puzzle of life, do I stay or do I go?

I moved away from ChCh to seek a new life afar, and low and behold I long to return - but, if I go back will I find a job like the one I have and the pay that I have, or do I just risk all and head back to my family and friends and possibly more happiness in a city that shakes constantly.

Where does one find happiness? I'm looking and looking but it's not happening yet and I'm just wondering if I'm looking in the wrong place. When I do go home to visit ChCh it's great and I settle right back in, but then I like to leave again.....why can't I make up my mind and feel settled grrrrrrrr

And then I think, maybe I should move to another city and try there - I just don't know what to do.

Any suggestions?

Signed -
Seriously confused chick.

**BigAl** · 2nd April 2012, 21:47

Lost you after the first sentence, far too complicated question for blokes.............

**Grumph** · 3rd April 2012, 06:42

C'mon back...the shaking has pretty much died down - particularly out Sockburn way.

Jobs - ring your old work, i hear a lot of staff have migrated and there could well be openings

Be nice to see you again and catch up.

**Lelitu** · 3rd April 2012, 06:59

Originally Posted by chic 'n' charge

So the next piece of my puzzle of life, do I stay or do I go?

I moved away from ChCh to seek a new life afar, and low and behold I long to return - but, if I go back will I find a job like the one I have and the pay that I have, or do I just risk all and head back to my family and friends and possibly more happiness in a city that shakes constantly.

Where does one find happiness? I'm looking and looking but it's not happening yet and I'm just wondering if I'm looking in the wrong place. When I do go home to visit ChCh it's great and I settle right back in, but then I like to leave again.....why can't I make up my mind and feel settled grrrrrrrr

And then I think, maybe I should move to another city and try there - I just don't know what to do.

Any suggestions?

Signed -
Seriously confused chick.

just one question in here really, and it's not really about where to live. The real question is "what do I need to be happy?"
once you know that, you can make a descision about how to find it. sometimes the answers are really surprising
so don't just take the first idea to cross your mind, think hard about it.

**Quasi** · 3rd April 2012, 07:16

Happiness is to be found within, once you find that, the rest falls into place. But welcome back, all the best with your ponderings and if youre ever in the Rapa, I can show you some great roads.

**merv** · 3rd April 2012, 07:49

The other way of looking at it is if you aren't happy, what are those things making you unhappy? Then see if you can get rid of those things and concentrate on what Lelitu said "what do I need to be happy?". The other thing is do you give it time?

Longing for ChCh, but then leaving when you are there makes you sound a bit like a "ping pom Pom" that won't settle and that's when you've gotta give it time else you never will be satisfied.

Welcome back.